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Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by Nobody: 7:44am On Sep 18, 2018 |
NotAZombie: Well your approach was probably different. Beside, Is it an obligation to be nice to everyone? Are you nice to every stranger you come across? Do you demand for a reply when you greet someone? P.S these are rhetorical questions. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by Nobody: 7:51am On Sep 18, 2018 |
She was rude, she should have at least replied the greeting First. Maybe she was in a bad mood... On your own part, you could have just introduced yourself after the "who is this'' instead of telling her how rude she was. Generally, I think it's best to follow your greetings immediately with why you are texting the person. Some people don't have the patience for one by one messages. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by Nobody: 7:59am On Sep 18, 2018 |
I can see one mumu viewing this thread, next thing is for him to post about how difficult it is to train girls. Ode |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by Nobody: 8:37am On Sep 18, 2018 |
No be today 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by Bahddo(m): 9:20am On Sep 18, 2018 |
SBL28:she wasn't rude, at least not until he started being all condescending. She politely asked who it was, and he started schooling her like he was her grandfather. The most important thing for him that moment was that she returns his greeting. The most important thing for her was that she gets to know who's chatting her up, as it could have been anyone. He could easily have introduced himself then raise the issue about her not returning greetings. Yet he chose to be bitchy about it. He is one of those people that believe girls should be on their knees for him simply because he is a guy and he's showing interest in them. She has other things to worry about as her life doesn't revolve around that conversation. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by Gerrard59(m): 9:39am On Sep 18, 2018 |
To worsen it all, OP uses one example to prove that ALL Nigerian girls are rude. It tells you the quality of education obtained. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by GOFRONT(m): 10:34am On Sep 18, 2018 |
Na initial gra gra she wan do.......she wan form hard to get |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by sammirano: 10:44am On Sep 18, 2018 |
I won't support the guy in this case. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by DonFreshmoney(m): 10:57am On Sep 18, 2018 |
She was extremely rude, and when I mean rude. I don't mean her reply, but for her to go to the extent of showing family members the chat is rudeness of the highest level, not forgetting childishness. Well, most of u people are saying he should have introduced himself after saying hello, it's either you jokin, not a lot Nigerian or haven't come in contact with Naija ladies.. I can guarantee with my left ballz that after all the long story of introduction, she would have replied with 'k'.. lmao No be naija galz again? Rude Muddafakaz 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by myself13: 11:03am On Sep 18, 2018 |
Everyone is right in his own mentality. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by Viicfuntop(f): 11:17am On Sep 18, 2018 |
egorov, honestly you were rude. Actually you initiated the rudeness. You said hi and she replied with that. Then you went ahead to correct her for asking a simple who is this? Do you know how annoying it is for someone who doesn’t have your number saying hi? Maybe she assumed you wouldn’t call immediately, just maybe 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by xtervaganza(m): 11:30am On Sep 18, 2018 |
I don't blame her. I blame you. I no longer have time chat anybody up. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by xtervaganza(m): 11:33am On Sep 18, 2018 |
amaniro:some people no just get sense. In what part of this planet do you just vomit words without the proper greeting. What sane human being replies a greeting with who is this? What's wrong with replying 1st then ask who the person is? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by xtervaganza(m): 11:38am On Sep 18, 2018 |
Xaos:there's no excuse for bad manners. There are scammers everywhere, even the ones we meet one on one. Let's say I met you by the road and greeted you hello or good afternoon, will you say because there are scammers and kidnappers the 1st thing you'll also me is who am I? The classy thing is to return the greetings and then wait for the person to introduce him or herself 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by xtervaganza(m): 11:40am On Sep 18, 2018 |
theSpark:what's the point of bringing it up later? Clearly she's I'll mannered. Who in his right mind would want to put up with that 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by ImaIma1(f): 12:27pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
Gerrard59: It is really disappointing and sad. From the responses of a lot of ladies here, it shows they are rude and would do the same thing. That kind of aggressive response has become a norm for them that it has become a standard and not seen as rude anymore. I would still respond to the greeting first and hear him out first. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by mikebabs101: 12:28pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
Viicfuntop:and what is it about getting a hi message from someone you dont have his or her number saved on your phone , i only get curios and i dont think that will change if i were to be a lady . people just like feeling unnecessarily important . just read on another thread about ngolo kante 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by egorov(m): 2:20pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
odogwunaija: Thanks for this. As in I'm amazed some people are still justifying her actions. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by egorov(m): 2:22pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
Viicfuntop:I don't understand, what's annoying in receiving a message from a strange number. Moreover this one was expected |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by egorov(m): 2:23pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
[quote author=xtervaganza post=71303068]what's the point of bringing it up later? Clearly she's I'll mannered. Who in his right mind would want to put up with that [/quote I can't just withstand bitter people. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by egorov(m): 2:25pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
ImaIma1: You're just so different Well, we were all brought up in different ways and manners. Some aren't as privileged as others. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by egorov(m): 2:25pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
Viicfuntop: And if u really went through the chat, you will see what I sent to her. I didn't send 'hi' |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by egorov(m): 2:27pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
mikebabs101: The guy is extremely humble. Given his status. I doubt if most of our naija celebs can do that |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by tunize(m): 3:23pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
Truth is everyone approaches situations differently, and some times first impression really does not matter am not a fan of that phrase. Cos sometimes individuals can jst be in a very bad shape of mind."like i said ppl handle tinz differently. U're wrong, and she'z also wrong....nothing stops u from atleast greeting her and introducing urself too. And nothing also stops her from reciprocating ur greetings.(sometimes some persons dont even interact with unknown numbers, while some other person dont even care....seems u were out there trying to teach her manners not to talk. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by ImaIma1(f): 3:39pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
tunize: I think it is also bad upbringing when people act up for others because they are in a mood. My husband and I visited a friend and her family on Sunday and her son who is about 5yrs old didn't greet us or talk to us all the while we were there. He was carrying a long face around and crumbling. Even when my husband and I talked to him, he didn't respond. His mother said that he was in a bad mood. If he were my relative or my son, i would have cleared his doubt but i just behaved myself. That is how he will grow up and be aggressive and rude towards people because he is not in the mood. The girl in question lacks courtesy. If she didn't, she would have responded to the greeting first before anything especially as she knew someone was going to chat her. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by Nobody: 4:02pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
egorov:u can't let things go that way? u seem too righteous and full of urself, u think ur moral is perfect, I read all ur replies and I see u as a rude person (no offence intended). I once had such a message and that was also my reply (not saying it suppose to b so) and d next thing he said was "its dat boy selling akara at ur junction". we laughed over it b4 he later introduced himself, today we are close friends. not saying she is right but u also took d wrong action and going as far as calling her 'rude' 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by Nobody: 4:08pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
Bahddo:thanks dear, u spoke my mind. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by Nobody: 4:17pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
mikebabs101:she was wrong but not rude, on his part, trying to school someone u haven't met on the etiquettes of greeting, now that's rude! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by rossyc(f): 4:29pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
egorov:Greet and introduce urself immediately. The introduction can even come with the greeting.. You were rude too. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by tunize(m): 9:02pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
ImaIma1:Atleast u are woman..majority of women have dis kind of crazy character what she did was bad, like i said ppl differs and ppl handle situations differently ranging from anger management or mood control per sey..that is not a criteria to jst jump and conclude that she lacks training. Or u too still support first impression matters?. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by ImaIma1(f): 10:18pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
tunize: I support courtesy...responding to greeting and being polite. A person without courtesy is like a tyre without air. |
Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by Viicfuntop(f): 10:23pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
egorov: You didn’t introduced yourself properly. What if your number wasn’t the only one she gave permission to call? She didn’t know who you were and she asked that you introduced yourself again and you showed a bit of arrogance. I would also be mad if someone talk to me like this. 1 Like |
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