eyinjuege:


If you have a child together doesn't mean you must marry na. The relationship doesn't have to be sexual again. They are co-parents. Shikena

DonPiiko:
Once I get married to my crush in a year or two I am never cheating on her. Bella is a princess, I want to put a ring on it

Hotfreeze:
Toks2008 has suddenly become a sagging scrotum that everyone kicks about.

Talk of a nasty fall from grace to below the grass.

Jonathan:

Why won't they cheat on you after marriage?.?
After discovering that some of you fùcked anything fùckable before marriage, you think men are stupìd abi??
Just they way some of you slept with married men so shall your husbands bw fùcked by single ladies. What goes around...

Maxcollins042:

Do you have any evidence to corroborate your assertion?

nikkypearl:
all diz your epistle is unsubstantiated
Zero sense... The fact that you've dated hoes who f**k around like dogs,doesn't imply dat all ladies are hoes! oga get your fact right before giving me a rustic mention abeg!

Hotfreeze:
Toks2008 has suddenly become a sagging scrotum that everyone kicks about.

Talk of a nasty fall from grace to below the grass.

youcanmakeit:
Men cheat, women cheat.

pocohantas:
God help which ladies?

Are you not the one that created a thread telling women not to expect faithfulness from men, as long as he provides?

https://www.nairaland.com/4065809/10-realistic-steps-lady-should

Another one; take note of the first point
https://www.nairaland.com/3336311/every-lady-wants-experience-happy

Everyone that disagreed with you, you called kids.
Now we done agree, you're talking of hypocrisy. Mtcheew!

DonPiiko:
Sure my man, once I am in a relationship, I am very committed

Safiaa:
Not condoning cheating, but would rather be cheated on by a man I’m benefiting significantly from, than a man I’m struggling with. And according to you mr toks, ALL men cheat. So i’ll Pick the better option. Okuur, osee!!

Jonathan:

Lol
See who's talking
Body counts in 10s..
At least, i know two..
Madam architecture
Yeye

LivingFree:

Stop this your transmission because you wee not kee me!

pocohantas:



Broke men are only allowed to cheat on poverty (with riches).

Aboguede:
Up real winners Madrid UP Ramos UP Big bale.

In another news Messi just sustained injury of the heart and he is a doubt for the world cup. According to his doctor his injury is a result of heart attach few minutes after Madrid destroyed another history.

Pray for Messi

hokagesholz:
In other News...

Few weeks ago, a Nigerian mother of two, Uwaila Agbonson happily celebrated her divorce from her husband, Emmanuel Arigbe-Osula with a cake.



At that time, she called out the names of the side chicks that ruined her home and the roles they all played as she wished them a happy life with her ex husband.



Now, her husband’s family has responded to her claims calling her a liar and described it as a case of greed and blackmail taken too far.

Read the full statement below:


Someone just contacted me that you’re alleging on Social Media that he’s replying your post. Drama queen, He is not interested in your fake news & sensationalized stories. Everyone in the world knows that if he was not paying child support in America & the additional gift of maintenance totalling over $2550 monthly he agreed to, He would have been in jail or be without all his driving & business licences.

In addition until two weeks ago, he was still paying for your car insurance, you and your siblings’ phone bills. As at this very second, I am writing he still pay for your phone & Mobil internet (hot spot).
Remember that the last time you paid for anything in 15 years until recently was just a few months ago. He sent you to London for your B.Sc & M.Sc after you couldn’t pass the University Matriculations Examination, UME in Nigeria. Whereas you lied that you were a graduate of Computer Science from Uniben, a school you never attended. You spent over $100, 000 on jewellery design training & complete jewellery making studio, completed with Diamond processing & crafting equipments seating in your basement unused. You also spent Tens of thousands of Pounds on other training & setup of a fully equipped Salon that lasted less than 3months while in London.

Even when you didn’t work one day in 15 years, he paid people $600 weekly to come to the house daily to tutor the children because you were too busy on phone & social media and couldn’t take care of your children.
You are such a shameless liar who is completely driven by greed & the fact that the wide dream of a clean out in the divorce fell short of your high expectations.
You told the family court that the House you got in the divorce settlement should have been fully paid for. A 7bedrooms duplex occupied by you, his two kids, your two brothers who are medical doctors, who by the way were fully trained in All Saints University in the Commonwealth of Dominica by uncle Emmanuel after their father abandoned them there in their first year, your sister & her daughter, who he has cared for since birth apart from training her at Benson Idahosa University. The man virtually adopted & cared for your entire maternal family until just a couple of months ago despite the divorce.
Whereas none of you worked, he was responsible for everyone & brought all of you to the United States after educating all of you.
As an educated woman now, he could have refused to pay for your maintenance when he filed for the divorce, but instead agreed to it because he wanted you to sign the divorce amicably.

You went to court to try to tarnish his name by filling for Order of Protection for you & the kids, it was dismissed because you withdrew it for lacking in substance. His counter-suit was granted. That’s your pain. In court the transcripts will show the world that you & your lawyer argued that he shouldn’t be believed because all Nigerians are 419 and now you are appealing to Nigerians sentiments after failing to tarnish him in the family court.
The divorce has been over for years, what is your beef? It must be greed certainly. It’s not easy having to work for the first time in your life and pay your own bills in America by yourself right? Prove to the world how many years you have worked in your life.

Now that you have started working for the first time in your life as a Dialysis Technician, instead of appreciating the handiwork of others in getting you and members of your family to where you are now in life, your desperation has

AreaFada2:


Nor mind women who say only men cheat. Let's do paternity test on all kids and see kasalla that will burst.

A late relative's kids were not even his. Thank God he had a kid (his by DNA) from a previous marriage. Not to mention kids failing paternity tests required by foreign embassies to enable family re-union. The ones that didn't result in pregnancies/kids or aborted nko?

People forget that in an environment where dating is mostly about a guy's money, cheating can be very expensive. That is why the rich guys get most of the girls. Nice cars, nice house and cash to burn attract ladies like nectar attract bees.

So the ladies saying they prefer rich guys cheating on them are essentially admitting what they usually deny: that they are for sale. For sale because you can buy their tolerance/silence if you cheat as long as they get your money/gifts.

My question is won't such girls for sale cheat on their cheating man if a richer man comes along? One who can give them even more money/gifts?

I guess they will again deny this for now........until later.

But we for now we can now publicly note that women and men can cheat. It is even free of charge for women to cheat. Whereas men have to pay. Most women benefit economically from cheating whereas only very few men do, most lose economically.

Therefore women have far more incentive to cheat: thrill, attention, money, gifts, revenge, can conceal cheating better/hardly get caught, etc.

pocohantas:


Broke men are only allowed to cheat on poverty (with riches).

safarigirl:
not even unmarried, oga is a divorcee.

AreaFada2:


Nor mind women who say only men cheat. Let's do paternity test on all kids and see kasalla that will burst.

A late relative's kids were not even his. Thank God he had a kid (his by DNA) from a previous marriage. Not to mention kids failing paternity tests required by foreign embassies to enable family re-union. The ones that didn't result in pregnancies/kids or aborted nko?

People forget that in an environment where dating is mostly about a guy's money, cheating can be very expensive. That is why the rich guys get most of the girls. Nice cars, nice house and cash to burn attract ladies like nectar attract bees.

So the ladies saying they prefer rich guys cheating on them are essentially admitting what they usually deny: that they are for sale. For sale because you can buy their tolerance/silence if you cheat as long as they get your money/gifts.

My question is won't such girls for sale cheat on their cheating man if a richer man comes along? One who can give them even more money/gifts?

I guess they will again deny this for now........until later.

But we for now we can now publicly note that women and men can cheat. It is even free of charge for women to cheat. Whereas men have to pay. Most women benefit economically from cheating whereas only very few men do, most lose economically.

Therefore women have far more incentive to cheat: thrill, attention, money, gifts, revenge, can conceal cheating better/hardly get caught, etc.

pocohantas:
God help which ladies?

Are you not the one that created a thread telling women not to expect faithfulness from men, as long as he provides?

https://www.nairaland.com/4065809/10-realistic-steps-lady-should

Another one; take note of the first point
https://www.nairaland.com/3336311/every-lady-wants-experience-happy

Everyone that disagreed with you, you called kids.
Now we done agree, you're talking of hypocrisy. Mtcheew!

Toks2008:


It becomes hypocrisy when a rich dude can cheat and it is overlooked but a hustling guy dares not.. talking about many Naija ladies so the hypocrisy is endemic to Naija ladies...

In advanced countries, Davido dares not try the pooh he does with Chioma with a typical western lady....he will wake up to see the Porshe in flames.

Toks2008:
I have written several times about the hypocrisy of many Nigerian ladies towards faithfulness of their men towards them but many ladies tend to disagree with me...nevertheless,the stories we read everyday corroborate my stand point..

It is very clear that most of our Naija ladies can be bought and as far as there is enough money to make them Happy,the man is free to have as many ladies as possible,cheat on them with impunity,make as many baby mamas as possible and even marry as many extra wives as they can...Wizkid,Davido and several other celebrities have proved this and many ladies will not mind joining the growing numbers of their baby mamas.

Indeed most of our Naija ladies tend to forget that word faithfulness as long as the guy is loaded but GOD HELP you if you are a struggling guy and you dare contemplate cheating on them.

God help our ladies.

Pataricatering:
even western women allow cheating when money is involved !