Elder001:


Real men?? perhaps that's the new line broke ladies are using to console themselves.

I don't give a damn about your respect kid.. if I want respect I won't need it from people who aren't focused in life who don't have ambitions .

Young girl you better don't quote me next time because I don't tolerate nonsense mentions.

like I care rich man

Elder001:



Yes.. you're right to a very large degree but there are still ladies out there that aren't parasitic.

Especially ladies in state capitals..

I used to have this same perspective of yours till I upgraded to matured 28+ ladies and finally my fiancé.

Ladies above 28years are more focused and more responsible.
they've many things to offer in relationships.. only few demand unnecessarily.

Yes they are cuz thats the time a girl starts getting serious and less selective. Any lady thats 30 and still single may have serious pride or attitude issues and she should check her profile to correct it. Cuz the older she gets the more desperation elevates. For me i feel secure with a girl from 26 and above. If shes older with 2 years. Its ok by me as long as she has the qualities and a decent mind. In truth if a girl really really loves u she grows a conscience and rarely ever demands. Instead she aims to give. Now thats a lady

gonkin:


Yes they are cuz thats the time a girl starts getting serious and less selective. Any lady thats 30 and still single may have serious pride or attitude issues and she should check her profile to correct it. Cuz the older she gets the more desperation elevates. For me i feel secure with a girl from 26 and above. If shes older with 2 years. Its ok by me as long as she has the qualities and a decent mind. In truth if a girl really really loves u she grows a conscience and rarely ever demands. Instead she aims to give. Now thats a lady

what these guys don't understand is ladies below 27 aren't serious and matured enough to be in a committed relationship because they feel like exploring their young life hence you can hardly see ladies who've dated only 1guy before getting married.

Most of them that are always complaining are dating young girls. .those kids aren't focussed in life.

they don't have jobs
they're from poor homes
they're not ready for marriage
they're still dependent.. so it will be hard for them not to demand from you.

A young lady saw my number on a whatsapp group and she sent a text, I replied and we started talking I just wanted her to be my friend because I don't date kids and I made it clear.

fast forward to 2months later this girl told me that she used her phone to sew seed in her church so that she can be admitted into uniben so I should send her money to purchase a new one.

lol.. a lady I haven't even met in real life o

I was about to purchase my first car then.. I simply told her that I've more important things to do with my cash and she started disturbing me anyhow,, you know what? I blocked her.


if you want to date a matured and responsible lady that'll lead to marriage

don't expect to find them in clubs
don't expect to find them in social gatherings
they don't tolerate shíts
date matured independent ladies that are above 28 and you'll have peace of mind to some extent.

sisisioge:


I'm gonna ask not demand, just once. Buy me a laptop baby, my birthday is tomorrow

Is today your birthday? We may be birthday mates oooo

fancy4eve:
my frwnd just admit dat u re broke, hate guys dat complains a lot. Y not stay single if u re tired nd stop making mountain outta no hills

ashawooooooo

Goldmaxx:
ashawooooooo

runs in ya blood

fancy4eve:
runs in ya blood

ikpu nnegi.... otu nnegi zaa there... smelly vagina... ugly bitch..... ashawo kobo kobo

Goldmaxx:
ikpu nnegi.... otu nnegi zaa there... smelly vagina... ugly bitch..... ashawo kobo kobo

just negodu ihe sigi na onu aputa...... Chineke mmelugi ebere, virgin Mary nyeregi aka

Elder001:


what these guys don't understand is ladies below 27 aren't serious and matured enough to be in a committed relationship because they feel like exploring their young life hence you can hardly see ladies who've dated only 1guy before getting married.

Most of them that are always complaining are dating young girls. .those kids aren't focussed in life.

they don't have jobs
they're from poor homes
they're not ready for marriage
they're still dependent.. so it will be hard for them not to demand from you.

A young lady saw my number on a whatsapp group and she sent a text, I replied and we started talking I just wanted her to be my friend because I don't date kids and I made it clear.

fast forward to 2months later this girl told me that she used her phone to sew seed in her church so that she can be admitted into uniben so I should send her money to purchase a new one.

lol.. a lady I haven't even met in real life o

I was about to purchase my first car then.. I simply told her that I've more important things to do with my cash and she started disturbing me anyhow,, you know what? I blocked her.


if you want to date a matured and responsible lady that'll lead to marriage

don't expect to find them in clubs
don't expect to find them in social gatherings
they don't tolerate shíts
date matured independent ladies that are above 28 and you'll have peace of mind to some extent.

True but some lie about their age. Some ladies dont trust u with their age if u are far older with 4 to 5 years they increase it. Whats the big deal with age anyway. I only dated 1 girl that was 27 wen i was 22 and no other relationships beat hers. Even though she was older she respected me so much. She had a youthful appearance and u could never tell her age from her appearance.
I never expected her to be 27 till she actually revealed it to me weeks into the relationship. But age didn't make her lose respect, its felt weird wen she talked to be like i was the older one. She really brought herself down and actually obeyed me, we were like a normal couple but along the line we terminated the relationship in a mature way cuz he family was against it and seriously the age gap was too far. Other than her i have not dated any girl above 25 and they can be saints at first but later demons. My conclusion is as a girl grows older the more mature her mind becomes.

Sapphire86:


Is today your birthday? We may be birthday mates oooo

No jare darling. I was hoping the OP would gift me ni. It was actually last week .

sisisioge:


No jare darling. I was hoping the OP would gift me ni. It was actually last week .

I'm speechless

gonkin:


True but some lie about their age. Some ladies dont trust u with their age if u are far older with 4 to 5 years they increase it. Whats the big deal with age anyway. I only dated 1 girl that was 27 wen i was 22 and no other relationships beat hers. Even though she was older she respected me so much. She had a youthful appearance and u could never tell her age from her appearance.
I never expected her to be 27 till she actually revealed it to me weeks into the relationship. But age didn't make her lose respect, its felt weird wen she talked to be like i was the older one. She really brought herself down and actually obeyed me, we were like a normal couple but along the line we terminated the relationship in a mature way cuz he family was against it and seriously the age gap was too far. Other than her i have not dated any girl above 25 and they can be saints at first but later demons. My conclusion is as a girl grows older the more mature her mind becomes.

Some matured ladies are beasts sha

Sapphire86:



I'm speechless

Happy birthday... May God bless your years.

Maybe you should looks for the rich gal for gf nah

If you're rich, spend the money on your woman but don't be stupid about it.

To be frank, I see guys who complain about this kind of thing as struggling dudes and I will say this again; if you're a struggling dude, relationship shouldn't be your thing. Learn guys learn.

But why am I so unfortunate.

See the kind money y'all be mentioning.
And I ain't getting any of all that?
Oh Lord! Why me?

Trust me there are plenty of girls out there that dont demand.and i think i am one of them because i dont ask my man for anything, infact i even help him out sometimes.i just manage the little i earn and i am satisfied. I even get scared to go above my capability. I just stay in my lane.

CAPSLOCKED:




YOU NEVER SEE ANYTHING.


WHEN THEY FINISH WITH YOU YOU'LL OPEN A BEGGING SPOT.... WHERE YOU'LL SIT WITH A SMALL BOWL BEGGING FOR ALMS.

Make dem leave savageness for you o.

u need to up ur game,by this I don't mean to insult u but I mean u really need to raise ur attributes expected of a bae u wanna date ,you musnt fall for girls who are doing absolutely nothing for a living or job,their are gals who still ain't working but their self respect is on the high side,like nt asking so much from a dude d r dating for money ,so d mantle falls on u not to fall for cheap but classy personality shikina

Lonestar124:
Oga any lady that is not impecunious won't ask you for money also financial dependent ladies is likely refers as broke ladies, broke is redefinition of poor ....and remember the opposite of poor is rich.

Once again I break this umbilical cord of perpetual attraction with you and poor girls.... Let the grace to detect them from yonder come upon you

Master, pray for me too.

yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.

I wish my ex could see this.. He had no idea how lucky he was to have me

Rosay15:
Bt dere is sumtin I don't understand in we ladies.. If u are dating guy does it mean u shd put all ur burden on him... Cus I dnt get.. Some ladies now turn relationship to buz center.. Issokay

Not just ladies in a relationship.

This week alone 4 ladies messaged me on Facebook. 2 needed sub. The other 2 needed airtime.

Now these are ladies whom I have never had a conversation with ever. In fact one of them ignored my message since last year July.

I don't understand. Don't they have parents or close friends? Don't they have shame?

My brother, maybe you buy women with gifts, maybe you don't know how to woo a lady apart from buying gifts and all for them, they just use and dump you.
Yes, it's cool to spend on your woman, but it's never your duty to buy phones, laptops and expensive stuff for someone who's yet to be your wife or at least have dated her for 2-3years.

Stop spending your money on women, if you are so rich, send it to your mother or family members.
Don't let ladies use you

This is d latest trend now



Guys are now ATM

Brother is a case of being courageous to mingle with working class, independent ones i.e GETTING LIVER TO APPROACH THEM...That's alll

yabas:
The reason why I opened this tread is to know if other guys are experiencing same.

you are right, most girl nowadays only know how to demand, I have meet quite a lot too but my girl doesn't demand at all that one of the reason why I cherish her so much.
there is a girl I meet last month, can you imagine that just the first day of having a conversation with her, she start tell me about her family issue and how she need a man that will always support her. I just laugh in my mind and avoid her

It actually depends on how you carry yourself, if you don't respect, value yourself , your partner won't except you meet a good one which is very rare. As a guy, we deserve the best when esp we give our Best, and any female who sees it as gullibility would surely be paid in her coin by another guy, so u move ahead at the right time before you're under valued in a relationship your partner isn't proud of except you.

I don't see what's wrong, weren't you hustling for money to play big boy & spend it on girls

EfeJay:
I wish my ex could see this.. He had no idea how lucky he was to have me

and the present will love it as well...am aplying

sisisioge:
Haaa! You bought laptop too? Biko date me before you throw in the towel. Baby I need a laptop

U no sabi where dem dey sell laptop abi....if u av money,come buy my own free of charge

Hmmn

Rosay15:
Bt dere is sumtin I don't understand in we ladies.. If u are dating guy does it mean u shd put all ur burden on him... Cus I dnt get.. Some ladies now turn relationship to buz center.. Issokay

i need u in my life.