Cladez:
C'mon kid go and look for your mates.

booqee:
what you are saying is totally different!!!

makydebbie simply reposted what the guy already said to the general public. Many nairalanders already saw the post and would still see it cos it's a public comment. So she bringing it here is not kiss and tell. She is not betraying any confidence because it wasn't said in private to start with. That's what kiss and tell is about..

But your own explanation is different and even funny if i must say. Like you said if my friends know I'm in a relationship with a certain guy but they don't know I have sex with him, and I eventually tel them we have sex then bro that's kiss and tell. I'm gisting them on what they dont know yet..and shouldn't even have any business knowing cos it's a private matter. How is that related to the other scenario?

BurningBlade:
So the thread was about the guys wanting more, not the girl? And with this there's no stereotype. Madam, e be like say you no understand yourself oh. Lol

Thanks for the link @ greiboy. Though I see no much difference between the friend and best friend, neither am I concerned with the 'titles'.

Mariinee:
This one is a testimony. Just because I ignore him, he says I'm a kid.

Mariinee:
You know I won't.I'm not that insensitive and immature And that was clearly a mistake.

You know what? Just shoo off, please.

stanliwise:
You next reply will be ignored

Blackhawk03:


You weren't entirely minding your business, young man. I saw you giving your unsolicited advice to the dude I was in a conversation with... You did, didn't you? You should take your own advice because Marinee was talking to you before you jumped into her convo as well. That seem to be your new year resolution, not entirely a bad one. Be gone!

mhisbliss:
1. they become your enemy when you reject their advances and you suddenly become ugly, some take it as far as harassing and raining obscenities on you.

2. They get intimidated and insecure when you make more money than them, but treat you like a dependent gold digger if you make less or nothing at all.

3. B!tch whenever they spend peanuts on you, and act like they're doing you a favour, you're the one who flaunted your money and offered to spend it on me, should I pay for a date you asked me on? Those who would say my dad doesn't own a rangerover so I shouldn't want a guy who owns one, I'm trying to live more comfortable than my dad, it'll be foolish to seek such lifestyle with a man who's lesser than my dad, common sense.

4. They always ask for your number after every conversation, even harmless ones that has casual written all over it, so they can pester your life.

5. Expect you to always reciprocate their advances or end up coercing and pestering you until you agree, because you asked me out I should just say yes, I might be into someone else, I might be in a relationship, I might not be ready for a relationship, or I simply don't like you, my feeling doesn't have a switch that I can turn it on or off whenever I want.

6. They're always nice for a reason, even when they don't ask for payback outrightly, they'll sure ask for it later on.

7. They mistake every gesture as a greenlight, you smile that's a greenlight, you wave its a greenlight, you reply messages its a greenlight, you don't, you're a proud mannerless snub

8. Give them a mile, they take two, visit them at home, its a go ahead to take it to second base, resist, and you might end up getting raped.

9. Lie amongst themselves that they've dated and even slept with you just to feel fly as they get cheers

10. Assume you're sleeping around as long as it aint them you're sleeping with

11. Take back everything they got you when it was all lovey dovey when things go wrong

12. Get on their bad side and things you did in private is online for everyone, anything just to slut shame you, some even go as far as blackmail, how lowly.

14. kiss and tell

15. seeing girls as intimacy gadgets

16. Using marriage promises to keep her inline, if you know you have no intention of putting the ring(branded handcuff) on it, let her go without wasting her time, its not an achievement or a do or die affair.

17. One lover at a time please, have conscience or grow one.

18. Don't classify all girls as slayqueens, I doubt you even know what it means.

samyfreshsmooth:
after all this long talk we go still see these ladies for shiloh 2050 dey find husband


thats why i stop to dey send all these small small girls cos last last na dem go con find me when menopause done knock for their vagina

Blackhawk03:


Gbam! Thank you!

I remember that thread, I didn't drop much comments because my bestie is a guy and I even have more male friends. But these NL guys, they were jumping upandan asking why "a rat should be kept in the same room with a cat or why a lion should be asked to look after a goat"

These guys will confuse their ancestors if they let them.

I even got into an argument with the supposed knower of woman's mind, the greatest Ubanga and he had the same mentality but they're here saying otherwise now. Chaiiii!

funmisticqueen:
i would use my parents as an example. My mum married my dad when he had nothing, he was just starting out as a young MO, her dad was a retired policeman, i dont know the rank, but it was either mid or high as she was comfortable even though she chose to sponsor herself to school.

Fast forward tonwhen she met my dad. My dad came from a poor home, but he hustled to also send himself to school to study medicine and also take care of his family and he was already comfortable, so by the time my mum met him, yes he was better than my grandfather, in terms of achievements.

How many nigerian men of today can boast of being able to do in 30 years what their wives parents or even their own parents did in 60, no sorry 40 years? Very few.

Before you ask if i have done what my father has achieved in such time frame. My answer is even though i have not gone as far in career as my father has, when i was in each stage, eg med school, i did better than my parents by learning from their mistakes and my desire to be a worthy successor, and i even want my younger siblings to be greater than me and they have shown such promise.

I have travelled to 2 geopolitcal zones in this country and very few men have been able to beat that standard in terms of avhievement. But i am still positve and still hpping they exist on nairaland.
P. S sorry for the long epistle

LuvU2:
Girls stop replying most NL guys they re losers nd a complete waste of time. But if u still want to give them a chance...well keep ur self respect while at it.

#observing still ❤

ibkayee:

greiboy:
where have you been?

I have not noticed your comments on nairaland in a while


So I am guessing you don't agree with the op?

Sugar97:


Ah-ahn...? I replied as soon as I saw it naw

Espada10:
I opened your profile and saw your pic , and I understood why the guy that you claim to be your "best friend" was happy to remain as friend without anything attached.

CeeKay17:

Thank you very much. My mum also married my dad when he nothing. Girls need to realize not everybody can marry into wealth. These things are built over time. I'm not saying anybody should marry into poverty, but ladies shouldn't expect to have the same level of comfort you have in your parent's house when getting married. Any girl that wants a man to be as rich as her father before she marries him is only in for a rude awakening. Except that girl's father is very average anyways then I can understand why she would want something higher.
And just so girls know, you are what you attract. Check out ladies like the Kardashians, Beyonce, Rihannna or Serena Williams. They don't sit on their chairs wishing for a wealthy man to come and rescue them from poverty . Wealthy men naturally come for these type of women by virtue of what they've acheived.

ibkayee:
Lol I definitely agree with OP

LuvU2:
Girls stop replying most NL guys they re losers nd a complete waste of time. But if u still want to give them a chance...well keep ur self respect while at it.

#observing still ❤

Espada10:
I opened your profile and saw your pic , and I understood why the guy that you claim to be your "best friend" was happy to remain as friend without anything attached.

ChiefPiiko:
Look at this Yeye guy, you are a guy using female moniker, you want us to leave the chics for you. No way!

Cladez:
oga boss

pocohantas:


You're the one that doesn't understand yourself.
Once again, guys inadvertently support these stereotypes [this is the main point]. Then I sited a thread as an example. Doesn't that simply mean I found the topic stereotypical? ? Nawa!!

harry2sexy:

It is this "nairaland boys" talk that annoys me.
Nairaland boys is a reflection of the society. Here,u express thoughts that would normally be wrong to say verbally in d present of real people just like you're doing right now,advising ladies you hardly know not to give men a chance

poweredcom:
in rochas voice ashewo


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tzJJycOEUvI