franchasng:
Omotola's hubby go don taya for her thing tehteh self...he's just sticking around....if given option to change woman without Omotola fighting back, he would do that....men de quick taya for their wife something faster than women get tired of their hubby something....its only when men remember the sacrifice their wife has paid, the pretty kids she gave birth to for them and what family and society would say if they run, if not, majority of men all over the world for de run leave their wives after say 10 - 15 years of marriage

That's why most aged whitemen are either divorced, single or alone....they divorce their wives once she starts to approach 45 - 50 and go for younger ladies...check most rich white guys, that's what they do...leaving their wives to now run to poor African boys online for internet romance....which leads to the pictures of grannies and small Naija boys getting married at Ikoyi registry u often see lol...its a crazy world,

SoapQueen:
Dayum! Someone tell her to calm down, she is still hurting and very upset. Don't embarass yourself like this because of a man, Girl!

mattsejuro:

Sup dear.. Hw much does ur liquid soap cost?

lefulefu:
not look but how they behave. He refuses taking u to his home,he doesn't want u meeting any of his close siblings like brother,father uncle etc. Is he fond of having his phonecalls in secret when he's with u?..who could he be talking with on the phone? Is he bold enough to flaunt the relationship he's having with u?...these are part of the signs that could give u a whole lot of revelations. Follow the signs and ur eyes will be opened. Don't be blinded by the gifts or Assurance he purchases for u.

Preshy561:
and look, the guys above me are totalllllly mad.

and then,the one directly above me is a perverted mad man.

somegirl1:


Some single men are guilty of the above.
What prevents a man whose wife or serious girlfriend lives in a different city or country from doing the above? Family and friends are generally loyal and will usualky not out a philanderer.
My point is, things aren't always black or white; there are grey areas to consider.

lefulefu:
friends would cover him up but family would never do such. Tell me which sane mother would sit down and say nothing if she notices her married son is busy fooling around and spending on sidechics while ignoring his wife and kids.so for u to know where u stand on the relationship insist on him taking u on a visit to see his parents. If he's a married man less see if he will bold to introduce to his parents as his girlfriend or wife to be. Its a simple issue. No married man can completely hide his marital status.its not as easy as that. Its jus dat a number of ladies are ready to close their eyes to the obvious signs cos of what they benefiting from the man.its like an ostrich sticking its head in the sand.

somegirl1:


Mothers are also human and can be bad or weak. Some might advise their sons privately but won't tell either woman anything; happened to a friend.
In a scenario where a mother is absent, you think a father or an uncle will warn the women in involved?

lefulefu:
look,all i am seeing is dat when u want to get into a serious relationship with a man try to know about his personal ish. Ask about his family...tell him u would like to see them. Try notice his reaction. If he tries to dodge the issue then that's a big red flag. He has something to hide. Man wey get open mind and im love u to the core...no be u go even request to see im ppl. Na im go carry u go show im papa. He will always be happy to be with u.he will flaunt u as his woman. Not the one that secretly visits u at night or meets u in a secluded area. Dat one no be ur guy.he belongs to someone else and he's just dere for the sex. And as for weak mothers...well a married man in the first place would never make the mistake of introducing u to his mom.dats crazy..lol. If he's married and u suggest about seeing his mom..he will always make up an excuse. But for a single man with sidechics .. Dat one will be another Tory for another day.

aristocrazzy:
We need to be logical here : According to her post they've only been talking, she never mentioned having sex with him or dating each other..
My point is this girl is totally wrong to have disgraced this man.

PrettySleek:
May u guys not encounter a liar in your lives!

Only then will u understand, so because her breast is outside she deserves to be maltreated?

U guys should learn to reason things out before u talk, if u don't love somebody, u know u are never going to be with them, don't waste their time.

Some Nigerian men do this a lot, dem no dey wear ring, some even work in another state, away from their families. If some people pretend, u can never know.

It's just God that is saving us o.

Preshy561:

I have no word for you guys supporting the atrocities that's raving around, but onething is sure;the resolutions shall continue,and there will be a time the both genders shall be served equally.

Preshy561:

lmao,onye otu.

Preshy561:

atleast,you agreed that things will eventually change.

somegirl1:


Even if slay queens were a different species who have no feelings and enjoy being tricked into being the side-chick, what about the feelings of the "marriageable" ladies who get the ring but have been cheated on? Inconsequential?
Men need to understand that hurt more than one person when they do these things. Both the one you cheat on and the one you cheat with are someone's child, someone's little girl.

LadyHeaven:


sweetheart please just pray your paths never cross hardcore heartless people nah then you go know say something concern conductor with overload

lefulefu:
but Roman Goddess have marry na

somegirl1:


Understood, but my point is that while the things you've mentioned are great pointers, they may not apply in every situation. Some men are professional philanderers, some have kept and been fully functional in multiple families for years. Others are enabled by their circumstances e.g. Wife /girl friend lives abroad so side-chick can even move in.
We have a culture of blaming the victim in Nigeria; the side-chick who didn't knowingly sign up to be a side piece is a victim, the main chick is also a victim.
The culprit who should not be involved with two women at the same time is absolved of the crime in many cases. It's sometimes hard to sympathise with men who "jam" crazy women that cause them physical harm as payback.

MIKOLOWISKA:
is the husband reasonable?

lefulefu:
very true sha. Some men do have their families located abroad hence they have all the time to cheat around but this occur on rare occasion. one thing about most married men is they don't lie about their status. The few that lie still get caught. A lady here just posted about a married police officer who was asking her out and denying being married but she eventually found out. So u see wat we saying.most sidechics in Nigeria who date married men know they are dating a married man.is it not in this same nl i saw a story about one married man whose wife went on an oversea trip and this guy invited his sidechic to his marital home to look after the kids while the wife was away.most sidechics involved in it know they are with married men.

MIKOLOWISKA:
so?
we're talking sex you're talking grammar

comrChris:
you too where did you see nude photos? Or you want to add your own too

somegirl1:



Perhaps one day, when you have daughters, granddaughters, great granddaughters, nieces etc, you'll be "talking grammar" while someone else will be "talking sex"

comrChris:
you too where did you see nude photos? Or you want to add your own too

lefulefu:
its a Lebanese business man.is a contract marriage though.

somegirl1:


I don't know about most, but many know they're dating taken men. They aren't the ones I've been referring to.

MIKOLOWISKA:
why are you having sex without marriage or spending on woman not your wife? Abegi clear road

lefulefu:
any married man who lies about his status to a girl is a big coward. He should be bold enough to admit his marital status to a girl ..so dat the girl will be able to make up her mind to remain or leave.