RETIREDMUMU:


i thought � u inject promiscuity in my life in ur previous post

naijaboiy:

@Last paragraph.

Thank you. And there also guys who like those type of classy ladies. I don’t think they forced any man to go after them. There are many rich men who can afford to spend on their woman lavishly without feeling anything.

Relationships still crumble everyday whether or not the girl is a slayqueen or feminist.

safarigirl:
Wristbangle this your post is very much a generalisation and to some extent, unrealistic.

For one thing, most women with feministic ideologies do not go about saying a man should pay for stuff. Feminist women are highly independent in nature and feel more fulfilled when they pay for stuff themselves or even pay for guys. You have a wrong idea of feminism if you think such ladies are actually waiting for men to do jack for them. Any purported feminist who thinks men should provide for them is not a feminist


Meanwhile another point for your topic, women who depend on their parents for everything and who happen to be spoilt in the process tend to be issues. They already have high standards, so, if you can't provide what they are used to getting, they will not settle for less

Blackhawk01:





You really need me in your life

naijaboiy:
There are angles to everything. It’s not like the so called “humble & industrious” girl doesn’t have her own demons hiding inside of her, which she will definitely exhibit later on.

You can’t escape a woman’s wahala.

safarigirl:
what is a woman doing in a relationship if she hasn't found a means of income?


Why should a man introduce you to how to make money for your personal use? Did you introduce him to one?

If I was a man, I could never date a woman who doesn't have something tangible doing. The best I can do is link you up to something that can bring you more income, but yoi have to first be useful to yourself.

RETIREDMUMU:



ur watapp number, i need u too

tosyne2much:
Thank you oga Wristbangle. This is a very good message being passed across but watch how their sweet mouths would turn bile and their would lash out to the OP

In Nigeria today, women are fighting for equal rights and quality of treatment but this is one thing they are very fine with being not equal.

Materialistic ladies are usually the attractive and elegant type most guys would want to roll with. They usually carry themselves with so much hype and charisma that will make other women green with envy. Some of them are even educated (degree holders) but still don't know their purpose in life.

Many of them know the right buttons to press to make guys go crazy and dance to their rhythm. But in the midst of all these, lies their insatiable urge to acquire all a man has laboured for and thus reap where they did not sow

Any guy who gets himself entangled with flashy/materialistic ladies will continue to struggle with his life. He will continue to crawl while his mates are flying. Even rich men try to run from these ladies

If rich men do not send, why did Psquare, Oritse Femi and Co. went ahead to marry the ladies that were part of their success and not the ones who only want to reap where they did not sow?

This is a big lesson to many guys

Blackhawk01:


Watapp kor otapiapia nii, carry your mumu away from here.

naijaboiy:
There are angles to everything. It’s not like the so called “humble & industrious” girl doesn’t have her own demons hiding inside of her, which she will definitely exhibit later on.

You can’t escape a woman’s wahala.

wristbangle:


"You can't escape a woman's wahala" -

Unfortunately this is the bitter truth. Married men have more to say about this.

Though some women wahala fit give person quick hypertension like excessive nagging, extra marital affairs and all that.

lefulefu:
They begin to walk like when Jesus rode on a donkey...my belle ooo

tosyne2much:
Make una dey deceive unaself. Na only for Nairaland we dey hear that kind thing

RETIREDMUMU:

safarigirl:
I am disappointed that you would lump me in with girls like that.

For your information, I have never had a boyfriend and I am glad to say I have a means of income despite being in school.

Those are facts, not self-deceit. However, if you want to keep going after women who leech off you, best of luck.

I sent a guy #500 credit last month and his reaction was like I bought him a pair of Air Jordans. You guys must really be having it bad on these streets

wristbangle:


The bolded paragraph is something that has been seriously compromised most especially the Nigerian version of it which is now spreading like an epidemic disease across the globe courtesy of chiamanda and her likes. Anyway that's a story for another day.

The feminists I have met of recent wants to dominate, feel superior and control men rather than seeking equality. This is one of the reasons marriage are crashing like speed of light of recent. It become worse when they have attain some financial independence.

( Note : just a digression from the main topic of discussion due to the feminism topic you emphasise on).

Mariinee:
I swear, that's the funniest part.

Mariinee:
I swear, that's the funniest part.

Mariinee:
Tell me more....

Mariinee:
You are right though.

safarigirl:
I would, but I wasn't talking to you

naijaboiy:

Thank you.

Mariinee:
LOL. Why are you thanking me?

I Just felt like.

naijaboiy:

I Just felt like.

GloriaNinja:
THIS POST IS SENSIBLE, RELATIONSHIPS CRUMBLE EVERYDAY. NO MATTER WHAT.

sexybbstar:
you've been away for so long.... Welcome back

safarigirl:
I am disappointed that you would lump me in with girls like that.

For your information, I have never had a boyfriend and I am glad to say I have a means of income despite being in school.

Those are facts, not self-deceit. However, if you want to keep going after women who leech off you, best of luck.

[s] I sent a guy #500 credit last month and his reaction was like I bought him a pair of Air Jordan's. [/s] You guys must really be having it bad on these streets

Abeg leave matter for LAWMA jawe... Who dey talk whether you give guy N500 or not? Who dey talk about N500 for here? So giving of N500 is the most outrageous thing you've ever done for the opposite sex and you come here to give testimony about it?

Una no go kill person for Nairaland

tosyne2much:
Abeg leave matter for LAWMA jawe... Who dey talk whether you give guy N500 or not? Who dey talk N500 for here? So that's the highest you've ever done for the opposite sex and you come here to give testimony about it?

Una no go kill person for Nairaland

safarigirl:
[s]I don't even relate with them on a normal day, I'm a recluse.

I have done more, and if i do get into a relationship some day, i will do a lot more, but there is no point telling you because you have your mind made up already on who I am.

You don't even know me. It is a terrible trait, and it explains why you only attract these materialistic women.
[/s]

Best of luck.

tosyne2much:
This belongs to the.......

wristbangle:
We live in a part of the world where many guys are attracted to flashy and materialistic ladies forgetting that most of these ladies are no go area for any sane man who wants to live a fulfilled life.

However, flashy and materialistic ladies are usually very lazy and unproductive set of people. They have no other thing they are thinking rather than taxing guys for money simply because they so much believe that life revolves around their butts and bosoms. All they talk about is how they can't settle down with a man that earns nothing less than 200k per month even though they themselves have not paid back the N50 they borrowed from MTN for the past three month.

Many a times, you see them artificially dressed from head to toe, always on designer shoes, bags, heavy make-up, massive bosoms and butts and they begin to walk like when Jesus rode on a donkey.

It has been observed that some guys shamelessly lust after these dumb, greedy yet unproductive ladies who only enjoy the comfort of what their pockets will bring to them.

Of recent, guys are now becoming wiser that they have come to realise that getting entangled with a lady who is lazy yet financially bankrupt is a big disaster to their ministry.

Church girls are not in any way different as some of them are mere pretenders, repackaged olosho who disguise as angels of light to deceive a brother in the church.

It's high time guys opened their eyes and realize that the height they will attain in life largely depends on the kind of ladies they choose as companions. If you find yourself dating a lady who can't do without talking about elaborate wedding, how stunning she wants to look and how she wants the jaw of people to break each time she walk, then you should know that your salary will definitely be responsible for that.

Take for example, when you get married to an unsatisfied and unrepentant slay queen, how long will you constantly cater for her personal needs which ordinarily would gulp up your whole salary?. Using your salary or little earnings to make her happy when your mates are already buying lands and building houses when you're still at one spot?

Let's take a look at it from another angle. Imagine a situation where your monthly income is 80k per month. The cost of accommodation may gulp up to 7k on monthly basis depending on the location. Feeding, electricity bill, transport and miscellaneous may gulp to 30k leaving you with only 47k per month. Imagine your parasitic girlfriend always disturbing every now and then for her hair, monthly data subscription and frivolities, why won't you remain on a spot? And if standards are not met, she would resort to extra marital affairs and rob it on your face.

From the above explanation, can you see why some guys have no savings even if their salaries are overwhelming? Meanwhile a wise guy who earns less but knows his way around these flashy and parasitic ladies would have something tangible to boast of as savings at the end of the month.

It's hightime we give ourselves brain. Don't go for stunning ladies because you want people to cheer you up each walking with her on the street but go for a career driven lady with great potentials.

And lastly, don't go for ladies with feminism ideology. They are nothing but waste of time. They are the worst kind of ladies you can ever date. All they need talking about is how they can't offer financial assistance to a man and how they want to be the boss of the relationship/marriage .


A word is enough for the wise. Happy weekend