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My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by 9jafetish(f): 2:58am On Aug 04, 2011
I am in no means a cruel person it' just that i just happen to be an honest person.The first time i met my friend i thougt she was the most hideous girl in the world, i use to hang around her to make myself feel better ,but then i got use to her and started to really like her personality.The thing is now we both have grown up and we are both looking for husbands to be and boyfriends for fun, already i have found four for myself ,my other girlfriends find it easy to find lovers and guy friends too.

While this is happening my not so good looking friend is wondering why she never gets any guys, i want to tell her it's because she has a lot of acne on her face and she has big flared nostrils, super flat nose, and she kinda looks like a guy.

but the thing is i don't have the courage to tell her that, so i lie to her and tell her that guys are scared of her because she's so pretty,maybe you should smile more so they can approach you.
i wish i could show you guys photos, so that you know i am not being a mean person i am just being honest,at the same time i don't want her to know i was talking about her so i can't, even my church going parents implied she was very ugly.


Anyways let me get to the point she constantly asks me to hook her up with a guy,but she's too ugly, so what can i say or do so she can find her own bf and stop asking me.

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by MrsChima(f): 3:07am On Aug 04, 2011
I have seen men with ugly arse women so she will be fine. She just have to put herself in the right lighting and mumu will appear.

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by ShyOne(f): 3:22am On Aug 04, 2011
Go online and buy her some "Proactive" for her acne

Encourage her to dress pretty everyday

Make sure her hair is fixed everyday

Regardless to how ugly the facial features - I have seen some downright WOLFISH looking men and women with the right clothes, clear skin, great personality

They HAVE SWAG better than the naturally pretty and handsome ones.

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by pleep(m): 5:57am On Aug 04, 2011
9jafetish how old is she? shocked
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:06am On Aug 04, 2011
the least you can do for her is make her presentable.trust me, some men will ball anything with a hole.
as for the acne, get her neomedrol, proactive or anything that isn't quick action as the effects of totally clearing it will take @ least a month to show.
trust me, your friend knows she doesn't have a pretty face but you have to continue to encourage her to smile more often in public.a smile will make anyone approachable
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by claremont(m): 6:49am On Aug 04, 2011
9jafetish:

I am in no means a cruel person it' just that i just happen to be an honest person.The first time i met my friend i thougt she was the most hideous girl in the world, i use to hang around her to make myself feel better ,but then i got use to her and started to really like her personality.The thing is now we both have grown up and we are both looking for husbands to be and boyfriends for fun, already i have found four for myself ,my other girlfriends find it easy to find lovers and guy friends too.

While this is happening my not so good looking friend is wondering why she never gets any guys, i want to tell her it's because she has a lot of acne on her face and she has big flared nostrils, super flat nose, and she kinda looks like a guy.

but the thing is i don't have the courage to tell her that, so i lie to her and tell her that guys are scared of her because she's so pretty,maybe you should smile more so they can approach you.
i wish i could show you guys photos, so that you know i am not being a mean person i am just being honest,at the same time i don't want her to know i was talking about her so i can't, even my church going parents implied she was very ugly.


Anyways let me get to the point she constantly asks me to hook her up with a guy,but she's too ugly, so what can i say or do so she can find her own bf and stop asking me.

The above highlighted is the reason why I wouldn't be surprised if your so-called "ugly" friend settles down much earlier than yourself!

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by Mynd44: 8:25am On Aug 04, 2011
^^^
read it again and again cos it is the truth
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by LongOne1(m): 8:39am On Aug 04, 2011
careytommy:

the least you can do for her is make her presentable.trust me, some men will ball anything with a hole.
as for the acne, get her neomedrol, proactive or anything that isn't quick action as the effects of totally clearing it will take @ least a month to show.
trust me, your friend knows she doesn't have a pretty face but you have to continue to encourage her to smile more often in public.a smile will make anyone approachable

True, but it's usually for a one night stand, not a relationship or marriage

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by Mynd44: 8:57am On Aug 04, 2011
I don't think that at this point, her friend would mind
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by kemori: 11:36am On Aug 04, 2011
Being ugly is not going to stop her from getting a good husband, av seen so many beautiful ladies that are still single at 35 and yet ugly ladies that are married at 25, the beauty is in the ey of the beholder.
A couple recently parked into our neighbourhood, and when my fiance saw her, he was like, babe, that lady is wowostic, she is so ugly, but if u see the way the man holds the lady and even talk, u will know it has nothing to do with beauty,it is the person's personality.
And to add to it, I dont believe their is anyone who is ugly, we just require the right set of things at the right times, so don't be surprised if your friend tells u she is getting married and makes you her maid of honour when u are still struggling wit ur 4 boyfriends

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by SALady(f): 11:57am On Aug 04, 2011
^^^ My thoughts exactly
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by Goldieluks: 12:06pm On Aug 04, 2011
Shy-One:

Go online and buy her some "Proactive" for her acne

Encourage her to dress pretty everyday

Make sure her hair is fixed everyday

Regardless to how ugly the facial features - I have seen some downright WOLFISH looking men and women with the right clothes, clear skin, great personality

They HAVE SWAG better than the naturally pretty and handsome ones.




seconded.
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by MMM2(m): 12:16pm On Aug 04, 2011
op
is her punny also ugly angry
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by kpolli(m): 12:45pm On Aug 04, 2011
dammit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ur mean!!!!!!!!!!

Sister, u didnt need to open this thread. . .

gosh!!!!

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by donguutti: 1:23pm On Aug 04, 2011
u dont mean to sound mean but u are,"u used to hang around her to feel better abt urself", -low self esteem/inferiority complex, u grew up together and u feel this way abt her, she might eventually find someone who likes her personality,, who knows

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by Kay1kay1(m): 1:27pm On Aug 04, 2011
One old theory:

UGLY but well behaved women get the best  cool husbands cool.


, And the women continue to see the UGLINESS while the men say she is a WIFE material.

, NO be the women go marry the UGLY woman sef.
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by Sicherheit(m): 1:33pm On Aug 04, 2011
Shy-One:

Go online and buy her some "Proactive" for her acne

Encourage her to dress pretty everyday

Make sure her hair is fixed everyday

Regardless to how ugly the facial features - I have seen some downright WOLFISH looking men and women with the right clothes, clear skin, great personality

They HAVE SWAG better than the naturally pretty and handsome ones.
Do you think OP will do anything to make her friend feel pretty when the only reason she started hanging out with her is because the girl is ugly and it makes OP feel better because she is the pretty one.
I can bet the so called ugly girl will get a good man before Ms. Halle Berry wannabe because she doesn't base her life on her beauty like OP.
Women and their mental issues. undecided

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by aribisala0(m): 1:35pm On Aug 04, 2011
obviously you are quite silly and insecure and have no understanding of men if you think they are fooled by so called "beauty".

so you think you have four boyfriends because you are fine.you be real mumu!
women really are EVIL
curious posters might find this interesting
http://www.arsrc.org/downloads/uhsss/oloruntoba-oju.pdf

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by emofine(f): 1:37pm On Aug 04, 2011
9jafetish:

I am in no means a cruel person it' just that i just happen to be an honest person.The first time i met my friend i thougt she was the most hideous girl in the world, i use to hang around her to make myself feel better ,but then i got use to her and started to really like her personality.The thing is now we both have grown up and we are both looking for husbands to be and boyfriends for fun, already i have found four for myself ,my other girlfriends find it easy to find lovers and guy friends too.

While this is happening my not so good looking friend is wondering why she never gets any guys, i want to tell her it's because she has a lot of acne on her face and she has big flared nostrils, super flat nose, and she kinda looks like a guy.

but the thing is i don't have the courage to tell her that, so i lie to her and tell her that guys are scared of her because she's so pretty,maybe you should smile more so they can approach you.
i wish i could show you guys photos, so that you know i am not being a mean person i am just being honest,at the same time i don't want her to know i was talking about her so i can't, even my church going parents implied she was very ugly.


Anyways let me get to the point she constantly asks me to hook her up with a guy,but she's too ugly, so what can i say or do so she can find her own bf and stop asking me.


lol abi u dey use this style just to cause effect nau? . . . very laughter inducing. I very much doubt you have any sort of "friends" . . ugly or otherwise.


***

contradiction much . .

I am in no means a cruel person

i use to hang around her to make myself feel better

i just happen to be an honest person

so i lie to her and tell her that guys are scared of her because she's so pretty


P.S. In future you might wanna edit before posting - you know, to tie up the loose ends and all smiley
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by grandstar(m): 1:41pm On Aug 04, 2011
beauty is from the inside 1 Peter 3:4.

She also has to learn and appreciate herself. Thats extremely important.

The most is important is to fear GOD (Matthew 5:3)(Eccl 12:13,14)

Everything at the end of the day is vanity
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by chardino(m): 1:43pm On Aug 04, 2011
Girls way fine never get boyfriend now people like your friend wey want get, you no tell her how difficult it was for like girls like you to get boyfriend? tell her to camedown say the men wey dey now no bi 4 every body.
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by 2sleek2NV(m): 1:48pm On Aug 04, 2011
My own observation is that a fine gal would always walk with an ugly one. you just confirmed that again.
you are so mean and evil, low esteemed. trying to syke urslf up wit and ugly frnd. why not walk wit smome prettier than you are so the pretty person can come to open a thread calling you an ugly gal. mumu.

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:50pm On Aug 04, 2011
There are so many ugly guys out there,let her go for them.
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by Outstrip(f): 1:50pm On Aug 04, 2011
Funny thing is that this girl will probably get married and settle down before the rest of you
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by slex(m): 1:51pm On Aug 04, 2011
2sleek2NV:

My own observation is that a fine gal would always walk with an ugly one. you just confirmed that again.
you are so mean and evil, low esteemed. trying to syke urslf up wit and ugly frnd. why not walk wit smome prettier than you are so the pretty person can come to open a thread calling you an ugly gal. mumu.

word!!!
Outstrip:

Funny thing is that this girl will probably get married and settle down before the rest of you

This is very possible
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by IBEXY(m): 1:52pm On Aug 04, 2011
Show her a mirror.
She will understand.
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:52pm On Aug 04, 2011
Op your wahala too much sef. U are turning into another mama-gee.

The last time u said your boy friend put juju on u and that u cant get another man

Now na another ugly story
Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by Koolking(m): 2:00pm On Aug 04, 2011
@Op, you don't sound like a friend. Growing up with your seemingly ugly friend should give her some emotional leverage but the reverse is the case. Being in your company makes her feel deformed and inconsequential. It can be deduced here that you use her to achieve what you want [her presence with you in the company of the opposite sex gives you an upper hand. The earlier she lets go of you the sooner she finds out that she was as importance as any other human.

She is beautiful. You are her problem

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by Smilenw(f): 2:02pm On Aug 04, 2011
9jafetish:

I am in no means a cruel person it' just that i just happen to be an honest person.The first time i met my friend i thougt she was the most hideous girl in the world, i use to hang around her to make myself feel better ,

So you considered yourself to be ugly before you found this uglier girl? SMH

I have to agree on one thing , that friend of yours is a very very unlucky woman. Not because she is ugly, but because of a hypocrite for a friend. Why do people need enemies when they have friends like you. I have often wondered how friends could snatch each other's husbands and break homes. I wouldn't be surprised if you do that to that poor girl if she ever happens to gets herself a good looking hubby ! undecided

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by izeek(m): 2:03pm On Aug 04, 2011
reading this, just makes me laugh. Most of all the part where u claim to have found four guys for urself, and none for her.  Are u girls on a guy hunt?
Aniways, no matter how ugly she is, she'l definately find her man someday.

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by stillme(m): 2:20pm On Aug 04, 2011
Send her no to me. I need an ugly girl with beautiful heart.

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Re: My Ugly Friend Is Desperate For A Boyfriend by rukkysmile: 2:27pm On Aug 04, 2011
@kemori i concur,

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