LillyVal:
Was match made with a dude, great conversation but no asking out, I bit the bullet and asked, he says he is crushing on someone else in his office, I said nice, go ask her out, he did and was blown off too. I smiled "karma". But we still have great conversations. I still shoot oo

2dice01:
let the lies keep rolling

We love it

LillyVal:
y do u tink so

SaucyBenks:
Ladies catch feelings a lot when it's just friends with benefits.... Especially, when the sex is great.


If I see you catching feelings, I'll start becoming unavailable and only available when I need to swim in that warm creamy spot.


Can't be catching feelings when I have a main chick please

catwalq:
Here to learn

LillyVal:

SaucyBenks:
Ladies catch feelings a lot when it's just friends with benefits.... Especially, when the sex is great.


If I see you catching feelings, I'll start becoming unavailable and only available when I need to swim in that warm creamy spot.


Can't be catching feelings when I have a main chick please

DaBogu:
Reminds me of when I was hanging out with this guy for a while, we were so cool that he would get me lunch when I least expect, on my free days, he would take me to the movies and all. We connected on a whole different level. Everyone around me thought he was “the one” but Oga now said, “ahh, I had no idea I was leading you on, I just felt you were my gee, I’m not ready for anything serious ”, gee kee you dia. I wanted to die. I lost appetite totally, was so broken. Guy dropped me off, on my way sef I off wig, what’s the point of looking fine

DaBogu:
Reminds me of when I was hanging out with this guy for a while, we were so cool that he would get me lunch when I least expect, on my free days, he would take me to the movies and all. We connected on a whole different level. Everyone around me thought he was “the one” but Oga now said, “ahh, I had no idea I was leading you on, I just felt you were my gee, I’m not ready for anything serious ”, gee kee you dia. I wanted to die. I lost appetite totally, was so broken. Guy dropped me off, on my way sef I off wig, what’s the point of looking fine

LillyVal:
SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCE

DaBogu:
Reminds me of when I was hanging out with this guy for a while, we were so cool that he would get me lunch when I least expect, on my free days, he would take me to the movies and all. We connected on a whole different level. Everyone around me thought he was “the one” but Oga now said, “ahh, I had no idea I was leading you on, I just felt you were my gee, I’m not ready for anything serious ”, gee kee you dia. I wanted to die. I lost appetite totally, was so broken. Guy dropped me off, on my way sef I off wig, what’s the point of looking fine

Ashiruhabeeb:
I no say I be guy but lemme share mine. There was this hot chick we were clicking together she can bang the daylight out of someone.

After one hot round of sex one evening
She: what are we?
Me: we are nothing but pencil in the hand of the creator

Abeg who Sabi how much them dey sell new wheelchair now. The one wey I dey use don spoil and na gift o

MariaLavina:
I don't shoot, I'm not a hunter.

catwalq:


I don't have any ma'am. I've never been interested.

SaucyBenks:
don't let your eye burse ooo

LillyVal:
You slide

MariaLavina:
Slide kwa?

My own case is different . I get close, form a bond and withdraw. if he comes searching, good if he doesn't I move. I hardly catch feelings sha.

rex444:
So our babes do ask guys out? Wonderful....don't shy out y'all let's make it fun ....oya spill d bin

SteveOfu:
Moe
@Mochievous
I’m going on a break but it just occurred to me to do this. Ladies, please share your stories of rejection from a guy you shot your shoot at. Until we as women begin to normalise rejection, we will forever be reluctant to go after what we really want. I’ll start.

So there was this guy I liked, we went out a few times and in my head we had a connection. Anyway one day, after what I thought was a great evening, I go “can I kiss you?” And he goes “oh shit. I’m so sorry if I gave the wrong impression, I just really like talking to you.”


Some people are sending me DMs on this. I’ll respond to as many as I can but I’m not going to share them here. The post was clear for a reason. To bring rejection out in the open and start to normalise it. So if you have stories, please share em here yourself.


Let me share mine
So we both agreed it was just bangs, but I started catching feelings, went to his place and told him "I know we agreed it was just for fun, but I kinda like you " he said "I know, I sensed it, but I don't like you like that yet". We banged and I left and travelled the next day.

Told a man I loved him and he told me I stressed his life so that ship sailed a long time ago. Hung up on me.
Another said there’s no future in it.

One laughed and said, “if only you were lightskinned”.

Gathered my L and decided to save my shots. To Jesus be my glory tbh.

truthsayer009:


They do, a lot of them.

My former workplace, a girl kept giving me greenlight. I didn't really like her. So at then end, i obliged & just wanted to chop and move immediately as her ass was quite big.

Then when i found that she was a virgin, i just felt it would too wicked for me to just chop & move as it would mess up her future dating life. I rather not chop at all.

Na so i just free the girl oh. She felt bad Lmao. She didnt know i did her a favor.