stargyall:
well mine was really traumatizing ,, I was 15year old, just left secondary school, I just started exploring,, boys all on my tail,, so I met this banker,, he was real nice n bought me stuffs, so one day he invited me to his house, innocent me wanted to visit a guy the way my friends were visiting guys,, wen I got there we laughed n talked, not realizing he has locked the door n hid the key,,, after sometime while watching tv,, he removed his boxers n told me to touch his dickk,, That was the first time I saw a dickk ,, he told me to rub it, I said no , went to the door to leave the house n it was locked,,,before I knew it he dragged me back n told me I won’t leave the house till he comes,, if I don’t he will beat me up, he started touching my breast n immediately I started crying ,, I was scared couldn’t believe this guy was the nice banker, I started rubbing his dick , he said I wasn’t doing it well, that he will slap me o, I kept doing it,, he then said put ur mouth on it,, i was like I can’t do that God4bid, he slapped me n said put it in ur mouth, which I did ,, he didn’t still come , told me to remove my gen n pant I said no,, he started hiting me, i started shouting , he told me to shut up or he would call his friends n they will all rape me, i was scared n tired so kept quiet, removed my trousers, then he started trying to penetrate me,, he realized I was a virgin, I was crying n begging , please leave me alone I beg u, he went to the bathroom, used soap on his dick , so it would get in, i was trying to run he dragged me with my hair n told me to lay down , well I did,, he couldn’t get in n the soap was hurting me,, then I began to shout n didn’t care anymore,, thankfully a man came to his house with a Bible as soon as he opened the door I ran out with no pant, wore my trousers outside...he couldn’t penetrate n didn’t come, he started begging me instantly n blamed it on the devil,, bloody lier!!! I left his house crying profoundly!!! Didn’t believe it... I only told my best friend!!! That’s one day I will never forget.... cried to my God for him to fight for me!! He had an accident weeks l8r n broke his legs!! That’s not enough he will hv a misrable life

You didn't finish they story. I'll help you.

Fast forward to today, I've been taking Kondo like no man's business. It no longer hurt when I'm penetrated. Glory be to God

too many... way too many.......


All I'll say is, parents should keep eyes on their children. we have a lot of perverts and paedophiles in this world, you won't believe what little girls go through at their tender ages...

Create a bond with your children so they can tell you anything... In my case, I was too scared to tell my mum so it kept happening and happening and happening....


When I see random children, I just imagine what they may be going through....It's saddening....

Admin401:
Somehow I doubt that. Parents focus more on their female children then the male, so chances of molestation happening MIGHT be little. My problem is, with the amount of men that were molested as kid, why does it go unnoticed?

....look at this one, what's your point exactly.....

That a lot of girls don't get molested?... parents focus more on their female child and you think they do that for no reason?.... so irrational....


Don't bother replying, it's useless.

Wilfredpat22:
Only 2% of us get molested by men. We just like playing the victim or vulnerable part. If you ask any average Nigerian lady how she lost her virginity, Rape is the common answer. No one will like to say she gave it up freely for a Hungry man size indomie and two fried eggs.

As early as the age of 13, most of us already know the ‘Bottom Power’ and using it to gain more financial strength from men

As we ladies always say in our small discussions

“Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does’

12 dumbos actually liked this post and some other idiots shared it ... anything to boost your wrecked ego and validate your mentality about women.....you all are stupid..


As for the element that typed this trash, you are sick and you've got no one to tell you.

Wilfredpat22:
Only 2% of us get molested by men. We just like playing the victim or vulnerable part. If you ask any average Nigerian lady how she lost her virginity, Rape is the common answer. No one will like to say she gave it up freely for a Hungry man size indomie and two fried eggs.

As early as the age of 13, most of us already know the ‘Bottom Power’ and using it to gain more financial strength from men

As we ladies always say in our small discussions

“Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does’

Does that mean you have it away @ age 13 too? Just asking...

Nobodys:


12 dumbos actually liked this post and some other idiots shared it ... anything to boost your wrecked ego and validate your mentality about women.....you all are stupid..


As for the element that typed this trash, you are sick and you've got no one to tell you.

You seem upset! Did Wilfredpat22 right? Did u gave ur virginity away for a plate of meal too? Just asking...

Nobodys:
too many... way too many.......


All I'll say is, parents should keep eyes on their children especially the girl child. we have a lot of perverts and paedophiles in this world, you won't believe what little girls go through at their tender ages...

Create a bond with your children so they can tell you anything... In my case, I was too scared to tell my mum so it kept happening and happening and happening....


When I see random children, I just imagine what they may be going through....It's saddening....

So sorry for your experiences. Sorry again. I hope it wasn't your dad's doing? I'm sure you'll hate all men but just know dt all men aren't d same.

Wilfredpat22:
Only 2% of us get molested by men. We just like playing the victim or vulnerable part. If you ask any average Nigerian lady how she lost her virginity, Rape is the common answer. No one will like to say she gave it up freely for a Hungry man size indomie and two fried eggs.

As early as the age of 13, most of us already know the ‘Bottom Power’ and using it to gain more financial strength from men

As we ladies always say in our small discussions

“Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does’

this lady always says the truth, i will oneday visit Abuja to come and have a taste of you,i will pay u handsomely.

daneni1:



sorry abt DAT, I know that feeling. At times one just feel lonely.

Yeah yeah.

otherway:


This is one of the sick people I described above and the best way to treat them is to ignore and focus on sensible comments.

did you just call me sick e enter my body

Admin401:
Somehow I doubt that. Parents focus more on their female children then the male, so chances of molestation happening MIGHT be little. My problem is, with the amount of men that were molested as kid, why does it go unnoticed?

u don’t know what u r saying sir

Wilfredpat22:
Only 2% of us get molested by men. We just like playing the victim or vulnerable part. If you ask any average Nigerian lady how she lost her virginity, Rape is the common answer. No one will like to say she gave it up freely for a Hungry man size indomie and two fried eggs.

As early as the age of 13, most of us already know the ‘Bottom Power’ and using it to gain more financial strength from men

As we ladies always say in our small discussions

“Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does’

u r a guy! Keep deceiving urself!

It's official.
The girl child is a troubled soul
Just to share a problem is a problem to them.

Interesting

Chaleeee:


You didn't finish they story. I'll help you.

Fast forward to today, I've been taking Kondo like no man's business. It no longer hurt when I'm penetrated. Glory be to God

Mtchhew
So immature and vile...

I implore any girl here to keep mum...
Its in the DNA of forumites to use your past comments against you...

pocohantas:
These ones are looking for who they will troll all through her NL life.

My heart goes out to all the victims.

I guess it's why you're trolled so often. You must've opened up about stuff way back

otherway:
After reading the thread where guys shared their experience I feel we should learn a thing or two from the ladies experience too.

Jesus helped me get over mine and now as a married man with kids I still have the vivid memories but thanks to Jesus who has made me triumph.

Because of the privacy involved in This, you may need to use any other moniker asides from your present one.

Ladies over to you.

helpe with the link to the other thread

zinnyzee:
Never have i been molested, abused or harrased sexually.

Grew up with no dad( Was late before i grew up)three older brothers and my mum. Growing up, i was one of the boys. Even stubborn than all 3 of dem put together.
Parents in d neighbourhood told their kids to steer clear of me. And that seemed to be what i needed since i hated the lot of them without a reason anyway.

I was growing up and realised i'm supposed to be a gurl and not a boy, and i felt inclined to change for d better. But having lived in the same neighbourhood for more than a decade didn't help matters, since everyone already knew me to be d rebellious kid.

So instead of turning a new leaf, i chose to live up to my reputation.


I'm grown up today and i'm d exact opposite of who i was as a kid. I was never molested, but i know what it means to feel unloved!

"But I know what it means to feel unloved"

Very touching.

Nobodys:
too many... way too many.......


All I'll say is, parents should keep eyes on their children especially the girl child. we have a lot of perverts and paedophiles in this world, you won't believe what little girls go through at their tender ages...

Create a bond with your children so they can tell you anything... In my case, I was too scared to tell my mum so it kept happening and happening and happening....


When I see random children, I just imagine what they may be going through....It's saddening....

lol when you say especially the girls ... it goes alot way to show how much ya all neglect the boy child while growing up

Am not ready to go into details of how i was being molested right from a very young age till i was 12
A story for another day.
It has really affected me..cause i find it hard to feel sexual affection and also masturbation,i wonder how people feel anytn from it.
I remember when i was younger i used to think of commiting suicide..
But am happy am pass that now.

Earthbound:

I guess it's why you're trolled so often. You must've opened up about stuff way back

I know better . If I had made such mistake, I would have been long buried here. Anyone familiar with NL and this section in particular would know the guys here fight dirty. Don't be the one to arm them .

Wilfredpat22:
Only 2% of us get molested by men. We just like playing the victim or vulnerable part. If you ask any average Nigerian lady how she lost her virginity, Rape is the common answer. No one will like to say she gave it up freely for a Hungry man size indomie and two fried eggs.

As early as the age of 13, most of us already know the ‘Bottom Power’ and using it to gain more financial strength from men

As we ladies always say in our small discussions

“Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does’

brilliance and truth in one.

Allaboutkatiee:
Am not ready to go into details of how i was being molested right from a very young age till i was 12
A story for another day.
It has really affected me..cause i find it hard to feel sexual affection and also masturbation,i wonder how people feel anytn from it.
I remember when i was younger i used to think of commiting suicide..
But am happy am pass that now.

I almost committed sucide man,,, when I got home I washed my body so hard,, i don’t wish such for my enemy,,, thank God for my friend that was there for me...I started hating men so much after that,,, i kinda moved on when I heard about his accident sent him a message on Facebook saying “ never mess with a child of God” but my hate toward men hasn’t changed!! Men r just sexual tools to me , nothing like love trust n those bullshit.

romenna:
It's official.
The girl child is a troubled soul
Just to share a problem is a problem to them.

Honestly I am flabbergasted. To even think they could simply create a new I'D and no one will have a clue of their identity yet it is so difficult but they prefer to quote comments and make irrelevant remarks.

doctorkush:
did you just call me sick e enter my body

Lol! You are a comedian.

Allaboutkatiee:
Am not ready to go into details of how i was being molested right from a very young age till i was 12
A story for another day.
It has really affected me..cause i find it hard to feel sexual affection and also masturbation,i wonder how people feel anytn from it.
I remember when i was younger i used to think of commiting suicide..
But am happy am pass that now.

I think you should. This is a new ID and no one has a clue if who you are if you are a nairalander already.

HaileSelassie:


Mtchhew
So immature and vile...

I implore any girl here to keep mum...
Its in the DNA of forumites to use your past comments against you...

That is my point, if you start keeping mum cos of the foolish and insane people around you then you might as well die cos there will always be mad people wherever you go.

The idea is to share and unburden oneself and ignore mad people's comments.

stargyall:
I almost committed sucide man,,, when I got home I washed my body so hard,, i don’t wish such for my enemy,,, thank God for my friend that was there for me...I started hating men so much after that,,, i kinda moved on when I heard about his accident sent him a message on Facebook saying “ never mess with a child of God” but my hate toward men hasn’t changed!! Men r just sexual tools to me , nothing like love trust n those bullshit.

God got you baby girl.

zinnyzee:
Never have i been molested, abused or harrased sexually.

Grew up with no dad( Was late before i grew up)three older brothers and my mum. Growing up, i was one of the boys. Even stubborn than all 3 of dem put together.
Parents in d neighbourhood told their kids to steer clear of me. And that seemed to be what i needed since i hated the lot of them without a reason anyway.

I was growing up and realised i'm supposed to be a gurl and not a boy, and i felt inclined to change for d better. But having lived in the same neighbourhood for more than a decade didn't help matters, since everyone already knew me to be d rebellious kid.

So instead of turning a new leaf, i chose to live up to my reputation.


I'm grown up today and i'm d exact opposite of who i was as a kid. I was never molested, but i know what it means to feel unloved!

Sorry

SarakiBukola:
An alarmingly high amount of women get harassed by male relatives be it fathers, uncles and brothers.

Don't even talk about strangers.

I can NEVER trust an infant daughter with ANY man, it so very sad

Go and check the male thread and read what an average male child is passing through.

A girl may have one or two of such stories but a boy might have a series of tales. With some guys, it was not just the older women around them, older men did things to them too.

Protect your children from all these s3x starved people in our society.

anayolity:


lol when you say especially the girls ... it goes alot way to show how much ya all neglect the boy child while growing up

Lolz. no need to turn this to a gender war.... I made that statement for a reason and you know it ....the number of male psychos in the society are more than that of female psychos....

And the male tend to use force and violence against little girls.

Yes, boys get molested, a lot, even some sick gays now harass little boys...that is why I said parents should keep an eye on their CHILDREN....

As for the case of boy molestation being neglected, I will always say that no one will speak for you guys except yourselves, when you guys start taking it serious then the world will take you all serious...saw a thread where a guy slapped a girl for touching his dick and some nairalanders ( guys) were insulting the guy for doing that, with the claim that the girl was only playing...

ecstasy357:


Go and check the male thread and read what an average male child is passing through.

A girl may have one or two of such stories but a boy might have a series of tales. With some guys, it was not just the older women around them, older men did things to them too.

Protect your children from all these s3x starved people in our society.

don’t say what u don’t know,women don’t wanna talk about their experience cause of the backlash they will get,Guys on the other hand can say whatever they want n won’t be judged!! Women r judged by their fellow women n men!! N if u look in this thread properly some idiots fooling themselves already,, women go through a lot , I mean I whole lot, u don’t wanna know.