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Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by nikkypearl(f): 5:54pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:gbam |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Shinery0123(m): 5:54pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Evaberry: The very first time we will agree on an issue |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Afonjashapmouth: 6:09pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Harrynight: #NoInsultMeant When your brain finally completes its metamorphosis you will understand the word opinion....... then you will stomach your ignorance thank you |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:25pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
zinizta: value a man for his CHARACTER, not his temporary state of residence. if "just" having your own home makes them look at a man differently than any other, then i suggest they look within themselves and fix what is broken..... let men be valued for what they can NEVER lose (aka the PROPER character). a furnished apt can be entirely lost right after marriage, and then what?!?!?! pcguru1: a man financial status will always be temporary (whether RICH or POOR) and can be changed to the extreme at any time....only a foolish goldigging woman would fall for this BS. again, we should value ourselves (men AND women) for whats within, your values, your integrity etc, and certainly NOT how much that person can save a person's desperate state of life. Afonjashapmouth: may you mercilessly get flogged publicly by an Arab court..... ladies be tested for hardship?! so the hardship that this man went through to get that empty apt is irrelevant, right?! let EVERYONE go for hardship in their lives so that THEY can value what they got. a woman who waltz in a made man's house will NEVER value that home, dont get it twisted. she will only feel entitled (aka the BS she wrote) as if getting your own crib is an easy thing to do. if tit was, she would have HER own place, duh! girl4rmspace: IMHO, this is a WRONG message. looking down on the state of a man's house, as if it is relevant, is WRONG! let her value this man instead of looking DOWN on his achievements, as if she has achieved anything remotely close to what he has. what kind of woman even think in such a way? let her be GRATEFUL for the abode that this man invited her in, yeah! BTW i dont post on NL for likes, i post to pass a point across, MY point. whether you like me or not is irrelevant sista! SAMBARRY: sista Sambarry, there is absolutely NO aggression in my post, its called REALITY, and you know damn well i am about that. a man is responsible and mature to get himself an abode of his own, and here is this woman talking nonsense about this man's achievement. as someone wrote earlier, some are even squatting at their friends, yet this one gets a man that has achieve something (however small or empty it may be), and she is here talking down about it. come on, lets be REAL! about what you wrote, are you seriously saying that this woman should be celebrated for doing what is RIGHT, instead of celebrating THIS MAN for giving this woman (who "obviously" brought nothing to the table) a home?!?! just because the majority of women in Nigeria are looking for a made man, should NOT be a reason to forget what is RIGHT in life. that would be a stoopid as saying that we should celebrate a woman who dates a broke guy for love, while that is the RIGHT thing to do. how crazy is it that garbage becomes the norm, and good deeds are looked upon as "fantastic" acts.... lol! there is nothing wrong with women wanting to live the good life, so long as they can finance it themselves (or build it together with their spouse). anyone who sells herself to the highest bidder (or seek sugar daddies etc) will always remain a goldigging broke aaass ashewo. lets call a spade A SPADE. this woman is NOWHERE near a virtuous woman, because such women dont look down on their spouse's achievement, they CELEBRATE IT! let her come here and bless this man, sing his praise, and THANK him for giving her a good home for her to raise her future family. thats what should be celebrated not the audacity she wrote above. HABA! victorioushands: IMHO, her message is wrong because: A) women should stay with good men even if these men are homeless... a home (empty or not) is irrelevant to the matter of finding a proper partner. B) the state of the economy is irrelevant to the above point A C) applauding her for doing what is RIGHT is wrong, because if she made the decision to marry that man, then the state of his home is irrelevant, as they would BUILD a home together anyway. such woman would have surely ran away (or probably not even give him a chance) if she knew he had no place of his own....which in my humble opinion is WRONG! D) being poor is not a deadly disease, and let us understand that people who look down on a poor man do NOT deserve to be around him when he gets successful. such pay as you go ashi state of mind (which supposedly is the norm today) is the reason why so many deluded brothas are doing whatever evils to get money to impress these worthless women. joanana: women like you are the exact problem in this issue... here you are thinking about YOU and your needs, instead of blessing ANY man who wants to carry your load (whether broke or not), haba! shouldnt you have asked:"is it easy for a man to marry some broke woman who brings nothing to the table?!" can you imagine the type of stress he will go through to feed and please you?! kai! have you ever thought about getting a JOB so that you can fend for your future family and make life better for the both of you? or is that too hard for you to do?! if YOU had a job, and so does your future husband then you are good to go, anything less than that and therefore let the blame fall on YOUR unemployed self. you are an insult to god if you will only value a successful man and look down on a GOOD man that is broke...shame on you, and no wonder god will never answer your biased narrow minded prayers! as if a GOOD man needs to be rich or have his own home, lol! is that really what you understand for that bible you read?! this lady was not bragging, she was LOOKING DOWN on this man's achievement, while she "obviously" had no home of her own. what kind of deluded person does that? shouldnt she THANK/PRAISE/BLESS this man instead?! btw the men at your job are DONKEYS!!!! and they are only trying to have the "honey" that attracts these deluded goldigging women. they are the exact problem here....men who want to attract women with bling bling instead of their character. then these same men will turn around and be mad when these pay as you go ashi dump them for a richer man. arrant nonsense! what you attract with honey, you will surely LOSE with bigger honey! so unless these deluded men build the biggest house in the city, and drive the biggest cars, the ashis they will attract will only be there temporary (aka until a bigger oga comes around) |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by NicoBaba(m): 7:42pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Sugar97:hi my princess...aw was ur day today, hope u didn't stress ur sef |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Sugar97(f): 8:06pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
NicoBaba: Not like I could help it I'm ok though How are u? |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Humility017(m): 9:11pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
alexialin:from you comment and that of others... it means that there lie hope for guys like me |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Alennsar(f): 9:18pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: zero chill. you dey vex oooo |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Nobody: 10:17pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Humility017: Of course Don't loose faith and don't mind what guys in romance section say about ladies. Their brains are twisted. Just focus on u. |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by NicoBaba(m): 10:26pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Sugar97:u r strong.. u will always pull through. my day went well...U be in bed by now.. sleeptight baby |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Nobody: 10:47pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
I pray Guys keep thinking and using their Brains oooo. Women dont have the capacity to love, only men do. A woman 'll stay with u only when she knows she's getting something beneficial from u like money,sex etc. In a woman's brain, Love's like a feel good chemical. |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by papoose999(m): 11:59pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
sekxy:savage |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Humility017(m): 6:59am On Oct 11, 2017 |
alexialin:can we talk in private please...if you don't mind |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Nobody: 9:36am On Oct 11, 2017 |
Humility017: Yes we can talk But my pm doesn't work Also am In a relationship with a man that understands me 1 Like |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Nobody: 9:53am On Oct 11, 2017 |
Humility017: Of course! Be patient, watchful and pray. You will. Ladies like me are everywhere but we are not the social media kind of ladies. One.of my best friends, she's married, one of the managers to one of the leading Telecom companies in Nigeria. This woman., may God bless her soul is an ideal wife. In fact she inspires me so well. She's very beautiful , calm,cultured ,respectful and successful. We became close in one event like that. She always carries her husband along everything she does. The husband is also doing well. But the lady is just too humble, especially round the husband. In my. Mind, I will be like this man will be thanking God everyday for giving him this type.of wife. And her husband is calm, cultured ,practical and grounded. There is peace, love and mutual respect radiating around them and in their home. You can feel it when u are with them. It's not make believe. It's real. She's a blessed woman lemme not lie. And she inspires me Alot. She manages her home and career so well.. Nothing lacks. May God bless her for coming into my life. Amen. So don't loose hope.. Women like us still exist. It's just that men tend to judge us from afar that we will be arrogant and proud due to our beauty. So they steer clear just by sighting us. We are condemned as a proud player of men's heart. But such judgement is a complete fallacy from who we are. She's extremely beautiful and fair.. She dresses responsibly, in and out of office. She does not deliberately tempt men like some married women do these days. Wearing skimpy, revealing bodies upandan. She's beautifully modest And cultured. She and her mother in-law and sister in-laws are close. Infact her MIL takes her and gists with her as if she's her real daughter. They check up on each other It's Amazing. Upon the terrible stories, one hear about MILs and wives. .just imagine this scenario of the two of them. And I was blown away with lots of emotions. I was like wow! For real? One day I hugged her ,almost sob as I prayed with her . She added to this change in my life. I love peace and she inspires peace ,care and originality. So that's it.. It's take a wise man to come close becomes friends with ladies like Us and realise we are far off from what the society tends to paint.. Mehn it's far off. |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Humility017(m): 10:10am On Oct 11, 2017 |
alexialin:thanks for this.... It really inspired me... I have saved the number on whatsap..you can remove it now. thanks... |
Re: "I Was Shocked When I Got To My Husband's House The First Time" - Lady Reveals by Nobody: 10:11am On Oct 11, 2017 |
Humility017: OK |
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