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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by StPete: 6:27pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
crackhaus: Any man with a healthy sex appetite will not go without Sex for a week let alone 9 months unless you’re relieving yourself elsewhere. Surely, low libido has been the reason behind his not wanting to copulate, forget his archaic mindset. What happens with having sex gently during pregnancy if you feel it could hurt the baby? If sperm adds with ovaries to form babies, how does it turn around to hurt the baby? (Assuming truly, if sperm can contaminate the milk). Moreso, some women have been known to suck sperm, how come they aren’t dead? Besides, it is obvious that his archaism is centered around sex which clearly shows that the man is trying to avoid sex by ALL MEANS! 9 months of pregnancy + 1yr 6 months of breastfeeding = Extremely low libido 8 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by crackhaus: 9:02pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
CanadaOrBust:Genius, you and I are not having any discussion. You already assumed the reason behind the man's behaviour is because he is asexual. CanadaOrBust: The only thing you are supposed to be typing now is a statement acquiescing to my advise on how you should teach your baseless assumptions to your kids. 5 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by crackhaus: 9:09pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
StPete:There's so much comedy in this statement that trying to respond seriously to it will give it an appearance of fact. 5 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by frozen70(f): 9:14pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
wwwkaycom: I am see that the major issue here is his stupid belive over sex during pregnancy and breast feeding For the sake of peace, she should find a gadget and pleasure herself If he feel offended, she will defend herself What kind of wahala is this ❓ 2 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 9:38pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
crackhaus: (What’s with this obsession with my kids - u r BASELESSLY ASSUMING I have kids) Bros, you have to start with an assumption otherwise u can’t discuss the topic - I’m not the man, neither r u. My assumption is he must not be that into sex, which I shorthanded as “asexual” for this discussion. Proffer your own ideas and make your own comments - that’s how civilized people discuss 4 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by crackhaus: 9:50pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
CanadaOrBust:If I didn't already figure you were as sharp as a block of wood, I would have been more serious in my replies to you. Just see your last paragraph in bold. Was it not my own comment on this thread that started this and got you to quote me yapping about asexuality? Or do you have a 24hr memory retention limit? BTW, I know you don't have kids...but like a block of wood, you won't sense sarcasm if it was a double-edged sword swinging towards the surface of your skin. 6 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by lawrenzooo: 10:08pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
You did not read were he said they have had several discussion. Olalan: |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by OcMichaels(m): 10:12pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
CanadaOrBust: "Sex is not everything"..... 1 Like
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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Baldwretch: 10:12pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
CanadaOrBust: Lol, that's very true sha. Forums thrive better with fake and made-up stories. 2 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Abfinest007(m): 10:16pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
do we still have these kind of primitive people in these Nigeria 1 Like |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by sola12(m): 10:17pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
wwwkaycom: |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by abdulhayyuadamu: 10:18pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by stanliwiser: 10:18pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
CanadaOrBust:sex is everything at a point and nothing at some point. stop confusing us. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by babyfaceafrica: 10:19pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
StPete: Any man with a healthy sex appetite will not go without Sex for a week let alone 9 months unless you’re relieving yourself elsewhere. says who?...sex na food?.some people don't have sex till they marry and they don't maturbate!!... 3 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by HowDareU: 10:20pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
From your text, it seems your friend has a high libido and everybody she dates can't be perfect. She will impossible to tame except she does the following: 1. Learn to utilize the strength in her husband and forego his weaknesses. 2. Buy educative materials like books, audio tapes that talk about modernization of men in the 21st century. 3. She should communicate her worries to her husband through persuasion as against coersion by using love language techniques. 4. Engage the services of elders like you or medical professionals to counsel the 'archaic' husband about the safety effect of sex during and after marriage. 5. She should apply patience yet continue to advice him about his foibles. 6. Use Emotional Intelligence (very effective). 7. The use of air conditional has it pros and cons. If it is that harmful, a lot of people would have stopped using it. He is truly archaic indeed. Please OP, seeve my points; pick the ones that interest you and discard the rest. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Trimque2k1(m): 10:22pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
crackhaus:dem go do you |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Inhabitable1(m): 10:22pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
mysticwarrior: Even sex before food.. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Alexaonfleek: 10:22pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
crackhaus:brush is even too far Her middle finger would do 1 Like |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by poiZon: 10:23pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
mysticwarrior:Not just high libido but WOMB SHIFTERS. I DON kwomot |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Arckeen: 10:23pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
OP, na you he happen to, or na d baby give u permission to write her true life story here ? |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by OcMichaels(m): 10:24pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Inhabitable1: Eating before eating stuvvs |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by amaridigital(m): 10:27pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 10:28pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
It is very vital to directly or indirectly check the IQ or whoever you want to marry. 6 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by MusaDanladi1: 10:29pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:Lol! You are too harsh.... |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by baby124: 10:33pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
All these people marry gay men. LMAO. Hmmm |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 10:37pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Nice pix... To Bleep you dey hungry me |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 10:39pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
What kind of cave man is this? Most women are turned on during pregnancy a lot. Majority during breastfeeding. Women have suffered a lot 3 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Elxandre(m): 10:39pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
crackhaus:Bros you sure you no get low libido? I don't believe the man is really normal. One year without sex as a married couple is abnormal. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 10:42pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
StPete: The man is mad. He didn't even request for hand or mouth job. Even booby job. He must be a closeted one. The people we marry sha. Is his thing dead? 3 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by ArcGibson(m): 10:44pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
I also don't like AC . I like natural air cos of my believe also. If one put Ac on, it's used to be like pin all over me, I will find a way to off it. But as pertaining to that of sex, the husband has someone else outside cos no man can live with out sex for that long period of time. Men can be smart atimes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 10:44pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
baby124: He just married to have biological kids and avoid societal stigmatization. I just dey pity the woman.it should be the other way round. 4 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Gabbyosun: 10:45pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Just get a Love Machine or vibrator. thank me later |
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