Rosay15:
Bt dere is sumtin I don't understand in we ladies.. If u are dating guy does it mean u shd put all ur burden on him... Cus I dnt get.. Some ladies now turn relationship to buz center.. Issokay

Wife material spotted

My broda na the same ting i face o,I've Neva been lucky,I don give up sef

yabas:




So who's the mugu now? Its things u do for love so most times u won't mind. Just that people naturally get tired when its becoming excessive.

Also I observe that guys keep these expenses secret. But honestly this thing is getting out of hands, imagine, my very good friend who is doing well left a girl he was considering settling down with because of her selfish attitude of excessive demands, they had gone far but the guy still left.

your life, your choice.
when you were giving her money anyhow in the first place, don't you know they're gonna take advantage of it?


BTW your friend... he wanted to marry a jobless lady?

SmellySperm:
My broda na the same ting i face o,I've Neva been lucky,I don give up sef

Bro.. there are many matured 27years+ ladies that are independent.. they're very many

I think you're deliberating choosing those dependent ladies.

girls will always be girls..............whether dependent or independent


they'll always demand something from the guy they're dating......................be it spiritual, physical or emotional


what you need to do is "work on yourself"


you dont always have to give in to their demands


to succeed in a relationship and reduce damage, always put and have this golden rule at the back sorry front of your mind:


"NEVER DO FOR ANY LADY WHAT YOU CAN'T DO OR HAVEN'T DONE FOR YOUR MOM OR SISTERS OR FEMALE GUARDIAN OR GRANDMA!"

yabas:
. AMEN but seriously its not even about her being rich, if she's ok and can pay her won bills, I am fine with that.

Oga any lady that is not impecunious won't ask you for money also financial dependent ladies is likely refers as broke ladies, broke is redefinition of poor ....and remember the opposite of poor is rich.

Once again I break this umbilical cord of perpetual attraction with you and poor girls.... Let the grace to detect them from yonder come upon you

yabas:
The reason why I opened this tread is to know if other guys are experiencing same.

Bro, it's a general problem guys experience, you can hardly date a girl who won't make demands, it doesn't necessarily mean they are "poor" though, cos there are working class ladies earning decent salaries and still make demands from their partners.

As a guy, just know when to draw the line and place limits on it.

samyfreshsmooth:
girls will always be girls..............whether dependent or independent


they'll always demand something from the guy they're dating......................be it spiritual, physical or emotional


what you need to do is "work on yourself"


you dont always have to give in to their demands


to succeed in a relationship and reduce damage, always put and have this golden rule at the back sorry front of your mind:


"NEVER DO FOR ANY LADY WHAT YOU CAN'T DO OR HAVEN'T DONE FOR YOUR MOM OR SISTERS OR FEMALE GUARDIAN OR GRANDMA!"

Some fools can't spend up to 100k on their mothers and sisters in a year but they can spend more than 300k on their girlfriends in a couple of months.

I don't just understand the kind of life some guys are living.

myke92:


Bro, it's a general problem guys experience, you can hardly date a girl who won't make demands, it doesn't necessarily mean they are "poor" though, cos there are working class ladies earning decent salaries and still make demands from their partners.

As a guy, just know when to draw the line and place limits on it.

you lie. try dating working class ladies that are above 27/28 years old.
They won't make unnecessary demands from you.

the problem with you guys is; the preference for young girls"
you guys should note that these young girls are still dependent and many are from poor homes.

Elder001:


young man there are ladies who're like that.

oga..y are u all over the thread naa ?e be like say those girls don't do u strong thing

nikkypearl:
oga..y are u all over the thread naa ?e be like say those girls don't do u strong thing

perhaps

jwals:
Sorry, just that from the beginning if has being so, even if they no demand, he should be worried ooooo lol, because anoder person fit dey help you service her needsooo, SO SEARCHING FOR A GIRL DAT DOES NOT DEMAND, MY FRIEND NA ULTIMATE SEARCH BE THAT!!!

NL guys too funny

Elder001:



Some fools can't spend up to 100k on their mothers and sisters in a year but they can spend more than 300k on their girlfriends in a couple of months.

I don't just understand the kind of life some guys are living.

the most pathetic thing about it all is that some of these guys are well to do.......................and instead of spending on the women who were with them from infancy, they end up spending lavishly on some random sorry ass loser lady [7erom]


the poor once sef wh6 still spend their meagre earnings on some [p] lady are a lost cause [hope]................these ones are cursed

Elder001:



you lie. try dating working class ladies that are above 27/28 years old.
They won't make unnecessary demands from you.

the problem with you guys is; the preference for young girls"
you guys should note that these young girls are still dependent and many are from poor homes.

WORD, I think you are right there. Its not about preference as such, I just think these younger girls are easily approachable and always ready to mingle so lots of guys drift towards them. I don't mind 28 or 30 but they are USUALLY MARRIED OR IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP.

samyfreshsmooth:



the most pathetic thing about it all is that some of these guys are well to do.......................and instead of spending on the women who were with them from infancy, they end up spending lavishly on some random sorry ass loser lady [7erom]


the poor once sef wh6 still spend their meagre earnings on some [p] lady are a lost cause [hope]................these ones are cursed

I'm telling you bro.

yabas:
[/b] WORD, I think you are right there. Its not about preference as such, I just think these younger girls are easily approachable and always ready to mingle so lots of guys drift towards them. I don't mind 28 or 30 but they are USUALLY MARRIED OR IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP.

Most ladies that are above 27years are more matured physically, emotionally and spiritually.

They are more sensible in handling relationships not all these childish girls.

Try dating a working class lady that is above 28 bro you'll enjoy the relationship.
not all are married.. just that they're more focused, they're not cheap .

most guys always complaining about girls demanding anyhow from them are dating young girls.
young girls don't have anything to offer in a relationship.
some even date university students and except them not to demand for money.. date matured ladies and you'll have peace of mind.

Elder001:


lmao... are you guys afraid of approaching working class ladies?

The kind of ladies you guys attract though..

Oga. even the working class na same........only that the burden go gara small..

you buy fuel for motor, even pay mechanics self.....if you know, you know.

@ Elder001 . You must be speaking from experience, I think you are right there, 23, 24, 25 are a MAJOR BURDEN LOL Give me this and give me that. I actually haven't dated anybody above 26 but will surely like to, though women will always be women. My Mum has a good job but still demand from my papa

People who have lived in poverty tend to keep the mindset of poverty even after they have left that situation. The poverty mindset: get more!

Try to be in relationships with people that you know are from the same socio-economic background as you are. That way you both have the same goals and no one is lagging behind. Also, when entering a relationship it is important to make it clear to your partner what you are able to provide and your limits. If they have a problem with the expectations you have set they may not be right for you.


Just an extra bit for fun,
According to east asian belief, everybody has a soul mate, a person that they are destined to be with before eternity. Their souls are bound together by the invisible string of love and nobody can cut it. No matter how far that person is away the soulmates will eventually find eachother.

kazyhm:


Oga. even the working class na same........only that the burden go gara small..

you buy fuel for motor, even pay mechanics self.....if you know, you know.

LOL! it depends on the kind of people you roll with.


Date matured focused ladies that are above 28 and you'll agree with me.

yabas:
@ Elder001 . You must be speaking from experience, I think you are right there, 23, 24, 25 are a MAJOR BURDEN LOL Give me this and give me that. I actually haven't dated anybody above 26 but will surely like to, though women will always be women. My Mum has a good job but still demand from my papa

upgrade your social preference and the kind of ladies you mingle with...


your last line, LOL!... there's difference between marriage and relationship.

BTW you know old loves are like this, I believe the younger generation of men coming up won't spend money on ladies anyhow even in marriage unless it's reciprocal.

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Elder001:



LOL! it depends on the kind of people you roll with.


Date matured focused ladies that are above 28 and you'll agree with me.

So now you de spoil market for 23+ or younger ladies lol. No love for them?

Public Service Announcement: Please read the following infographic for the sake of your education.

It's NATURAL FOR MEN TO LOVE YOUNGER WOMEN, ITS JUST NATURAL. That is why society always pressure girls to marry at 25, after that age, their families will start PRESSURING them to get a man ASAP, because the older you get as a lady, the more difficult it will be getting a husband. Female children are coming into this world every day and as time goes on, the competition will be too much for older ladies. Therefore, the pressure for girls to get married immediately after university education. Remember that the former CBN Governor, married an 18 year old girl about 2 years ago fresh blood. Who no like better thing? Firm breasts, body and pucsy cat way fresh, plenty Lagos Boyz never pass through. . Its only natural. But guys of these days no mind 30 or 32, personally I DONT MIND AT ALL.. They will come with experience and will be ready to settle down quietly.

yabas:
It's NATURAL FOR MEN TO LOVE YOUNGER WOMEN, ITS JUST NATURAL. That is why society always pressure girls to marry at 25, after that age, their families will start PRESSURING them to get a man ASAP, because the older you get as a lady, the more difficult it will be getting a husband. Female children are coming into this world every day and as time goes on, the competition will be too much for older ladies. Therefore, the pressure for girls to get married immediately after university education. Remember that the former CBN Governor, married an 18 year old girl about 2 years ago fresh blood. Who no like better thing? Firm breasts, body and pucsy cat way fresh, plenty Lagos Boyz never pass through. . Its only natural. But guys of these days no mind 30 or 32, personally I DONT MIND AT ALL.. They will come with experience and will be ready to settle down quietly.

Most young girls are
still schooling
some don't have jobs
some are from poor families

how do you expect them not to demand from you?

if you can't date responsible matured 27/28 years + ladies then stop complaining.

please!

Elder001:



LOL! it depends on the kind of people you roll with.


Date matured focused ladies that are above 28 and you'll agree with me.

make i roll with you then just so i can roll with those

sisisioge:
Haaa! You bought laptop too? Biko date me before you throw in the towel. Baby I need a laptop

Lol.

Lol...bro its everywhere, as I am typing this I am using public transportation since its rainy season n rain cannot beat aunty...honestly its an economic thing, some overdo it tho,its really expensive to be a lady in the moment, She's got to look good for you,that ain't cheap man, so suck it up n pay a few of the expenses, if you don't somebody would willingly do and uncle e don be for you. o think I would prefer her to ask me for everything than to not ask and go outside...just how I feel tho. she's your woman,make it worth her while

Elder001:



Most young girls are
still schooling
some don't have jobs
some are from poor families

how do you expect them not to demand from you?

if you can't date responsible matured 27/28 years + ladies then stop complaining.

please!

It's rare to see a Nigerian lady whether rich or broke not dependent on a guy when she is in a relationship. It's like the hormones of gold digging runs in their veins and it is normal to them.

As much as the status quo remains, they will remain parasitic but some are more parasitic to others. Just look for the one who shows empathy and will support despite her depending on you.

Elder001:



Most young girls are
still schooling
some don't have jobs
some are from poor families

how do you expect them not to demand from you?

if you can't date responsible matured 27/28 years + ladies then stop complaining.

please!

Simple!! You like better thing but no wan spend. Women will always depend men, maybe you should up your hustle, so that you can date bigger girls. The 27 n 28 still ask just so you know,its recharge card and small change now with an older girl its house rent and upkeep her salary can't cover. There's nothing irresponsible about asking for assistance from time to time