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Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Chaclaitmilk(m): 7:51am On Apr 09, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: Ok oga. You have won the argument. This part took me out. You win. |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Nobody: 5:13pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk: No they don't... people don't change they just show you their true colours and that's why getting to know someone before marrying them is important. I still think there are trust issues here and lack of communication. Hence you going over his head and creating this thread. It's not a good look. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Unik3030: 10:29pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk:now I understand, it's an igbo setting Abeg let her do it cos this same thing u are afraid of happened to my cousin few years back. her husband died n d family threw d widow n children out without considering there welfare or means of survival. at first they told her they will do spiritual cleansing that she has to leave the house for 3 months, she agreed. to everyone greatest surprise few weeks after she left d house d husband's family don take over sharp sharp. she was thrown out n she was not given anything 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by NdiaraIGBO: 10:32pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk: So your father is or was a THIEF! I Smell corruption. ..AWON OLE! 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by somehow: 10:33pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
The woman is actually the dangerous person here. Can't be trusted cos she surely have an interior motive MrBrownJay1: 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by somehow: 10:33pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Your sister is actually after the papers so that she can dirvorce the man and have total access to the children. Your sister's mindset alone says alot about her person. Chaclaitmilk: 10 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Nobody: 10:33pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk Op, you're a charlatan and you're also one of the reasons why this marriage will crash. Seeing that your father is richer than Dangote and Abacha family combined why did your sister bother getting married in the first place. Since when did church marriages cease being legal in Nigeria? You have come to a public forum to denigrate and insult your inlaw. Do you think we will all raise our hands in applause and commend you for not minding your business? Your sister is another unwholesome human being - why is she afraid of her kids being taken away from her? Does she perhaps have her own issues? All this family members that don't respect themselves sha. 14 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Dottore: 10:38pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk: How I wish I find myself in this kind of situation. I will boldly tell her to forget about the court marriage or get the hell out of my life. Nobody can pressure me into doing their bid especially when I'm sure I have no ill intention. She's probably looking for a ticked to be disrespectful to her hubby knowing fully well that the court marriage is designed to favour the woman. Igbos say the palm fruit doesn't bear fruit for someone who knows how to make oil. How I wish I'm the man. Nonsense 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Nobody: 10:38pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk: You were sent here to tease out information that will be used to manipulate a fellow man. Don't worry, my only prayer is that your marriage will be a living hell. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Doctorfitz: 10:42pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Well he should get a prenuptial, a water tight one, she should sign then let's go ahead with the court marriage.. Smh ... Contact each others lawyers, simple let's officially make this contract a "contract". 7 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Nobody: 10:42pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk: So because he is an easy going person you have enough reason to arm-twist him into doing what he doesn't want to do. The more I read your stupid defenses, the angrier I get. Don't let the spirits dance surugede on your head. 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by allanphash7(m): 10:43pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Her husband is a wise man now 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Nobody: 10:43pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk:Bro just tell ur sister to convince him to change his next of kin to her or her children instead of this court marriage that might cause a crack by him thinking she has some other ulterior motive. His will also should be changed to her if he or the kids if they have one. The above two are also effective way to secure the future for her and her kids I will never engage in court wedding but I will immediately change my next of kin after my marriage unknowingly to my wife. I will arrange my "WILL" also with my lawyer without informing my wife too. So imagine if I marry someone like ur sister, won't she be fighting in vain to force me into court marriage? |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by onatisi(m): 10:45pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk:but i dont think there is need for any court wedding once they can do the church wedding . not all churches are empower under the law to conduct marriages but those who have that authority and issue a marriage certificate , such certificates are equally legally binding just as the court marriage certificate . court wedding or marriages is usually done when the couple dont have much time due to one reason or the other and secondly to cut cost 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Moboj: 10:46pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Nawa for Nigerians Someone will jejely ask for advice,they'll make him talk the one they'll use to curse him Village people are on Nairaland They follow you everywhere you go 15 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by nabegibeg: 10:55pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk:your wedding needs to be validate by the law of the land ( which is the FG) madam your sister's husband has skeleton in his cupboard She needs to validate her wedding in line with FG guidelines or else if anything happens to the husband, heaven forbids, she will lose everything you both worked for that is in his name to his husband family. if both of you must own property he must put it in your name or both of you must be signatory to it 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Moboj: 10:55pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk:Op there are Churches that their marriage process is both Court and Church like City Of David if she can't make them join somehow,tell her to calm down and sweet talk him into doing it,one will have to be real calm for the other to hear,to stop a wild fire from spreading further go and brush the bushes farther into the edges,patience,wisdom in talking can make him succumb to her wish just like Esther |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by owillowill: 11:00pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
What else does she want again. We Africans and our yeye mentality; a woman saying she wants court wedding for the fear of been thrown out. So she's expecting to be thrown out soon abi wetin....unnecessary drama Where they suppose to be using love, they'll now be using law. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Nobody: 11:00pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
KOPT33: Calm down dear. Not all churches conduct marriages that are recognised by law. Not every woman means harm too, with all the things we read...I won't blame any woman that pushes for registry marriage. I don't even think it's that profitable financially, I have never seen or read of any woman that cashed out of it in Nigeria. Most do it to avoid polygamy and to protect their kids, in event of death or separation. 10 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by santricedupas(m): 11:03pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
am in support of the husband, d guy know weting him eye don suffer for this life, after acquiring all the property after like 4 yrs of court marriage, the wife go start to dey misbehave anyhow, them go go court judge go tell them make them divorce aand share the guy property when we no dey for usa or France.My guy I dey with you jare 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by HumanistMike(m): 11:07pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
He's a smart man. Men have no rights in court issued marriages. It's all about the woman. Guys, ever wondered what documents are signed in courts during marriage? Ever wondered how it affects you? Why are the details of that document hidden from the public? The answer is, that document is misandric. It protects ONLY THE WOMAN. No smart man will marry in court. A man's refusal to marry in court must not be linked to his desire to be polygamous. It can be simply due to his desire to protect himself, which is supposed to be common sense after all! Infact, since your sister is richer than him, a court marriage will be the best bet if he wants to take your sister's money or inheritance. The man doesn't care about your sister's or family's money. He is his own man and he does what he does. @Chaclaitmilk hope this answers your question. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by immortal145: 11:08pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
people don't really change, they only bcome a better versions of themselves...QED |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by menix(m): 11:09pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
OP, since ur papa get money that can go 10 generations, do. U ve another sister I can marry Nd I ensure u that there would be a court wedding... 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by luminouz(m): 11:09pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
It's really disheartening to read all these drama cuz of marriage. I mean these guys just wedded n already d marriage pillars are shaking D wife is well-to-do but had trust issues n d husband has ego issues.....my question is...why waste money at all for church wedding n reception?? So much insecurities flying upandan in a marriage so young!!! It's never by force to marry biko!!! 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by trulybenjay001: 11:14pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Dear sister, are u married? |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Lexusgs430: 11:17pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk: Court/registry marriage simply put is the legal stamp that joins them together legally...... Church marriage is simply for your church members, friends, enemies etc etc etc and your God........ 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Temple1288(m): 11:20pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Wonderful! The both you and your sister seem to be business partners. Your intentions are already known. My advice is this, Court marriage doesn't make a man love his wife more, it even makes the man keep loads of secrets. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Sunnynwa: 11:24pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk: How is court marriage a welfare issue? 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Edunwa302(m): 11:29pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Chaclaitmilk:So why re you here 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by petenweke: 11:45pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
The man don't want court period! Let your sister remain a spinster na. BTW how old is she now? 1 Like |
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