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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by piagetskinner(m): 11:18pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
VickyRotex: I like ur point...but its not everyone that its God first I have a likeness for I think the important thing is knowing Gods will...and that's kinda difficult..so how do i know the person is Gods will 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by holatin(m): 11:26pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
mykh01:hmmm? |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ImaIma1(f): 11:32pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
FX: You need to correct whatever is wrong or lacking in your marriage. Cos on my own part, when i see people getting married, I feel like getting married again and again to the same person... 6 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by VickyRotex(f): 11:36pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
piagetskinner: Hmmmm! Knowing God's will! That's one big topic when it comes to marriage. I'm also willing to learn. One mistake I know we believers make is that, we dont listen or try to hear God in the little things he says to us. But when it comes to marriage, that's when we want answer immediatetly. Like Gbam! And it doesnt work like that, we need to breed that consistent walk with God, so that when It's time to make tough decisions, the answers come. And we dont get confused on if It's God or not. 6 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ImaIma1(f): 11:41pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Destined2win: Don't let anyone discourage you or put fear in you. People that are not having it good like to make others feel like it is bad. I can tell you from my own experience that i have never regretted it for one day. I married a long time friend and marriage has been easy and what i hoped it would be. I was never under the illusion that it would be perfect. Afterall, we are both from different backgrounds coming together to make a life together. My husband makes life very easy for me and i make him want to come home. We fight hard too. Your marriage is what you make it not what others say it is. 10 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 11:52pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
VickyRotex: I have a feeling that you studied in Unilorin & You graduated between 2014 & 2015 |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by spiritedtete: 12:06am On Aug 04, 2017 |
-Do not share your marriage problem with anyone... Always find a way to resolve them in between yourselves. -Do not lie to your wife... Or the woman you want to get married to My dad advice to me several years ago. It has help me grow 7 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by bilal4riid(m): 12:14am On Aug 04, 2017 |
Best woman for my son a self reliant {with higher institution knowledge} woman. Similarly my daughter must equal above quality b4 marrying. Frequent demand even for pity pity things from husband diminish love. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ikevictor: 12:18am On Aug 04, 2017 |
goodmorning40: If it's such a workload, then why do people go for it. |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ikevictor: 12:19am On Aug 04, 2017 |
TINALETC3: Good woman. One bottle for you |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ikevictor: 12:23am On Aug 04, 2017 |
Marry your friend. I mean your friend. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by VickyRotex(f): 12:24am On Aug 04, 2017 |
OLUJOSHINS: lol. 0/2. You dint even get any. Neither the school, nor year. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by cheta02(m): 12:40am On Aug 04, 2017 |
The both partners should be in one faith and devotedly active in different / same groups in church. Fear God Above Everything. ( FGAE) |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ststyreal(f): 12:46am On Aug 04, 2017 |
FX:I am tempted to quote you because of the freedom you mentioned. Yes its true, you will somehow loose your freedom but then, i wish couples will learn to enjoy and free themselves in marriage rather than all these protocols most couples go through in marriage. Just pray to marry a liberal man, then your freedom might still be intact even in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by olujastro: 12:50am On Aug 04, 2017 |
uncleck:. If I'm going to get married today it's going to be for four of the reasons you stated above. I get drained when I think about all of it because eventually I'll have to get married and raise children. I just tire for the matter |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ststyreal(f): 12:55am On Aug 04, 2017 |
FX:Infact, we are on the same page.I have stop attending wedding sef. Only wedding anniversaries i do celebrate with friends. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ststyreal(f): 1:01am On Aug 04, 2017 |
ImaIma1:My friend, huhhhh, marriage is the practical and not the theory, when you enter you go understand. |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by OkoAnike(m): 1:35am On Aug 04, 2017 |
Destined2win: 1. Op, marry your friend, some one you 've been friend with before love. 2. Marry some one that have an element of God in them. 11 years going and it's been compromise for each other and fun in our marriage. Wish you all the best. 4 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 2:40am On Aug 04, 2017 |
VickyRotex: Ahhhhhh okay. I know you are a God-fearing Yoruba lady. I have a strong feeling that you have been to Ilorin. I think You studied linguistics I know you are based in Lagos and I know you are naturally happy & jovial |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by VickyRotex(f): 3:01am On Aug 04, 2017 |
OLUJOSHINS: Hahahahaha You tried this time. But I'm not based in Lagos and I did not study Linguistics. The last one though. You know! How did you know? |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by yvelchstores(f): 3:08am On Aug 04, 2017 |
TINALETC3:u hv a good mum. Op, the bitter truth is, before u marry her, study her mum cos she will consciously or subconsciously do what she saw her mum do. This is an unfortunate truth. 85% the case. |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by yvelchstores(f): 3:14am On Aug 04, 2017 |
Destined2win:let me advise u, no woman is ready made, that's why they call her wife MATERIAL. Fashion her into the end product u will like to wear and show the world. Ur wife Shld be ur first daughter, keep training her where her father left off. So it's so important that u marry someone who is WILLING to learn and takes corrections. Very simple. 3 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Afhounja(m): 3:25am On Aug 04, 2017 |
FX: I tell you, man. Marriage is slavery. It's just unfortunate that the older men are failing to warn the younger ones because of their ego. They also don't want to be seen as defeated people. So they just suffer and slave away in silence. One will always wonder why most husbands die way long before their wives do.... 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ihedioramma: 4:45am On Aug 04, 2017 |
Love one another for ever as CHRIST love his church and bring up your children in a good way for CHRIST. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by awoluyi(m): 5:45am On Aug 04, 2017 |
These are some of the things I will tell my daughter when she is about to marry. 1.0 Recognize that your spouse is an imperfect creature. 2.0 Accept him for what he is. Remove from your mind the belief that you will live happily with him by tolerating him. What happens when you reach your tolerance limit? Prefer ACCEPTANCE to TOLERANCE. 3.0 Accomodate his people (parents, relations, friends etc) as you will do to your's. Those you show kindness will in return show you, your husband and offsprings kindness. 4.0 To your husband be open in all things and if he too is well brought up and of sound character he will be open to you. 5.0 Realise that every marriage is unique, with a unique syllabus and course contents. You and your husband will have to study the course together, resolve to tackle questions therefrom and determine not to fail. 6.0 Above all, you owe God and makind offsprings that will bring glory to Him and peace to the world at large. 7.0 Finally, on the judgment day you and your husband will give an account of how you ran your marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by uniquebony(f): 6:06am On Aug 04, 2017 |
Never marry a man who doesn't love God. Double check and verify whatever a man tells you. Inotherwords don't be too trusting Run from men who don't share the same vision with you A guy that can't take decisions on his own is a no no Check how he treats his siblings especially his sister's Most importantly Be observant of the kind of friends he rolls with Show me ur friend and I will tell who you are I made this mistakes and I just wish I can turn back the hands of time, to make matters worse he kept the secret of having a child away from me till years after marriage. 6 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by jimb(m): 6:16am On Aug 04, 2017 |
TINALETC3: I see but you aint married yet and am not too so let just stick on the good side and a little on the bad side. |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by hegelian: 6:22am On Aug 04, 2017 |
Strive not to be perfect, no one can ever be perfect so understand and appreciate the imperfection of your partner...your marriage is to mange the imperfection of your partner not to blow it, look for perfection and have your marriage ruined and your life destroyed |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by jimb(m): 6:23am On Aug 04, 2017 |
holatin: good one .. sometimes that shit works. I heard about a woman who asked her driver to mastubate in the bathroom, and after sometime he came out and told her woman he done, the woman waited fr 5 mins and asked him to go and mastubate again, few minutes later he was done and came back to the woman amd she gave him her car keys to go drop her daughter at home. By this way the guy no go get errection in the next hour. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by jimb(m): 6:29am On Aug 04, 2017 |
make sure your husband doesn't eat anyother womans food fr 6 months into the marriage. husband make sure your wife doesn't stay away your home 4pm , fr 6 months in to the marriage, by this way they get used to the trend and once its imbibed with love, when one start s misbehaving , catching him/her is just like ... |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Nobody: 6:38am On Aug 04, 2017 |
I'm the one that needs advice here. On whether marriage itself is really worth it, or if its just a social construct that people have followed for so long but isn't really necessary. Considering how marriage now has legal implications in our world today. |
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Nobody: 6:41am On Aug 04, 2017 |
olujastro:Why do you have to? |
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