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Is He Being Selfish Or Self-centered? / Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting / Am I Selfish Or My Girlfriend Wrong For Been Angry With Me ??? (2) (3) (4)

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by ednut1(m): 8:50pm On Jun 09, 2018
Dump her

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by MissRaine69(f): 8:58pm On Jun 09, 2018
You need to run.
That level of immaturity and thinking is not worth planning a future with.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Twoclans(f): 8:59pm On Jun 09, 2018
You guys get upset too easily ,she said she will contribute when you are down financially. Guy open the business for her ,after five months tell her you are down financially and that you are in a huge debt then allow her take over the finances of the home while you chill.

Cunny man die cunny man burry am angry

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by SoapQueen(f): 9:01pm On Jun 09, 2018
Twoclans:
You guys get upset too easily ,she said she will contribute when you are down financially. Guy open the business for her ,after five months tell her you are down financially and that you are in a huge debt then allow her take over the finances of the home while you chill.

Cunny man die funny man burry am angry

Make water carry me go if the girl no dump this guy like hot potato when he broke.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Twoclans(f): 9:04pm On Jun 09, 2018
SoapQueen:


Make water carry me go if the girl no dump this guy like hot potato when he broke.


LOL

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jun 09, 2018
If she wasn't joking when she said that, well....good luck with the marriage. lipsrsealed

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by futurism: 9:08pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

Lalasticlala.
don't make the mistake of marrying a selfish woman... Don't ever think it. You will wish you were never born.

My aunt sustain her home for years when her husband lost his job.

It is so pathetic. Better go and look for a woman with compassionate soul and this is no time to be sentimental.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by futurism: 9:11pm On Jun 09, 2018
IamD18:


Will you shurup! embarassed Look at you attacking her truthful comment but couldn't attack a lady who wants to suck you dry in reality.

You are a disgrace to men. How did you even manage to get 5 million to call your own with this weakness and pussay ass behavior of yours?

Did you even read what you wrote up there?

You want to invest 5 million in a woman who made it clear that she won't be contributing in your home, and here you are, crying like a sissy and asking for advice on what to do?

Invest 20 million in her or better still ask a secondary school student for advice. NONESENSE

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by futurism: 9:12pm On Jun 09, 2018
Omachona:
Open the lab in your name, employ her as the managing director. Pay her from the proceeds after all accounting has been done. Let her know from onset that the lab belongs to you
still doesn't work that way. I would not advice he marry her. People won't change!

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by futurism: 9:17pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

You are a bloody sissy. Forked up moronic sissy. Get some balls and act like a man. How dare you defend what she said and try to galvanize her ugly image.

Go ahead and marry her Na... What is the business of nairalanders.?

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by austyn0(m): 9:21pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.
It got to the extent of you contemplating on if she is right or wrong,, you are still indirectly defending her despite people pointing you to the direction of truth....

Why do I have a feeling that there is something you are not telling us??

Two things are involved,, it is either she is giving you the kinda sex you have never experienced your entire life or she is using juju on you....For you to reason the matter show sey the juju never strong,, make hay while the sun shines.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by futurism: 9:25pm On Jun 09, 2018
Twoclans:
You guys get upset too easily ,she said she will contribute when you are down financially. Guy open the business for her ,after five months tell her you are down financially and that you are in a huge debt then allow her take over the finances of the home while you chill.

Cunny man die cunny man burry am angry
lol... No need to try.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by futurism: 9:26pm On Jun 09, 2018
SoapQueen:


Make water carry me go if the girl no dump this guy like hot potato when he broke.

my thoughts exactly.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Jun 09, 2018
ednut1:
hr might be lieng about d 5m sha. Have faced sometin lik dis before. Met one babe at an event , we bcam friends and wanted to date her o. This babe pman get money and foots most of her bills. D sis earns 500k in a bank bt when she bashes d car she uses na pman dey pay cheesy. D babe told me if we marry na me go dey foot all bills (her wigs lasan na 60k), say her money is hers mine is ours. Ontop my small salary. I just flee o. One prince don engage am now grin
More reason you should go for your size ni. The prince will gladly foot all her bills. Better luck next time grin

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by IamAirforce1: 10:19pm On Jun 09, 2018
Drop any plan of marrying that woman if you like your life ...

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Celestyn8213: 10:20pm On Jun 09, 2018
Carry ya Kross
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by drdeola001: 10:20pm On Jun 09, 2018
If u marry her you are making the greatest mistake if your life.
Look elsewhere she isn't your better half

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Jun 09, 2018
After boo,kin space,i realized i dnt hv anytin to say...am out

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Munzy14(m): 10:22pm On Jun 09, 2018
IamD18:
Bruv, how do you want the thunder that will strike sense and brain inside you?

How do you want the thunder


Boiled or fried? embarassed
funny comment of the month.lmaoooooo.God just revealed that broda the mentality of a woman he is planning to settle down with.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Otunski: 10:22pm On Jun 09, 2018
My brother run for your life. I bet you if you marry her to buy salt or Maggi for soup will be difficult for her to do. Imagine this kai mentality.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by bigpicture001: 10:22pm On Jun 09, 2018
Mercurypanther:
This is a good sign to Run from her, I strongly believe marriage is a two ends thing... If she wants your money to finish before supporting the House that's a good example of a slay Queen and not a wife Queen... Even with you setting up the Business... My Guy hope you've not given her engagement Ring... If you have, collect am ASAP... Her mindset towards marriage is polluted....
...98% gals don't tink spending on the family dey raised with the husband is a good idea..they are too selfish.thats y men die very fast from stroke..

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Mutemenot(m): 10:22pm On Jun 09, 2018
Op, your girlfriend is Selling Fish simple shocked

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Lexusgs430: 10:22pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.


You better leave this trouble.... A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage......

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by wiloy2k8(m): 10:23pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.


No complain later .

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by obaataaokpaewu: 10:23pm On Jun 09, 2018
Open the lab in your name to avoid had I known

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by sisisioge: 10:24pm On Jun 09, 2018
Well well well...now is the time to talk plenty about this. Biko after the dust settles, try again. It is direly important you iron this out before you get married.

Some women don't believe in contributory family financing while some do...biko know wella before you guys start a family. Good luck.
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by bethyz(m): 10:24pm On Jun 09, 2018
Do you know what she is 101% right. Every young man who is not married will say go against that. If you go for counselling for marriage they will tell you men should take there mind off what is in the woman's pocket. Be a responsible man take care of the family. The woman will help when it's necceasery. She is a help mate. You can discuss with her which possible way she wants to contribute . You will find out you dont even need to tell her she will take up some responsibility who ever is telling you dump her leave her she isn't a good woman is just childish. I went for three month proper counselling for marriage in Winners Chapel. She is right. take care of her love her. You will find out all she said won't be what she will do .

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by babyfaceafrica: 10:25pm On Jun 09, 2018
And you are asking what to do?...,are you okay?..does this gal look like a good wife?..guy use your head now

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Klington: 10:26pm On Jun 09, 2018
if ur story is anything to go by,then you need just on thing "COMMONSENSE".....the handwrting is very clear..

You should be thanking God for exposing her true colour b4 you walk down...

a failed relationship is far better than a failed marriage

Use ur head

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by babyfaceafrica: 10:27pm On Jun 09, 2018
bethyz:
Do you know what she is 101% right. Every young man who is not married will say go against that. If you go for counselling for marriage they will tell you men should take there mind off what is in the woman's pocket. Be a responsible man take care of the family. The woman will help when it's necceasery. She is a help mate. You can discuss with her which possible way she wants to contribute . You will find out you dont even need to tell her she will take up some responsibility who ever is telling you dump her leave her she isn't a good woman is just childish. I went for three month proper counselling for marriage in Winners Chapel. She is right. take care of her love her. You will find out all she said won't be what she will do .
Jesus!!!!!..... You are one of the reason people don't get married!!

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