arrJay:
Does anyone know any ijaw woman who is into womb setting in Benin?

Yea

SingleEdition:
who is this unnice fellow
Belladsweet, now you owe a portion of this meal.......... I am salivating

Blackfinegirl:


Same here o, not telling any family member. Made this mistake with my last pregnancy. It will just be me and my husband. We go manage ourselves like that. Nobody has to come to the house to help . W

Exactly. Your head dey there

mztubsy:
ha! That one pained you. Lemme tell you what happened to me. Hubby's best friends(twins) wives have been giving birth up and down. Ever since we got married, not even once have they come to say hello to us. What am I even saying sef, not even a call or WhatsApp message. I just see pics on face book and I smile. Of course I am happy for them. I'm not jealous in anyway. When you are TTCing, you get to know the real character of those around you. Sometimes I think my temperament is a blessing in disguise cause my " I don't give a bleep" attitude is on a whole other level.

Hmnn if its d i dont care attitude me i sabi that one wella. the truth is nothing pains or hurt me sef and friendship is not by force. If i and someone is close and i notice a silly attitude like d person start withdrawing, me sef i withdraw biko its not by force.

legendsmother:


My dear characters plenty jareh......lol
All my friends that we got married in 2014 are still believing God for the fruit of the womb and we are like 4 but the other three who got married 2015/early 2016 now have babies.....we all used to be besties but this girls threw baby showers we didn't know....fast forward to when they gave birth we just saw pics, I say shuuuu I mean we are so close we have a WhatsApp group for just us ooo... I found out they had some sort of click lol omo I just like the picture call them and congratulate them when they say "priye afar na?" I know what they mean but I just ignore lol when I uploaded my faith bump pics in my whastaap dp and status u needed to see msg I read and didn't reply lol I nor get time abeg lol its annoying but like cuppymummy abi happymummy said u have to reaslise that not every one is nice lol.......
TTC has taught me a lot ooooo lol I always tell myself Don’t be discouraged. It’s often the last key in the bunch that opens the lock and also I have faith that It’s going to be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, it’s not the end.”

U will notice I used "LOL" a lot in this post because laugh wan kill me die as I dey here d way people behave sometimes eh chei God of isreal hahahahhahahahhahahahahahah

Let them do baby shower na wetin concern u? na only that one u see, what about the ones that will b getting married and will carry u along and after marriage will shun u lyk a plaque because u r still single yes this one happens alot. we women are our worst enemies...a cousin did it to me. She married b4 me and because i was still single since i was still in UNI while she married b4 she finished her HND. After i got married, she was trying to come close to me simply because she is having challenges in her marriage. ...whenever she says hi on watsapp, na so me sef go say hi and dats d end it must not go beyond hi! i am even trying to block her on watsapp. shebi she is in married womens league when me i was still single :Dlet her continue in the league i wouldnt want her to infect me biko . Funny world i tell ya.

@ all amazing and beautiful mothers, e hugs and kisses to you all. You ladies rocks!

We bless God because His mercies endureth forever.
The One who can do all things, glory be to your Holy name. Thank you because you are beautiful in all situations, we bless you because great offsprings shall spring out from the wombs of mothers on this thread.
Glory and praise to your Holy name.
Happy weekend and fertility dust!

*I'mjoyful*

@legendsmother, na Milani powder o. Don't worry, I will send loads of it to you
Good to hear from you.
Blessed weekend.

Cuppymummy:
Still on the subject of deserters and ttc matters, lemme share my own experience. My cousin was ttc too. My mum and I prayed a lot for her because she had several miscarriages. Finally she got pregnant, and this time around did not share with anyone. My mum was a bit hurt and was like is she scared of me too?

But I was very much in support of her decision and by the time I explained to my mum, she understood.
I told my mum, "it's not you she's afraid of. She had to keep it a secret from everyone because sometimes in our joy, we may share with diabolical people unknowingly.

Maybe that's what worked for her because she had a safe delivery. I don't know for sure, but maybe keeping her secret helped.

My point is, it's better to make excuses for people. When I'm hurt I tell myself, "Cuppy, people are not suspicious of you because they want to be. It's because of the way they met the world, the whole world lies in cruelty. Many people have been destroyed by those closest to them. So you can't blame people when they're suspicious. How do you expect them to know the real thoughts of a person's heart? Only God truly knows your heart."

My philosophy of life is this: "It's normal for people to hurt me, sometimes unintentionally or not. My duty is to train myself to love them and not be easily offended."

What has inspired this philosophy:
the teaching by Jesus that offences must come, but you are blessed when you choose not to be offended;

I do know there'll always be the "Peninahs" to taunt and mock, but if not for them, the Spirit of the Hannahs will not be provoked to pray until something happens.

Another thing is, the world does not revolve around me. Everyone shouldn't be sad just because I'm temporarily going through a trial. Just because mine haven't come yet doesn't mean that someone should not gush about their baby where I am. And it's natural for them to get carried away by the stress of motherhood so much that they forget to say "hi".

In all things, rejoice with them that rejoice, mourn with them that mourn.

Here's an old wise saying: "To understand everything is to pardon everything!"

P/S: I apologize for the long epistle. Pardon me abeg

You couldn't have said it better.

[quote author=Redeemed post=6046. ]You are welcome dear e-sis.All I know is weeping may endure endure for the night but joy comes in the morning.

Sisters,be not dismayed over what others do to you in this ttc journey,leave them na were their sense reach,it will end in praise by God's grace

Cuppymummy:
It's
Welcome back to Legendsmother. Good to have you back.

Thanks jareh

happymummy:
Good morning everyone
Welcome legendsmother

Thanks dear how family?

@ Cuppymummy .Thank you for your write up.
When I was pregnant for my son, I didn't tell my mother till I was around 7 months gone .is my mother a bad person ? No way but because of the joy ,She will announce it to the whole world.
Sometimes some actions are not just intended to spite or hurt anyone.
Let me share a personal experience. When I had my son ,I gave birth through cs. I was so strong or so I thought, immediately i regained my self about 3 hours later,I started answering calls from everyone. Later in the day, one wicked nurse forced me to stand up and walk.As I stepped my feet on the floor, I passed out ,didn't know where I was again. When they revived me, they took my phone and advised me to just lie down and rest.unfortunately, many people called during this period plus a very close friend. I later called back to explain and thank them but my close friend did not believe me ,instead She told people that since I got married I have been behaving funny and now I spoke to other people and refused to speak with her.I really felt hurt ,never expected such from her.
Sometimes we should hear from the other person before we draw our conclusions.
Waoh sorry for the long post

Heebah:
@Legendsmother....i just dey look u with one eye,. @Redeemed,hope u r good? Its well sis.

Yes God will answer us speedingly.....Ami

God is still in the business of doing miracles...

lynda1:

@Legendsmother, welcome back.

Morning all.

My dear abeg who level hep lol, leave her for her level abeg some people own too much that is d gospel truth..........
Reminds me of this popular phrase
"You don't have to be in UK to OK! Help comes from ABOVE not ABROAD"

belladsweet:
Let them do baby shower na wetin con shebi she is in married womens league when me i was still single :Dlet her continue in the league i wouldnt want her to infect me biko . Funny world i tell ya.

That is my problem with dem o after all d cinema...them go come dey get problems still run to u for help and counseling......

In bayelsa here Na so my neighbor after judging my TTC life.....came to me n said pls "ooo nor vex am pregnant how do I remove it you know say seriake nor dey pay no salary for my husband and I nor know how this one take enter" mind u she has 5kids oooo and she forms holier than thou if I make up she go preach if I wear thigh fitted cloth she go preach......I saw it as a test ooooo.....I said " its a blessing if you really didn't want it u would have used protection but since u really want to remove it go n buy pregnacare plus but nurse fit know say u wan pull d belle so gimme d money lemme go and buy it codedly nor even tell ur hubby o so that he nor go vex ( well she's not lenient so it was easy) na so I write am for paper she go buy she said no lemme help her, so i did nd last week i told her he go fall in 4 weeks time when she finsh d pack, with my calculation and her LMP she was 2 months gone by the time she go realise say I do her wayo and come complain she wud be 3months then I would council her not to abort that she might risk dieing hahaha

That innocent baby deserves a chance at life jareh...

Redeemed:
@

@legendsmother, na Milani powder o. Don't worry, I will send loads of it to you
Good to hear from you.
Blessed weekend.

Naim make I dey love u I go pm u my waybill address na god is good u go use thanks

Bennyboo:

n God.
@legendsmama I sight you.
Baby dust to us all
E-hugs

My love na me sight u pass

legendsmother:


That is my problem with dem o after all d cinema...them go come dey get problems still run to u for help and counseling......

In bayelsa here Na so my neighbor after judging my TTC life.....came to me n said pls "ooo nor vex am pregnant how do I remove it you know say seriake nor dey pay no salary for my husband and I nor know how this one take enter" mind u she has 5kids oooo and she forms holier than thou if I make up she go preach if I wear thigh fitted cloth she go preach......I saw it as a test ooooo.....I said " its a blessing if you really didn't want it u would have used protection but since u really want to remove it go n buy pregnacare plus but nurse fit know say u wan pull d belle so gimme d money lemme go and buy it codedly nor even tell ur hubby o so that he nor go vex ( well she's not lenient so it was easy) na so I write am for paper she go buy she said no lemme help her, so i did nd last week i told her he go fall in 4 weeks time when she finsh d pack, with my calculation and her LMP she was 2 months gone by the time she go realise say I do her wayo and come complain she wud be 3months then I would council her not to abort that she might risk dieing hahaha
...

Lolz.....can't stop laughing naa serious wayo you do am ooo, shebi she think say she smart, dey wan make u commit sin, naa only she waka come ,she go carry her burden

belladsweet:
Let them do baby shower na wetin concern u? na only that one u see, what about the ones that will b getting married and will carry u along and after marriage will shun u lyk a plaque because u r still single yes this one happens alot. we women are our worst enemies...a cousin did it to me. She married b4 me and because i was still single since i was still in UNI while she married b4 she finished her HND. After i got married, she was trying to come close to me simply because she is having challenges in her marriage. ...whenever she says hi on watsapp, na so me sef go say hi and dats d end it must not go beyond hi! i am even trying to block her on watsapp. shebi she is in married womens league when me i was still single :Dlet her continue in the league i wouldnt want her to infect me biko . Funny world i tell ya.

On this topic i have found out that it isnt always the fault of the women. Many times its the handwork of their husbands who say things like "cant you have married women as your friend?" "Which kind waka married woman go dey do with single woman?" "If you had more things doing you wont be hanging out with single ladies" some even go as far as insinuating that they will be visiting men together.
In such scenarios, african women go quietly vote to keep their marriages and spouses happy. I have seen a few of such cases.

blessedmumi:



Great physician @ Badaagry is the best I know in dt area. Very affordable and he is good. I can send u his number if u wish.

Do you use the great physician too? Ha sis, the doctor is very good, the fees are affordable, the doctor is very efficient, blessemumi do you live around that axis?.

I have of recent noticed a kind of dead beat tiredness and sleepyness a day or two after ovulation, i never could put a name to it. Eventually i decided to ask Doc google. So i find out it is actually a thing.
Anyone else experienced that and was confused what was happening?

Blessedmumi and Purelady do u ladies stays in badagry?.

I wondered what soda is too......... but I used baking soda

Benignasweety:
Please what is Soda? is it the baking soda?

To prepare our body system for ovulation & conception.

arrJay:


What is this recipe for?

Oh, I see.
Thank you for explaining.

DonaTee:


in pcos their menstruation may not b regular or too long even months without menstruating. So its normal for d woman to think "hmmm this menses don dey misbehave" not knowing she's preggy

Thanks

Hannaspirit:

Its a fertility hospital at surulere. Since the place is usually crowded, they must be good.
Just go there with a bucket full of patience. Also confirm the days and time for gynea visit on their website before going in order to avoid stories that touch.

My ears has heard plenty from friends, I learnt to keep to myself, my roommates in the uni.are all bless with children, one of them gave birth in America and I went to congratulate her on her arrival in Nigeria, she brush my greetings aside and told me to my face, what experience do I have in child bearing, I should allow those that knows to carry her baby, so many side talks and insult, this is my very close friend oo, I don't let it bother me, my Bible tells me that am a fruitful vine, I learnt to move on and keep such friend away from my life, I don't need additional sorrows in my life. I pray the good Lord remember us all.

GraceActivated:


Try Parklande Surulere. Dr Orebamjo is very good

My dear I used the fertility unit of the hospital (Life-sure) for IUI but wasn't successful with them.
Thanks for the recommendation.

Pweetiebabe:
Blessedmumi and Purelady do u ladies stays in badagry?.

I live at Shibiri, Ajangbadi, I come to Badagry alot.

Dhimmy:

My dear I used the fertility unit of the hospital (Life-sure) for IUI but wasn't successful with them.
Thanks for the recommendation.

sis try the great physician, you won't regret it at all, you can pm me for the doctors number.

Wow, I finally finished reading up.

@Cuppymummy, you have indeed said a lot. Need not say more dearie.

@Bennyboo, That's the spirit ma'am. Your strength must come from deep within & God will uphold you & bless you & shock your mockers.

@Legendsmother, I don laugh tire... :d :d :d
I see that even grown mothers that had easy conceptions & child births are naive of some details that GTC mums know because they didn't have to study on their cases. It is well

@Omojudy, Sometimes I experience o

ehugs to us all. Good to be here.

blessedmumi:



Great physician @ Badaagry is the best I know in dt area. Very affordable and he is good. I can send u his number if u wish.

OK sis. I will appreciate. Please also send the direction to the place