MariaLavina:
*Swallows my pride
*Drinks water
* Edits post



Thhh.... nnnnkkkk... Y... uuuuuu! That wasn't easy

Your appreciation is a reflection of character.

MariaLavina:
Darling,your attempt at savagery falls more into a comic relief than an attempt . Go sit your hyperventilating ass somewhere and allow brilliant minds help the Original Poster out of her dilemma.

Awwwn now you're sounding vexed. So the 'comic relief' is getting u dis worked up
What are you going to do when you face real heat.. Fall down and die?
We know brilliant minds when we see one. They don't go about famzing themselves

nanauju:


Awwwn now you're sounding vexed. So the 'comic relief' is getting u dis worked up
What are you going to do when you face real heat.. Fall down and die?
We know brilliant minds when we see one. They don't go about famzing themselves

Honey, I just threw a 'k' go fetch it.

GrammarNazi1:

Your appreciation is a reflection of character.

My cheeks are on fire

Okay, 'loose ' and 'lose' , please help me out with their usage.

MariaLavina:
Honey, I just threw a 'k' go fetch it.

After you dearie.. One love

Optionally:
I Have been dating him for almost 2 years now and i am looking forward to marrying him but his temper has always been too much.
He easily get annoyed over little things.
One minute he his happy and loving with me and the other minute he his something else.Sometimes i would be confused on what to do cause i may do A and he will get annoyed and i may do B and he will still get annoyed,I just get tired and confused.
Please what can i do cause i really love him but sometimes he can be really aggressive towards me.

I could tell you to advice him to go for anger management classes cos he has some issues he needs to deal with.
But the truth if you will listen is to both become born again. Only Jesus can save him and you too.
It's easy to pick another's fault but have you confronted your own demons?

MariaLavina:
My cheeks are on fire

Okay, 'loose ' and 'lose' , please help me out with their usage.

I don't want to lose you, my love.
She was wearing a loose dress.

Do you understand it a tad better now?

pull out.soon it may become abusive

GrammarNazi1:
I don't want to lose you, my love. She was wearing a loose dress.
Do you understand it a tad better now?

Affirmative!

Thanks

MariaLavina:
Affirmative!


Thanks

You're welcome.

Bluezy13:


I just modified it. (Explained)

A resounding slap would have followed this my explanation if I was your boyfriend.

Abeg bros go Sidon for corner first

Have you spoken to him about this? If so, what was his response? Is he aware of his problem? Has he at least tried to change? Do you know if there’s a deep rooted reason for his behaviour? Is he abusive?

Situations like this usually only get worse and may get physical (if it hasn’t already). I know you love him, but do you really want to live the rest of your life treading on eggshells because he can’t control his temper?

If he’s at least self aware, actively trying to change, is hot tempered, but not necessarily abusive and a decent enough boyfriend in other areas to make staying with him worth it anyway, don’t abandon him if you personally are still willing to save the relationship, work with him in taking steps to improve. Get him to see a specialist (if you have access to one), anger management classes etc. It will take a lot of patience and only do it you’re willing. Also, don’t be that long-suffering girlfriend who continues to stick it out if there’s no sign of improvement by the way, it won’t take a week, but if it’s been like 6 months for example and there’s no marked improvement, it’s time to hang up the towel.

If he’s abused you in any way and/or is not even aware that he has a problem and isn’t willing to try and change, it may be best to move on. 2 years is a long time and I’m sure you’ve both invested a lot into the relationship, but don’t underestimate the danger you could be in if this is left to worsen.

ibkayee:
Have you spoken to him about this? If so, what was his response? Is he aware of his problem? Has he at least tried to change? Do you know if there’s a deep rooted reason for his behaviour? Is he abusive?

Situations like this usually only get worse and may get physical (if it hasn’t already). I know you love him, but do you really want to live the rest of your life treading on eggshells because he can’t control his temper?

If he’s at least self aware, actively trying to change, is hot tempered, but not necessarily abusive and a decent enough boyfriend in other areas to make staying with him worth it anyway, don’t abandon him if you personally are still willing to save the relationship, work with him in taking steps to improve. Get him to see a specialist (if you have access to one), anger management classes etc. It will take a lot of patience and only do it you’re willing. Also, don’t be that long-suffering girlfriend who continues to stick it out if there’s no sign of improvement by the way, it won’t take a week, but if it’s been like 6 months for example and there’s no marked improvement, it’s time to hang up the towel.

If he’s abused you in any way and/or is not even aware that he has a problem and isn’t willing to try and change, it may be best to move on. 2 years is a long time and I’m sure you’ve both invested a lot into the relationship, but don’t underestimate the danger you could be in if this is left to worsen.

I've tried countless times to speak to him about it but he only gets angry and only on few occasions he hit me.

nanauju:
This is domestic violence in its baby stage. Try to talk to him and see if anything positive will come out of it. BTW why are you attracted to an aggressive man. Is it the money? I personally can't deal o

she's attracted and obsessed with the guy because of one of these;
1. Money
2. Money
3. Money or
4. Money

Optionally:

I've tried countless times to speak to him about it but he only gets angry and only on few occasions he hit me.

No justification for physical violence unless it's in self defence, not everyone can be helped or wants help and he's not likely to stop so leave him asap

You planning to marry him or he is planning to marry you?

Am wondering who is doing the plannings here

Optionally:

I don't think he even knows that he has serious temper cos each time i try to talk to him about it he gets really annoyed.

What did he study in school and what about u ?
Does he just lose his temper or he goes aggressive to the extent of raising his hands against you ?

Other than temper issues, do u guys have any area of agreement I.e areas where you guys share similar ideology ?

Do you think he has more IQ than you or you have more IQ than him ?

Anytime he lost it , who later become right and who later accepts wrong ?

Do you love him enough to stay with him all through your life despite his temper issues or are you scared ?
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if you answer all my questions above, it can give you clues on what to do to correct his anger !

Optionally:
I don't even know.I honestly love him so much but his behaviour can be really bad attimes but he loves me too.

Eyaaa, at times in the future reality clear our eyes from the captivity of love .......

MariaLavina:
Honey, I just threw a 'k' go fetch it.

u self like fight, u shd have simply refer to Op's DP and all these wahala might be avoided .... Now, you asked her to figure what she can't comprehend

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never ends well babe, trust me on this.

hot tempered and abusive guys only get worse and 2 years is already a long time for him to have actively tried to calm down for you at least

i attended my guy's sisters wedding to a younger temperamental guy.
The marriage crashed after a year cos the crazy guy was beating the wife who was pregnant already. She would run into the bedroom and close the door and the hubby woukd be hitting the door ( i saw pictures). she had scars on her body also.
My guy and his other brothers went to the house to beat the crazy guy and carried their sister away.
She has a baby boy now and is taking care of her son herself

Run now or manage for now and run after you get married, you'll still run eventually

nanauju:


I hope you know that this rubbish you typed can pass as sexual harassment

Bring your laps let me walk through the path to heaven's gate

RedDistrict:
never ends well babe, trust me on this.

hot tempered and abusive guys only get worse and 2 years is already a long time for him to have actively tried to calm down for you at least

i attended my guy's sisters wedding to a younger temperamental guy.
The marriage crashed after a year cos the crazy guy was beating the wife who was pregnant already. She would run into the bedroom and close the door and the hubby woukd be hitting the door ( i saw pictures). she had scars on her body also.
My guy and his other brothers went to the house to beat the crazy guy and carried their sister away.
She has a baby boy now and is taking care of her son herself

Run now or manage for now and run after you get married, you'll still run eventually

She will not hear, she will now come back after d guy don design her body with different colours 3 days after wedding...

Optionally:
I Have been dating him for almost 2 years now and i am looking forward to marrying him but his temper has always been too much.
He easily get annoyed over little things.
One minute he his happy and loving with me and the other minute he his something else.Sometimes i would be confused on what to do cause i may do A and he will get annoyed and i may do B and he will still get annoyed,I just get tired and confused.
Please what can i do cause i really love him but sometimes he can be really aggressive towards me.

Or i advise you to go learn karate and boxing... The guy may be gud in karate n not boxing and vice-versa. So pls learn the two so that u can have an upper hand in case u guys wan fight... Don't let anyone cheat u Cox u a lady, learn karate and boxing n tryout randy orton, John cena and undertaker smack down... It will be helpful in the future

Optionally:

I don't think he even knows that he has serious temper cos each time i try to talk to him about it he gets really annoyed.

Op i advise you to go learn karate and boxing... The guy may be gud in karate n not boxing and vice-versa. So pls learn the two so that u can have an upper hand in case u guys wan fight... Don't let anyone cheat u Cox u a lady, learn karate and boxing n tryout randy orton, John cena and undertaker smack down... It will be helpful in the future

DonroxyII:
u self like fight, u shd have simply refer to Op's DP and all these wahala might be avoided .... Now, you asked her to figure what she can't comprehend

leaf are nah let him b desiving are sef.
Lalasticlala epp op move too Fp.

DonroxyII:
u self like fight, u shd have simply refer to Op's DP and all these wahala might be avoided .... Now, you asked her to figure what she can't comprehend

I had the perception of her being a bias feminist wannabe never knew attention seeking and low IQ are featured attributes. If I had known these, I wouldn't have quoted her in the first place.

Bite his dik while giving him bj...
He will respect u forever

Optionally:
I Have been dating him for almost 2 years now and i am looking forward to marrying him but his temper has always been too much.
He easily get annoyed over little things.
One minute he his happy and loving with me and the other minute he is something else. Sometimes i would be confused on what to do cause i may do A and he will get annoyed and i may do B and he will still get annoyed,I just get tired and confused.
Please what can i do cause i really love him but sometimes he can be really aggressive towards me.

There are quite a no of reasons people get angry irrationally.

Simple:: the trending thing is cutting his willy. Do it and stop disturbin us

That's the universe dropping little hints, But of course love conquers alls. So just switch off your brain and let love leads.

Your sig says "his rage doesnt matter" girl one day his rage will explode and he will beat the daylight out of you, be wise, save yourself before its too late.