diritalkz:
It never gonna be easy for her,first of all report the stupid boy to the police for sleeping with an underage girl,then sit down with your sister talk to her the implication of keeping that child I know it's inhuman to advice aborting that pregnancy but then it wise to do the needful. How old is the pregnancy?

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

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Antina:
You should have cautioned her when you see her towing the wrong path, it would have saved you from asking people's opinion. Save the rod and.....

Back to the topic!!

I beg of you, don't abort for her, she may be giving birth to a future president, who knows. And since the guy promised full responsibility of your sister, please let her be.

I know she would be happy someday she gave birth earlier!!.

Mrmoore14:
Don't abort the baby... let her have it... who knw,he might be second Justine bibier loading and the implications of abortion can't never be over emphasize..... if she abort it, she trend the path of getting gravid again and she got nothing to be scared of anymore since she's used to abortion... don't castigate her since the boy is ready to take responsibilities cos u never can say how the boy sweet meet her and over secretion of hormones plays a major role in lady's vulgarity nowadays.... let her have the baby and try make her see why she shouldn't make such a destiny wrecker mistake again!!.

cococandy:


Why don’t you tie her down and forcefully abort the baby since it’s not her decision to make.

Very stupid thing.

selflessmaya:

who says he should drug her and abort the pregnancy? do u honestly think a 16 year old wouldnt wish to not be pregnant? if u want to throw around pro-choice, if the sister does have the kid, is she capable of raising it without his contributions? she really has no choice and is very dependent on what the potential caretakers of the child will decide. if nigerian families can beat a pregnant girl and talk hell into her about how the pregnancy will go, then a family can save the beating and be as level headed as possible and talk to a 16 yr old CHILD about why they feel an abortion is the best course and get her to see reason. most pregnant 16 yr old nigerians will pray for a family that can even let them have that option so let's not pretend nigeria is the uk where teenagers "wanna keep the baby".
if OP wants the pregnancy to stay, it will stay whether she likes it or not, if he wants it gone, it will be gone too, if he wants her married at 16, she has no choice. in nigerian society, the pro-choice ish does not exist for most women and i'm not stupid enough to delude myself like most ppl here. families mostly make the decision and for once a man is here trying to make what any sensible person knows is the right choice, a choice that most ppl who feel trapped like his sister would secretly want. and we should leave it to his kid sister? in this country? where she gets no choice in the first place? he could have married her off, he could let her have the pregnancy as a punishment but he's considering letting her walk scottfree from all this, i am a huge advocate of pro-choice and how a woman should have sole decision but sometimes i have to remember i'm dealing with nigerians and head straight to the point. my main argument with abortion is it's a woman's body, choice etc. but this is an important issue and this is no time to start trying to state laws of feminism.
the case is simple: a girl who gets no choice in most families has a brother who wants to give her an option that most girls in her shoes would kill to have. if she's getting this option cos he wants to save face, not cos it's her body etc, it's none of my business, it still benefits everybody, a 16 yr old will be more grateful in 4 yrs time if she terminates this pregnancy than if she keeps it. 95% of women who have had a safe abortion dont regret it, they're thankful for that chance of escape everyday.



u must be high on some narcotic if u think i'll argue with someone who just compared a 16yr old child to a 27yr old adult. why didnt u also say, it's not such a big deal if a 20 yr old man has sex with a 9 yr old, it's same 11 yr difference. you're the idiot and it shows . lol

nigeriancritic1:

I have a 16 year old daughter and i know how much of tactical talking i do to remind her that useless boy like you are everywhere without future and i showed her examples of futures. Do you have a kid yet? Come learn. Idiot!

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

nigeriancritic1:

With technology like phone you dont need to be in ph. Since you know this is a possibility you should have warned her regularly through calls on why she should keep her thighs together. You are not worthy of a big brother.

bigtt76:
You're the one high up on cheap narcotics and a biggest idiot on NL this morning for thinking aborting a baby is the best option in this case. If your mum had aborted you, you won't be here arguing blindly would you?
Do you even understand the emotional implications of abortion? Do you know she can be depressed for the rest of her life? Do you know it can lead her into hating men all the rest of her life?
You just wake up and spill out anything for the sake of commenting. If you think she's ripe for abortion at 16 years old, she as well is ready for marriage or giving birth at 16 years.
Abortion is not all about swallowing postinor tablets.... It is much more than that.
Final warning, don't you ever insult me again if you don't want to see my bad side! Have a good day Mr Abortionist >:(

onadana:


I don't agree with you.Teach a child the way they should go when they grow they will not depart.

If the foundations are destroyed what will the righteous do?

bigtt76:
You must be mad! She has every right to her body and how she wants it to be used forget the age. What is your business in a 16 year old marrying 27 years old? 11years difference? Would you accept for a 27 year old girl to marry a 38 year old man? Still 11 years difference!

God is wonderful and every Knowing that is why he made pregnancy at any age possible, don't try to play God! You don't know her destiny.

It is people like you who have cajoled a lot of women into remaining unmarried past their prime. Idiot

selflessmaya:


stfu, u can dish it, but u sure cant take it. so far there is no link to a successful abortion to life-long depression and i have done multiple comprehensive study on depression and the factors that can trigger it, take it how u want. almost every woman who has had a safe abortion is glad that she did, the ones who have regrets are mostly the ones who got botched cos they got unsafe abortions which is why i placed a lot of emphasis on safe abortions. abortion is not swallowing postinor, postinor can only work before implantation phase, abortion is taking Mifepristone and Misoprostol pills and wait for your period to start, u're probably ancient so when u hear abortion u think of the emotionally scarring process women endured in the early to late 2000s where hangers where used on them, that is illegal and can cause the physical and psychological damage u speak of. in 2017, there are pills designed to block the production of progesterone and in a matter of 1 hr, the pregnancy ends, a pill she can take and put on sanitary pad and just have another menses and it's over.
if she's ripe for abortion at 16, she's ripe for marriage and motherhood u say? it's so hard to insult u cos u insult yourself too much already. an abortion takes 2 pills & 30mins... pregnancy and motherhood takes the rest of her life. dont be silly! mrs idiot

TimeMod3:
Yet another dummy.
16 & 27, 27 & 37 (afterall the age difference is 11 ) wow! what an analogy!
With idiots like you, younger kids are in for it.

missyadorable:


Take your sister to a trained gynaecologist
it will take nothing but few minutes of pain and some naira
Act fast! Delay is dangerous

You are a reasonable Brother.