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Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by cocoboss(m): 10:14am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Real talk...Gosh i can sit on my ass and watch you speak!!! Brava CAPSLOCKED: 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Originalsly: 10:21am On Jul 14, 2018 |
A man rewarding his wife/gf because she stuck with him when he was broke is neither right nor wrong....it is foolish period. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by cyril700(m): 10:43am On Jul 14, 2018 |
well, my own has turned down rich suitors coz of me and is also supporting me from her business money though I do payback. she try and needs to be rewarded 3 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 10:45am On Jul 14, 2018 |
zicoraads:I don't see it as a reward, I see it as a form of appreciation. Even amongst friends, one hardly sees one that will stick to him through difficult times, so there's nothing bad if a guy appreciates a lady who does and vice versa. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by LarryBeryl(m): 11:08am On Jul 14, 2018 |
perfectface: Buying her gifts because you are in love with her is a better reason than because she was with you while you had nothing. It shouldn't be a REWARD but something than comes without a compulsory status |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Obagoblog(m): 11:31am On Jul 14, 2018 |
safarigirl:woman, try and go through that last statement once again with with your brain in active mode. Total rubbish... Give me names of African ladies that became successful without a man... |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by emelda86(f): 11:50am On Jul 14, 2018 |
naijacentric: Ewu awusa ezi okwu na agbagba na nti.....shoir ogbenye onu ntu |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Ugosample(m): 11:56am On Jul 14, 2018 |
missjane: nice point 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Prestige16(m): 1:01pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
You so nailed it. If only most people can reason this way... donstan18: |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by chimaobinelson(m): 1:07pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
donstan18: Am not sure you are a woman(Talk more of Nigerian or Africa) I am greatly astonished by how critically you think... That was an uncommon out of the box thought, i love you for this... 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Coldfeets: 3:00pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
jimcaddy: @chi59 Did you just see what this guy posted? I told you it's better people (most especially men) start seeing marriage as a business venture and you are telling me it's all about love and all that. Well, I'm so glad someone else shares my opinion on that marriage of a thing. By the way, I like this your picture very much. You look so sharp and bright in it... even though the usual smile has gone. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by emelda86(f): 4:05pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
CanineOfJackal: Supu o'gbagbuo GI biko.... |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by naijacentric(m): 4:28pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
emelda86:anufia was dis na u well so |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by excessmon(m): 4:33pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
Opinions here are funny.....why do guys see ladies that stay with them as desperate and the one that leaves as callous.......if God rewards us for being faithful in things that we do then how come as humans we can't reciprocate........appreciate people you will make more in life......more importantly appreciate people that stood by you to get to the top......my opinion though 3 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by piagetskinner(m): 4:37pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
see how most of the ladies here are just spewing trash...lesson here, don't date someone out of pity.. because it will haunt you sooner than later 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by 1234IKECHhukwu: 6:29pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
victorian:U wish. who told u they re lonely & miserable, I want to let u know that re not ready to give up their wealth for any woman dead or alive, don't worry I know what is going in ur mind u wish u identified with them when they were still struggling so as to fill the vacuum that is why u think they re lonely,let me tell u what u don't know about these guys,they re always thinking of the money move they 'll make so as to add to the millions they re already swimming in.that is why u always think in their time of solitude that re miserable. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by victorian(f): 6:52pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
1234IKECHhukwu: Sorry to burst your bubble, with all sense of humility : Am self made , I own two companies ( a group of companies and another pet company I opened years back) , I own cars and few properties here and there all by God's favour and grace , I won't mention the cities, then lastly am in loving stable relationship with a grounded and matured man who knows the value of a good woman in his life.. He's also comfortable as well with a heart of gold. So guy! Don't get it twisted, nothing on earth will make me date any of those emotionally empty comfortable guys on nairaland. I don't need any of them or whatever millions they think they have. God forbid our path even cross. Our paths will never cross, and so shall it be! So don't even go there. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by mgtow: 6:58pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
Group of companies and another pet company hahaha. Only on Nairaland. The dream is free biko. Make una enjoy. Some men value peace of mind than to invite one strange woman into their lives that will turn everywhere upside down. I thank God our numbers are growing. Like someone said, go make your own money then we meet up at SUCCESS CUISINE. No freeloaders here! 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by vision202020: 9:07pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
ibkayee:To see a Nairaland lady with this type of thinking is rare. In short, you deserve 2 bottles of orijin now and a Porsche when your bf hammer. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by vision202020: 9:33pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
safarigirl:Really, you have said well and your words really changed my perception on the subject matter. But I have some objections to raise as regards what you said. 1. How many girls are really sticking with their boyfriends during their struggling times. What are these girls bringing to the relationship then? Money, Food, advice, words of encouragement, total submission to their bf? Most ladies will only say they stood behind their man while he was struggling because of the free sex they gave him. Ask them which other way they stood by him and they go blank. Do the ladies in this category also have the right to say they stood by their bfs? 2. Even if a lady actually stood by her bf by giving all her best in the relationship, she shouldn't feel any sense of entitlement or expecting to be paid back cos the husband is now made. IMO, I expect her to work more on building a successful family rather than expecting a form of appreciation from her husband. If the husband gives her, which I believe a rational man should do, all well and good. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Hauwi(f): 9:25am On Jul 15, 2018 |
All these talk sef..the thing is that all the guys that have done really nice things for their exes and gf's didn't say the ladies asked for it.they do it to show appreciation..so I don't get d 'girls feel entitled' issue here. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by princfred(m): 10:26am On Jul 15, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED:No be lie. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by princfred(m): 10:30am On Jul 15, 2018 |
mgtow:Very funny. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by princfred(m): 10:43am On Jul 15, 2018 |
1234IKECHhukwu:The matter tire me. How can she say a man is miserable when he has enough cash to have plenty women at his call? Where is the loneliest if ladies are practically moaning to be with him to atleast get a share of him? Some of these women are simply delusional. How many poor men are very lonely even in thesame bed with their wife just because of poverty? A man just needs to make money and issue of women is a constant. Many rich guys marry to meet societal standards, for convenience, continuity, goodness sake or if the woman gives him enough reason to marry her by her doings not to cure loneliness when money can buy even 3 woman by his side every day. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by princfred(m): 10:58am On Jul 15, 2018 |
mgtow:And the man has to buy her a car for that (even if the advice na good or bad one) ....otherwise ...lol....phony orientation. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by princfred(m): 11:04am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Hanseel1:Lol... is that what it is? |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by princfred(m): 11:12am On Jul 15, 2018 |
The answer depends on what she was doing while being stuck to the broke guy -Was she contributing positively to uplifting and making him successful? Or was she tapping the little he had, threatening, loathing or nagging around while waiting for the guy to done? |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Funkybabee(f): 12:30pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Iamgrey5: Lols u are a Yoruba but haven't hear about that proverb Anyway as u said everyone have a differents view! 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Funkybabee(f): 12:35pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica: Yes but you know some things does not require experience before you know the real fact about it!! E.g telling a person not should touch a fire because it might hurt, 2 death |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by ibinaboonline: 7:51pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Na, not quite. Without. going into a tirade let me ask you this question; you do not do God a favor when you do what He says, but it's in order to expect approval from Him. That approval could come in various ways including material blessings. Am I right? See, what you see as 'favour' I see as appreciation. It's very very good and commendable not to mention it sets an example, encourages the hesitant woman and inspires the young. It's not called 'reward' it's called 'appreciation' even though I still think it's right even as a reward. Yes, she's not doing you a favor by sticking with you but she has definitely shown a commendable trait that should be appreciated or 'rewarded', whatever name you wish to call it. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by bukatyne(f): 10:17pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
ShakurM: Ok o. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by donjobill: 12:50am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Funkybabee: I have been following how Iamgrey5 and babyfaceafrica are trying to let you understand what you read, with objective mind. However, you seem to be bent on allowing the viewpoints expressed here to affect you so much as to affect your attitude towards men. As we go about our daily living, our brain is constantly bombarded with so many inputs from TV, from the papers, from videos, from friends, family, online and in real life. These inputs could affect us positively or negatively. It is our responsibility to choose to accept and allow into our brains only the inputs that will generate within us, positive attitude towards life and ignore those that will generate negative attitude within us. And our attitude towards life, in turn, determines the experiences we would be having. If you have a positive attitude towards life, even if a negatively minded, self-centered individual enters into your life, the person cannot stay for long. Because the two of you will not sync. That is, if you maintain a positive attitude. That's why it's important not to accept and allow any trash you are reading here enter into your brain and let it affect your attitude towards life. 1 Like |
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