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Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Martin0(m): 1:46pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Many women who are single and in their late. 30s today never saw it coming. They had a plan: finish their first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32. Of course, nature always laughs back at their fantastic attempt to dictate the pace of their lives. Over the years, they turn down potential husbands, go on a partying spree like they have frozen time, only to arrive at 37 with nothing to show for it other than money in the bank, a car, and sometimes a child from a relationship that never quite worked. So, now they are stuck in a phase where they will never find a man of their dreams and have to settle for any man who will be gracious enough to even suggest marriage. By now, all those flimsy and shallow standards they used to have are gone, humility is their second name. I have seen many women in their 20s buy into the misguided, feminist belief that men and marriage are bad for their academic and career advancement. What feminism does not factor in is that the older a woman get, the less a chance she stands of marrying someone desirable. It is a fact of life, not a chauvinistically inspired thought. Very few men would marry a 35-year-old woman who is independent and opinionated when we live in a highly hypergamous (act of marrying someone wealthier than you) society. There are plenty of young and hot beautiful women ready to settle into a marriage where they play the second fiddle as long as the man provides. It is good to be ambitious, even better to break the stupid glass ceilings, but at what price? Bottom line, at some point, you will need a man in your life. Granted there are lesbians and some who are not interested in marriage, but my experience with older single women has proven that they mostly live a life full of regrets. Today, let me share with you the signs that a woman is likely to end up single, and lonely, and probably a pet keeper: 1. She values education and career over marriage and relationship. 2. At age 28, she has more liquor in her refrigerator than fruits and vegetables. 3. At age 27, she’s quaffing neat whiskies like a sailor. 4. She’s into cigarette smoking, or in worst case scenario, addicted to weed. 5. Her idea of fun at age 30 is a night out with the girls. 6. At age 30, she still insists on only dating a tall, dark and handsome guy who is monied and with a six-pack to boot. 7. The idea of cooking for a man is a total turn-off to her. 8. She has never forgiven her father for abusing her mother, or her first boyfriend used to abuse her and she now thinks every man is violent and controlling. 9. She is so much into fashion, and her fortnightly combined expenditure on manicure, pedicure and hair-styling is enough to settle one month’s rent for a three-bedroom house in South . 10. She is turned on more by boardroom politics than the the pleasurable and humane joys of holding her baby. 11. She can’t imagine giving birth naturally and would rather opt for a Caesarian section, and as far as she is concerned, breastfeeding is a three-week exercise before the kids are introduced to formula. 12. She owns more pants than skirts at the age of 30. 13. She loves having multiple sex partners. 14. Her job involves a lot of travelling and she not even 30 yet. 15. She can easily find a parking spot at a packed nightclub than her way to church. 16. She believes in absolute equality in marriage without any sacrifice or compromise #exclusivelybae# |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by AmazonTopaz(f): 1:55pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Nonsense *spits* *leaves thread* 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Kinggnicole(f): 2:09pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Lol There's so many things wrong with your post and those who know, know. Girls whatever choice you make or whatever is your preference just know that your career can't wake up one day and tell you he don't love you no more. 3 Likes |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Martin0(m): 2:22pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Kinggnicole: I don't do average |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Jentle244: 2:34pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
In summary you are talking about Feminists 1 Like |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:26pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
@OP 1 Like
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Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by gede7744(f): 7:27pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Martin have it ever come to your notice or awareness that there are some unseen forces responsible for some of these delay you mention? some ladies don't even have any of the things you listed yet they are 37 upward yet nothing is working and they keep wondering who they offended |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by MISEDUCATIONS: 9:52pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
the usual female monikers cheering martin0 are predictably missing on this thread. looooooooolzz 1 Like |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Nobody: 10:00pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
op are you sure you ain't describing a nairalander |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Martin0(m): 10:11pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
gede7744: hia Na wa for u ooo |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Martin0(m): 10:16pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
greiboy: dem go attack you ooo |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 10:18pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Martin0: young man, single ladies aren't complaining. it's not a must for ladies to get married. who gives a fvck about a man's provision? you're very stupid for creating this useless thread 4 Likes |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 10:24pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Martin |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Martin0(m): 10:43pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1: hia na wa ooooo see this small girl ooo this issue never reach to dey insult me oo, but anyway happy Saturday |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Martin0(m): 10:46pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen:eh kedu wetin make u open mouth |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 10:54pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Martin0:I wanted to bash the op but I found out it was you..... Why are you starting to sound disrespectful.... which is not expected from you |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by highpriestess: 10:58pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
truck of balderdash.you don't dictate to someone how they should live their lives cos you think you have tiny balls dangling in between your legs. nonsesne and ingredient. 1 Like |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Martin0(m): 10:58pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: eh disrespectful kwa, abeg point out one othe things I mentioned that sounds disrespectful to "woman " with prove /clear explanation Oo! |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Martin0(m): 11:02pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
highpriestess: Na wa ooo, why u dey always use alt? this matter never reach to dey insult op ooo But una still dey fucvkup sha, no woman here don talk or prove op wrong here una sabi vex sha |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 11:04pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Martin0:You're being sarcastic here don't know maybe you're doing it here for the guys to Hale you |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 11:08pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Martin0: BosŠLady: 1 Like |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Martin0(m): 11:11pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: This is clearly your opinion! And am fine with you saying what you have @ heart! women and men are problem! But I wonder? who got more chai the op voiced out something which might be regarded as sometimes "opinion " here you are, you can't even prove such wrong! I greet una ooo! |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Martin0(m): 11:15pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1: hia na wa ooo hahahahah hahahahah hahahahah am dying here ur own drama is bae u go need to drink pure cold sarchet water to cool this ur your temper wait oo age kwa hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 11:15pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Martin0:Everything thing up there is wrong |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Martin0(m): 11:18pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: oya prove it step by step and if Nairalanders agree to it, the topic will go down #i promise # Lefulefu bear witness oo |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 11:27pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Martin0:Nobody here agrees with what you're saying so you're wrong |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Twoclans(f): 11:39pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Staggers into the thread, takes a look and strolls out. No comment. |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 11:48pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: leave the broke man |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 11:50pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1:Biko leave him he's my darling that's why I didn't call him names |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by deedy111: 11:57pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
I agree, op your head dey dier |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 12:17am On Apr 22, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: lol... he isn't serious |
Re: Signs Why She Will End Up As A Single Mum Or Lady!!! by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 12:22am On Apr 22, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: biacan stop giving broke guys hope biko |
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