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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by BOFREJO(m): 11:34am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Midas01:true! Some men are wicked. 4 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by MARX77(m): 11:35am On Dec 21, 2019 |
livebyday: I'd be more than grateful to be enlightened sir. Anyways, I appreciate her post. 2 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Gordieshegz(m): 11:35am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Or11: Guy you madt ooo...see ego punching.. 2 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Incandescent(m): 11:35am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Immediately I saw pap.. I knew its coming from South Africa. That's their staple. Copy copy well done 2 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by laosy(m): 11:36am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Davash222:You and these bags and wigs shii |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Rigel95(m): 11:36am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Riele:For all I know most women are not trash, but you ain't one of em' 2 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Davash222(m): 11:37am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Hairdo666:You didn’t lie. I gossip for a living. Na from gossip I take know say you sell Hairs here. Hungry surulere feminist! 2 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Nobody: 11:38am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Davash222:Lame. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Riele(f): 11:39am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Rigel95:Oga face your front ! 2 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by madridsta007(m): 11:39am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ginaz: When a man is broke and trying to start life, it is IMPORTANT that ladies should know that being with him, unless you are married, is INCONVENIENCING him. This is a fact many ladies do not seem to realise. Or they realise, but do not want to accept. He needs the space to think and plan and work. Sticking around is inconveniencing and for most men, it is an ego thing too. If the man is hardworking and responsible, he will generally make statements that will alude to the fact that it is best he is left alone to focus and concentrate. The problem is that ladies emotionalise this decision-making process; they stick around and believe that if they stay and support him, they are entitled to having a say in his life- that is, getting married. When the guy bounces back on his feet, he will usually make the decision of marriage based on logic and rational rather than emotions. If the lady who stuck with him is not viewed by him as productive- whatever is his definition of being productive- he ends the relationship and moves on with someone who he views can add value to him. Harsh reality, but these are simple facts. Once again, UNLESS you are married to him or to her, you are simply staying with him or her through the tough period at your own risk. Yes, this goes to the ladies as well. You arent entitled to marriage with the guy or girl. You are not. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by CHoccolaTE: 11:39am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Mindfulness: What do you mean by "more value than a maid could add"? So in addition to cooking and cleaning and taking care of children women are also under obligation to provide for men and be breadwinners too? While all the men do is go off to work and return back to rest? I dont think you even live in Nigeria, Nigeria where the average man tells himself he is too big to do housework and cooking so are women now supposed to handle the homefront also slit bills just to prove herself otherwise the man would be justified in leaving her because she contributed nothing? 5 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Samanza89: 11:42am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ginaz: You've succeeded saying nothing. Absolutely nothing! 1 Like |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Nobody: 11:42am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Davash222:Eye see |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Hairdo666(f): 11:43am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Davash222:At least I sell something and make a living. Unlike you that begs celebrities online for giveaways. May sense detect you. Agadi nwoke na agu ofe. Shame. 3 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by AstuteAyo(m): 11:44am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Bravo! |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by murphyibiam15(m): 11:45am On Dec 21, 2019 |
ireneidiva:You actually have some point to be frank 1 Like |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Davash222(m): 11:47am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Hairdo666:Lol Thanks for making me laugh. So, it’s me you’re calling Agadi nwoke Me that is still young in heart. |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Nobody: 11:47am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Riele:Daddy issue right?? |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by livebyday(m): 11:48am On Dec 21, 2019 |
MARX77: stan /stan/ noun an overzealous or obsessive fan of a particular celebrity. It's used as an insult to describe an obsessive psycopath fan |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Riele(f): 11:48am On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by murphyibiam15(m): 11:49am On Dec 21, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix:You're thinking more like a Muslim guy, lol |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Nobody: 11:50am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by LINTUNE(m): 11:50am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ishilove:u sound highly intelligent.. 1 Like |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by midnighter(f): 11:52am On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by jackals(f): 11:55am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Instead of ubunja to be educating the women folks about improving their self worth too, he won't. his loyalty is only to the brotherhood. selfish lot. Thank you OP, I have gained one or two things from this write-up 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Defenderalert(m): 11:55am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ginaz: I agree with you totally. I also would advice my daughters never to live with some idoot they are not yet married to.Thats where the insults start from. Some would even tell the woman to quit their work and treat them like trash afterwards 4 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:58am On Dec 21, 2019 |
midnighter:.. You are very funny. So you think that in situations like this,the guy wouldn't have voiced out his displeasures atleast once? |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by midnighter(f): 11:59am On Dec 21, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE: YOU are very funny for talking about "situations like this" instead of the one WE READ ABOUT IN THE OP ! 3 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by aminusodiq(m): 12:00pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Davash222:op has killed dem alredy!! Why u con bury dem again!!! /u no wan mak dem reincarnate Na wa oh! |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by safarigirl(f): 12:00pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ginaz:the sad thing is that OP is wrong. How many men are leaving women for other women who are industrious and hardworking? The truth is that a lot of 'successful' men are not looking for industrious and hardworking women, they are looking for trophy wives; women who look pretty on their arms. That is why when a lot of men 'make it' and leave the women that were with them when they were poor, they move on to women who are more attractive and more 'desirable' women who will make them the envy of their peers. They are not looking for women to boost the wealth, it is the Brazilian hair and designer outfits women they go to, because men believe that if they are with women who look good, it reflects positively on them. But let us deceive ourselves with these bullshit stories of made men wanting women who consolidate their wealth 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Defenderalert(m): 12:01pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
MARX77: Its not totally true.Working class high profile women get divorced too. I think its a matter of compatibility because our great grandmothers were majorly stay at home, home makers and seldom got divorced. 1 Like |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by MARX77(m): 12:01pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
livebyday: Lol, thanks for the knowledge... |
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