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Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by chelseamann(m): 6:10am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Rukkydelta:simple 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by uzedo1(m): 6:14am On Feb 10, 2020 |
NeedAdvice00: I for say make u chill first, never send the sms wey u type yet. Allow her send her own breakup message, since u dey certain say she go send am, just send her sms back asking her if you guys where dating before.. E go pain her wella o Because if u send the sms, she go feel say na bcoz of Val u wan breakup.. So dey like say u no dey. She might even get you a gift self. If she no buy u, no ish. But wait o, how una two take start to dey date self? Bcoz from ur write up, it seems the relationship dey one sided But don't send a the breakup sms first, e get why 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by dalass(f): 6:20am On Feb 10, 2020 |
OP has invited the girl over of which the girl has promised to come but didn't. Of course she won't come because she no trust you. You're obviously frustrated and sexually starved. If she's raped by you and your fellow frustrated friends now. Guys will accuse her why she went there in the first place. You don't want to give her Valentine gift because you know its not sure you can't lick the honey that val night! Abeg free this gal, move on and look for a loose free to bang girl, or olosho. Keep your gift, she will get better man who will appreciate her moral standards and make a honest woman out of her 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by crazysam001: 6:31am On Feb 10, 2020 |
NeedAdvice00: Its not compulsory bro not at all but dont complain when someone else buys it for her and matter change for you oh. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:45am On Feb 10, 2020 |
NeedAdvice00: There's no natural chemistry. Y'all ain't vibing. You can't force this relationship to work, it's going to drain you and you'll end up breaking up regrettably. A relationship in its first 3-6 months is meant to seem like honeymoon, not what y'all are having right now Just end it now while it's early. A 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by joyfullyjoyous(f): 6:50am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Wish to get. |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:52am On Feb 10, 2020 |
victorian: I was just laughing at his post. He doesn't know nothing. His relationship has more or less come to an end. |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by Tonyspecial(m): 6:53am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Slawormir:Dammmn |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:58am On Feb 10, 2020 |
If you don't make your girlfriend feel special on Valentine's Day, I'm sorry for you. It's either she outrightly breaks up with you, or you'll slowly realise you're dating yourself. Even if you're still wooing her and Valentine's Day comes and goes without any show of love from you, lol. That relationship may likely never happen. For lots of women, their love language includes receiving gifts. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:02am On Feb 10, 2020 |
lexy2014: He should celebrate it every other day PLUS Valentine's Day! |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:06am On Feb 10, 2020 |
cassyrooy: No need for all these long stories. If he has to ask whether she's worth it in the first place, then they simply shouldn't be in a relationship. She should do herself some sweet dignity and call it off. |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by ezra1990: 7:07am On Feb 10, 2020 |
NeedAdvice00:....Then do the needful and stop dist |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by Tunex252(m): 7:55am On Feb 10, 2020 |
NeedAdvice00:Bro she don tell you the main fact so what's ur stress? You just need to show her how it's been done |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by lexy2014: 8:07am On Feb 10, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO: If celebrating love every other day was d focus, "valentines day" won't b an emphasis |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by lexy2014: 8:12am On Feb 10, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO: Y d emphasis on making his girlfriend "feel special on valentines day"? So if he doesn't "show her love on Valentine's day", he can't do it on any other day? What's special about him "showing her love on Valentine's day"? What does this "show of love" even mean? |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by cassyrooy(m): 8:21am On Feb 10, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO:This is a clear example of what it means to be in a relationship these days. Love 20%, impatient 50%, self-centeredness 15%, being help meets 5%. Once y'all see an inadequacy (except for cheating and abuses), you up and leave. Baby girl, if you're not open to learning how a man works, by constantly unlearning him and relearning him, you'll never experience the most unique part of him. Why wouldn't or shouldn't he ask (himself) if she's worth anything? No be human being him dey deal with? A highly volatile and deceitful one at that? Like I had earlier posted, the emotional and psychological processes he undergoes may be what he's trying to avoid. I'm not going to push my luck getting you to change how you see things. But, note that Valentine's Day is not Women-Centered. It is Love-Centered, just like in the past, presently and in the future to come. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by cassyrooy(m): 8:26am On Feb 10, 2020 |
lexy2014:Come and take the last 1k in my account. You're legit. That's how they bill you for Valentine, Birthday, Easter, Christmas, Children's Day, New Year and every other day they see something worthy of celebrating, whilst unreciprocating same gesture. And the day you definitely default, or does not meet their expectations, they pack up and leave. Na only una need special treatment. Hahaha! |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by cassyrooy(m): 8:29am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Mescana22:Thank you boss, you legit as well. Equity demands same treatment from the other spouses but na lie, na one-way street with some of our ladies. |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by vicben27(m): 8:32am On Feb 10, 2020 |
NeedAdvice00:lol it's like new to this dating thing, you don't have to have a topic of discussion, you just need to be spontaneous, there a whole lot to always talk about |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by Acidosis(m): 9:00am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Valentine is for kids. |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by Johnson225(m): 9:02am On Feb 10, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by gowonmaharajah(m): 9:05am On Feb 10, 2020 |
NeedAdvice00:what attracted you to her in the first place? from the piece u wrote right there,it's very clear you ain't connected in anyway to her.simply put,ya never meant for eachother. my own opinion, tho |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by Zinny25(f): 9:09am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Ok |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by masterflowx(m): 9:12am On Feb 10, 2020 |
NeedAdvice00: Say yes, say yes... Your head is paining you!
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Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by gowonmaharajah(m): 9:15am On Feb 10, 2020 |
victorian:lol,what is this one saying?taking panadol on top someone someone else's headache. are u that bothered bout Val's day to that extent? |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by Nobody: 10:01am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Broke guys like OP are going to break up with their gfs before their birthdays and before Valentine. Sweethearts, just know it's not your fault and he's not for you. Move on to someone worthy of you. |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by Chuksfela1(m): 10:34am On Feb 10, 2020 |
My guy if u get enough money to waste just buy her small thing to form say u be big boy,if u no get just call her that day and wish her happy val.don just kill ur self 4 a girl. |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by victorian(f): 10:44am On Feb 10, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO: Don't mind him. He thinks he's doing his gf a favour dating her. His eyes go shock when he starts counting how many girls he has date and they've moved on to other men who knows the koko about women. The truth hurts but that's just the truth. I have a male friend, matured Handsome goodlooking guy, has a great job, drivesa nice car lives in a two bedroom flat but lo and behold no babe. Gentle guy, classy and all but no babe. We went out yesterday, I could see the loneliness and emptiness in his eyes. I wanted to hook him up with a friend of mine female but he was just too tired to start dating again. I felt sorry for him when he gave me gist on how he's with no babe. Later I tried lightning the mood and he went home Happy and calm as always Guys here are still growing up then don't know anything, let the older ones tell them how life is, them go humble 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by victorian(f): 10:48am On Feb 10, 2020 |
NeedAdvice00: He's the one placing breakup on a platter of gold before her. Not me. What's my own sef! |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by eddieguru(m): 11:06am On Feb 10, 2020 |
NeedAdvice00:Note: real Niggers don't send break up message to ladies...they'll just let her be on the ship till she realizes herself and say "we are done" then you chill |
Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by victorian(f): 11:16am On Feb 10, 2020 |
gowonmaharajah: I'm just trying to help a fellow lady here. My Valentine's is settled
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Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by NeedAdvice00: 1:42pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
dalass:Lol. She don come my house like 4 times before she say Yes. Never make any shit move. Out of the 4, na she come herself 3 times. I no say make she come. Only the last time I invite am. I no dey sexually frustrated. She trust me for that area. I send am break-up message yeternight. She come dey beg. I just tire for this wahala Jare. I dey decent pass am gan self. Where she Dan go, I Never try am before. |
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