LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

You women are the biggest hypocrites..I have said it over and over again,If you know you dont want to fucck me,do not sleep with me in the same room..Na una no dey see your fellow woman room to sleep with,na Man room una go dey sleep..Guys dont go looking for a female room to sleep except if the lady in question is the girlfriend..Stop playing the victim game every now and then..Except if i want to play the good boy which was only on one occasion and the girl in question is coming next month and knows we are fuccking

Whatever your eyes sees when you go sleep in a Mans house next time,condone it..We are wired differently and so you should stop saying nonesense..I guess we should all be using the same toilet and bathroom since we the guys should stop thinking with our dick..Nonesense and Buhari

luminouz:

Babe no be every guy be like DAT o
I have self control o...ur free to visit me..I swear

BTW...they both at fault!!! No be saliva dey make diick enter vj...na ur Pusey juice!
N d guy na bororo cattle! Always ON!

No thank you.

Kokaine:
please what you suffered to put up here is so senseless that even goatss will deny all association with you. please dont take it personsonally oooh.... you will embarrass cows if you claim to be one. you are just something. something i dont know

lolz,i was even thinking that my olodoness has increase,cos I couldn't understand what she was blabbing

Blackhawk01:


Yeah. The babe was stupid but we can't rule out the guy's animalistic behaviour too if he truly did all she wrote...

which one is animalistic behaviour here...let me ask you a question...can you put grains of rice in a cage with a chicken and then return an hour later and expect the miracle of Danial in the lion's den?

Papiikush:
Slut!

A guy who is not your boyfriend, what in the world were you doing in his house overnight?

Forget the whole rape brouhaha...she is trying to play the victim card here because all I read is about a one night stand gone wrong.

Wait... How in the world will someone rape you with oral again?

I mean he was licking your pussý comfortably and you couldn't do anything? Ha aye mi!!!!

If a guy can be so comfortable to the extent he goes down on you, removes your panties and use his tongue to wipe your pussý clean without you breaking his neck with your laps, then you are a slut

I need to start telling these Unilag girls I have free WIFI maybe they'll come and spend the night in my apartment too. Awon olosho gbogbo

Forget self control, bìtch if you come to my apartment and you running around in your bumshort I'll fück that pussý.

If you are looking for men with self control don't sleep in my house go and sleep in your pastor's house.

You took the words right out of my mouth....prostitites every where...

jaksmillioniar:
laved..a were did u get dis blog

is it your blog?

makydebbie:
No thank you.

Lmaoooooo!

She say she like wahala, no wahala pass konji wahala, wen e don set.


Even the guy no dey his right senses again, as she confirmed that he was looking at her but could not see her.


Konji na bastard!

luminouz:

Lmaooooo
Where u been all this while?
Was asking makydeb about u d other day?
Happy Sunday

Really? Makydebbie didn't tell me ooo

Where have I been sef... Your room

Same to you, swtz

Rape is such a serious issue and so prevalent in our society today that we should not be heard saying 'she wanted to be raped'.
I have some many issues with this story. Even if you are not at risk of being raped, you don't just spend the night in just any guy's house and even sleep on his bed. Especially when you have a boyfriend. Also, why on earth can you not pay your tfare yourself?
But all that aside, if a girl/guy says no, it means no. If you are about to slide into a girl and you hear a gunshot, won't you stop? Your penis or vagina does not have a mind of its own. You control it and make the decision with your head. Even if you are not sure if she means yes or no, to avoid superstories, please just step away and leave the room. Denying yourself of that 2/3/4/5 minutes pleasure won't kill you.

Na set up,money no reach

Fourwinds:
which one is animalistic behaviour here...let me ask you a question...can you put grains of rice in a cage with a chicken and then return an hour later and expect the miracle of Danial in the lion's den?

No self control is an animalistic trait...

Oyindidi:
is it your blog?

she stole it

Blackhawk01:


Really? Makydebbie didn't tell me ooo

Where have I been sef... Your room

Same to you, swtz

Lmaooooooo!

Blackhawk01:


Really? Makydeie didn't tell me ooo

Where have I been sef... Your room

Same to you, swtz

You ignored the mention I gave you that time nau.

I beg someone should help me with that pic of lil Wayne Ashwoooooo

Seriously, am sorry for what she went through, but again, to avoid this kind of scene, she ought not to sleep in the dude's house.

For crying out loud, "He is not your Boyfriend"!!

Well, have bin through both,
A girl like that, we were so close, you had thought we were dating.
Travelled to where she's schooling to visit some Friends, went to her place, and there she goes, all mushy, like she doesnt want me to leave, Eventually she asked me to sleep over.

To the extent that she even asked me to share the cover clothe with her.

Like 40min in the cover clothe, i got stoned up, started thinking with my D.... Doing sotta things with my hand, honestly, she was just there panting faintly, didnt flinch.....

Then i thought..... "Oh yeah"...she's ok with it, try pressing further...suddenly she stood up picked her phone, went to the kitchen...

Damn i felt so bad, started asking myself why i did that shii,
Had to leave her place around 1am for my dude's place...

MY POINT

If it were to b in another country, example the US, and she pressed charges,
Like sexual assault or rape, i had proly ended up in jail.

Until a lady gives you a verbal consent.
Just stay off bro!!!
Not worth it at all!!!

Blackhawk01:


No self control is an animalistic trait...

I see...okay the guy should have fled from temptation according to the Bible...so which place would have recommended he sleep?

makydebbie:
You ignored the mention I gave you that time nau.

Hian! I dinnur know ooo

jaksmillioniar:
she stole it

Jaks, mind your business. Don't be looking for trouble

You might be right u know

quote author=Papiikush post=62721482]Slut!

A guy who is not your boyfriend, what in the world were you doing in his house overnight?

Forget the whole rape brouhaha...she is trying to play the victim card here because all I read is about a one night stand gone wrong.

Wait... How in the world will someone rape you with oral again?

I mean he was licking your pussý comfortably and you couldn't do anything? Ha aye mi!!!!

If a guy can be so comfortable to the extent he goes down on you, removes your panties and use his tongue to wipe your pussý clean without you breaking his neck with your laps, then you are a slut

I need to start telling these Unilag girls I have free WIFI maybe they'll come and spend the night in my apartment too. Awon olosho gbogbo

Forget self control, bìtch if you come to my apartment and you running around in your bumshort I'll fück that pussý.

If you are looking for men with self control don't sleep in my house go and sleep in your pastor's house.


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jaksmillioniar:
she stole it

Hahahaha

Uncle Jaks! She stole the blog from you abi?

Laveda sef

I don't understand Nigerians. Rape is not whether she had a BF or acted like an idiot. It is when you have non consensual sex with another.

justmenoni:
You might be right u know

quote author=Papiikush post=62721482]Slut!

A guy who is not your boyfriend, what in the world were you doing in his house overnight?

Forget the whole rape brouhaha...she is trying to play the victim card here because all I read is about a one night stand gone wrong.

Wait... How in the world will someone rape you with oral again?

I mean he was licking your pussý comfortably and you couldn't do anything? Ha aye mi!!!!

If a guy can be so comfortable to the extent he goes down on you, removes your panties and use his tongue to wipe your pussý clean without you breaking his neck with your laps, then you are a slut

I need to start telling these Unilag girls I have free WIFI maybe they'll come and spend the night in my apartment too. Awon olosho gbogbo

Forget self control, bìtch if you come to my apartment and you running around in your bumshort I'll fück that pussý.

If you are looking for men with self control don't sleep in my house go and sleep in your pastor's house.

The shorts came off without resistance or struggle.

After the show, the bathroom door come get lock for her to use until the morning.

Anyway, guys should still show restraint, from all account that girl would have fucuked his brains out at some point, but just not that night.

This kind thing, u leave her and go watch porrno. Make sure u lock your door.

She is mad.

vickatcch:
lolz,i was even thinking that my olodoness has increase,cos I couldn't understand what she was blabbing

just imagine the nonsense shes writing. let her go pantless to a man and meet him in his bathroom , open her legs and tell him he is suppose to control him self. she is just a pure mumu

ClitoPen:
So u had a boyfriend
And u went to visit another man, even to pass the night in his house, on platonic level as u said..., changing from jeans to shorts...cuddling....even receiving a head....thereby causing the dude to hav a standing ovation!....

And you come here to scream rape...swear u didn't enjoy it!

Biko go and hide... What were you expecting a ho*ny man to do with his loaded gun right in his den?...Yanga dey sleep trouble go visit am...

Dont mind her

romeorailss:


U can twist it which ever way u like it. How funny, .

U got a bf, and u going for a vigil in a random guys abode, fully aware he is all alone. Of course this must be a guy that must have been playing his cards just the way guys do. U gladly accept his invitation to come over for the first time and sleep over in his apartment?

Madam are u going there for holy communion or combined service or u must spemd the night in his house to show him u are a good friend

Can we live the part of she having a boyfriend? What if she was single, how will you back up your argument?

obailala:


Wait wait wait! You have a boyfriend, yet you wilfully embark on a trip to another guy's house on the Island, with the intention of sleeping not just in the same house, but in the same room and on the same bed with him. You then go further to take off your jeans and put on a sexy short, and then proceed to sleep on the same bed with a guy who isn't your BF?

I don't ever get to say this nor blame girls in situations like this, but in this case, the girl is clearly the architect of her own predicaments; she's either a slut (who had intentions of eventually cheating on her BF with this very dude), or she's just plain stupid. I only pity the person she calls her BF.

As for the rapist anyway, that is what he is, 'a rapist'. But strangely and sadly enough, a majority of Nigerian guys are guilty of this very sort of date-rape; a lot of guys talk about how "it was a battle for hours" before they could get the choco, not knowing it's actually a form of rape. At the end, our society doesnt accept it as rape, cos the case always ends with why the girl used her legs to go to a guys one-room house when she was meant to be in school, and of course the girl keep shut. FUnny enough, I've seen this happen several times and weirdly, the girl eventually goes back to the guy for more.

Same thing I'm saying, girls should learn how to avoid these things, he's a stranger, one she hasn't trusted yet.
I think she would have gone during the day and not sleep over, girls shouldn't make themselves vulnerable to rape.

In a country like Nigeria where rape is justified, one has to be very very careful.

Tho, her story doesn't measure up.

Papiikush:


If you are willing to sleep over at a guy's place (who is not your boyfriend by the way)

strip down to your shorts

Sleep in the same bed

Accept to be cuddled... You are nothing but a cheap Hoe

My dear... you are wise!

but you allow him to remove your short. olosho.

mehn..d gal was foolish... very foolish.... I blame her very well... for making such mistake... wat if d guy harmed her... Hmmmm.... and... some guys can be perverts must u rape?

Laveda:


I get you, but going by what you just said. All men are potential rãpists.

I understand she's got her blames for going to a stranger's house at night and even agreeing to spend te night and not go with her friend or a trusted person, slept close to him on one bed and received hëad.

But we can't deny the fact that sex without consent is rape, as as she didn't accept to it, then it's rape.

This one u just seeing all men are potential rapists doesn't change anything. Yes! In today's world a lady should consider all men a potential rapist, that doesn't make all men potential rapist but at that u will be careful with the way u tread. Not until u know a guy very well, u can't consider him harmless. You don't just walk into the arms of a stranger believing him to be an angel.

Of course. If u say all men, that includes the men in ur household but in this case, you know what the men in your household can do, so u will remove them from the equation, also you will have some guys you really know each other and u can trust as well. But when you don't know any guy through and through, never you put yourself in a compromising situation with him, any guy u don't know should be a suspect, so ladies must be careful the way they move and be smart as well.

What if that guy didn't even have sexual advances in mind and only wanted her to sleep in his bed so she could use her for something How about that??

In the world of today, a lady isn't supposed to walk carelessly or stupidly go get herself laid. Do u even know that if she was raped, that guy could turn the table around.

First, the premises of all her narration shows that she knew what she was going for and actually was with my client overnight for an all-round sex but just wanted to blackmail him because he didn't pay her as she had expected .


That would be my claim if I were to be that guy's lawyer, and I don't know how she can exonerate herself from it.