You just need to be careful about this statement of yours "he will meet me at home" don't do anything stewpid madam, remember yu got kids with him and concerning those evidence I woulda advice you to send it to her fiancee to know who he's marrying.... You can save a bro here from an harlot...

Hmmn.

Chai abomination

Oya bring that your husband here Fast fast

Funny woman How can you think your husband is faithful?
All married men cheat! Some are smart enough to cover their tracks!!
As for the girl,expose her to her fiance. She was with your husband for financial reasons. While forming good wife material for her man

Do not despise the person you were cheated on with. Despise the person that cheated on you.

Young woman,make amends with your husband.Let sleeping dog lie.And continue with your life.You had the audacity to snoop on your husband.You have seen what you were hoping for.Your marriage will soon crash,you fool

By all means send it to the innocent guy without hesitation.

I beg you pls do.

Stop getting married .

Mindfulness:
By the way, I would not inform her fiancé immediately. I would inform her that I have delicate material that I will use against her and tell her that I will leak it in due time so that she will torment herself. And then I would decide when and if I would leak it but I would take my time. Some enemies must die a slow death.

You are trying to blackmail her which can take her to the police. send your evidence to the boyfriend and tell him to warn his lover to leave your husband. if you ever confront her with details of what you have, you will lose at the end.

You will end up destroying her relationship with her guy and make her relationship with your husband permanent. Handle it with tack and be prayerful madam

surrogatesng:
Young woman,make amends with your husband.Let sleeping dog lie.And continue with our life.You had the audacity to snoop on your husband.Your marriage will soon crash,you fool

You are the lunatic here. Idiot. Try me, I am so hot ready to give you fire for fire.

honestwife:
Hello house,
I have been been a nairalander for many years and i just need advice because am so devasted. I got married to my husband 7years ago with 3beautiful kids ,a girl and 2 boys

My husband is that perfect men any woman would ever prayer for.i have never suspected him for once not until last year september that i saw some frequent call from a particular no, i decided to take the no and store on my own phone,,i suspected he was cheating but i did nit have any evidence to prove it.

So last month,i activated an automatic call recording on his phone and here i am, all my doubt were confirmed, i decided not to ask him as i laid down my own plans too, i took his phone and scan his whatapp QR code and i deactivated the notification so he wont know. So with this, i was able to veiw all his chat directly from my phone through this chat i saw that the lady was around at his place yesterday morning and i travelled in the eveningbecause we dont live in the same state due to transfer

i took my children to my sisters place and i travelled, looo and behold this lady was wearing only paint and bra in my husbands room although i gave both of them good dirty slap of thier life, and i told her i have details of his guy and that i was going to call and let him know the kind of girl she is

so now to cut the long story short this lady has a fiance which is planning to wed her because i got to her instagram page and facebook page and i saw that she has a very good guy at her hand thus made me sad because i dont know why she would cheat with my husband even after having a good relationship,

my decision is that am planning to call this guy through facebook call and send him all the recording and whatappbchat between her fiance and my husband

i just want to know if am making the right decision

as for my husband , he will meet me at home

You're a genius... What more can i say?

7 years, three kids..Hmm... You're a genius..

Good luck

Until u plan on moving to join ur husband, just leave well enough alone. If u dont mind loosing d marriage sha, u can go ahead.

Mindfulness:
By the way, I would not inform her fiancé immediately. I would inform her that I have delicate material that I will use against her and tell her that I will leak it in due time so that she will torment herself. And then I would decide when and if I would leak it but I would take my time. Some enemies must die a slow death.

That's very clever, I like that.

This is the best option op

Mindfulness:
By the way, I would not inform her fiancé immediately. I would inform her that I have delicate material that I will use against her and tell her that I will leak it in due time so that she will torment herself. And then I would decide when and if I would leak it but I would take my time. Some enemies must die a slow death.

Evaberry:
Send those stuffs to her fiance so that the young man can avoid making the biggest mistake of his life.


but as for your husband meeting you at home, My dear please leave that marriage it's not safe.


your husband can even resort to physical abuse because of anger.


Cheaters should not be given second chances.

Once a cheater always a cheater.

We dnt need a soothsayers to tell us u are below 18 with dis advice of urs

why are most men like this? I blame the females who encourage them to cheat, especially if they know he is married or has someone he is with....this is a delicate matter, telling the idiot's fiance will be bad, but a young man is about making a very big mistake which can be avoided now. all I can tell u is, protect ur marriage with everytin u gat. I don't know how u are gonna do it, just don't sit down and watch someone come and spoil ur marriage

You sef, your FBI plus James Bond overdo too much. Whatsapp QR Code, auto call recording, social network snooping, ahn ahn, what is it? You were bound to see what you were looking for anyway.

@ honestwife,Yes! Yes!! Yes!!! You just confirmed your husband is cheating on you.
You don't have to go further. Pause and think over,over and over again. They have both acted foolishly. All you have to do is to leave the girl to her fate. The girl's fiancé maybe a cheat too. Reporting a cheat to a cheat is senseless,so Leave the girl and face your husband.
You have no choice than to forgive your husband. You have said it all,he is a nice man. Living separately may be the cause of his wrongful deeds.
Madam,pls take am easy.

This is a very delicate matter

Just ask her to leave your husband alone, if she does not listen, then tell her you will implicate her, in that way she will stop.

Lol.. This story just weak me

Send it to the guy and loose your husband to her.

You better mind your business and deal with your husband.

No one deserves a cheating partner but you still want to stay with a cheating husband?

it's not a good thing that your man cheats on you right, but madam do you know you can send the pictures and destroy that young ladies love while the problem still persist. Sure your husband extra marital affair is very bad but mind U if u don't make a move of moving in with your husband same thing will still repeat itself, remember an idle hand is d devils workshop,when u allow your man to be alone most times its dangerous.It's better you sort it out with your man and know the real cause for you to correct the problem from the rootand lastly u might have to choose between your hubby and job,because the loop holes is yet to be fixed and blocked

FemiEddy:
I am not married yet, so am not fit to give you an advice, but at least I can reason well and have seen things so this is my opinion
Firstly, Leave the lady and her husband alone, Karma always comes back to hunt it's victim, she will reap the fruit of her labour, mind ur business and give ursef peace of mind.
Secondly, ur husband, u know his weak point, maybe pounded yam, or one food, or maybe d oda room, give him a good treat, after he is calm and relaxed, confront him, just ask him why he did it, he will tell u , don't raise your voice o, u already have three kids, those are ur treasure. If you indeed love ur husband, please try, it's hard, but try for the sake of the kids
My opinion

Bro you spoke very well
Just exactly what I have in mind

Evaberry:
Send those stuffs to her fiance so that the young man can avoid making the biggest mistake of his life.

but as for your husband meeting you at home, My dear please leave that marriage it's not safe.

your husband can even resort to physical abuse because of anger.

Cheaters should not be given second chances.

Once a cheater always a cheater.

but op sha you are a correct hacker o, see the way you monitored the man just so you can catch him, lol.

This is why women should always be independent in marriage, so that when your husband screws up, you can leave without thinking of how to take care of yourself and kids.

Let's be honest if it was the husband who caught his wife cheating would you advise the husband to stay with her, why the hypocrisy and double standard? some1 above even advise the op to give the cheating dimwit a good treat. is it when your husband starts giving you numerous std Or impregnates another woman is that when you will leave?

..bad advice from u..violence begat more violence

honestwife:
Hello house,
I have been been a nairalander for many years and i just need advice because am so devasted. I got married to my husband 7years ago with 3beautiful kids ,a girl and 2 boys

My husband is that perfect men any woman would ever prayer for.i have never suspected him for once not until last year september that i saw some frequent call from a particular no, i decided to take the no and store on my own phone,,i suspected he was cheating but i did nit have any evidence to prove it.

So last month,i activated an automatic call recording on his phone and here i am, all my doubt were confirmed, i decided not to ask him as i laid down my own plans too, i took his phone and scan his whatapp QR code and i deactivated the notification so he wont know. So with this, i was able to veiw all his chat directly from my phone through this chat i saw that the lady was around at his place yesterday morning and i travelled in the eveningbecause we dont live in the same state due to transfer

i took my children to my sisters place and i travelled, looo and behold this lady was wearing only paint and bra in my husbands room although i gave both of them good dirty slap of thier life, and i told her i have details of his guy and that i was going to call and let him know the kind of girl she is

so now to cut the long story short this lady has a fiance which is planning to wed her because i got to her instagram page and facebook page and i saw that she has a very good guy at her hand thus made me sad because i dont know why she would cheat with my husband even after having a good relationship,

my decision is that am planning to call this guy through facebook call and send him all the recording and whatappbchat between her fiance and my husband

i just want to know if am making the right decision

as for my husband , he will meet me at home

You be proper inspector columbo....... You don learn bad thing for nairaland.... That whatscan for whatsweb app, bad gan ni o........

Just keep your rival on her toes(make her realize you are going to tell her boyfriend). Keep her sweating...... Do not leak all the information you have yet........ Await your husbands explanation, and let him to sweat...

Keep both of them sweating for a long time ............

Wait o. for op to carry out this task, scanning his whatsapp Qrcode and so on. i must commend, you're brainy.

Mindfulness:
By the way, I would not inform her fiancé immediately. I would inform her that I have delicate material that I will use against her and tell her that I will leak it in due time so that she will torment herself. And then I would decide when and if I would leak it but I would take my time. Some enemies must die a slow death.

I think it's better she shows the girl the material and not tell the husband to be., this way she has permanent leverage...

I also advice she doesn't tell her husband how she found out, this way she maintains the technique...Although mistrust is an offense i take serious...it seems the op is just sustaining her relationship with the man and nothing else...

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Abeg it's not by force to be married , if you can't stand his cheating then call it quits , as for me any woman that ever does what you did to Ur husbands phone to me would be an automatic end to any level of relationship we have ..Now go and find the perfect man please

honestwife:
Hello house,
I have been been a nairalander for many years and i just need advice because am so devasted. I got married to my husband 7years ago with 3beautiful kids ,a girl and 2 boys

My husband is that perfect men any woman would ever prayer for.i have never suspected him for once not until last year september that i saw some frequent call from a particular no, i decided to take the no and store on my own phone,,i suspected he was cheating but i did nit have any evidence to prove it.

So last month,i activated an automatic call recording on his phone and here i am, all my doubt were confirmed, i decided not to ask him as i laid down my own plans too, i took his phone and scan his whatapp QR code and i deactivated the notification so he wont know. So with this, i was able to veiw all his chat directly from my phone through this chat i saw that the lady was around at his place yesterday morning and i travelled in the eveningbecause we dont live in the same state due to transfer

i took my children to my sisters place and i travelled, looo and behold this lady was wearing only paint and bra in my husbands room although i gave both of them good dirty slap of thier life, and i told her i have details of his guy and that i was going to call and let him know the kind of girl she is

so now to cut the long story short this lady has a fiance which is planning to wed her because i got to her instagram page and facebook page and i saw that she has a very good guy at her hand thus made me sad because i dont know why she would cheat with my husband even after having a good relationship,

my decision is that am planning to call this guy through facebook call and send him all the recording and whatappbchat between her fiance and my husband

i just want to know if am making the right decision

as for my husband , he will meet me at home

REPORT HER TO THE GUY ASAP!