Enough of this sexist nonsense - women over 30 are this, women over 30 are that. This bs is rooted in objectification instead of seeing a woman as a full human being. Man no be God.

Marriage is rooted partriarchy. Today in most developed countries, husband and wife are co bread winners. Partriarchy is dying thr world over... the women above 30 nonsense is rooted in partriarchy. If God gave Esther or Ruth or so a man in old age then who is man?

A woman's youth belongs to her boyfriend or husband; she chooses her style. You cannot dictate to a woman how to use her youth just as she did not dictate urs to you. You are pressing for a woman to get married fast to satisfy the lust of ur own eyes.

Many women are happy to be single even in their 30s. Men need women more than women need men in their 30s. That's the truth because the Bible records that woman was created for man because God thought man would be responsible thru the ages.

If a woman told u she won't date u because u r over 30 how would u feel?

Summary is pls stop railing on the women over 30 are thus or that nonsense as it's not cool.

Thank you.

Abeg, BigBashiru, anybody stop you from marrying as many as you like? Is it by force to marry an old hag? Do women not have their own standards too? When women refuse to marry short, broke, ugly men do you call them out? Do we give them or try to blackmail them emotionally?

A woman's youth belongs to whoever she wishes to give it to. Correct. I agree. A man is also at liberty to choose who he will marry, a damsel or a grandma. You cannot force anybody to marry who they do not like. Or are you saying women can choose to do as they please and men have no such luxury? You dey crase? Abu Ogun wan smite your generation?

Many women are happy to be single in their 30s but you are trying to guilt and force us into marrying these happy single women. Are you mentally deranged? Are men not also happy to marry younger women? What makes a woman's choice more legitimate than a man's?

Who the fûck is this bastãrd OP for fûck's sake?

Belafonte:
Abeg, BigBashiru, anybody stop you from marrying as many as you like? Is it by force to marry an old hag? Do women not have their own standards too? When women refuse to marry short, broke, ugly men do you call them out? Do we give them or try to blackmail them emotionally?

A woman's youth belongs to whoever she wishes to give it to. Correct. I agree. A man is also at liberty to choose who he will marry, a damsel or a grandma. You cannot force anybody to marry who they do not like. Or are you saying women can choose to do as they please and men have no such luxury? You dey crase? Abu Ogun wan smite your generation?

Many women are happy to be single in their 30s but you are trying to guilt and force us into marrying these happy single women. Are you mentally deranged? Are men not also happy to marry younger women?

Who the fûck is this bastãrd OP for fûck's sake?

See how Nigerians make every conversation personal. I do not get personal on public forums. If you want to have a civilized conversation you can repost.

Sorry bro, but what is the point of this thread? Did anyone stop anyone from getting married?

Belafonte:
Abeg, BigBashiru, anybody stop you from marrying as many as you like? Is it by force to marry an old hag? Do women not have their own standards too? When women refuse to marry short, broke, ugly men do you call them out? Do we give them or try to blackmail them emotionally?

A woman's youth belongs to whoever she wishes to give it to. Correct. I agree. A man is also at liberty to choose who he will marry, a damsel or a grandma. You cannot force anybody to marry who they do not like. Or are you saying women can choose to do as they please and men have no such luxury? You dey crase? Abu Ogun wan smite your generation?

Many women are happy to be single in their 30s but you are trying to guilt and force us into marrying these happy single women. Are you mentally deranged? Are men not also happy to marry younger women? What makes a woman's choice more legitimate than a man's?

Who the fûck is this bastãrd OP for fûck's sake?

Why are you getting personal with bastard etc. The African has been proven scientifically to lack EMOTION logic balance. Their countries are all a disgrace to humanity yet the most prideful and egotistical set of human beings.

BigBashiru:

Why are you getting personal with bastard etc. The African has been proven scientifically to lack EMOTION logic balance. Their countries are all a disgrace to humanity yet the most prideful and egotistical set of human beings.

But you first got personal with your own attacks on guys who wouldn't date expired goods. Why do you think you reserve the right to personal attacks? Are you mentally stable at all?

Per the part in bold, it explains your lack of logic in playing men for their own choices while trying to promote female liberty of choice. Is that logical to you?

TonyeBarcanista:
Sorry bro, but what is the point of this thread?

The point of the thread is that women over 30 are ppl too and should not be smeared by name calling or subtle threats that they can't get a man. It's not a good thing.

Having said this it's obviously a lifestyle choice. Men choose the women that work for them and women choose the men that work for them. Fair game.

Belafonte:


But you first got personal with your own attacks on guys who wouldn't date expired goods. Why do you think you reserve the right to personal attacks? Are you mentally stabke at all?

You read an academic thought and took it personally.
Africans remain the most backward set of ppl on earth and it's easy to see why when u see how they think. It's already becoming a fight but I won't engage. I don't engage strangers on public forums nor in personal attacks.

BigBashiru:


The point of the thread is that women over 30 are ppl too and should not be smeared by name calling or subtle threats that they can't get a man. It's not a good thing.

Having said this it's obviously a lifestyle choice. Men choose the women that work for them and women choose the men that work for them. Fair game.

Why speak form both sides of your mouth? You said this

Many women are happy to be single even in their 30s. Men need women more than women need men in their 30s. That's the truth because the Bible records that woman was created for man because God thought man would be responsible thru the ages.

If a woman told u she won't date u because u r over 30 how would u feel?

Summary is pls stop railing on the women over 30 are thus or that nonsense as it's not cool.

Judge yourself. Do you sound sane?

Belafonte:


Why speak form both sides of your mouth? You said this

Many women are happy to be single even in their 30s. Men need women more than women need men in their 30s. That's the truth because the Bible records that woman was created for man because God thought man would be responsible thru the ages.

If a woman told u she won't date u because u r over 30 how would u feel?

Summary is pls stop railing on the women over 30 are thus or that nonsense as it's not cool.

Judge yourself. Do you sound sane?

Please it's not by force to participate in the thread. It's actually a thread created for women participants only. But you have already come here to post.

BigBashiru:

You read an academic thought and took it personally.
Africans remain the most backward set of ppl on earth and it's easy to see why when u see how they think. It's already becoming a fight but I won't engage. I don't engage strangers on public forums nor in personal attacks.

Academic thought is not the same as logical reasoning and conclusion. Socialism is an academic thought yet the entire world has rejected it in favour of capitalism, just to give a living example.

It is a fight because your topic isn't a call for truce but an attempt to foist a gynocentric thought pattern on men. You thought you were onto something profound? You're an intellectual midget with no workable opinions on the subject matter. Perhaps, if you wanted civil discourse, you should start your topic in like manner not a half baked diatribe that only old hags and their protégés would like.

BigBashiru:


The point of the thread is that women over 30 are ppl too and should not be smeared by name calling or subtle threats that they can't get a man. It's not a good thing.

Having said this it's obviously a lifestyle choice. Men choose the women that work for them and women choose the men that work for them. Fair game.

Okay! But society hava a way of having different segment of the population shamed...

Unmarried advanced spinsters are shamed
Women married to poor men are shamed
Poor men that are married are always reminded how they are useless
Broke boys are shamed
Ugly boys are shamed
Fat girls are shamed...

The list is endless...

Morally, it is inappropriate but what can anyone do? Honestly, I see no need for this thread because it won't solve a thing

BigBashiru:

Please it's not by force to participate in the thread. It's actually a thread created for women participants only. But you have already come here to post.

@Belafont
The honourable thing to do will be to stop posting. You have won the ego/ power battle - I've given it to u. U r sane i am insane. We are old women u have ur rights. So now please kindly go away.

BigBashiru:

Please it's not by force to participate in the thread. It's actually a thread created for women participants only. But you have already come here to post.

Then open the damn topic on a women's only forum. Unfortunately for you, nairaland is no such place. You don't get to post a topic and exclude a section of society form participating. Does your method even sound logical to you?

TonyeBarcanista:
Okay! But society hava a way of having a segment of the population shamed...

Unmarried advanced spinsters are shamed
Women married poor men are shamed
Poor men that are married are always reminded how they are useless
Broke boys are shamed
Ugly boys are shamed
Fat girls are shamed...

The list is endless...

Morally, it is inappropriate but what can anyone do? Honestly, I see no need for this thread because it won't solve a thing

It creates awareness that's what it does.

BigBashiru:
Enough of this sexist nonsense - women over 30 are this, women over 30 are that. This bs is rooted in objectification instead of seeing a woman as a full human being. Man no be God.

Marriage is rooted partriarchy. Today in most developed countries, husband and wife are co bread winners. Partriarchy is dying thr world over... the women above 30 nonsense is rooted in partriarchy. If God gave Esther or Ruth or so a man in old age then who is man?

A woman's youth belongs to her boyfriend or husband; she chooses her style. You cannot dictate to a woman how to use her youth just as she did not dictate urs to you. You are pressing for a woman to get married fast to satisfy the lust of ur own eyes.

Many women are happy to be single even in their 30s. Men need women more than women need men in their 30s. That's the truth because the Bible records that woman was created for man because God thought man would be responsible thru the ages.

If a woman told u she won't date u because u r over 30 how would u feel?

Summary is pls stop railing on the women over 30 are thus or that nonsense as it's not cool.

Thank you.

Ogun fire you were.
You want to dictate wat men should do.
Are you mad, if nobody marries expire, tokubo , 10th hand pussy, na my fault?
Blame yourself for you problems and stop blaming the world. Id10t.

Belafonte:


Then open the damn topic on a women's only forum. Unfortunately for you, nairaland is no such place. You don't get to post a topic and exclude a section of society form participating. Does your method even sound logical to you?

You are the man. You have won the power battle. You are right. Nairaland is no such place. I will close the thread shortly. Whatever you say will be done.

The thread is now closed and will continue on a women only forum.

BigBashiru:


@Belafont
The honourable thing to do will be to stop posting. You have won the ego/ power battle - I've given it to u. U r sane i am insane. We are old women u have ur rights. So now please kindly go away.

The honourable thing is to accept your mistake like a man. Move your pathetic attempt at pûssy-huning to a place more inckibed foolishness. As far as you put your thoughts on here, they will be challenged.

The only way I'm going away is if this topic ceases to exist. You expect to just post diatribes and expect we backward menfolk to cower? Think again, missy.

BigBashiru:

You are the man. You have won the power battle. You are right. Nairaland is no such place. I will close the thread shortly. Whatever you say will be done.

The thread is now closed and will continue on a women only forum.

Adios. You won't be missed.

donsimo:


Ogun fire you were.
You want to dictate wat men should do.
Are you mad, if nobody marries expire, tokubo , 10th hand pussy, na my fault?
Blame yourself for you problems and stop blaming the world. Id10t.

The African always starts with an insult. These are a cursed and barbaric set of people.

I will contact the moderator to have the thread closed.

Belafonte:


Adios. You won't be missed.

You are still getting personal. I don't know u and won't go that far. It crossing the line. What is wrong with these ppl.

Okay I wont be missed. You are king.

BigBashiru:

The African always starts with an insult. These are a cursed and barbaric set of people.

I will contact the moderator to have the thread closed.

Please do.
And Ogun fire you, is a prayer.
Say amen

BigBashiru:

The African always starts with an insult. These are a cursed and barbaric set of people.

I will contact the moderator to have the thread closed.

Your lineage is cursed. No wonder you cannot find a man to marry your old ãss. Nobody likes to hang around a curse.

BigBashiru:

You are still getting personal. I don't know u and won't go that far. It crossing the line. What is wrong with these ppl.

Okay I wont be missed. You are king.

Why are you calling me king? I beg you for title?

BigBashiru:

It creates awareness that's what it does.

The awareness is unnecessary as I doubt anyone doesn't know of its existence...


Meanwhile, in your original post you said "men in their 30s need women more than women in their 30s need men", my brother, this narrative is FLAWED

PLEASE THIS THREAD IS NOW CLOSED AND NOT OPEN TO NEW POSTS. I HAVE TRANSFERRED IT TO A WOMEN'S ONLY FORUM.

TonyeBarcanista:

The awareness is unnecessary as I doubt anyone doesn't know of its existence...


Meanwhile, in your original post you said "men in their 30s need women more than women in their 30s need men", my brother, this narrative is FLAWED

It was only a postulation.
I agree it could be flawed.
I was hoping to have a decent civilized conversation e.g. why it's flawed etc. Thanks for at least being civil.

BigBashiru:
Enough of this sexist nonsense - women over 30 are this, women over 30 are that. This bs is rooted in objectification instead of seeing a woman as a full human being. Man no be God.

Marriage is rooted partriarchy. Today in most developed countries, husband and wife are co bread winners. Partriarchy is dying thr world over... the women above 30 nonsense is rooted in partriarchy. If God gave Esther or Ruth or so a man in old age then who is man?

A woman's youth belongs to her boyfriend or husband; she chooses her style. You cannot dictate to a woman how to use her youth just as she did not dictate urs to you. You are pressing for a woman to get married fast to satisfy the lust of ur own eyes.

Many women are happy to be single even in their 30s. Men need women more than women need men in their 30s. That's the truth because the Bible records that woman was created for man because God thought man would be responsible thru the ages.

If a woman told u she won't date u because u r over 30 how would u feel?

Summary is pls stop railing on the women over 30 are thus or that nonsense as it's not cool.

Thank you.

As for me when I am ready to get married the only age requirement for me will be - I must at least be older than her.

Everyone has their tastes, some like them young, some like them old. You can't force your opinion on everyone.

That notwithstanding I see nothing wrong with ladies over 30. Some are still very yummy , like some in my office. So, every-man to his own brother

BigBashiru:
PLEASE THIS THREAD IS NOW CLOSED AND NOT OPEN TO NEW POSTS. I HAVE TRANSFERRED IT TO A WOMEN'S ONLY FORUM.

When we no longer are able to post, then can the thread be considered closed. We don't rely on the words of a professional sophist to tell us anything of significance. Move on to your other place and do your thing.

In general I don't deal with barbarians and savages so this thread is closed. No more new posts.

efesodje:


As for me when I am ready to get married the only age requirement for me will be - I must at least be older than her.

Everyone has their tastes, some like them young, some like them old. You can't force your opinion on everyone.

That notwithstanding I see nothing wrong with ladies over 30. Some are still very yummy , like some in my office. So, every-man to his own brother

I was not forcing any opinion it was only an opinion. The reader reserves the right to accept or reject it.

Belafonte:


When we no longer are able to post, then can the thread be considered closed. We don't rely on the words of a professional sophist to tell us anything of significance. Move on to your other place and do your thing.

Okay.

I will now no longer reply to ur messages so as not to get personal. If u have personal issues they are YOUR PROBLEM.