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Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 11:52am On Dec 17, 2017
prettyjo:
the FACt is that I am tired of hearing this tithe of a thing

My prettyjo, same here. Do you tithe?
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:03pm On Dec 17, 2017
JesuEruOluwa:



You don't expect everybody to declare online.

Some have decided to help the needy at month end.

Help the needy and help the poor!

isn't shameful dat u accuse the church of not helping the needy (and dey do) cos u want proof but at d same time u are declaring dat you tithe against poverty but can show us a proof (same thing u accuse the church of).. Dats d definition of hypocrisy
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:05pm On Dec 17, 2017
Next2Bezee:


So because people have started refusing to tithe towards fattening your daddy g.o, they are now stingy? You are funny.

Do you think that people that give, do so in front of a camera like your daddy g.o looking for cheap publicity? Keep deceiving yourself.

If yoy would rather pay money to a 'man of god' than help the needy, then it is you that is stingy.

Matthew 6:4 - So that your giving may be done in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you."
same thing u accuse the church of? Nd who told u d church hasn't been helping the needy in secret? undecided(or u didn't remember dat bible verse wen u were accusing the pastors?
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:08pm On Dec 17, 2017
paxonel:

Ok, you want to see it on nairaland abi?
Its stingy people thinks like that .
They want every good they do to people to be announced
but u also expect the church to come on Nairaland to blow their trumpets before u believe dey have been helping the poor?
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by jaxxy(m): 12:09pm On Dec 17, 2017
majekdom2:
how do they spend? Have you audited an account before? Why not judging by what you see? Why not discern by the spirit. Because of see private jet. Those pastors have their person businesses. The richest amongst them is not even worth 200 million dollars. That amount is inclusive of church properties which does not even belong to them. The Anglican church, baptist and all once started by just one person. Today, do we say it belongs to one. The church is the people not an individual or person. Education is not free. That's the mistake our government is making. The fees are subsidized enough

Wat are u talking about Do u need to be an accountant to see and know fraud Hv u audited any senators account b4? How do u know dey are corrupt Pls bro i dont go against pastors bt i don't take bullshit either! Pastor shud be respected bt they shud be honorable men also.

U say these pastors have their personal businesses? Which one of these pastor can say they dont use church fund and i mean ur tithe to buy cars, houses, etc? I hv seen this live cos ive worked closely with a church body b4 and my parents also. All u hear is leave it for God to judge even wen its clearly wrong. Can any pastor declare his assets? Bro these men are humanbeings none is a spirit or angel dat fell from the sky sm may be honorable bt alot have fallen for manmon thinking they are still in d faith.

Then how subsidised are the skols pls tell me? How many scholarships a year do dey give? Wat benefits do dey hv for less privileged ones? Even circular govts in sane countries even Brazil think of how to make their best universities available to those who can't afford by reserving 50% of its admission every year for less privileged ppeople how much more the Church.

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Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:10pm On Dec 17, 2017
Theakthedream:

We are still waiting for your proof.. Hypocrite

Show us proof that you have been paying tithes too..
why do u sound so pained? Cos i just struck dat cord huh? U know deep inside you that u don't tithe whether to church or to d needy otherwise, why den would u be arguing day and night about tithe if truly u knew ppl don't tithe?
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:13pm On Dec 17, 2017
chinawapz:
Nigerians are too stingy, those people against tithe are either atheist, Muslim or economist if you can track them

they just want to see a valid reason to be able to justify why they dint give and shouldnt give tithes in Church
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:14pm On Dec 17, 2017
erico2k2:

Question for yuo
Howmany people Pay tithe ?10% who does that, so if you earn N200k/month and do not pay N20k as tithe then there is no difference btw you and freeze.There is nothing like 9.5% angry angry
u just reiterated my point. Only few members in the church are faithful in tithing.. And u know wat, God rewards faithfulness. If its not been working, ppl will av long stopped paying it.
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by EPAINYOU: 12:18pm On Dec 17, 2017
salvation101:
really? Care to show us a proof dat u av been tithing against poverty according to ur belief? If u don't expect to be asked for proof why den do u worry ursef over others who are tithing to their church? Is it any business of urs? Dat d ministries are getting richer tru tithing is a proof dat the members too are getting richer(simple mathematics). A tithe of 100,000 is different from a tithe of 10,000. U think if ppl aren't getting blessed dey wouldn't have stopped tithing?

There are people in Olumba Olumba obu, do you think they won't have stopped if the are not blessed?

Most people that produce what you use are not Christians and don't tithe. They are far better than you the tithe consumer times 1,000 . Go to Japan, China, Korea, USA, India, etc and you will see them.

God is using them to bless your life and make things easy for you and that is why you give testimonies in church. How many people around you have you blessed?

1. Have you really given anything to Christ(God) yourself according to Mt 25:34-46?

Matthew 25:35-37
35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.'

Or are you going to be among those that will ask, ''when did we see you thirsty....and did not minister to you?

Tithe payers have abandoned the love for neighbour because they think they are giving to God.

TAP is freeze trying to let you guys know you are missing it.
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by eyinjuege: 12:19pm On Dec 17, 2017
Segeshow:
The worst kind of deceit is self-deceit because it can almost never be corrected even in the face of hard facts. The only reason the so called tithers do so is because they feel it's an insurance policy against "devourers". So the so called devourers have made Nigeria their HQ because they don't seem to exist in developed climes. You want to travel from Lagos to Ibadan, you must first plead the blood of Jesus on the road. You pray against ill-health yet do not go for check-ups and self-medicate with impunity. These charlatans thrive on the culture of fear pervading black Africa plus the poverty and underdevelopment. Give people the basics of food, decent accommodation, standard healthcare, good roads and transportation networks and see if they won't stop being stupid. These charlatans will never be so successful in places where the basic human needs have already been taken care off. Let me hear of a Redeemed in Scandinavia where the standard of living is the highest in the world, or are there no souls to be saved there? [/b]Be wise. Give to the poor and let their gratitude be a source of blessing to you[b], not one GO who is busy eating the best meals, sending thei kids to the best schools and flying jets with NO OBVIOUS SOURCE OF INCOME OTHER THAN CHURCH BUSINESS.#freedsheepleplease#

Going by your analogy, religious beliefs are mainly hocus pocus. You may be right, but in the same vein how can the gratitude of the poor be a source of blessing to anyone? Does their gratitude magically double your account in the bank or what?
If you dont believe in religious voodoo, I'm surprised you believe giving to the poor can bring blessings.
If you preach being charitable makes you feel good, perhaps even gives some a sense of purpose, yes you may be right. But to attach it to some blessings is same as what you've just stood against- tithes being a source of blessings.
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by lexy2014: 12:20pm On Dec 17, 2017
salvation101:
Here is the thread where the convener of free the sheeple movement threw up a challenge to all his followers https://www.nairaland.com/4215954/tithe-against-poverty-challenge-daddy
The challenge is simply to use the money they would av used for tithing in their church to help the less privileged and poor around them... To my utmost surprise, on checking the thread wch is almost a week old, all i could see there was arguments as usual. I was expecting to see pics of ppl in different Idp camps and homes of tge less privilege like dey av been advising the pastors...

Is it that freeze doesn't av faithful followership?
Is it that the so called tithe dis ppl are talking about cant even buy Agege bread?
Is it dat dis ppl are just stingy??
Am curious, wanna know
its not stinginess. Its conviction. It shows in our everyday life especially in d way we complain about our political leaders yet we do nothing about it
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:20pm On Dec 17, 2017
jaxxy:


I can't be glad giving my tithe to a church dat Im not comfortable with how the money got is spent and the humanitarian side of the church even to its own is in serious doubt. I don't do thing based on emotions or popularity appeal bt on belief. Many pastors i know talk about money more thAn the cbn governors during church service. They either cajole u or carry u on guilty trips just to drop biggest offerings in an almost desperate manner. Same churches are never there for their suffering members sadly. Their lack of empathy and genuine/practical care to their lacking and needy members made me reduce my church attendance cos I don't want to be caught up in religious gimmicks and routines and lose myself consciousness to Godlike attitude
why do u decide to remain in dat same church? One of the proof of the presence of God in the church is love. Tithing or giving to God does not stop u from helping ur neighbor... I can tell u with boldness dat in d church i attend, if a member is in problem, the church members rally round to solve it. I know ppl dat were sponsored tru the university by the church.. Wont mention name of any church though but if there is a fake out there, itsa proofdat the real one is precious
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by EPAINYOU: 12:26pm On Dec 17, 2017
aonag:


they just want to see a valid reason to be able to justify why they dint give and shouldnt give tithes in Church

chinawapz:
Nigerians are too stingy, those people against tithe are either atheist, Muslim or economist if you can track them

You guys have lost touch of reality.
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:27pm On Dec 17, 2017
jaxxy:


My issue hasn't ever been on whether to pay tithes or not even tho i believe it shud be voluntarily or genuinely lead bt the way the tithe is been spent. Im not impressed with how Pentecostal church spend their money while not paying tax. Many abuse the honor and privilege and other spend it on ridiculous things even their gfs, sm build skols bt don't subsidize the rates for the common man to attend and start quoting laws of economics wen we are talking about a church of God establishment to help the society they live in. Wat does the church really give back?
u r absolutely correct. It should be about conviction and not force and same with giving.. But do we av to dismiss it just because we aren't yet convinced? D right approach is to not pay until u are truly convinced to.
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by openmine(m): 12:28pm On Dec 17, 2017
Afrokan:

Based on the percentage of Nigerian Christians living below the poverty line, its safe to say God as forsaken us.
Am confused why God would bless countries like Japan, Isreal, China, Luxembourg, UAE where they dont pay tithe nor worship your God as opposed to Nigeria where we would kill ourself for him.
God as really forsaken us
No sir...God hasn't forsaken us....
We have forsaken his word....most Nigerians want to b rich without lifting a pin!


God said in Hosea that my people perish for lack of knowledge.....and dat he will prosper the hands of the diligent!

While countries like Japan where busy rebuilding and taking technology to another level,Nigerians were busy praying and asking God for a sign....

While China and most Asian giants were working hard,and making their population an asset,most Nigerians were some where praying to receive the same wealth that God has already provided for us!

While other advanced countries were busy establishing companies that will boost the economy of their nation,most Nigerians were busy building crusade centres and heaping their problems at the door steps of witches and siblings!

Most Nigerians fail to use their head....dats why when their business stops progressing,instead of finding out where the company needs improvement or alterations, they quickly blame their village people for sending evil missiles at deir business!

What a pity!

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Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:30pm On Dec 17, 2017
Idamond:
Bro go read your bible intensively...
u dat av read d bible intensively, please just tell us where Jesus or any of the apostles said we should stop tithing. The only place Jesus mentioned the word tithe, it was permissible (secondary to the weightier matters of the law matt23:23)
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by vislabraye(m): 12:30pm On Dec 17, 2017
MakeADifference:
"Poor" Christians don't need Freeze's handouts. A Christian isn't ever a beggar. God supplies their needs. If you are a Christian and aren't lazy, then you can be sure you will never beg for bread.

well.... but the early Church helped the poor and needy amongst them.
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:32pm On Dec 17, 2017
openmine:

Most nigerians are unbelievable.....Just on the TAP thread,some one was criticizing a celebrity for showing off how he is helping some one with #300k,Now U are asking for proof to know if people gave their monies to the needy!


Did freeze tell you he needed followers or wanted one?
Did freeze expose the tithe sham just to be popular?
Do U need freeze to show U scriptures that ur tithe is meant for the poor and needy?



Making such hasty and unfounded assumptions clearly exposes the kind of faulty mindset that U are harboring!
I guess some millionaires who give hefty funds to charity every year are stingy simply because its not taken to the church abi?
Ur mindset is wrong!

we are aware of wat those so called millionaires do. In d same vein would like to know wat the pastor's advisers av done for the poor so far
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:35pm On Dec 17, 2017
SnakeDoctor011:
baba, if you want to see stingy people, go to Europe.
Europeans are the most stingy set of people in the world especially the British. But guess what? They're wealthy and more advanced..they don't clamour for tithes like we Nigerians.
Europeans are stingy but their church missionaries used tithe payers money to provide free education for us in Africa
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by valentineuwakwe(m): 12:38pm On Dec 17, 2017
why would I waste my time joining a movement when I know I have been helping the less privilege ones for decades now even before daddy freeze open the topic on pastor and tithing....the truth is that Nigerians don't have money again, only a few has it in abundance are are scared to bring it out so as to help the poor ones..,if you show that you are wealthy in nigeria, then know that the EFCC , SARS or DSS may come for you, even your friends or neighbours can grow envy of you and kasala go burst!
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by erico2k2(m): 12:38pm On Dec 17, 2017
salvation101:
u just reiterated my point. Only few members in the church are faithful in tithing.. And u know wat, God rewards faithfulness. If its not been working, ppl will av long stopped paying it.
so its safe to say the others who aint faithful are just hypocrits abi nor B so?
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:38pm On Dec 17, 2017
lexy2014:
its not stinginess. Its conviction. It shows in our everyday life especially in d way we complain about our political leaders yet we do nothing about it
conviction as to not paying in church is understandable. But it seems dey are also convinced dat dey are supposed to give dat same percentage to d poor but how many of dem are doing it? The TAP challenge is about using ur 10% to help ppl as opposed to giving it to the church
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by erico2k2(m): 12:41pm On Dec 17, 2017
virus05:


Ok sir. But i'm not in comp science sir. But what is the good grade for? Coz one of my uncle was also telling me this he came out with 2.1 and he became a lecturer and was later sacked(cos his boss was removed) now he's seling palm wine and my step brother also graduated with a 2.1 and he's working in peace mass, Just imagine. All the things i'm seeing around is not encouraging now so i think working alone is the best
come out with teh mindset of being your own Boss, when you do that, search for initial capital to start up.This is how to be rich.Good grades are a stepping rock however it does not translate to succes.Jst dnt go to school for going sake, try n sturdy smthing you are pationate about, something you can work with if no one employs you.
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by jaxxy(m): 12:41pm On Dec 17, 2017
salvation101:
why do u decide to remain in dat same church? One of the proof of the presence of God in the church is love. Tithing or giving to God does not stop u from helping ur neighbor... I can tell u with boldness dat in d church i attend, if a member is in problem, the church members rally round to solve it. I know ppl dat were sponsored tru the university by the church.. Wont mention name of any church though but if there is a fake out there, itsa proofdat the real one is precious

Who said im in same church? I walked out of the church with people wondering wat got me offended and i didnt give damn about it and it was the church my family basically grew up in. I was basically a rebel. Most churches u cant ask questions and get valid answers cos most play eye service and others love or are used to the routines. Im tired of all that. The Attitude of a church is a big deal for me it doesn't exactly hv to be perfect.
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:43pm On Dec 17, 2017
erico2k2:

so its safe to say the others who aint faithful are just hypocrits abi nor B so?
i wouldn't call dem hypocrites for not paying especially if dey really desire to but do not av enough faith yet to remove 10% cos as humans we are tempted to believe its our income dat sustain us. One can be earning 200k as salary in a month and not av enough faith to pay 20k but another may be earning 10k and still has enough faith to remove 1k per month. The ppl i will call hypocrites are those dat condemn the faithful tithers just to feel good about demselves
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Next2Bezee(m): 12:45pm On Dec 17, 2017
salvation101:
same thing u accuse the church of? Nd who told u d church hasn't been helping the needy in secret? undecided(or u didn't remember dat bible verse wen u were accusing the pastors?

Oh so the pastors don't enrich themselves from tithe and offering? Where does their wealth come from then??

They will dip their hands into money meant for the church, enrich themselves and say that it is God blessing them.

Politicians steal money from country's coffers, the money in the coffers come from the sweat and blood of hardworking Nigerians. Pastors enrich themselves from tithe deceitful derived from the sweat and blood of hardworking Nigerians. What's the difference between the two?

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Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:48pm On Dec 17, 2017
jaxxy:


Who said im in same church? I walked out of the church with people wondering wat got me offended and i didnt give damn about it and it was the church my family basically grew up in. I was basically a rebel. Most churches u cant ask questions and get valid answers cos most play eye service and others love or are used to the routines. Im tired of all that. The Attitude of a church is a big deal for me it doesn't exactly hv to be perfect.
yeah. U did d right thing by leaving. When there is no love there is no church. Even if its a gathering of just 20 members, as long as there is love and brotherhood, dey will expand in number in a very short time. Its not all about preaching the word, the practicality of it matters most
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by erico2k2(m): 12:48pm On Dec 17, 2017
salvation101:
i wouldn't call dem hypocrites for not paying especially if dey really desire to but do not av enough faith yet to remove 10% cos as humans we are tempted to believe its our income dat sustain us. One can be earning 200k as salary in a month and not av enough faith to pay 20k but another may be earning 10k and still has enough faith to remove 1k per month. The ppl i will call hypocrites are those dat condemn the faithful tithers just to feel good about demselves
THERE ISNO PHYSICAL jUSTIFICATION FOR THITHING, I have asked JEWS who live few doors from me same question, thier explanation seems to support freeze.There is a clear command as to whom the Thites should be paid to and the JEWS still follow same order as we speak,LESS

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Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by highway215(m): 12:50pm On Dec 17, 2017
Why is it that this issue of tithing refused to go down?
Every time you must see some hypocrite in the name of pastor and christian come out to argue about tithe.
Can you fight for God?Is tithing only the way of salvation?Shame on you people.
I suspect foul play.Something is fishy in this matter.
Everyday tithe,tithe,tight.Enough is enough,you people should go and sit down.
Lazy and wretched folks this days wants to become pastors just because of tithe.
Any person who wants to pay tithe to the church should go ahead and those who want to give theirs to the poor and needy should do so.
Stop clamoring for tithe and instead preach for salvation and how to win souls.
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 12:57pm On Dec 17, 2017
erico2k2:

THERE ISNO PHYSICAL jUSTIFICATION FOR THITHING, I have asked JEWS who live few doors from me same question, thier explanation seems to support freeze.There is a clear command as to whom the Thites should be paid to and the JEWS still follow same order as we speak,LESS
Jews no more tithe ever since their temple got destroyed in 70AD and right now a mosque is standing on d exact spot the temple is standing. Until the temple is built back, the Jews won't be able to tithe.. It goes to iterate wat Apostle Paul said.. We (gentiles) av been grafted in and all the blessings that belonged to the jews are now ours tru Jesus Christ(till after the rapture when the church age would end)
Re: Tithing : Talk Is Cheap, Nigerians Are Just Stingy by Nobody: 1:03pm On Dec 17, 2017
Next2Bezee:


Oh so the pastors don't enrich themselves from tithe and offering? Where does their wealth come from then??

They will dip their hands into money meant for the church, enrich themselves and say that it is God blessing them.

Politicians steal money from country's coffers, the money in the coffers come from the sweat and blood of hardworking Nigerians. Pastors enrich themselves from tithe deceitful derived from the sweat and blood of hardworking Nigerians. What's the difference between the two?
why do u assume that pastors are enriching themselves? Is it about tge church buildings? Or the private jets? Where dey bought in the church name or pastors name? If d pastor should pass on would those things belong to his family or the church? The church is a very big organization, if the church decides dat the most senior pastor should be bought a private jet, for the ease of the work of ministry is there anything wrong in dat knowing fully well that the Number one mandate Christ gave the church is to go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature

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