highqueen:
Yawns.

Disrespect kor, Please, get busy with something.


You both lack manners.

DanDeeBoss:
I think you have done the best by breaking up with her.... From her actions, it seems she is already fed up with the relationship and is waiting for you to initiate the breakup.... Then she can go meet the other guy...

Daniwes:

Bro... Plsss don't get things mixed up... She is on crutches. I didn't add that not to make it TMI. so when she threatened to leave the car, I knew it was blackmail playing there. I also know her uncle she lives with and would rather drop het back home and breakup there and then, which I did

Rocktation:
I must let you know something though; we really do not like to be "left alone", whenever we start giving that attitude.

highqueen:
Yawns.

Disrespect kor, Please, get busy with something.


You both lack manners.

NwaAmaikpe:




Bros,
I've read your lengthy writeup and I'd analyze your plight with a little analogy.

You are her uber driver,
She is your passenger,
He is your passenger's next uber driver.

She loves neither of you. Instead, you guys are her ego-boosting tools.
May God give you the wisdom and maturity to handle your next passenger.

Glycolysis:

You just went on a long meaningless rant just so you sound thoughtful & impressive !
Alas, you ended up sounding dumb !
Maybe, i guess, you didn't read what the writer wrote up there, did you
The guy should apologize for what exactly
For being tolerance for too long Or for being foolish to accomodate those childish attitudes from the lady
Pls, if you don't have anything reasonable to say on a post next time, the honourable thing to do is silence !

JhyMedex:

Machiavelli. ..The Prince..

Read it recently..
every1 has to read dt book..n mayb we'll av fewer threads like dis. ..

rosalieene:
thumbs up to the girl
probably you were expecting her to start begging you.

I like as she no even send you.

please send her stuffs to her, relationship is not by force. I see no much sense in your writeup apart from the fact that you guys re tired of each other.

At least she no send you or even try to beg, that's a plus.

babyfaceafrica:
you disappointed me

ImaIma1:

[s]
You should try shedding off all this negativity you are carrying around like a badge. You just succeeded in exhibiting your low level of thinking, maturity and your lack of communication ethics.

There is no point telling you to read my next comment because your narrow mindedness clouds your reasoning[/s].

Daniwes:
So recently she was mad at me, giving me attitude - you know when girls start getting mad at you for no reason, you just let them be. She asked I drive her to somewhere to do some registration, which I obliged. We were still fighting then, but I had to do it as she had a pain on her leg, and so couldnt walk properly. Well fastforward, inside the car, she continues with the attitude and she starts receiving calls from different guys, talking and laughing out on the phone, which I ignore. But there is this particular guy which I know through her to be her best friend of some sort... He normally calls her often, they talk, nd all and he knows very well we are dating, even though he has asked her out before. So, he was around even greeted me before I took her from her house.

Fastforward...So he calls her while we re driving, talking on the phone where I then hear her telling the guy that "I m annoying and I wouldnt apologize for what I did wrong" and all those other stuff in my car. I also heard them deciding whether to see later that evening or not. I kept minding my business and decided to turn up the volume of my music which then seemed to disturb her call. She then turns it low and then an argument ensued where she abruptly left the car where I was stopped at an intersection. On the way home, I got a call from a girl, and pretended we were talking and also deciding to see. She then kept asking me who I am going to see. It was at that point I got mad at her behaviour.. cos you cannot play judge and jury on me.... Well, I sternly still warned her not to try such disrespect with me... We argued, were quiet for the rest of the trip, dropped her home and broke up there and then... She probably didnt expect it till I asked for one important item I left in her place, she then texts me to pack her stuff in my place while she does same,..... I m like naaahhh.. forget everything and come arrange her own stuff whenever she ready

I cant stand disrespect.

Daniwes:
So recently she was mad at me, giving me attitude - you know when girls start getting mad at you for no reason, you just let them be. She asked I drive her to somewhere to do some registration, which I obliged. We were still fighting then, but I had to do it as she had a pain on her leg, and so couldnt walk properly. Well fastforward, inside the car, she continues with the attitude and she starts receiving calls from different guys, talking and laughing out on the phone, which I ignore. But there is this particular guy which I know through her to be her best friend of some sort... He normally calls her often, they talk, nd all and he knows very well we are dating, even though he has asked her out before. So, he was around even greeted me before I took her from her house.

Fastforward...So he calls her while we re driving, talking on the phone where I then hear her telling the guy that "I m annoying and I wouldnt apologize for what I did wrong" and all those other stuff in my car. I also heard them deciding whether to see later that evening or not. I kept minding my business and decided to turn up the volume of my music which then seemed to disturb her call. She then turns it low and then an argument ensued where she abruptly left the car where I was stopped at an intersection. On the way home, I got a call from a girl, and pretended we were talking and also deciding to see. She then kept asking me who I am going to see. It was at that point I got mad at her behaviour.. cos you cannot play judge and jury on me.... Well, I sternly still warned her not to try such disrespect with me... We argued, were quiet for the rest of the trip, dropped her home and broke up there and then... She probably didnt expect it till I asked for one important item I left in her place, she then texts me to pack her stuff in my place while she does same,..... I m like naaahhh.. forget everything and come arrange her own stuff whenever she ready

I cant stand disrespect.

rosalieene:
thumbs up to the girl
probably you were expecting her to start begging you.

I like as she no even send you.

please send her stuffs to her, relationship is not by force. I see no much sense in your writeup apart from the fact that you guys re tired of each other.

At least she no send you or even try to beg, that's a plus.

I don't know why you guys get worked up when your gfs receive calls from other guys.
she is still a single and not married so isn't indebted to you so imagine after she has shunned other guys for 5 yrs and you both break up, whose lose?
am not advocating for cheating... there is a big difference between cheating and been friendly with other guys..... Her future hubby might not be u so don't block her chances with your jealousy.

ImaIma1:
You both are acting like children. And do you feel too proud to apologize to her when you have wronged her?

Because I have noticed that some guys will form ignorance and want to go on like nothing happened instead of acknowledging their offence and apologizing.That is disrespect.

Both of you are probably better of apart.

Daniwes:

I obviously didn't type much, but if I tell you I wanted to talk things with her and apologize where I did wrong, you wouldn't believe me. I asked what I did wrong, she wouldn't tell me... Meanwhile the attitude started when I told her I couldn't see her due to my busy schedule (After already meeting twice in the same week). Well, I did resolve not to bother myself with her poor level of communication and lack of respect. Its not my job.. Maybe the next guy can take care of that

Carlmax:


Which offence he don commit now... walahi girls always like to dey cause wahala for relationship.. las las na she go still beg

NwaAmaikpe:




Bros,
I've read your lengthy writeup and I'd analyze your plight with a little analogy.

You are her uber driver,
She is your passenger,
He is your passenger's next uber driver.

She loves neither of you. Instead, you guys are her ego-boosting tools.
May God give you the wisdom and maturity to handle your next passenger.

kalmebad:


She is not fade up...we women are attention seekers when on emotional turmoil. We do silly things trying to act stuff. Some times we really need to grow up. All she was doing is to say....I could get other attention aside u, believe me.....she didn't see d break up coming. Love its a difficult thing and we still everyone wants to fall in love .

lefulefu:
so u were just wasting all ur fuel driving her about town while she was flirting wit guys on phone
buhari why

NwaAmaikpe:




Bros,
I've read your lengthy writeup and I'd analyze your plight with a little analogy.

You are her uber driver,
She is your passenger,
He is your passenger's next uber driver.

She loves neither of you. Instead, you guys are her ego-boosting tools.
May God give you the wisdom and maturity to handle your next passenger.

Collins4u1:
Some guys can be very stupid o, they will know a lady is in a relationship and still be asking her out even when they might know the guy dating the lady, such guys may their dick never stand whenever they wanna bleep cos that's only what they want..

Then for the ladies giving them such space to be bold in asking them out, let the village people continue manipulating your sense until you loose your man because of nzuzu.