Elder001:


lmao... are you guys afraid of approaching working class ladies?

The kind of ladies you guys attract though..

Birds of the same feathers .....don't mind them ,dem too like pinner4....

OluwatobiMayowa:
Majority of the girls that don't demand are ugly.

The beautiful ones demand because well, if you don't give, there are other guys that are ready to.

The rule of thumb is to spend what is left after investing/sorting family. So that way you are not entertaining any unforeseen circumstances.

Just seen this and I will equally say why is Italy those I meet are cardiac surgeons who earn over a million a month and are always at work on weekdays and in church on sundays so have no time for frivolitoes or the hours it takes to enhance their looks or the mental inadequacies of their bodies....well once more.... It depends on which circles you roll in. Like attracts like. You gravitate to what you value and if you see ladies as people who 'should be in need' then you find yourself constantly feeling like a toy knight in shinning armour'. Change your perspective.

I see women as equally capable in most cases and my nature gravitates to competencies in both men and women.

sisisioge:


I'm gonna ask not demand, just once. Buy me a laptop baby, my birthday is tomorrow

you no dey shame?

Elder001:



90% of Nigerian ladies are like that ...


stop dating dependent ladies okay?.. there are many independent ladies everywhere.

lol they are like looking for a needle in a hay stack in this buhari regime

CAPSLOCKED:




YOU NEVER SEE ANYTHING.


WHEN THEY FINISH WITH YOU YOU'LL OPEN A BEGGING SPOT.... WHERE YOU'LL SIT WITH A SMALL BOWL BEGGING FOR ALMS.

wallahi

Me that I'm dating 3 babes currently, they almost wan finish me but God pass them... Since last wk now one they ask for money to do her hair nd buy some clothes the 2nd they ask for an android phone, while the third is requesting for money to get shop to be selling women wears... Na scope i just dey give all of them all make dem no con finish me

Elder001:



you lie. try dating working class ladies that are above 27/28 years old.
They won't make unnecessary demands from you.

the problem with you guys is; the preference for young girls"
you guys should note that these young girls are still dependent and many are from poor homes.

Elder, may your wisdom continue to increase, amen!

Elder001:


How many Nigerian ladies can purchase sure 40k perfume for their boyfriends?

who boxers help?.. smh

Must it be 40k perf? just appreciate what ever she gives as gift!

comshots:
One told me straight that i would spend on her.Another one was indirectly telling her friend in my present that she could only date a guy who would be giving her ₦5k every month after i had asked her out.The other one asked me to lend her ₦5k to help cater for her sick mother.I no say that ₦5k go enter voicemail lastly.Well,i dey avoid them after that statement.There are other mugu to extract money from.

5k?
One told me 25k monthly and that was the end story.

Melsan:
Wife material spotted . This your sense of humour ehn

Which wife material? Taa!
She is one of them. Beggy beggy.
Is why she remains unmarried well into her 30s.

Rosay15:
Bt dere is sumtin I don't understand in we ladies.. If u are dating guy does it mean u shd put all ur burden on him... Cus I dnt get.. Some ladies now turn relationship to buz center.. Issokay

babe, I just fall 4 ur words. I never knew people like you still exist...

herich:


5k?
One told me 25k monthly and that was the end story.

Lol, so dating is a salaried side hustle in Nigeria?

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chanseroo1955:
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And whats d meaning of that?

bamasite:
There are two simple, yet not so simple reasons, why you are having this problem:

1. You date girls that are easy to get. You don't CHALLENGE YOURSELF to go for girls who are above or within your own class. In other words, you concentrate on the low hanging fruits that are easy to pluck.

2. .......

Words but i have one at hand now..........though i have let her be but i really like her and she is single too

she is within my class........but just being sturborn.....and it obvious she likes me

we still talk like once or twice every week sha

can you help with some tips please

Melsan:
Wife material spotted . This your sense of humour ehn

Only a few got it...my mention has been set on fire by the humourless bunch . Howdy?

The moment you opened your mouth & tell a Nigerian girl you like her, you automatically become an ATM machine. Not all though but 90%

londoner:


Lol, so dating is a salaried side hustle in Nigeria?

My bro, and is happening.
Some of our guys are paying heavily to keep those big girls in relationship.

Humility017:

no they dont bro... i stopped beinh a father Christmas since last year...
even some you will meet here will still act like those Facebook slay queens...

I don't understand... recently I stopped telling them that I am working/engaged.
whenver I am asked what do I do for a living....I tell them that I am hurstling...looking for a job.
and they immediately let me Be.

a Facebook friend once called me by 11.00pm.just to cry to me that her data just got finished....
Nigeria ladies have no shame... I have spent for ladies money I have never used on Mom and siblings... and i think that has to stop....

it has to stop or it has stopped, which one?

Cloud007:
wait...5k every month? I don't understand.... what kind of table are you standing on sef... secondary School girls?

Some guys can easily give out ₦5k to their girlfriends.But when their siblings or mother request such amount of money from them they will be frowning their faces or they will say they don't have it.

chubbyswit:
it has to stop or it has stopped, which one?

it has stopped....oooo

chubbyswit:
it has to stop or it has stopped, which one?

you funny...lemme answer for him..
it has stopped ooo.

soup wet sweet na money kill am.. no be me talk am o

Hmmmm, this gal.
Note, banana fell on Chioma befr she got assurance.

herich:


5k?
One told me 25k monthly and that was the end story.

You said 5k?Some dude cannot lend their brother or give their mother 5k.They are only generous on a lady they want to chyke.

While I was in camp sent her 10k after some days she said her sister wanted to take my number so she could ask for money. I was shocked like dem dey make money for camp. I came back asked her if we could see she said she prefers I send her the moni I was gonna use to come her instead cuz she had bills to settle. I was heartbroken. F**ked up world

If u want ladies that won't ask u for anything, then you have to date independent ladies but don't complain of age difference or p.....y widening, not all sha u might b lucky, independent ladies are mostly older women that have achieved everything but are single, they just need someone to settle down with

It's the economy...no part time jobs, no health insurance

Azam101:
Must it be 40k perf? just appreciate what ever she gives as gift!

As she appreciated 2k phone?

yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.

My brother, I am facing same problem with you.Seriously looking for wife.

comshots:
You said 5k?Some dude cannot borrow their brother or give their mother 5k.They are only generous on a lady

Na to keep the cunt coming nao.

DisGuy:
It's the economy...no part time jobs, no health insurance

Yeah, but it is rough on guys too.