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Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by luvyaself95(m): 11:28pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Tenshades:That one go be ocean but God take Control... 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 12:43am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Take your L and >>>>>>>>>>>> |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 12:55am On Jun 16, 2019 |
If you truly love her then you should go stupidto prove it,you can beg everyone here that commented to call her and beg her she will feel overwhelmed and believe you are ready to scream to the world about your love and loyalty to her. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by showafrica(m): 1:14am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Kapello8: No be only thanks a. Million, will you hid to the advice? It's not easy to stop calling but you have to be a man otherwise, you are heading straight to friend zone. Make sure you bone her for at least one month. Never call until she calls or texts. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Igetmyown247: 1:40am On Jun 16, 2019 |
If you didn’t get caught I bet you wouldn’t be here asking for advice. You’re bound to do that again even after marriage. I hope she leave your ass and not look back. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by lonelydora: 2:06am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Kapello8: You were not rejected, you were redirected. Thank God because you will see a better wife |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by davidvico(m): 2:47am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Thats is the best thing to do .... funshint: |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Pat081: 5:41am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Sorry for your loss love, u have send her over 50 texts messages and u have send people to her too and still doing like ur gods ?we all make mistakes one way or another that is ur own mistake and u have learned from it and if u re thinking that you can not see another person like her u re wasting your time we have many ladies out there better than her sef and age will not b at ur side let her go and that is why I dnt like going through people phones messages or their whasapp because of stories like this take care and bros don't do what others re doing ooooooo by taking ur life bcoz if love |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by enuk80(m): 6:20am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Mustsucceed: I support your no 2 reason.. However, the girl may also have cheated behind op back but she is more smarter than op. If I were op, I will just lock up for now and let's see if she will come back. If she doesn't, then op should move on with his life.... It shows she never loved op... She is playing the undercard... I think her mum should tell her how many times her dad cheated behind her back yet she didn't leave her dad.. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Esthered: 8:09am On Jun 16, 2019 |
luminouz: |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by mylove4God(f): 8:22am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Kenneth10110: Yea, women plenty but good ones dey scarce. If you were to be in the lady's position, Would you have forgiven? |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kenneth10110(m): 8:38am On Jun 16, 2019 |
mylove4God:. I don't even want to think of being in her position but ill say as a woman she should forgive if she truly love him. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by frozen70(f): 8:39am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Kapello8: Allow her to calm herself down She was disappointed with the mess you caused Keep telling her how dearly she is to you and keep sending those apologies to her For her to forgive you and accept your relationship again is going to be a 50/50% thing |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by luminouz(m): 9:01am On Jun 16, 2019 |
[quote author=Esthered post=79375527] OK..seen U can edit out ur mail |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by mylove4God(f): 9:06am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Kenneth10110: Sometimes things are easier said than done. If she forgives, will she be able to trust as before? |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kenneth10110(m): 9:11am On Jun 16, 2019 |
mylove4God:Then she should go her ways if she can't trust him again. A lot of women out there know their husband's cheat but act simple so they don't loose their marriage. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Wanity(m): 9:39am On Jun 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: I don't follow your but whenever i see your comment it never bring reasonable information |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by trapQ: 9:55am On Jun 16, 2019 |
You're an idiot. More male babies than females are born everyday in almost every hospital in the world. The Nigerian 2003 census showed that men far outnumbered women. Every single verifiable statistics on population distribution in the world show that men are more populated than women. In China alone there are at least 30 to 40 million more men than women. It is the same in India. Now get lost. Dummy. Kenneth10110: 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by TheGoodApostle: 10:21am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Kapello8: Bro, since u have lost her, why not leave her for me. I'm looking for a wife myself... Instead of loosing her to someone u don't know at all, at least you get to loose her to a fellow Nairalander... |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 10:54am On Jun 16, 2019 |
[s] Wanity:[/s] I don't even know you or your moniker. That is the difference between you and I. Cc: LAWMA 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kenneth10110(m): 11:47am On Jun 16, 2019 |
trapQ: Weyrey ode even looking around you will see women are more than men. According to the Bible at a point of time seven women will be willing to stay under one mans roof. Now get lost with your outdated Census. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by trapQ: 12:34pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Didn't read your trash. Go argue baseless nonsense with your fellow mad people at yabableft. [s] Kenneth10110:[/s] |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kenneth10110(m): 12:40pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
trapQ: Since you didn't read the trash why did u respond is that how you do with your fellow silly idiots. I wonder what's your pained business with my comments at the first place. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by mickeyenglish(m): 2:26pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
This story is kinda funny.. I'm in your shoes right now only that i did not try to cheat on my ex.. Mine is simple.. I broke up with her once in February due to the fact that she was unyielding to so many things. We're both Corp members who serve in same PPA. She doesn't want to learn any trade, profession or do anything after every urge and pleading from me and even her roommate is not helping matters as she's the worst friend ever. I even made contacts with friends who were willing to teach her for free but she said she's not interested. Apart from Rice, Spaghetti and, porridge, she literally can't prepare any sort of Yorùbá traditional meal. I even pleaded that i was going to teach her myself all to no avail. She also knows little or nothing intellectually and she holds an HND in Microbiology . Only thing she can knows is Instagram anf follows all Big Brother Naija participants from CeeCee to Kbrule etc. When you ask her to use the same data for research and enlightenment, it's as if you're insulting her. Funny enough, she's noy a slay queen and doesn't even makeup at all. Here's hair is very natural and she only braids it.. She's also very quite and easy going so, i wondered how a lady like that could have lots of of faults like that. I broke up with her first in February then, i started filling the emptiness in my life after 2 weeks.. As in, i pleaded my way back no thanks to a friend of mine who's also a Corper in my PPA. Her friend wasn't even helping issues as I discovered that she wasn't happy all through our makeup session and was very excited happy all through our breakup days. Fast forward to the 20th of April, she broke up with citing claiming i had failed to chat her up for 8 days and that my whatsapp status was always updated with some sort of things thats might be directed towards her.. Can you imagine my ex claiming thats i was insulting her through my whatsapp status . She was even boasting that she was had alot of guys on her neck and that if it was my attention, she doesn't need it again. Guy, as in i beg tire eehn like casssnova, considering the fact that we had only seen each other once after the reconciliation as we went on second term and Easterly break (for those of us serving in schools) Baba, naso i lock up ooh they look my own i can't come and kill myself.. She claimed alot of guys were on her neck whereas , we bothered knew whats those guys were after. Even me that had alot of girls way better than her storming my whatsapp everyday, i no boast about am.. Guy, take the advice of the guys up there and give her that much needed space and gap.. Be on your own and free her.. Shebi, she don see people wey dey deceiver her abi, she go hear am.. They tend to think there're men waiting to sweep them off their feet abi , no problem na, e go happen like Jet Li film trick as she go run like pitbull cone back to you.. I also gave my ex that space and if you see the way she reacted to it eehn.. It first started with laughs and fake smiles with her friend to try to show that she has MOVED ON only for her to later threaten to break my system in my absence when she came to charge her fone in the staff room i was situated and i was like WTF!! .. Na she was breakup with me ooh.. So, just calm down and free her. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by awuf2008: 4:51pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Sending and and messages is not the solution but the problem, because that will make her feel on top of the world. Go to her parents and pour your mind to them and am sure this will solve the problem. No more calls or sms. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Thehatman: 5:15pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
enuk80: Think of the possibility she didn't cheat on him. Discovering something like that is really heartbreaking. Op, I believe she wasn't just angry about the flirt, it was your denial of not having a girlfriend that really broke the camel's back for her. Give her some time, and make her see reasons why you are still the one for her. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by kid7soccer(m): 5:31pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
ibkayee:I smell a cheat far away |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by kid7soccer(m): 5:35pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:I don't need to read your Genesis really. My opinion my point, your opinion your point. Like I said birds of the same feathers flock together. I know what I mean when I made that statement |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 6:03pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Oga na fight? macello4: |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by united442(m): 8:19pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Emmahunk: oh man! you deserve a million likes for this comment.. what kind of a wisdom came upon up to put up such wise saying like this.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Magnoliaa(f): 1:15am On Jun 17, 2019 |
galantjoe: Thank God for revealing her type? What stupid, f--king type are you talking about?? So her reaction is completely not normal in this situation abi?? she's the bad, intolerant one here?? You no see the OP blame?? What he did is right? It's just a slight error that should be swept under the rug, "manage his mistake and...." Oh God Because cheating, or the tendency to do it is a fault/error that people should put up with abi?? Mtchewwwwww. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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