babyfaceafrica:
lolz..like how telemundo also applies to real life abi?....nothing beats real.life experiences

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STICK AROUND DOING WHAT? CONTRIBUTING TO A MAN'S GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT OR EXTORTING FROM HIM WHILE THREATENING TO LEAVE HIM FOR SOMEONE BETTER?
PLEASE.




IT'S FUNNY THOUGH. GIFTS AND ENDLESS PRAISES FOR STICKING WITH ME WHEN I HAD NOTHING? LOL. I HAD NOTHING BUT I PAY FOR YOUR HAIR AND SUB. I GOT YOU HANDOUTS AND CLOTHES AND SOMETIMES ADDED TO YOUR SCHOOL FEES AND ENSURED YOU FED WELL. I'M NOT THE PERSON WHO IS SUPPOSED TO BE SAYING THANK YOU, WHEN ALL YOU DID WAS PLACE ME IN CHARGE OF YOUR SURVIVAL.


2 BROKE PEOPLE. STRUGGLING TO MAKE MONEY.
AFTER SOME TIME THE MAN GETS A SOURCE OF GETTING MONEY..
THE WOMAN SHOULD CONGRATULATE AND CELEBRATE THE MAN FOR BEING A BETTER ADULT AND STEPPING UP TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING WHEN ALL SHE DID IN THE PREVIOUS YEARS WAS LAY AROUND, FOLLOW FASHION TRENDS AND ENGAGE WITH OTHER TOASTERS ON FACEBOOK PRAYING THAT ONE OF THEM WOULD CONVINCE HER TO ABANDON HER BOYFRIEND.

NOBODY IS IRREPLACEABLE. PERSONALLY I'VE GONE THROUGH A LOT TO REALIZE STRESSING TOO MUCH OVER PEOPLE IS NOT WORTH IT. THEY GON LEAVE YOUR SORRY ASŚ JUST THE WAY THEY CAME.
I CAN'T BE THANKING ANYONE FOR BEING WITH ME IF I CANNOT FIND THE POSITIVITY THEY ADDED TO MY LIFE.

IT'S QUITE LAUGHABLE THAT COOKING, CLEANING, AND SEX ARE WHAT SOME PEOPLE COUNT AS CONTRIBUTIONS TO A MAN'S LIFE WHEN HE WAS BROKE.
IF THAT'S ALL YOU'RE GETTING FROM YOUR PARTNER THEN YOU'RE LOSING NIL TO ONE MILLION.

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STICK AROUND DOING WHAT? CONTRIBUTING TO A MAN'S GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT OR EXTORTING FROM HIM WHILE THREATENING TO LEAVE HIM FOR SOMEONE BETTER?
PLEASE.




IT'S FUNNY THOUGH. GIFTS AND ENDLESS PRAISES FOR STICKING WITH ME WHEN I HAD NOTHING? LOL. I HAD NOTHING BUT I PAY FOR YOUR HAIR AND SUB. I GOT YOU HANDOUTS AND CLOTHES AND SOMETIMES ADDED TO YOUR SCHOOL FEES AND ENSURED YOU FED WELL. I'M NOT THE PERSON WHO IS SUPPOSED TO BE SAYING THANK YOU, WHEN ALL YOU DID WAS PLACE ME IN CHARGE OF YOUR SURVIVAL.


2 BROKE PEOPLE. STRUGGLING TO MAKE MONEY.
AFTER SOME TIME THE MAN GETS A SOURCE OF GETTING MONEY..
THE WOMAN SHOULD CONGRATULATE AND CELEBRATE THE MAN FOR BEING A BETTER ADULT AND STEPPING UP TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING WHEN ALL SHE DID IN THE PREVIOUS YEARS WAS LAY AROUND, FOLLOW FASHION TRENDS AND ENGAGE WITH OTHER TOASTERS ON FACEBOOK PRAYING THAT ONE OF THEM WOULD CONVINCE HER TO ABANDON HER BOYFRIEND.

NOBODY IS IRREPLACEABLE. PERSONALLY I'VE GONE THROUGH A LOT TO REALIZE STRESSING TOO MUCH OVER PEOPLE IS NOT WORTH IT. THEY GON LEAVE YOUR SORRY ASŚ JUST THE WAY THEY CAME.
I CAN'T BE THANKING ANYONE FOR BEING WITH ME IF I CANNOT FIND THE POSITIVITY THEY ADDED TO MY LIFE.

IT'S QUITE LAUGHABLE THAT COOKING, CLEANING, AND SEX ARE WHAT SOME PEOPLE COUNT AS CONTRIBUTIONS TO A MAN'S LIFE WHEN HE WAS BROKE.
IF THAT'S ALL YOU'RE GETTING FROM YOUR PARTNER THEN YOU'RE LOSING NIL TO ONE MILLION.

carammel:
Today, girls stop chasing already made men around, why don't you date broke guys and build with them.

Tomorrow, any girl that dates a broke guy does not deserve any reward at the long run.

When a broke girl dates a rich guy, she's a gold digger.

When a rich girl date a broke guy, she's a fool,why would she stoop so low?

When a broke girl dates a broke guy, she deserves no reward..

When a rich girl dates a rich guy, she's so proud and stingy, she can't date a broke guy to help his ministry.

Confusion! Confusion!! Confusion!!!

Funkybabee:
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Hmmmm film,some might be real so u believe everything they did is lies!!!! Check my statement bck

Funkybabee:



Yes,we shouldn't but Yoruba says 'we first look house before naming a new child' and a word describe a person

Banter1:
It is a privilege to date some girls. Do you know how many guys have asked her out and she has turned them down and choose you?

Iamgrey5:
Although I am Yoruba, I have to clearly state that I have never heard of such proverb before. Regardless, I understand what you are trying to say, but the proverb was made with the social media in mind. We are going through a different time.

babyfaceafrica:
that proverb is damn popular mhen..ile LA n WO ki a to somoluko

carammel:
Today, girls stop chasing already made men around, why don't you date broke guys and build with them.

Tomorrow, any girl that dates a broke guy does not deserve any reward at the long run.

When a broke girl dates a rich guy, she's a gold digger.

When a rich girl date a broke guy, she's a fool,why would she stoop so low?

When a broke girl dates a broke guy, she deserves no reward..

When a rich girl dates a rich guy, she's so proud and stingy, she can't date a broke guy to help his ministry.

Confusion! Confusion!! Confusion!!!

mimimile93:



She fed him, she stood by him, she gave him words of encouragement, she took insult from colleagues bla bla bla.

If she really did all these, why did they break up?

Rememba the guy who bought the Benz said he was the one that dumped the lady.

The lady was that good why did he dump her?

Y'all are just bloody leeches..

Women seem to have foresights.
They easily detect guys who will hammer and they get stuck to such guys no matter how the condition is or how bad the guys treat them they get stuck cause they know in due time the guys would hammer..


I don't owe no b!tch any penny.

I don't bring any ho.e into my success story.

I hustle alone and make it alone..

I am going to prove whoever said
"BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN THERE'S A WOMAN" wrong..

I am making it without y'all prostitutes..

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WHAT ABOUT THE PEOPLE I STuCK TO WHEN THEY HAD NOTHING?

HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT THAT I TOO, MUST TO BE COMPENSATED AND APPRECIATED?

OR IT ONLY WORKS IF I'M A WOMAN?

I DON'T UNDERSTAND.

makydebbie:
Learnt a lot from this thread.

Hanseel1:


Debo, you really shouldn't be saying this.

We're literally not saying that people who contributed to your success shouldn't be appreciated. Just that, appreciate because you can afford to not because she stayed even without contributing ideas and finance because it'll look as if she was dating you out of pity.

You've to analyze and understand.

makydebbie:


What's this?
Is it guilty conscience that's doing you or what? Do you know what I've learnt? Unsolicited quote.
Go and quote someone else ojare.

Hanseel1:


Hmm... You sound angry.

Well, hope you don't change your personality because of this thread.

makydebbie:


What's this?
Is it guilty conscience that's doing you or what? Do you know what I've learnt? Unsolicited quote.
Go and quote someone else ojare.

makydebbie:

You quoted me, typing things I didn't ask for like you read my mind or something. I'm like..

I've learnt, we learn everyday. Bye.

Hanseel1:


Hmm... You sound angry.

Well, hope you don't change your personality because of this thread.

DonPiiko:
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babyfaceafrica:
do you know how many ladies advances some guys have resisted?...

fancy4eve:
off cus, if a lady could appreciate a bottle of water, den b sure she will show gratitude wen u Gift her more.

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I WILL APPRECIATE A BOTTLE OF WATER, SURELY. I'LL APPRECIATE EVERY GOOD THING YOU GIVE ME. I DON'T NEED TO BE A MILLIONAIRE BEFORE I KNOW I HAVE TO APPRECIATE YOU. APPRECIATION IS SOMETHING THAT MUST FOLLOW EVERY KIND GESTURE.
I'LL APPRECIATE THAT YOU HELPED ME GET A JOB. THAT YOU HELPED ME GET CLOTHES FOR THE INTERVIEW WHEN I COULDN'T AFFORD A PAIR OF SOCKS. I'LL APPRECIATE HOW YOU INSPIRED ME, COUNSELED AND GUIDED ME, AND SHELTERED ME WHEN I HAD NOTHING.

I WON'T BUY YOU A CAR AND POST YOUR PICTURES EVERYWHERE WHEN I BECOME RICH SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU PICKED MY CALLS (WHEN YOU'RE NOT TALKING TO OTHER IMPORTANT BOYS) AND HELPED IN COOKING THE FOOD I BOUGHT WITH MY OWN MONEY.

LADIES THIS DAYS OFFER COMPLETELY NOTHING OTHER THAN THEIR MERE PRESENCE IN YOUR LIFE WHILE CAUSING PROBLEMS EVERY HERE AND THERE, EXTORTING FROM THE LITTLE YOU HAVE AND COMPARING YOU WITH OTHER BOYS.. AND EXPECT REWARDS WHEN YOU'VE MADE IT. GIRL, YOU SHOULD TATTOO MY NAME ON YOUR FACE AND WORSHIP ME INSTEAD.

SOME STAY THERE NOT BECAUSE THEY BELIEVED YOU'LL MAKE IT. BUT BECAUSE IT DIDN'T WORK OUT FINE WITH THE OTHER MEN THEY TRIED TO ELOPE WITH.


WOMEN'S PROBLEM IS THAT THEY ALWAYS BELIEVE THEY'RE ENTITLED TO FREE THINGS. NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING. NOBODY.

XhosaNostra:
No it's not wrong. Even cellular networks give people loyalty points

Well, loyalty is very rare, so I'd also be generous & kind to people who have been there for me through it all. It's being human.

donstan18:
First; There's nothing like a lady who stuck with you when you were poor, rather say "Partners who stuck with themselves when they were poor".

To your post.

Reward is a valuable prize given in return for an act or deed.

Reason why such rare ladies are rewarded is because Nigerian ladies date for money, relationship is like a job opportunity to them and an avenue for them to escape poverty, they go in a relationship for money which is one of the reasons they'll continue to be seen as write-off as long as relationship is concerned.

Don't blame them anyway. Prostitutes don't joke with their money.

The only set of female exes that should be rewarded if necessary are those set of ladies who contributed to your struggles and wealth when you had nothing.



Calling you a fool will be an insult to fools out there.

You as a lady who sees it as a favor to date a struggling man, who's your father? what do you have? What are you offering?
Are you not struggling?

Well, what do we expect from a society where women disguise as girlfriends to carry out their prostitution works.

dplomaticVal:


Trash.. The analogy is utterly irking! Ahv been using Airtel for roughly 4 years and av gotten zilch, rather they pilfer every single recharge I make.