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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by hisMrs(f): 10:10am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:This one that u are hammering too much on sex are u sure u don't want to use this girl for money ritual? |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nosikebit(m): 10:10am On Jul 22, 2017 |
BiggyB242:better talk 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by pocohantas(f): 10:10am On Jul 22, 2017 |
OP, that girl doesn't love you...neither does she feel any sexual attraction towards you and sexual attraction is very important in marriage. The only problem here is, you don't have the right moral standing to judge her...but I get your grievance. I think you're just a back up plan. My opinion 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Chukazu: 10:11am On Jul 22, 2017 |
from your write up, you have committed more abracadabra than her.. I mean compared to you, the girl is Saint, and obviously you love each other so why not marry her? 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by LOGISTICS10: 10:11am On Jul 22, 2017 |
If i were you i will examine her carefully if truly those things she mentioned actually happened to her. but if those things are true, seriously i can not marry because when she was still tight she refuse u, now she loose to the extent of even got pregnant for someone, na wao. you av gotten a job,it is now she wants u.. What if na only one picking God say she go born, and that one picking has already gone tru stillbirth. I begggii, make she go sit down |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Blackhawk03(f): 10:11am On Jul 22, 2017 |
darlenese: Blessings fall on you... Pon Pon. See our fellow girls supporting the girl upandan. Chaiiii! How come she didn't open up to him about her secret until he revealed his... That girl is devilishly smart. 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 10:12am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: Hmm she didn't give u sex buh she gave a guy for 4yrs Hmm She didn't get pregnant for d guy buh for anoda man an elderly man at dat , I presume while she was still dating d oda guy So now u k ow of 2 guys who have slept with her but still want to marry her? Hm She even had an abortion buh u haven't tasted the waters yet) ?? Hmmm Let me consult amadioha on this one 4 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by whoareyou0994: 10:14am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sex bfore marriage is better than those pretenders who will end up breaking up ur family when they give u a male child |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Blade21: 10:14am On Jul 22, 2017 |
enigmatic741:now someone made sense this is very reasonable no sentiments 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by GENTLETEE(m): 10:14am On Jul 22, 2017 |
The song of regret is very unpleasant so if u cant deal with it for the rest of your life then quit! 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by vivypretty(f): 10:14am On Jul 22, 2017 |
whitebeard:lol.so they are birds of same feather... 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Ups01(m): 10:14am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sterope: why you dey carry the matter for head like gala? 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Jelal0007(m): 10:15am On Jul 22, 2017 |
AntiWailer:150 kwanu? Na freak she be be that OO. Shooo |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by DMerciful(m): 10:15am On Jul 22, 2017 |
The issue is not about sex but the fact that she prefers other guys to him. He is obviously a last resort for her. According to Witney Houston 'where do broken hearts go? they go to a love that has always been there' thats d case here...she knows the guy has always loved her! lovelygurl: 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by kongobros: 10:15am On Jul 22, 2017 |
You see, my problem here is she denied him sex each time he asked for it but she gave it to some persons even up to 4yrs and then another for pregnancy. Please, let us call a spade its name. 5 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by naturebase: 10:15am On Jul 22, 2017 |
I don't understand, are some of these threads real or are people seeking attention or even trying to get feed back for some movie idea they had? Some of the information shared out here are extremely specific. If someone has the courage to share something sensitive like that with you, I doubt they pictured it being front page on nairaland. Solve personal issues personally. If you can't then I dnt think anything serious should be a priority for you right now. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by iambobequaliza(m): 10:16am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:[color=#990000][/color] FAM. The 1st sign that this is a bad idea is that, you're here on nairaland doubting yourself. Asking if its going to work out or not. Bro, if I were u i'd just call the while thing off. She didn't tel u until u talked about ur own experience. And all this while she was getting D outside after telling u No! She still come back day tell u NO on top pussy way she don unlock? My brother! She was now asking u if she we no regret it. But she didn't think of dat wen anoda guy was laying pipe for her. Bros move on. Grow up. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by freshvine(f): 10:17am On Jul 22, 2017 |
cococandy: Simple comprehension is elusive to you only to be passing sentimental judgement upadan. The guy confusion is this : This same lady that has denied him SEX for like aeon, how come she has had multiple of sex partners and even pregnant to the point of giving birth? Now that's the riddle in the confusion state of the Op. He's not passing judgement but apprehensive of the future. Is there ANYTHING he's lacking that made his woman sexual preference to other men. What are the likely consequences in a marriage state? Learn to respond with open mind not bias indiscretion 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nosikebit(m): 10:17am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Op na learner sef .. he dont know how to get what he wants ... How come d girl was sharing love and u didnt recieve yours ... forget grammer it still hurts u . And i still believe the girl might have also told you all she did just to hurt and taunt you the more ... My advice is not even to you anymore its the girl ... If you eventually get married to her you would revenge .. its sounds childish but sex is a very powerful thing |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by smithval(m): 10:17am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:It seems you really love the lady yet here you are asking a question you ought to ask her. Simply ask her why she refused your sex advances despite getting it elsewhere. Only her cam answer the question correctly and all people may do here is to postulate. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Jelal0007(m): 10:17am On Jul 22, 2017 |
DMerciful:Ur head dey there. U 2 much. 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Sterope(f): 10:18am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Maybe she wasn't ready for sex it then. ritababe: 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Sultannayef: 10:18am On Jul 22, 2017 |
ritababe: @Ritababe.. you are a darling. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 10:18am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: My point too. No sex before marriage usually means the lady is a virgin. But when someone have gone this far and still saying no sex before marriage, what is that based on. Has she suddenly become born again ? 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by collinsVP: 10:18am On Jul 22, 2017 |
zed7: Exactly my thoughts. The guy is just curious to taste the girl. Worse is, if her story was true, she doesn't love the guy. This is a case of if the desirable was not available, the available becomes desired(on the side of the girl) The guy no get drive. Na just pu**y im wan sample. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Sammiejokes(m): 10:18am On Jul 22, 2017 |
cococandy:comprehension have eluded some people. Guy its obvious you are a back up. The lady is not naturally attracted to you. If you believe she has good character forget about being deceived, she will love you more. 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 10:19am On Jul 22, 2017 |
DMerciful: You don't know what she knows, you can only ASSUME. And this is all about SEX, forget the story. "We broke up because she didn't have sex with me, then she got pregnant and now that we're back together, she still refuses" That's his problem . He shouldn't come here talking about stillbirth and stuff if it's the sex that's hurting him. The tilted is even "She told me a very dark secret, should I still marry her?" Is that REALLY his problem, from the write up? Definitely not |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Jelal0007(m): 10:19am On Jul 22, 2017 |
SirVintageCock:The man she got pregnant for,did he put a ring on her finger? Abeg jawey 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Psalm45(f): 10:19am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:Maybe, she was seeing u like somebody that wanted sex from her or she knows of ur sexcapades and she doesnt wamt to fall a victim. To me,Op go on with ur marriage plan unless u have doubt. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 10:21am On Jul 22, 2017 |
madridguy:on point bro . I fear this gals.. Dey have tested me wella I jump and pass |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Max24: 10:21am On Jul 22, 2017 |
Its important u have that sex with her before u go ahead with d marriage so that you know exactly what you are paying for. You don't want surprises and she too. 3 Likes |
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