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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Nobody: 11:58pm On May 18, 2018
Elder001:



LOL! it depends on the kind of people you roll with.


Date matured mature focused ladies that are above 28 and you'll agree with me.
Bro.. It is not entirely correct.. Individualism is involved.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Nobody: 12:00am On May 19, 2018
RoyalBlak007:
"I seriously need a gf that will not
ask me anything" grin

Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by GGirll: 12:03am On May 19, 2018
keep looking for ready made ladies fools... if its ladies you want the ones that wouldn't ask you for anything but you can ask her to do one or two things for you?? irresponsible lots just as made men have great women who suffered with them to the top likewise made women have great men who suffered with them to the top...not bunch of ass-holes crawling on social media fro cheap ladies to scam...if you cant spend on the woman you love who else can you spend on trying always so hard to put ladies down is uncultured n must stop...i aint a feminist but its disgusting to see full fledged adult come here n say rubbish about ladies without one getting annoyed......Davido your icon sang it for you that if you don't have money hide you face...and those ladies that sees guys as a gate way slip should please stop n work hard forget shame n do business, sell pure water if you don't have capital to do better biz n save us from idiotic statements like these....quote me n die!!!!

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by efemena5050(m): 12:04am On May 19, 2018
sisisioge:
Haaa! You bought laptop too? Biko date me before you throw in the towel. Baby I need a laptop kiss kiss kiss kiss
blue chicken
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by FreshBoss007: 12:04am On May 19, 2018
yabas:
The reason why I opened this tread is to know if other guys are experiencing same.

Bro.. you ain't alone
I've come to the simple conclusion that you can't date a girl without spending on her..
an easy way for you to keep calm is to ask her to reciprocate your gesture not in offering sex but in same actions....eg for every 5 outings,she pays completely for one.. she buys you a real worthy gift for your birthday and not some stupid boxers or singlet... and above all she handles 30% of financial budget when things get really serious

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by 1nigeriamyfoot: 12:05am On May 19, 2018
yabas:


Lol, u'r not serious but I AM JUST TIRED OF THE CONSTANT DEMANDS
Any girl wey ask you for money, tell her point blank that you don't have any money to waste. Naija gals ain't loyal, don't play Mr too cool. Am not a kid but a grown ass man and na true I dey yarn you bro. I no dey dull maself, if a gal can't date you without demanding from you pls dump her ass. Ladies population is more than men so take advantage of that. Girls wey u dey spend on top, someone else is somewhere fuccking her pussy for free.
Wake up!

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Postboiswag(m): 12:05am On May 19, 2018
This why am single
Am broke for now
If I try to get GF now
I will just kill myself

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by AlanSugar(m): 12:06am On May 19, 2018
YoungDaNaval:
nothing wrong. just a coincidence

There's a lot wrong, nothing coincidental. He's always going for the spicy girls, those ones are always hungry for money, any kind of money, even money to buy toilet paper.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by godwon01(m): 12:07am On May 19, 2018
U are very lucky that they did not demand their school fees from you, as if U are their parents. Useless bunch of idiot girls.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by 1nigeriamyfoot: 12:07am On May 19, 2018
GGirll:
[s]keep looking for ready made ladies fools... if its ladies you want the ones that wouldn't ask you for anything but you can ask her to do one or two things for you?? irresponsible lots just as made men have great women who suffered with them to the top likewise made women have great men who suffered with them to the top...not bunch of ass-holes crawling on social media fro cheap ladies to scam...if you cant spend on the woman you love who else can you spend on trying always so hard to put ladies down is uncultured n must stop...i aint a feminist but its disgusting to see full fledged adult come here n say rubbish about ladies without one getting annoyed......Davido your icon sang it for you that if you don't have money hide you face...and those ladies that sees guys as a gate way slip should please stop n work hard forget shame n do business, sell pure water if you don't have capital to do better biz n save us from idiotic statements like these....quote me n die!!!![/s]

Oloorun ni e

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by 1nigeriamyfoot: 12:08am On May 19, 2018
Postboiswag:
This why am single
Am broke for now
If I try to get GF now
I will just kill myself
how u dey take cure konji? grin grin grin abi na PAYG you dey do?

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by CheedyJ(m): 12:10am On May 19, 2018
fancy4eve:
my frwnd just admit dat u re broke, hate guys dat complains a lot. Y not stay single if u re tired nd stop making mountain outta no hills
She no even fyn self..rich lady ,I sight u..
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Postboiswag(m): 12:12am On May 19, 2018
1nigeriamyfoot:

how u dey take cure konji? grin grin grin abi na PAYG you dey do?


If konji dy worry me
I go hustle for pussy grin grin grin
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by 1nigeriamyfoot: 12:14am On May 19, 2018
Postboiswag:



If konji dy worry me
I go hustle for pussy grin grin grin
more grease to your preek! grin grin grin gf thingy na scam

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by ghost08(m): 12:15am On May 19, 2018
ever considered relocating
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by 1nigeriamyfoot: 12:19am On May 19, 2018
fancy4eve:
my frwnd just admit dat u re broke, hate guys dat complains a lot. Y not stay single if u re tired nd stop making mountain outta no hills
this is why I love men who no give any fucck abourt gf thingy! see the way you reason? You get brain so? Despite the heavy make up you still looks like ojuju calabar! Men no be ATM machine, go & work for your money and stop depending on guys young lady! Instamessage no be shop, get to work!

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by lawrence35(m): 12:26am On May 19, 2018
xty50:
Trust me there are plenty of girls out there that dont demand.and i think i am one of them because i dont ask my man for anything, infact i even help him out sometimes.i just manage the little i earn and i am satisfied. I even get scared to go above my capability. I just stay in my lane.
Bossbaby cheesy
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by lawrence35(m): 12:27am On May 19, 2018
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by godofuck231: 12:28am On May 19, 2018
It's a sign that you need a wife, find a ife material that buys you ties and cufflinks, do you can uy her a house, not laptop and iPhone and she gives you a slack kpomo as consolation.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Segeshow: 12:35am On May 19, 2018
I used to think it was the norm, everyone around me was doing it so I did it too, albeit grudgingly. I would build up the resentment till it got to boiling point,then I would cook up an excuse and bail. Until I met my queen, who after a couple of weeks made me realise how awesome it is to find someone who genuinely cares for you. It's the poverty mentality and greed that pushes em to only date guys that are generous. I also blame their moms. If they had good upbringing and morals taught to them, they'd be content and be careful about expectations from guys. The annoying part is even the unpretty ones too will be demanding and asking. My advice, once she begins to demand excessively just treat her like the ho she is, Bleep and pass her on to the next guy. But remember she has probably done the same to numerous other guys, so strap up.

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by biacan(f): 12:38am On May 19, 2018
speedfreak:
Lol...bro its everywhere, as I am typing this I am using public transportation since its rainy season n rain cannot beat aunty...honestly its an economic thing, some overdo it tho,its really expensive to be a lady in the moment, She's got to look good for you,that ain't cheap man, so suck it up n pay a few of the expenses, if you don't somebody would willingly do and uncle e don be for you. o think I would prefer her to ask me for everything than to not ask and go outside...just how I feel tho. she's your woman,make it worth her while
Marry me already

Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Nobody: 12:42am On May 19, 2018
When you have appetite for big ass, big boobs, Ms. Endowed - that's what you are most likely to get.

Change your taste to save your life.

Ladies will hardly settle with jobless men so why settle with jobless ladies ?

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Nobody: 1:01am On May 19, 2018
yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.

the truth of the matter bro is, "WE ARE WHO WE ATTRACT"
I remembered the advice a friend gave me, which helped me to get a fine babe that wasn't demanding money from me.
He simply told me not to flaunt my wealth when wooing my babe.... let her know u are financially capable from the way u look... but never use that to woo her....
Show her the inner u that has nothing to do with ur money and let her fancy that.... if she doesn't, simply walk away.
ask her out through the phone.... no need for dates before u ask her out( if u take her on dates, u are already flaunting ur wealth and she will date u cause of it).
if she finally agrees to date u, that is the time to set the rules of ur relationship(dont wait a moment later) ... what she expects from u and what u can offer her..... remember money is not on the plate.... so if she mentions it.... walk away.. (never become desperate, because if u do, u lose ur bargaining power....thats why most guys date gold diggers)
u will eventually spend on her but it will be a token and she will appreciate it even more cause it was unexpected.... just a way of showing her u aren't stingy and u care for her..

it worked for me like magic.... u should try it too!

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by zinaunreal(m): 1:03am On May 19, 2018
Hungry poor biitches
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by toluleke(m): 1:04am On May 19, 2018
Well bro, I think you are at fault if you put yourself as a financially buoyant guy trust girls they will milk you but just be plain if you have fine if you don't fine don't be shy to say No.. Yes and No ain't mere words they are the two most important words in the world. Don't ever try to please a girl with money cos surely some.guys are richer than you
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Nobody: 1:07am On May 19, 2018
yabas:
The reason why I opened this tread is to know if other guys are experiencing same.
You ain't the only one, if u check the only topic I created you will see. Ladies generally are demanding, to make it worst... once both of you have sex or she kissed you, she will think she did you a favor then the sense of full entitlement starts, that's how ladies are. I'll advise you it's when you ready to marry you should start dating if not, a lady can wreck you if u ain't careful enough.

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Nobody: 1:08am On May 19, 2018
Magnifik18:
When you have appetite for big ass, big boobs, Ms. Endowed - that's what you are most likely to get.

Change your taste to save your life.

Ladies will hardly settle with jobless men so why settle with jobless ladies ?
Great speech!

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by SirBunky85(m): 1:08am On May 19, 2018
sisisioge:
Haaa! You bought laptop too? Biko date me before you throw in the towel. Baby I need a laptop kiss kiss kiss kiss
lekwa ha....umunwanyi be anyi anaro eme anya-ura
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by SirBunky85(m): 1:11am On May 19, 2018
Elder001:



90% of Nigerian ladies are like that ...


stop dating dependent ladies okay?.. there are many independent ladies everywhere.
do u know if d op get liver to toast independent ladies?and who evn tell u say independent ladies no dey demand if dey percieve d guy to be a maga?

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Nobody: 1:13am On May 19, 2018
Elder001:



Most ladies that are above 27years are more matured physically, emotionally and spiritually.

They are more sensible in handling relationships not all these childish girls.

Try dating a working class lady that is above 28 bro you'll enjoy the relationship.
not all are married.. just that they're more focused, they're not cheap .

most guys always complaining about girls demanding anyhow from them are dating young girls.
young girls don't have anything to offer in a relationship.
some even date university students and except them not to demand for money.. date matured ladies and you'll have peace of mind.

My brother I swear u too get sense.

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Nobody: 1:19am On May 19, 2018
1nigeriamyfoot:

Any girl wey ask you for money, tell her point blank that you don't have any money to waste. Naija gals ain't loyal, don't play Mr too cool. Am not a kid but a grown ass man and na true I dey yarn you bro. I no dey dull maself, if a gal can't date you without demanding from you pls dump her ass. Ladies population is more than men so take advantage of that. Girls wey u dey spend on top, someone else is somewhere fuccking her pussy for free.
Wake up!

Oga, the male population worldwide is more than the female population. Here is the ratio of men to women population in Nigeria.

Nigeria Population clock (live) 19-05-2018 03:14:46

196,579,961: Current population

99,543,689: Current male population (50.6%)

97,036,272: Current female population (49.4%)

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