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Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by samuel19222(m): 12:00am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Collins0609: no mínd am joor 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 12:00am On Apr 17, 2018 |
IamD18:Fine sir kedu maka orlu kwanu |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by NovusHomo(m): 12:02am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Ezkid: Poco a poco, la madre esta loca. Poco a poco. El sangre de Jesus Christo! |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Evince(m): 12:02am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Collins0609: U just lied. The summary of her statement is the fuckery of her new faith which has brainwashed her mum into believing that synthetics are sinful to wear on d hair. Those stupid pastors failed to let her realize that clothe is also an attachment. What she is crying of has nothing to do with whether mother is valuable or not. I kid u not if ur mother is a nuisance, u will wish u never met her. Mother or no mother, we are all human and hv emotions. besides she didn't curse her mum she is concerned with her recent attitude that's why she is shouting. My dear open Bible and teach ur mother what those pastors lied to her about. Engage her in conversation logically. It will take time to speak sense back into her but with patience and good humor u will win her back from church 4 Likes |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by VULCAN(m): 12:03am On Apr 17, 2018 |
So the mum bears no responsibility for her actions. Typical African mentality you have-Never accepting responsibility for ones affairs Earthbound: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by MrFly(m): 12:04am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Whats d name of d church she attends? 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by IamD18: 12:05am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by NovusHomo(m): 12:05am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Ezkid: Its all Daddy GO's fault. You see what these liars are doing to families?! |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Originalsly: 12:06am On Apr 17, 2018 |
@Op..... I'm not at all in the medical field..... but from what you wrote...I strongly believe your mother is suffering from a mental disorder. The best approach is for your family to have her diagnosed. ..and for all of you to read up on that disease so you can anticipate and understand her behaviour....and be in a much better position to manage her. For now...I advise you Google Alzheimers Disease/Dementia . ... and to be more specific Psychosis. Whatever medication is prescribed... research its side effects before deciding if she should take it. Knowledge is power....seek it. |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Nobody: 12:08am On Apr 17, 2018 |
VULCAN: Please don't quote me if you have nothing sensible to say. |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by NovusHomo(m): 12:08am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Collins0609: What da Fak?! |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Nobody: 12:08am On Apr 17, 2018 |
MrFly: Gbam!!!!!!! Some churches instill paranoia leading to hysteria in their very dedicated members. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Ganjafama(m): 12:08am On Apr 17, 2018 |
OneCorner:Your username tells how childish and immature you are. 3 Likes |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 12:09am On Apr 17, 2018 |
IamD18:I know you're back that's why I asked Ordimma e ma ortu monday ce ya di oru erbenine |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Ezkid(m): 12:15am On Apr 17, 2018 |
victorian:I thought u said you're done commenting on my post? who's harbouring hatred among us now?? You carry my problem for head like agege gala, what a useless hoe! Go hug transformer or better still drink methylated spirit and die like a fowl if u re so pained about what I wrote up there. Smello 4 Likes |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by IamD18: 12:15am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen:Which kyn Chinese igbo you de type U de burst my head 1 Like
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Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Ezkid(m): 12:19am On Apr 17, 2018 |
MrFly:She became born again at holy savior gospel church but right now she's a member of CAC 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 12:22am On Apr 17, 2018 |
IamD18:I nor say you go laugh can speak it fluently but sucks at writing onye ara |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by kense88: 12:24am On Apr 17, 2018 |
victorian:My friend your talking rubbish. Someone stopped working in her early 30 and you think is cool. That's how you promote laziness among your kind. You should be at your peak and very productive at your early 30 whether your a man or woman. Op my advise to you, is to try and take her to hospital. She is your mum and she needs your support now. 5 Likes |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Nobody: 12:25am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Ezkid: Visit a federal psychiatric hospital n consult a good doctor. Find members of the family that can convince her. She's got acute Depression. She will be better after she receives medication. |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by oloriT(f): 12:25am On Apr 17, 2018 |
dunno why they leave hairdressing when they become born again. seen a case like this. being born again doesn't mean you shouldn't or can't do a job as long as the job is legal. sorry to say but I feel your mum is being too religious coupled with what she is being taught in the church she attends. it's like acting like those Pharisees in the Bible 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Ezkid(m): 12:26am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Evince:Its so ridiculous how the women here think I hate my mom, I guess they dont know what hatred is all about, someone who hates u would not want a solution to ur problem, my mom allowed herself to be brainwashed and it has badly affect the family, how im I going to take care of her when she's jeopardizing my odds of becoming successful? No one! I repeat, No one can ever understand what im passing through unless he or she has been there. 5 Likes |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by MrHandsome2013: 12:27am On Apr 17, 2018 |
some mothers deserve severe punishment and tortue...my mum is a case study......coz of her i wasted many opportunities and years...each time i see her i feel like tearing her apart..some of my class mates are graduates while i am still strugling.....is time to wage war against sex starves women and men that think marriage is all about giving birth to children without having future plan for them....that is why crimes are everywhere 6 Likes |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Ezkid(m): 12:30am On Apr 17, 2018 |
oloriT:Yes all her sisters talked to her about her decision then but she proceeded to sell off all her equipments and quitted completely, when the going was good, we were the first person to owned a tv set in our neighborhood when it was still very expensive, that shows how ok we were before she made that terrible mistake. |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Ganjafama(m): 12:35am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Ezkid:Easy dude.I know you are hurting. But you have to take it easy. Learn to ignore certain things. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by IamD18: 12:35am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: Lol Ajebo baby shaa |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by GODovaerrethin: 12:35am On Apr 17, 2018 |
your mom obviously needs a very strong tuberous pissing-thing to cure her crase.... |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Ezkid(m): 12:36am On Apr 17, 2018 |
kense88:Don't mind that yeye Victorian, she keep saying I hate my mom, im ungrateful this and that, ungrateful about what exactly? Its not my choice to be brought into the world its her choice, its also her choice to stopped working without considering the effect it would have on her children, when u don't come from a good background, when u don't have good parents who can take good care of you and invest in your education, then your chances of becoming successful is very slim. Bringing innocent children into this world isn't the height of parents responsibility. Taking good care of them is. 7 Likes |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by funmike83(f): 12:37am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Ajisebioyolaari: Yes you are true, the mum must be suffering in silence which unfortunately the children that are to support her have been brain washed by their dad and the 2nd wife. 80% of women in psychiatric hospital today are there because of what men did to them. How can the Dad marry a second wife in a rented apartment and still sat it is because the mother is not working he is unable to send the kids to school but he has the money to marry a second wife. Please don't forget the fact that they must have dated for long before eventually bringing the woman in . only God knows wat they did to your mum. The op is actually not talking likely matured dude. If care is not taken , you will never get anytging good from your dad courtesy the new wife. Stand up and fight for your mother and please take care of her. I use to think my mum was mean toy Dad when I was young, until later when I got married , she later sat me down to tell all wat she faced. Please I am sure she has a lot to say. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Nobody: 12:40am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Many people here are emotional instead of being logical. for a women to take church seriously than taking care of her household shows that her church is more important than the welfare of her children.in my opinion she failed as a parent. I have seen this occurrence common among many women members of deeper life,redeem and mountain of fire,chosen etc,many of this women run from mountains to islands for prayers instead of facing their problems and solving it.the cause of over religiousness is mental illness,you yourself wont know it,this is not also common among religious people but also among educated and illiterate people,people who are too emotional for you to give them reasons through facts,they are always in denial,that is why a pastor in america called Jim Jones was able to deceive his members into mass death by taking poison. to be fair with you,i understand what you are going through and i will say your mother disappointed you,it is not easy especially for you to work hard only or you to use the money on her and your siblings instead of yourself.it is the responsibility of both parents to take care of their children until they are mature enough to earn,your father also is not reliable,he is more interested in sex than you guys. Many Nigerian parent have failed their children,once a parent put self-fish act before the welfare of a child,it shows irresponsibility.both parents are self fish and i wish they could see the damage they are doing to their children because if all was good,he wont be on nairaland complaining. i will advice,you do all possible stuff to make her stop going to that church,the more she attends,the more she become worst,it will be surprising to you that she gives your hard earn money to the pastor,who goes on to better his own life while she suffers. secondly,you need to stop sending money to her until she agrees to stop going to that church. also you need to make her see reality,a man hope is to be better than his parent not be like them,you cant continue to live like this,please save for your future. she has two legs and two hands and she is walking well,she needs to start doing something with her life,some times you need to make people uncomfortable for them to start seeing the truth 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by Ezkid(m): 12:42am On Apr 17, 2018 |
funmike83:Putting myself into my Dads shoe . I too would get another wife if my first wife tried what my mom did, they were married for 25 years without something like that until my mom chose to become a liability, when my dad was not paid his salary and he's struggling to make ends meet, that was when that wretched woman took advantage of him, everything wouldn't have turned out the way it is if my mom continue being supportive. 1 Like |
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