Moreoffaith:
He should keep the DNA test result very well and make sure the baby is not poison by the wicked woman cos that's his Only hope to prove the woman deserve nothing but jail term.

jjjjj2017:


Its good that the DNA shows that the child involved is not your friends. Tell your friend to sue both the lawyer & his wife for threatening his life & trying to take his property by false. if he needs a human right activist, I can recommend good one that will not take a kobo from him & they will be there for him in court.

delishpot:


If she is my person I will hunt your whole generations down even to the 10th. You think only you has monopoly over violence? Shoot! gone re the days o. Just leave her jejely. If she catches you red handed will she kill you? If she does kill you I will personally arrange her jail time or dash her to your family to deal with. All life is sacred.

delishpot:


If she is my person I will hunt your whole generations down even to the 10th. You think only you has monopoly over violence? Shoot! gone re the days o. Just leave her jejely. If she catches you red handed will she kill you? If she does kill you I will personally arrange her jail time or dash her to your family to deal with. All life is sacred.

FortuneTeller:


Google does not have all the information. I live in the US and one of these cases hit the news every year. I know one man in this situation. If you are married when the child is conceived, the court views you as the father. The ones who normally get out of this scenario, do so when the woman identifies another man as the father through the birth certificate or a request for child support from the other man. If this does not happen, the court views the husband as the father regardless of DNA. He will pay child support for a child that is not his.

helpee:
My dear, those people you know are also mumu. In many states in that same USA, infidelity is criminal. If the judge can force you to pay child support because the child was born during marriage and you have DNA evidence to the contrary, you have a prima facie evidence for infidelity. In okhlahoma....Not only do adulterers face fines of up to $500 but also incarceration for up to five years. GOOGLE THE PENALTIES AGAINST ADULTERY. By the time the woman faces up to five years in jail she will drop tbe child support. Get a good lawyer. Even if you dont pursue the criminal case of infidelity against her, you can take up another civil case for breach of trust against her and sue for damages and recover the useless child support. If you are troublesome and ready to pursue your case, no judge, i mean no judge will ask you to pay child support for a child not yours and if they do, they provide you with evidence to pursue a criminal case or another civil case against the cheating wife

FortuneTeller:


Sir no one is getting criminally charged for adultery in the US. Absolutely no one. There are many laws here which are on the "books" but not enforced. If you don't think you can be forced to pay child support under American law in the situation I described, it tells me you have never lived here.

kaziblake:
Mind your business Amebo

helpee:
you are funny. It is part of the law isnt it? That no one is pursuing it doenst mean it wont be enforced if somebody pursues it. Is it part of tbe law? Yes. So why do you think no one. Even the oklhoma judge first ruled against child support till he found out the law that he must have done tbe DNA within 2yrs. So if tbe same judge found out the law says five year behind bar for infidelity he will enforce it. For the first time in decades somebody was jailed for bigamy in canada two months ago and it made news. People suddenly realised its part of their laws. And mind you, he can pursue a civil case for emotional damage against the woman and claim damages. And madam, i dont need to live in the USA so stop parading that as evidence of you knowing it all. Moreso, the OP is not living in USA anyway. He lives in nigeria so the USA law does not apply here. OJ simpson won the crominal case for death of wife but the family won civil case for wrongful death and claimed millions in damages. So if you think you cant be sued for adultery in usa either in a criminal or civil case, pray you dont meet a troublesome nigger

Greenbullet:
Hello nairalanders, and no I am not married , but my friend is, he has a one year old child or so he thought , his kind of work requires him to travel regularly, and so he hardly stays at home, on a faithful day , he came home early to meet his wife having sex with another man, he filed for a divorce, and was already thinking of child support but I advised him to do a DNA test and he discovered the child wasn't his ,the wife has hired a lawyer to get half of his property, please what can be done to stop this.

FortuneTeller:


It has been tried several times. People bring it to court all the time. It won't work here. It has no bearing on your divorce case, unless one person is requesting alimony.

delivryboy:

I always wonder why Nigerian women always want people to mind their business when a cheating woman is being discussed. They even support the cheating woman outright. Cheating is embedded deep in the DNA of most Nigerian women.

FortuneTeller:


It has been tried several times. People bring it to court all the time. It won't work here. It has no bearing on your divorce case, unless one person is requesting alimony.

You really don't understand the system here. The court does not care if the DNA is not yours. The child is yours due to the marriage. I know it's hard to accept, but that is the law here.

Also don't use the word "nigger". It's very ignorant and I'm sure you think AA use that word, but it's not the same. I won't be addressing you any longer due to this. You're embarrassing me and yourself as a Nigerian.

sunkky83:



You just speak my mind. What a wicked world that woman is being judge for d same offense that when man committed will go freely. No one is even considering the situation of the woman. It's a pity!

delishpot:


If he was jobless and she the bread winner but she has to travel a lot for her job and he does the same thing eg sleeping with house help and impregnating her, would you call him a fool who does not appreciate his wife's efforts? Would you not ask her why she did not find a job that would give her time for her family? Answer me first before I know what to tell you.

majekdom2:
I will call him a fool. Yes, I do not support cheating especially to the face of your partner. It tells loads of wickedness and hate. If you are tempted and want to cheat... your business. But it's best you keep it away, I mean away from your partner for the sake of the marriage. It's obvious the lady gives no Bleep. I am not a male chauvinist that sees no wrong in males and sees all wrong in females. I like to treat people the way I want to be treated. Next time, don't assume everyone on NL is like what you have in your thoughts or encountered.

cococandy:

Well who knows?

I do know that people are quick to call marital property 'the man's property'. Quickly assuming the woman didn't contribute anything while they were married. Maybe she had a job. Maybe they built the house together. And even if she did not have a paid job, her being a housewife is also a job that contributed to the family wellbeing while it lasted. Thus enabling the man to go out comfortably and earn money without worrying about home work. That's a big contribution. Hence she's entitled to half what they made while married.

If he wants to get back at her for what she did to him, I think there are lawsuits he can file (not sure) but there probably are. And those wouldn't involve trying to cheat her out of what belongs to her.

demefa:
In Nigeria during divorce the man cn collect d woman's underwears if it's his wish

teshyberry:





No offence please but I have a burning question : what happens when reverse is the case? The man is an unrepentant cheat , caught several times red-handed and he has his seeds everywhere outside, but the wife at home has no child for him??

FortuneTeller:


Sir no one is getting criminally charged for adultery in the US. Absolutely no one. There are many laws here which are on the "books" but not enforced. If you don't think you can be forced to pay child support under American law in the situation I described, it tells me you have never lived here.

AreaFada2:
Lol.

I have said this here for a long time. A high number of kids belong to another man outside. Especially firstborn kids.
If he had not caught her red-handed, he'd never done DNA test. Like majority of people never do DNA test.

I think the best thing is to shame her into withdrawing any claim to anything. Like letting her family, church/pastor and anybody who cares to know hear about it. Maybe even social media.

The guy is very lucky. She could have killed him as the best bet to claim all his wealth.

Greenbullet:
Hello nairalanders, and no I am not married , but my friend is, he has a one year old child or so he thought , his kind of work requires him to travel regularly, and so he hardly stays at home, on a faithful day , he came home early to meet his wife having sex with another man, he filed for a divorce, and was already thinking of child support but I advised him to do a DNA test and he discovered the child wasn't his ,the wife has hired a lawyer to get half of his property, please what can be done to stop this.

delishpot:


Your mother taught me well na. You should be proud of her.

Leebeedo:

Don't spill out your opinion if you don't know what to share. Posting a comment is not mandatory.
As for the poster, it really depends on the country your friend resides. For the fact that I can see "child support" in your post, permit me to assume that your friend is based in the US. Even of the child is not your friend's, there's a possibility that the wife will most probably get part of his property. I ain't no lawyer, tell your friend to get a lawyer.

PDPGuy:


Lol

You really think that shaming the woman would discourage her from seeking legal enforcement of her rights? If she is really determined to get half of the property that was acquired in the course of the marriage, no amount of shaming on Nairaland, Facebook or LIB would deter her.

jjjjj2017:


Its good that the DNA shows that the child involved is not your friends. Tell your friend to sue both the lawyer & his wife for threatening his life & trying to take his property by false. if he needs a human right activist, I can recommend good one that will not take a kobo from him & they will be there for him in court.

Ameeria:
Are you in naija? If yes, just chase her and shout her offence to the hearing of her family and loved ones. If you are not, faced with infidelity and paternity fraud, that biatcj ain't getting nothing! In fact, let your lawyer go after her for every cents she and her family have got since you are the one suing. No dulling, show no mercy!

Ezechionye:
Register a company and transfer "sale"the property to the company

delishpot:


If the child had known him as father, if he has given the child his name, if he has signed to be the child's father, he may be forced to pay child support. Law takes the child into consideration in some cases.



Sexual frustration or cheating can happen to males and females. Just like men also cheat esp if the wife's job takes her outside 5he home for extended periods of time and people would say sex is important in marriage, so does a wife also need her husband to have sex with her too. So yes, the temptation may come. You don't blame a cheating man when his wife is a workaholic and is always not around why then do you think the woman should be abandoned in a cold bed and the man feigning he doesn't know she misses sex too?

NwaAmaikpe:



Wait, is she getting the properties as reward for screwing his life and making a fool of him?

She was caught cheating,
A divorce has been filed,
A DNA test has proven the boy not to be his?

And he is scared she'd get half of his properties..


Your friend is obviously a sîssy!
Sissies don't merit my advice.