It's because you havnt fallen in love. When you find that one person that complete you you will be over whelmed. Anyway am getting married in three weeks . The anxiety kills and fiance getting me upset. Can wait for it to end

joyberry:
.I have no idea, been like that since i was a young girl. Anytime my friends talked about marriage, kept mute. Told myself from a young age would be a single mom. It's so annoying, I feel that way.

Pls don't get married.

Evet

Nothing scares me than that, it's my greatest fear.

I get nervous when I realize the clock is ticking fast and I can't afford to keep a family yet

No. I actually look forward to it.

I don't get that feeling, I just want to buy a nice house hopefully I get a place this year or next at the latest and then I will propose to my bae, I want a classy wedding also so I need big bucks, I am already too old.

ymimiz:
I onky get nervous when I think about going broke

Ur head dey there! Make gud money nd 70% happiness in marriage is sure.

Sylverly:
I just realized that I feel this nervousness in me whenever the thought of getting married someday sets in. Having read through different stories about couples:both the happily married and those facing one or two challenges (knowing fully well that these people were once happy and believed that they were mean't for each other). Please I'm still at my early 20's. Will such feeling be outgrown someday

unfortunately, I just got rejected tonight on the ground of religion.

Leaving my family, my mum, my siblings to go sign a lifetime contract with another is scary. Arghhhh! Don't lemme start, pweaseeee.


*Walks outta thread*

Convert that negative thoughts to prayers and studying on how to make it work.

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Story of my life. I don't just feel nervous, I try not to think about the responsibilities that come with marriage. Fending for the family, kids, wife, school fees, accommodation, health, inlaws and extended family, plus the whole challenge of being married.

I don't know when I'll get married, only God can help me cos my colleagues are getting married one after the other. I wonder how much they have in their bank accounts cos I can't try myself unless I have at least 15million lying fallow in my account.

Sylverly:
I just realized that I feel this nervousness in me whenever the thought of getting married someday sets in. Having read through different stories about couples:both the happily married and those facing one or two challenges (knowing fully well that these people were once happy and believed that they were mean't for each other). Please I'm still at my early 20's. Will such feeling be outgrown someday

You are in your twenties and instead of thinking of how to succeed academically you are fantasizing about marriage
I wont say it is a bad thing?
It is not too early to think of a good future but climb the ladder from the first step

Now, about your fears, this is the solution to the fears
Accept Christ into your heart and God helps you get a good definition of a partner
If you are a Christian, truly born again, You will have a discernment not to marry a lady who have no God as guide in life
The only reasons people have marital issues is because Jesus is not at the central of their union
True Christian may have challenges in marriage but they have the word of God as a guide in solving thier issues

If you marry a woman or man who does not know Jesus and have no passion to obey the Bible
You have married a disaster
Trust me, they are many out there

kennygee:


With the divorce rate these days. Yes I do.

With the kind of comments from men on NL, yes I do.

I saw a post where NL men were insinuating that Nigerian women don't deserve to be cared for and pampered, it made me feel sorry for women who would thank God that they had found "husbands" in these type of men.

Then, how many men really know God. Most men just go to church and some claim to be workers but don't live like Christians should. A man that can't lead you spiritually, what is the goal of your marriage?

Bae which church you attend

Very nervous bro
I have decided that i must clock 30 before i get married
And I'm 20.

Thank God for my mama, she used all possible medium to tell me not to end up like my dad.... God so good, I've never had commitment issue.

Sylverly:
I just realized that I feel this nervousness in me whenever the thought of getting married someday sets in. Having read through different stories about couples:both the happily married and those facing one or two challenges (knowing fully well that these people were once happy and believed that they were mean't for each other). Please I'm still at my early 20's. Will such feeling be outgrown someday

No be only u

Even ppl dat ve been practicing co-habitation will be shouting am nervous... issorite

Nervous ko, Navas ni!! When u are ready sha call me to come MC ur wedding

Sylverly:
I just realized that I feel this nervousness in me whenever the thought of getting married someday sets in. Having read through different stories about couples:both the happily married and those facing one or two challenges (knowing fully well that these people were once happy and believed that they were mean't for each other). Please I'm still at my early 20's. Will such feeling be outgrown someday

Well, OP. I'm in my early thirties as in 32 and I'm in a very committed relationship with a wonderful young lady(introduction already fixed for this December). But I still shudder at the thought of getting married. It literally scares the poop out of me.

Wallahi me akant wait oh,I go spoil my wife rotten ,as long as she's loyal and faithful to only me.marriage go sweet sha

joyberry:
.I have no idea, been like that since i was a young girl. Anytime my friends talked about marriage, kept mute. Told myself from a young age would be a single mom. It's so annoying, I feel that way.

then what are you waiting for. Come let me fvck you and give you belle sharp sharp

My only worry is the rate at which people cheat on their partners these days. The stories we read on Nairaland daily, ain't encouraging. It has somehow, stuck in my head.

Heaven yessss!!!!! I get cold feet's too,dunno y,I know it ain't cool

Slimeesha:
Nothing scares me than that, it's my greatest fear.

allays ur fear woman.....i know how to fvck very well. Ur saviour is here

ymimiz:
I onky get nervous when I think about going broke

my niqqa

getting close to thirty.

seeing my friend getting married and dropping kids.

having no relationship or scared of dating ladies because of my past experiece with ladies who are fetish.

the fear of in'laws interfering in couples affair scared th shit out of my BOXER

bethyz:
It's because you havnt fallen in love. When you find that one person that complete you you will be over whelmed. Anyway am trying married in three weeks . The anxiety kill and fiance getting me upset . Can wait for it to end

are you gay

There are lots of ways to go about it... But being a single mom? You should get that off your mind pls. You really don't need that

joyberry:
.I have no idea, been like that since i was a young girl. Anytime my friends talked about marriage, kept mute. Told myself from a young age would be a single mom. It's so annoying, I feel that way.