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Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by loswhite(m): 5:19pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
xendra:and your husband no go chop your own abi? |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by bukatyne(f): 5:24pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
seuncyrus: True. 1 Like |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by nokatakata: 5:49pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
what if she has been married the first time and it was suffer head that made her quit the marriage. Why are people seeing it as she doesn't want to suffer the second time because she is from a poor background. what she means by second time is what you should be interested in |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Nobody: 5:51pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
I think she means there’s more to being with someone than just money Money will not send you texts or leave breakfast for you but a loving partner will. There is emotional well being and bonding that comes as added support in this tough world that people often ignore until it’s too late You have to think of now as it’s a sure glimpse of what is to come if certain things are not worked on now. I know I’m a little hot headed when angry so I know to avoid situations that will cause anger May be lack of affection or even ignorance that can lead to suffering. |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by anonymous1759(m): 6:02pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Ebonygirl1: The Mentality of most Nigerian girls make guys put things on code from them. Just like an average lady wants to be sure that a guy loves her genuinely and not after her body, that's how it goes for the Guys. I won't code for a Rich girl but as for Ajekpako I'll put on my code. Hunger and love for money can Trigger love. 1 Like |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Nobody: 6:05pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
bukatyne:Didn't you read how she tried helping him? 1 Like |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Mart1994(m): 6:08pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
solasoulmusic: This is the very first sensible post on this thread coming from a female. The rest are spewing thrash as usual. 1 Like |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by RexTramadol1: 6:23pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Even me as a man, I ain't ready for another suffering bout 1 Like |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Pelxmiye(m): 6:32pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Well..I'm having the same issue in my relationship and I'm weighing my options first.. looking so far at what she has offered ... looking at the good sides and bad sides of her.. checking to see if I can manage her person..but then I realized she is the type who believes in doing what's best for her..which is selfish in a way..but still that's life.. there's no love anywhere..what women look out for most is what are you bringing..they don't ask themselves "what would I be adding to him"..though I may my conclusion a while back that I am gonna do what's best for me too..though we haven't broken up..but she made a statement like the above..I pressured her to clarify on it..she made it seem like.."don't give yourself headache on what i said or don't take my words out of context...heaven knows I'll support my woman in every way..but I'd never be with someone passing time with me till she finds better option. As per the post..confirm from her what she means in clearer terms...then make your conclusion...tell your friend not to worry about losing the geh...there would come another geh and anoda geh and anoda geh and anoda geh.. he'll meet so many other..we just like to tell ourselves" oh that geh is so amazing..I doubt I would meet any other geh like her"..dat one nah scam bro.. you'll be fine laslas..and lastly..luv is not love in our clime here in 9ja.. everyone is just doing what's best for them..leave her now..face your life..work harder..so you too can set standards for the women you wanna share your dough with..Jah bless |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by AfroKnight: 7:05pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Ebonygirl1: Increase his chances of marrying her? Like she’s what? Miss World or what? See woman thought process o 1 Like |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Nobody: 7:05pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Mart1994:experience is always the best teacher bro blessings thanks |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by YorubaEmir: 7:13pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Apeshy101: My guy, my friend, my sister, ..... we all know it’s you |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by TotoNaRubber: 7:33pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
op na you be the guy. |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Nobody: 8:28pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Lol, all of you insulting me, Una go dey alright o. I just said the plain truth, if you like, don't listen. Your anger won't change the truth. |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by bukatyne(f): 8:50pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Chi59: Did you read the post you quoted? |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by nick50(m): 8:55pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
He should dump the gal asap..besides our women don't know that rich men marry rich women or women from rich homes and that's why many women are single..nobody wants a total liability as a wife |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Nobody: 9:10pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Dottore:if she does that, then she doesn't need a man. there's no reason to marry a poor man who will only complicate her life with his entitlement mentality 1 Like |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Nobody: 9:17pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Harddiskng: You made the most sense on this thread from a realistic point of view. And as well, there are men who had so much when they first married their wives only for them due to unforeseen shortcomings in life have nothing in a long run and at that point what will she do? Marriage must be seen beyond substance to essence. How many women complain of unhappiness, lack of attention, and e.t.c after being married to some rich men. For the record, the richest black African Aliko Dangote had to let go of one of his young wives because she kept complaining that he has no time for her always busy, hence what is the essence of their being married. They ended divorced. Just an example. |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by onoja12: 10:08pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Husband na proverty alivation program abi,if you where born poor,you work your way out of poverty.that guy needs to run,that woman would only drain him.what can not add to you must surely take from you. SBL28: |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Lambarry1: 10:43pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
I read some very good comments |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by izzou(m): 10:46am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Ariza: Welcome bacckkkk |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by dokyOloye: 10:56am On Dec 18, 2019 |
loswhite:Nigerian women keep talking as if the female gender is a disability. Tufia |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by sharone21(f): 5:17pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
dokyOloye:Would u want your sister/daughter to start with a stranger of a man from POVERTY level or at least average level? |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by dokyOloye: 5:46pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
sharone21:My 1st sister had her PhD from my father's house @ 27,now married and lives with the husband in the US,has been working fir the past 3 yrs,almost thru with her nursing degree and she's 30 this year. My 2nd sister is 26,has her masters and ICAN and has been lecturing in a fed poly for 2yrs now. So,if she sees anybody she really likes,his finances would be d least of my problems cos she can comfortably take car of partner. I repeat, d female gender is not a disability. 2 Likes |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by charlsecy(m): 8:14pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
@Apeshy101 She wants to marry a man of improved financial background. |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by sharone21(f): 4:01am On Dec 19, 2019 |
dokyOloye:Sure, and your dad/parents played roles that will not make them disabilities to anybody, but is it so for many ladies apart from those who struggle to achieve with/out certificates? You think a lady will go through all this academic stress and marry ANYBODY? Na, she go chook eye well for water and marry an average person( least) who appreciates her. How many ladies who struggled with their POOR men from scratch enjoyed them when the men 'arrived'? See, as the NECK and SUPPORTER to men, women choose who they want to support, no woman wants a liability too of a man. Imagine ALL the stress women go through in marriage. Have u ever seen a man because he LOVES a woman, help her carry children for 9months+ risking his life because of her( even when women help the men financially, with financial back ups)? Some men sef no even fit 'bail' their wives from hospital after delivery because of no/limited cash, some women even bleed to death because of this poor state when they need urgent nedical attention when pregnant. The highest men will do is to help the ladies get surrogate mothers, but the majority of Nigerian men will prefer marrying a 2nd wife or having a concubine outside of his home. So, this is usually the fate of women since they risk their lives and all to be with a stranger of a man to create a family in the name of marriage? As a lady said on this thread, 'las, las na woman go still eat man money it is the BITTER truth, deal with it....one cannot put her life down and not get it back 'financially' not with the stress ladies go through in the name of marriage especially in Africa. |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 21, 2019 |
izzou: Why the face? common smile joor |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by izzou(m): 9:50am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Nobody: 10:01am On Dec 21, 2019 |
izzou:I will try not to. But I'm having this urge to resurrect 'Ruth Daniels' if I do, this will have to go. Still thinking sha. |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by izzou(m): 10:03am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ariza: |
Re: When A Lady Says "I'm Not Ready To Suffer A Second Time" by Nobody: 10:04am On Dec 21, 2019 |
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