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Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Sylverly(m): 6:55pm On Jul 30, 2017
I just realized that I feel this nervousness in me whenever the thought of getting married someday sets in. Having read through different stories about couples:both the happily married and those facing one or two challenges (knowing fully well that these people were once happy and believed that they were mean't for each other). Please I'm still at my early 20's. Will such feeling be outgrown someday

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Jul 30, 2017
I feel nervous thinking of spending the rest of my life with one person but the thought of children is consoling.

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by vecman222(m): 7:12pm On Jul 30, 2017
Rorachy:
I fear nervous thinking of spending the rest of my life with one person but the thought of children is consoling.

Modify asap..

Before I chuku chuku you

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Sylverly(m): 7:13pm On Jul 30, 2017
Rorachy:
I fear nervous thinking of spending the rest of my life with one person but the thought of children is consoling.
The thought is so consuming. I can't even imagine how it will be if she is a nagging type..

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Sylverly(m): 7:14pm On Jul 30, 2017
vecman222:


Modify asap..

Before I chuku chuku you
based on what... ?
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by vecman222(m): 7:15pm On Jul 30, 2017
Sylverly:
based on what... ?

Who be this
Did I mention you??

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jul 30, 2017
Sylverly:
The thought is so consuming. I can't even imagine how it will be if she is a nagging type..
I can't even imagine a cheating husband or a husband that batter his wife.

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by torres89: 7:19pm On Jul 30, 2017
the feeling of not staying faithful always pop up

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jul 30, 2017
grin

I will wait til i get 60+ grin

Definitely, when tat time comes im so ready, without any fuss wink
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jul 30, 2017
Is it even worth it?. Baby mama seems beta

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Sylverly(m): 9:15pm On Jul 30, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
grin

I will wait til i get 60+ grin

Definitely, when tat time comes im so ready, without any fuss wink
grin then get ready to deal with external pressure (family, Friends and foes)

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Sylverly(m): 9:16pm On Jul 30, 2017
Sniper12:
Is it even worth it?. Baby mama seems beta
On behalf of you, I reject it for you wink

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Sylverly(m): 9:17pm On Jul 30, 2017
torres89:
the feeling of not staying faithful always pop up
your own strong oo.
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Sylverly(m): 9:18pm On Jul 30, 2017
vecman222:


Who be this
Did I mention you??
you better calm down.. cool

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by joyberry(f): 9:40pm On Jul 30, 2017
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef.Lol nairalanders and their funny advices, gone tru many comments about my post. It's funny many Nigerians find it difficult to understand that both women can be commitment phobic, Of I wanna fall in love, get married and have kids,But am so scared of waking up one day, and loathing the man I married. I see a guy I like, we start dating, before I know it, it's just start fizzling out, and am gone without giving the guy a reasonable explanations.Am ok being single for now till I understand my issues. GOD help me

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by hkidola00(m): 9:48pm On Jul 30, 2017
joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef
pls someone should help me with dat lil wayne‘s pic screaming ashewoooo

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Omoluabi007: 10:10pm On Jul 30, 2017
joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef
What could ve caused that

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by joyberry(f): 10:57pm On Jul 30, 2017
I have no idea, been like that since was young. Anytime my friends talked about marriage, kept mute. Told myself from a young age, That would be a single mom.

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by joyberry(f): 10:59pm On Jul 30, 2017
Omoluabi007:

What could ve caused that
.I have no idea, been like that since i was a young girl. Anytime my friends talked about marriage, kept mute. Told myself from a young age would be a single mom. It's so annoying, I feel that way.

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jul 30, 2017
Its a thought i really can't wait seeing turning reality.. God, i really can't wait to become a husband and a father. I really can't wait to see my daughter. God, momma ain't supporting child outside wedlock. I ain't speaking marriage(the event) here buh the after(the family life). Someone should come and beg my babe, she should let us do this jhoor. *Sigh* i'm patiently waiting.

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jul 30, 2017


With the divorce rate these days. Yes I do.

With the kind of comments from men on NL, yes I do.

I saw a post where NL men were insinuating that Nigerian women don't deserve to be cared for and pampered, it made me feel sorry for women who would thank God that they had found "husbands" in these type of men.

Then, how many men really know God. Most men just go to church and some claim to be workers but don't live like Christians should. A man that can't lead you spiritually, what is the goal of your marriage?

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by vizkiz: 11:31pm On Jul 30, 2017
Marriage is a beautiful thing. Just that people are scared they might not get that dream husband/wife/family they've always wanted.

Of Cuz anyone in his/her right mind will feel nervous about getting married! It is a union only separated by death (or signed paper as the case may be).

The only thing that makes the nervous is having to listen to my wife scream in the labor room. Bleep no! I can't stand that. Though I don't know her yet but I know I am go'n love her too much to be able to hear her scream in pains.

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jul 30, 2017
No. Okay... Yes. But only when I think of the Night.
I mean I get nervous knowing everyone knows I'll be banging my wife from task till dawn. cheesy

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jul 30, 2017
Not quite.... Just that my longest relationship ever is two years... With many fine babes out there, I will always and eventually be tired of her at a moment. Every moment is like mission accomplished besides true love is hard to get these days

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by onosprince(m): 11:32pm On Jul 30, 2017
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Horlaarsco: 11:32pm On Jul 30, 2017
embarassed
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by auntysimbiat(f): 11:33pm On Jul 30, 2017
SOMEHOW
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by emeijeh(m): 11:34pm On Jul 30, 2017
Nothing to be scared or nervous about.


Marriage is sweet

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Toyindiva(f): 11:34pm On Jul 30, 2017
Yesso, I will feel so nervous I hope the Mr right will come very soon�����
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by helphelp: 11:35pm On Jul 30, 2017
Direct your topic to single guys... Or in the body just ask those married how they felt when the thought comes before they got married.

As for me before marriage, always had this future thoughts of uncertainties...

But as I don put my legs inside water, I no dey fear cold again...

Not after my two beautiful kids

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