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Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Boyooosa(m): 4:51pm On Jun 29, 2019
Ausrichie:

After 10 you have the sense of reasoning na so if you Bleep intentionally na your cup of orijin
Yeah, u r right sha..,
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by 2buffagain(m): 4:51pm On Jun 29, 2019
Youngstar76:
Since all this whole time, why did Mrs Dakolo bring it to at this point??


Women are demons. Every one of them.

No they are not...virgin.
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 4:52pm On Jun 29, 2019
KingAzubuike:
How I wish everybody in this Godforsaken country can just sleep one day and not wake up in the morning..

A country where its okay for a man to be molested as a female but a serious offence for a woman to be molested by a man.

A country where a random woman can walk up to you and grab your dick with everyone cheering on and if you dare complain dem go insult you say you no be man but if its the other way round where a man walks up to a random woman and grabs her by the breast , they won't hesitate to hang tire around your neck and start looking for petrol.

A country where its okay to strip male thieves naked but not okay to strip female thieves naked.

A country where you dare not lay a finger on a woman but if a woman lays a finger on you , you'll be insulted say you no be man, a weakling and a coward.
Don't mind these hypocrites my brother..

I wonder why anyone hadn't asked her if she fought back when the pastor was trying to have his way..

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Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 4:53pm On Jun 29, 2019
Oshisco limited tun Gbe tuntun yo

Oshisco, a wa ni baba cool
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jun 29, 2019
Boyooosa:

I don't know how true is this information but to me, thrat age of consent doesn't make sense...
Does that imply that in those countries, if u are 18 or below, u must be a virgin or u have been raped?
If you have it with an older man na kasala be that apart from that you can Bleep at any age
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jun 29, 2019
LesbianBoy:
Shey you guys see how his fellow are mocking him.


Most Nigerian guys are daft and it's not even funny. angry
It is not only a Nigeria.
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by 12inchess: 4:56pm On Jun 29, 2019
GutsOverFear:
So it's OK for Busola to cry out as a rape victim of what happened 15 years ago..

But it's not OK for this guy to do the same.. Hypocritical double standard people we have in Nigeria..

FYI what the pastor did with her wasn't rape. It might not have been a consensual sex in the encounter but the subsequent ones were consensual..

She enjoyed it that's why she didn't cry out then..

Would she cry out now if the person that raped her was a nobody?

modified for all of you quoting and insulting me, it shall be well with you and Busola if non of you have had a non consensual sex before.. Or are y'all trying to say all the times you have had sex the lady was totally up for it..
stop being stupid in public. One of my girlfriends went through something similar and I know how she struggled and still struggles with it. She even has a kid from the incident. Because her uncle raped her the first time and subsequently threatened her to have his way because she was young and naive doesn't discount the fact that she was raped. Like I said a lot of people are very stupid in Nigeria and engage in blaming the victim. And that is why it take women 15 years to come out.

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Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jun 29, 2019
GutsOverFear:
So it's OK for Busola to cry out as a rape victim of what happened 15 years ago..

But it's not OK for this guy to do the same.. Hypocritical double standard people we have in Nigeria..

FYI what the pastor did with her wasn't rape. It might not have been a consensual sex in the encounter but the subsequent ones were consensual..

She enjoyed it that's why she didn't cry out then..

Would she cry out now if the person that raped her was a nobody?

modified for all of you quoting and insulting me, it shall be well with you and Busola if non of you have had a non consensual sex before.. Or are y'all trying to say all the times you have had sex the lady was totally up for it..
Truer talk has never been said, in fact as it concerns Nigerian women I have never had a first time sexual encounter with a Nigerian woman where she was up for it..Nigerian women always say no the first time, but you will be the one to read her body language whether she's just testing your desire or whether she's really serious...any Nigerian man who says this is not the case is a bloody liar. Nigeria is a conservative nation, our women don't just give it up, they expect you to persuade them so as to absolve them of all responsibility for the act.

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Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by 12inchess: 4:57pm On Jun 29, 2019
GutsOverFear:

Don't mind these hypocrites my brother..

I wonder why anyone hadn't asked her if she fought back when the pastor was trying to have his way..
You think it's like in the movies where they fight back? How easy for a 16 year old to fight back a full grown man.

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Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by etrange: 4:58pm On Jun 29, 2019
GutsOverFear:

You are the wicked one here.. If not you would see that these ladies are trying to pull a man down

You grew up with beasts as ladies that's why you can spew this trash.
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Quorax: 4:58pm On Jun 29, 2019
GutsOverFear:
So it's OK for Busola to cry out as a rape victim of what happened 15 years ago..

But it's not OK for this guy to do the same.. Hypocritical double standard people we have in Nigeria..

FYI what the pastor did with her wasn't rape. It might not have been a consensual sex in the encounter but the subsequent ones were consensual..

She enjoyed it that's why she didn't cry out then..

Would she cry out now if the person that raped her was a nobody?

modified for all of you quoting and insulting me, it shall be well with you and Busola if non of you have had a non consensual sex before.. Or are y'all trying to say all the times you have had sex the lady was totally up for it..

So it is okay for a pastor to be sleeping with women?
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jun 29, 2019
Ausrichie:

If you have it with an older man na kasala be that apart from that you can Bleep at any age
In the States a 14yr old boy could be held guilty of statutory rape for having sex with a 17yr old female....tis the madness of feminist laws

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Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Stillthebest: 5:01pm On Jun 29, 2019
This case actually reminded me of my mentee(male) that got raped severally too. He happened to live in the same house with an ADO POLY student, a female, and this boy of mine has a "Rod" dangling in between his legs lol even till now. Each time this boy came from school(secondary school) he would be staying with the lady for his mom to come home from work.

He said the lady started by playing with his D and later she would place him on her VJ to do and thought him how to do it. Js1 student fa... The boy said he didn't tell his mom because he was enjoying it lol. Till now he's still said he will find the lady once he's back from CHINA(he likes her). Difference is that this boy loved it and that he loved staying with the woman cus of the act. Male children are raped too...

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Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jun 29, 2019
GogobiriLalas:
In the States a 14yr old boy could be held guilty of statutory rape for having sex with a 17yr old female....tis the madness of feminist laws
Swear grin grin wetin we no go hear
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jun 29, 2019
Quorax:


So it is okay for a pastor to be sleeping with women?
I'm not concerned about that.
I would have said the same if the man wasn't a pastor
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jun 29, 2019
etrange:


You grew up with beasts as ladies that's why you can spew this trash.
You that grew up with saint what's what you just spewed called.. Double standard
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 5:04pm On Jun 29, 2019
12inchess:

You think it's like in the movies where they fight back? How easy for a 16 year old to fight back a full grown man.
so you Mean the man was like he is now 17 years ago?
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 5:06pm On Jun 29, 2019
GogobiriLalas:
Truer talk has never been said, in fact as it concerns Nigerian women I have never had a first time sexual encounter with a Nigerian woman where she was up for it..Nigerian women always say no the first time, but you will be the one to read her body language whether she's just testing your desire or whether she's really serious...any Nigerian man who says this is not the case is a bloody liar. Nigeria is a conservative nation, our women don't just give it up, they expect you to persuade them so as to absolve them of all responsibility for the act.
Don't mind them.. Even some married men still force their way on their wives..

And according to them the husband raped his wife in a case like that
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 5:08pm On Jun 29, 2019
12inchess:
stop being stupid in public. One of my girlfriends went through something similar and I know how she struggled and still struggles with it. She even has a kid from the incident. Because her uncle raped her the first time and subsequently threatened her to have his way because she was young and naive doesn't discount the fact that she was raped. Like I said a lot of people are very stupid in Nigeria and engage in blaming the victim. And that is why it take women 15 years to come out.
Now what your girl went through may be the real definition of rape..

But you would take back your insults had you tried to understand my point of view
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by etrange: 5:10pm On Jun 29, 2019
GutsOverFear:

You that grew up with saint what's what you just spewed called.. Double standard

I didn't give you my opinion on the guy that voiced out. I don't know the source of your double standard allegation
You're just looking for things to justify your wickedness. I pity the under-age girls around you. Who knows, they might also consent to your advances
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by googi: 5:10pm On Jun 29, 2019
I am not sure if we are confusing 18 as new age of adulthood with below 16 for statutory rape.

Many young men will admit that they were dis virgin ed by an older ladies. While no reasonable person would approve such behavior, the feeling can be traumatized by opportunistic folks that wait until they see themselves as victims, only after some fame or standard has be achieved.

Like somebody implied, why don't they come out against the poor or ignoramus?

The only time it becomes a big deal in America or Europe is when there is a good sacrificial lamb like minorities. Most of the white men got away or will get away.

The champions of sexual abuses even created magazines and became millionaires. Playboy, Hustler etc.
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jun 29, 2019
makewetalk2:
If someone comes out and says that you duped him, should we suspend doing any business with you until God judges the case? Would you be okay with that?
You cannot suggest that people remain neutral. If you want to be neutral, that is your personal egg. Break it and eat or swallow it with the shell. Stop this frequent neutrality nonsense.
grin grin grin grin brilliant comparison! i bet he will change his stand on let God judge, Double standard Nigerian so called christians.

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Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by maxiuc(m): 5:17pm On Jun 29, 2019
doctorkush:
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I was abused too when young, Aunty abike almost killed me with those big succulent boobs

I’m traumatized cry

Help me find her, I’m been haunted by her boobs

Help!!
come which Aunty Abike. ...i

Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Sleekfun: 5:18pm On Jun 29, 2019
I was once a victim too but after the first round ,i request for more ...Cheers ...
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by DeeMain(m): 5:20pm On Jun 29, 2019
GutsOverFear:
So it's OK for Busola to cry out as a rape victim of what happened 15 years ago..

But it's not OK for this guy to do the same.. Hypocritical double standard people we have in Nigeria..

FYI what the pastor did with her wasn't rape. It might not have been a consensual sex in the encounter but the subsequent ones were consensual..

She enjoyed it that's why she didn't cry out then..

Would she cry out now if the person that raped her was a nobody?

modified for all of you quoting and insulting me, it shall be well with you and Busola if non of you have had a non consensual sex before.. Or are y'all trying to say all the times you have had sex the lady was totally up for it..

Your idiocy is shocking.

1. A man of God has hypnotic-like powers over his members. Someone, you believe is anointed from heaven and can call fire from heaven to consume you can control you if he chooses to use that power for personal gain or evil.

A dreaded ex hitman, ex cultist can have such absolute power and control over someone.

Note that the accused in this case has both kinds of powers as her pastor and a dreaded ex hit man of a cult.

In both cases, there is a power differential or power imbalance. The person with the greater power can take advantage of, abuse or rape his/her victim without much fuss.


2. Someone that triggers excessive fear or reverence can rape their victim many times, on different days. Fear is hypnotic and illogical. Fear can have the same effect as hypnosis or a spell.

3. In the face of immense fear the fight-freeze-flight response kicks in for everyone. Some people will instinctively fight, some will flee and some will freeze -go numb, become paralysed to move, speak or act.

Some rape victims never fight their predators or even raise their voice. They are too afraid or shocked to act or move or run. It's not their fault, it's in their wiring.

Pray someone close to you do not get a taste of what you are blindly supporting. Just pray.

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Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by TSRC: 5:26pm On Jun 29, 2019
I heard from a friend that many young boys in.ibadan were molested by aunties.

The rate of male child rape is very high there.
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jun 29, 2019
GutsOverFear:
So it's OK for Busola to cry out as a rape victim of what happened 15 years ago..

But it's not OK for this guy to do the same.. Hypocritical double standard people we have in Nigeria..

FYI what the pastor did with her wasn't rape. It might not have been a consensual sex in the encounter but the subsequent ones were consensual..

She enjoyed it that's why she didn't cry out then..

Would she cry out now if the person that raped her was a nobody?

modified for all of you quoting and insulting me, it shall be well with you and Busola if non of you have had a non consensual sex before.. Or are y'all trying to say all the times you have had sex the lady was totally up for it..


I don't think she was raped, it was consensual. I feel he have sex with women by intimidating them with his position and dumps them, though not forcefully. So these women feel used.
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by oalandAgents2: 5:52pm On Jun 29, 2019
Please when I was 9 or 10 years old and saw pornagraphic magazine with naked women, I began fantasising about sex with women, so I find it really difficult to relate with those males who experienced this as a child and call it abuse.

As a 15 year old I had one close friend who was grown woman worker in a company a worked briefly one summer and nothing ever happened ; even today see that as missed opportunity.

Please these males who consider they have been abuser enlighten me about how the experience it has negatively impacted you.
I genuinely would like to understand.
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by naijajobx: 6:02pm On Jun 29, 2019
Then speak out since the ladies are speaking out about men
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by Theboss100(m): 6:03pm On Jun 29, 2019
Youngstar76:
Since all this whole time, why did Mrs Dakolo bring it to at this point??


Women are demons. Every one of them.
Shut Up!! Are U Saying Ur Mother That Carry U 4 9 Months Is A Demon? This Is The Third Time That Randy Pastor Is Been Accused Of Rape. I Pray He Never Get Away With It If True. U Must Have Raped A Woman B4 For U To Emit This Trash. Pls Go And Buy Sense U Rape Defender
Spits
Re: "One Of The Ladies Who Sexually Abused Me As Child Is Getting Married This Year" by elonize(m): 6:09pm On Jun 29, 2019
Flier:
Dont mind the idiot,I was abused but no regret.I really enjoyed it
cheesy cheesy cheesy guy some Nigerians ehn,dem 1 kolo o,guy dye open e mouth say girl molest him like say e no enjoy am,wich kind ppo b dis

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