lefulefu:
how do u know he does not seek for pleasure outside his marriage..u dey dere?.a wife whose husband runs from her when it comes to sex is justified to be worried.

UjuJoan2:




Jeeeeez, this is so funny.

Truth is that hormones make pregnant women Hot at odd times. They have the strangest craving and longings. But it's just the whole chemical reactions going on in their system.

You are a good man for not going through with it. Most men are not that strong.

Truth is if you had done it you would have been taking advantage of her. And when she puts to bed and regains her sense, she'll resent you for it...

It's like sleeping with a drunk or stoned girl. . . .

wirinet:

False premise.
[b]A fully fit young man that abstains from sex for up to one year has a problem. [/b]Forget control, sex is hardwired into our DNA (and the DNA of all animals). It is not controlled by the head, but by hormones. A man with low testosterone levels or pheromones would obviously have low sex drive, but one with high testosterone levels and high pheromones will not only have high sex drive but also attract women from miles around.

Certain foods and stress also affect sex drive. Excessive sugar and starch intake can have adverse effect on sex drive. Excessive stress can actually kill sex drive. That's why guys with highly stressful jobs can hardly satisfy their women. Their women either rely on intimacy toys or cheat with any available person (ie, gardeners, drivers, plumbers or cable men.

Many men have cum and gone at the same time, taking excessive drugs to up their game in the other room. The drugs put too much stress on the heart by forcing it to pump excess blood to the action area, leading to raptured arteries and blood vessels and eventually leading to stroke.

lefulefu:
side chicks na stress abeg .na full time job for men wey dey do am.u can ask them

midnighter:


There is also the fact that woman flock towards powerful figures.

It's a two-way thing

When a sport team comes into town women will literally go and camp outside the hotel, waiting to snag one of the players.

Those men have more access to free and interesting sexual encounters than the average Joe

midnighter:


Lol please greet my Dominican wife for me o

midnighter:


Lol please greet my Dominican wife for me o

sassysure:


Haaaa!

He has corrected me before o

Let me infuse that in my subconscious.
crackHAUS, crackHAUS.
Naaaa, this one is hard.
Thanks

crackhaus:

Or accuse me of rape, lmao..
I wonder where that lady is now, it's been over 10years - I doubt she will even remember the incident.

djon78:




There have been young men fully fit who abstained from sex years before they got married, no masturbation oh but later got married to still have good sexual life in there marriage. There was never any problem, its all about developing self control and nothing more.
Sex starts from the mind, thoughts and controlling and channeling one thoughts aright can lead to self control of body's impulses.

That humans today lives a sex crazed lifestyle today with very many uncontrollable sexual impulses doesn't mean that everyone is slave to uncontrollable impulses. That's why there are alarming incidents of rape, pedophilie cases, men sleeping with men, women sleeping with there fellow women because many allowed themselves to become slaves to there untamed desires to run free without control.

lefulefu:
i never get a dominican chick yet oo ,i am still finding it difficult to understand their accent so i no wan complicate my life yet getting one .how i wan take understand d accent when i dey toast her

wirinet:

Purely hypothetical situation.
And who are these fully fit young men
that abstained from sex years before they got married, but later got married to still have good sexual life in there marriage?

Sex starts from the hormones and enter the mind, from there it finds means of expression.



Another false premise.
Humans of nowadays have far more sexual restrains than any times in the past. Now, you find many girls and guys that go past their teens without any sexual experience. In the old days young girls were married off before their 16th birthday. In many cases before their 14th.

In the past, rape of young women was very common especially in times of conflict and wars. A lady or girl without male protector, either a father, brother or husband was likely to be raped.

You are just pandering to religious sentiments, incidents of rape and pedophilie were much more prevalent in all almost all ancient societies than present day.

CanadaOrBust:


U have a point, but many high achievers exhibit high sex drive long before they achieve anything

midnighter:


Lol but they speak some mixture of French right? How do you cope? Or everybodys English is still okay?

crackhaus:

Or accuse me of rape, lmao..
I wonder where that lady is now, it's been over 10years - I doubt she will even remember the incident.

djon78:



You are talking of ancient history I am talking of now. Growing up as a kid 2 decades ago we never heard of the kind of things concerning sex compared to presently. Things unheard of.

Was there easy access to ponography then like its now which is major cause of a present degenerating society.
I can't quote many recent articles I came across recently from globally established organizations like New York times, and other Western based media of the moral decadence taking over our world.

Many more children been born from unmarried parents presently than in the past 2 to 6 decades ago as a result of spiralling morality going down at an alarming rate in our modern world.

lefulefu:
yea they speak mixture of french or pidgin french(creole) .but the region i reside they speak english but the way dem dey speak their english ehn u have to streatch ur ears open before u comprehend what they saying.they speak so fast and add some slangs in their english

crackhaus:
How is any of this even a problem that required her to go blabbing. Air conditioning & wanting to have sex while pregnant? Seriously?

midnighter:


Lol, please learn it and be yarning it here so we can learn small

midnighter:


You could say the same for poor achievers. In fact some people argue that they have more time to indulge in it

lenanol:

my friend go and sit down. holy than thou.

CanadaOrBust:


Well u can’t. Of course there are exceptions but generally the highest achievers usually have the highest sex drive ab initio

wirinet:

Purely hypothetical situation.
And who are these fully fit young men
that abstained from sex years before they got married, but later got married to still have good sexual life in there marriage?

Sex starts from the hormones and enter the mind, from there it finds means of expression.



Another false premise.
Humans of nowadays have far more sexual restrains than any times in the past. Now, you find many girls and guys that go past their teens without any sexual experience. In the old days young girls were married off before their 16th birthday. In many cases before their 14th.

In the past, rape of young women was very common especially in times of conflict and wars. A lady or girl without male protector, either a father, brother or husband was likely to be raped.

You are just pandering to religious sentiments, incidents of rape and pedophilie were much more prevalent in all almost all ancient societies than present day.

wirinet:

That's purely because there was no twitter, Facebook or whatsapp then. Such things were done in the closet and very few people outside the clan or even homestead hear about it. It's not that sexual and other immorality were not happening, it was just not being reported. Remember, it only became public knowledge that Catholic priests had been abusing small boys for decades, we would not have heard of it if not for the Internet.



Moral decadence had always been with us, the problem was that the press then was controlled by a very few powerful elite and their friends, so they controlled information they want the masses to know.
Now that control is gone. Most of the rape and sexual abuse that happened decades ago are only beginning to come to light, ie Harvey Weinstein and Jeffrey Epstein.



That's principally because women are more liberated now than before. Women now get an education and pursue a career, instead marrying early and depending on a man for the rest of their lives. The can choose to divorce and abusive husband and train the kids themselves. This was not even common just 4 decades ago.

Before now, women had no choice but to remain in marriage whether she likes it or not.

sassysure:



Why did u run
U for stay and collect free food
Man wey see free food run, that one na man
Fear fear guy

midnighter:


I can't? That means you "can't" argue your premise either

djon78:


Anyway I have read your write up.
All man should continue living which ever way they want, giving in to whatever sensual impulses there bodies demand, but in the end everyone will give account to God the creator of human beings/body of what they did with there body.

Body that once someone dies, you can't even dare stay around it maximum 24hrs decay and horrible stench the body turns to. So people should continue living the way they want.

crackhaus:

If I tell you how many free food I don run from ehn...
Interesting encounters all of them

Not to shout, but sex has never been too hard for me to come by...perhaps this is why I have more control over my urges and can quickly decide who I will fvck & who I will not fvck right in the heat of the moment - doesn't matter if the woman strip teases in front of me, I go just dey look am. If I'm not feeling it, I'm not feeling it.
Then there are those free food situations where before her clothes even come off, I'm already locating all the hotspots myself.

No be all kinds of free food guy man dey chop oo.

sassysure:

I hear u
U are not part of naija men again?
Their third leg normally do the thinking for them. Consequences can be handled later

crackhaus:

I am full blooded Naija man oo, no time.
But when it comes to matters of woman & pucci, lots of guys with my kind of OT are fully in control of the third leg.

Na we fit do dis kain thing to woman

sassysure:

Where did u get this from
Epic!
If I hear
I'm a naija lady and I know what's up. Una no get control, married o, single o, name them, it got to a stage it doesn't bother me anymore.
I started breathing as soon as l left naija.
The day the landlords in my area came to my house and discovered I was alone was the day i gave up on u guys.
Hitting on somebody's wife shamelessly.
Una no get shame at all.