samyfreshsmooth:






i've learnt my lesson albeit in a hard way

Eeehya....... Pele bro, no vex.

some Nairalanders are cynical (they throw the baby away with the bath water).

PS: Nxt time change d characters in ur post to be anonymous nd not making it apparent they're ur relatives. sowie once again

samyfreshsmooth:
My dad once mentioned his brother usually takes his only daughter (my cousin) for virginity test on her birthday so she'll remain a virgin till she gets married.


he (my dad) said he wanted to do same with my sisters but my mom was having none of it cos according to her, she trained, trusts and knows her daughters well



we all thought perhaps he would stop when my cousin crosses her teens but she celebrated her 21st birthday a month ago and 4 days ago i jokingly asked her on whatsapp if her dad still took her for the tests and she said yes!!


honestly at first i was shocked and thought my uncle crazy but on second thoughts, i believe what he's doing is a little right


seeing how wild my cous is (being an only girl and all) i'm 100% certain she'd have long lost her virginity if not for that


i think i will do that for my future daughter(s) cos this world is evil and boys are not to be trusted (girls too)



anyways what do you guys think............is it ideal and advisable or not?

In a sane country, your uncle deserve to be sued..

such nonsense

ohh

RuthlessLeader:

Is he doing it to his son.

The daughter will grow up hating him.

Besides some women are not born with hymen and hymen can tear during sporting activities

Lol , guy women do have scammed you oh, so how many do you know that weren't born with it and how many form "various sporting" Activities .

Bro see I once fvcked one of those sporting activities girls before, wa lahi, if not that I have strong head the scope has enter 80% , I just couldn't understand how if only the hymen is missing and you never had sex why is the pussy not tight, I was fvucking tear rubber on the side so the comparison helped, so bro don't be scammed. Its all a lie, na all of them no dey born with hynen abi an all dey do sport? bro think naw, why the cousin of op no use sport lie naw??

jessca048:
is like your brain have departed from your body bah

Biko did I lie, ??

Tajbol4splend:
He must be a man of God, I guess he met his wife intact so he wants his daughter to be met intact, this is the kinda men we want in the society, God bless you as you do the test till she graduates university

A man of god would not be this paranoid. The fact that he takes her for virginity tests means he was likely a player in his youth who deflowered many virgins.

samyfreshsmooth:
My dad once mentioned his brother usually takes his only daughter (my cousin) for virginity test on her birthday so she'll remain a virgin till she gets married.


he (my dad) said he wanted to do same with my sisters but my mom was having none of it cos according to her, she trained, trusts and knows her daughters well



we all thought perhaps he would stop when my cousin crosses her teens but she celebrated her 21st birthday a month ago and 4 days ago i jokingly asked her on whatsapp if her dad still took her for the tests and she said yes!!


honestly at first i was shocked and thought my uncle crazy but on second thoughts, i believe what he's doing is a little right


seeing how wild my cous is (being an only girl and all) i'm 100% certain she'd have long lost her virginity if not for that


i think i will do that for my future daughter(s) cos this world is evil and boys are not to be trusted (girls too)



anyways what do you guys think............is it ideal and advisable or not?

very much ideal,if all parents would be doing the same,honestly we won't be having rotten girls in our society.

Does he by chance test his sons too?
Misogynistic prig

OK naw..kontinue

It is so wrong, as the only child of my parents and a female, I know how it feels to be under scrutiny, and when you have a father that does not trust you as I do, it is heartbreaking.
All of you that plan to do this to your children should please have a second thought, what if it was done to you by your parents?

Nawaoooooooo

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samyfreshsmooth:
y'all seem to be forgeting it's my cousin we're talking about here wey una dey shout leaking anus leaking anus



na me do myself wey i carry the matter come here sha


y'all left the topic and main question i asked to start discussing anus



leaking anus kee all of you there

will you keep quiet.

you are the same person who wrote that you know your cousin is wild and would have lost her virginity.

now you are complaining because nlanders are being overly analytical.

next time don't bring your family or personal matters here

nonsense and ingredient.

LaudableXX:


Oga, nobody is getting worked up, so why are you saying calm down? If she marries a philanderer, after undergoing countless virginity tests, whose life will be ruined? Is it not her own?

How will it ruin her life? Because the last time i checked, divorce is legal. So if he chooses to be stupid, he will only be doing himself.

To me, it is a sign of failed parenthood. Secondly, keeping ones virginity does not guarantee that one will be a good person.

I mentioned failed parenthood. Yes, that is what I beliv that is the cause of this. If the parents have bn able to do what they were supposed to do at the early stage, I don't think they will be going through this embarrassing and lost of trust on their child. Probably, cos she was the only child, they failed to be firm in bringing her up and that informed the girl's assumed waywardness.

My dad (May his soul keep resting wt our Lord) used to tell us that if u fail to make ur child to cry at that tender age when he/she deserve to cry, you as a parent will cry at ur old age wen u are not supposed to cry.
As an adult and a man with his own family, I still get afraid of doing so many things cos of my father's discipline character even as he is no more alive. I still ask myself up till now wen i want to do some certain things, "How will my parents feel wen they hear that i did a thing like this?" This fear has always checkmates my behaviour.

Tell ur uncle that he lost the control of his child from the time they beliv that they should excuse their child behaviour at that tender age, believing that wen she grows, she will learn how to do things the right way.

Testing her virginity is folly. What if she becomes a chronic masturbator, making sure she don't insert any object that will break her hymen? Do u realize that on the process of trying to stop her from losing her virginity, she has bn pushed into abnormal sex behaviour?
What if the girl starts doing anal sex only? Is the father also checking weda her anal virginity has bn torn?
What if the girl totally develop phobia for sex. Do u know the implication when she will be at the right time to do it?

The man failed to do the right thing and now he want the girl to behave the way he failed to teach her.

mikejj:
ah ogah oo.which one b virginity test again...wat he is doing is affecting the girl mentally... her virginity is her virginity she decides to keep her choice...if she doesn't want to keep it her choice... that girl now i won't be surprise if she is nt in a relationship ..

Maturity Speaks .... btw "the Uncle" should be asked if he married his wife a virgin ? sometimes all this stress protecting something thats meant to be lost one day ... "uncle' is psycho who has slept with many young girls or he is has a phobia with the way the younger Generation handle sex

Dami12345:


Lol , guy women do have scammed you oh, so how many do you know that weren't born with it and how many form "various sporting" Activities .

Bro see I once fvcked one of those sporting activities girls before, wa lahi, if not that I have strong head the scope has enter 80% , I just couldn't understand how if only the hymen is missing and you never had sex why is the pussy not tight, I was fvucking tear rubber on the side so the comparison helped, so bro don't be scammed. Its all a lie, na all of them no dey born with hynen abi an all dey do sport? bro think naw, why the cousin of op no use sport lie naw??

You bleeped one not all. And scientists have carried out tests on these things. So who should i believe: a random guy on public forum who has no evidence, or scientists who carry out research and have evidence

Hmmm he definitely was once a womanizer, cos na dem they strict like this when they have their own family, because they know what they used to do

Teespice:


will you keep quiet.

you are the same person who wrote that you know your cousin is wild and would have lost her virginity.

now you are complaining because nlanders are being overly analytical.

next time don't bring your family or personal matters here

nonsense and ingredient.

;DLmao I love Nairaland

samyfreshsmooth:
My dad once mentioned his brother usually takes his only daughter (my cousin) for virginity test on her birthday so she'll remain a virgin till she gets married.


he (my dad) said he wanted to do same with my sisters but my mom was having none of it cos according to her, she trained, trusts and knows her daughters well



we all thought perhaps he would stop when my cousin crosses her teens but she celebrated her 21st birthday a month ago and 4 days ago i jokingly asked her on whatsapp if her dad still took her for the tests and she said yes!!


honestly at first i was shocked and thought my uncle crazy but on second thoughts, i believe what he's doing is a little right


seeing how wild my cous is (being an only girl and all) i'm 100% certain she'd have long lost her virginity if not for that


i think i will do that for my future daughter(s) cos this world is evil and boys are not to be trusted (girls too)



anyways what do you guys think............is it ideal and advisable or not?

Boys are not to be trusted. So instead of looking for a way to make boys accoubtable for their sexual missconduct, you subject your daughter to embarassing vaginal checkups in retaliation for boys behaving badly? How wise of you. I was expecting you to say boys should be trained to regard sex as sacred to be enjoyed in marriage. But No you would rather boys remain wild while girls pay the price of the boys life choices. This is why rape attracts less punishment than stealing maggi with a knife in naija.

RuthlessLeader:

You bleeped one not all. And scientists have carried out tests on these things. So who should i believe: a random guy on public forum who has no evidence, or scientists who carry out research and have evidence

Lol, believe what you want.
Its your funeral.
I don't care one way or another who you choose to believe.

Problem here what I believe matters.
It would take several thousand of you to carry that same curse.
Well that's neither here nor there.

Oh by the way, your right .

samyfreshsmooth:
y'all seem to be forgeting it's my cousin we're talking about here wey una dey shout leaking anus leaking anus



na me do myself wey i carry the matter come here sha


y'all left the topic and main question i asked to start discussing anus



leaking anus kee all of you there

hahahahah... I can't stop laughing at this your comment particularly the last statement. Very funny!

LaudableXX:


Abeg, help me tell dem, o! In fact, I shake my head in shock, each time I read some of the responses that flow from people's keyboards, on NL.

Come to the far North, where girls as young as 14 - 17 get married as virgins, to different men. Yet such men still end up marrying, 2 or 3 more wives, after contracting a marriage with such girls. Did their virginity not cause the man to fall in love with them, or was it not strong enough to make him reject polygamy? Nansense!

Seriously, I don't understand how people can pretend to be this ignorant. Or maybe they are really ignorant.

Yes o.. I've seen cases of men marrying another wife or even keeping a girlfriend/girlfriends outside despite marrying their wives as virgins. Some of even end up divorcing. I'm sure people know this but have refused to come to terms with it.

It is a good thing to keep one's virginity if you really want to But don't do it with the expectation that it will be an automatic ticket to a happy or successful marriage. Unfortunately, that's not how it is in reality. You might just get disappointed.

Chi59:
Nonsense

Why Chi?

Daeylar:
This is beyond disgusting. Her virginity is her business , she is above 18, she does with her body as she pleases. It disgusts me when I see men(or anyone really) trying to act as if they own the female body (either their daughters or sisters or wives or andom women)
However even if the girl is below 18, this is still disgusting. She has sole ownership of her body.

Even as an adult, smear tests are so embarrassing.

lovethchioma:
They are doing very well because she married as a virgin?
You are leaving out cases of so many people who married as virgins and now their marriage are in shambles. Virginity does not keep a marriage. Are you too dull to understand this fact? The success of a marriage is independent of their virginity status. It takes a lot of work and commitment to keep a marriage through God's help and not Virginity.

The bride price was something else? I'm beginning to understand this is the reason why you people are concerned about Virginity. So, you can collect and collect and collect from the man coming to marry the woman.. all in the name of "virginity".
Now listen up; Women are not properties that you try to protect and keep until when she's getting married, in order to sell off for a high price.
It's this stupid mentality that makes men treat their wives like anyhow and not as a partner that should be respected. Because they feel they bought her like one of their properties. Nonsense...

Sure. Virginity is not everything. It's something valuable, all the same.

Which will you choose for your brother or son?

1. A well-brought up, homely, intelligent, wife-material lady who is a VIRGIN

2. A well-brought up, homely, intelligent, wife-material lady who is NOT a VIRGIN

Your answer is everything...

I didnt say we taxed our inlaws. All I said is that they voluntarily brought far more than we requested.

And my relation is in a mutually-respectful and loving marriage. Her husband sees her as a partner...

Wait, this really angered me. How can a whole 21 year old woman be okay with this? Doesnt Nigeria have functioning human rights systems? Try that sht in my country and women's rights activists will gladly drag your behind to court and wipe the floor with it! Nonsense!

RiyadhGoddess:
With the rate at which this world is going, I might do the same to my daughters but in a more friendly mode. The rate at which all this small girls of 13 , 14 up are discussing boyfriend issues, sex has become chewing gum to them. All this small girls of 13, 14 now wants to use iPhone and expensive things. They are beginning to compete with older ladies. They influence and initiate their mates or themselves. Sex has become nothing to them or let me say it has become a way of life to them. Before I left Nigeria, you all need to see how all this small girls of 13 dey carry belle. Some at their age was already doing family planning. How can a girl of 14 tell me that she did IUD implant in her arm. I didn't know what was IUD until she said family planning. I died and woke up. Me at my age never do family planning, na this small girl dey do family planning. I think they increase their age or something because I wonder the doctors who does such thing to underage girls. If you don't understand what I'm saying, just go to a particular area where they have jamb, GCE, waec etc tutorial and you will understand what I'm saying.
At this rate, I might as in I might consider having a virginity test for all my daughters but like I said, in a more friendly manner like having it look like a promise and ensuring that each parties keeps to the promises made...
If you remain a virgin, I will give you a life long assurance that no man can ever give to you lol.
Fulfil each promises at each stage till my pikins go to their husband house...
Note the same is applicable to my male sons ooo. I must raise kings. My daughters can't be queens while I raise wandering dicks rara ko jor mehn.

smh.... So you'd perform virginity tests on your son(s) too?

samyfreshsmooth:
My dad once mentioned his brother usually takes his only daughter (my cousin) for virginity test on her birthday so she'll remain a virgin till she gets married.


he (my dad) said he wanted to do same with my sisters but my mom was having none of it cos according to her, she trained, trusts and knows her daughters well



we all thought perhaps he would stop when my cousin crosses her teens but she celebrated her 21st birthday a month ago and 4 days ago i jokingly asked her on whatsapp if her dad still took her for the tests and she said yes!!


honestly at first i was shocked and thought my uncle crazy but on second thoughts, i believe what he's doing is a little right


seeing how wild my cous is (being an only girl and all) i'm 100% certain she'd have long lost her virginity if not for that


i think i will do that for my future daughter(s) cos this world is evil and boys are not to be trusted (girls too)



anyways what do you guys think............is it ideal and advisable or not?

tell ur unkle that he is maddddddddddddddddddddddddddd

That uncle of yours is a very "mumu" man. He fails to realize that virginity test is another easy and indirect way to disvirgin a woman.

This Is Like God Telling Eve Not To Eat The That Forbidden Fruit.....

I Hope She Doesn't Get The Uncle's Wrath Afterwards....

Kai, Orishirishi

he is actually abusing her but he doesn't know. that girl will despise him later in life

KhadyM:
Wait, this really angered me. How can a whole 21 year old woman be okay with this? Doesnt Nigeria have functioning human rights systems? Try that sht in my country and women's rights activists will gladly drag your behind to court and wipe the floor with it! Nonsense!

Hmmmm.... This Tells Why Nigeria Smallie's Are Growing Wild.

This Foreigner's Paving Their Satanic Mind On The Our Smallie's....

Internet, Look What Youve Done