abbey621:


Read again buddy but this time more slowly, if a man can get a woman to do everything he wants without force, what more control do you need?

Letting her be in control of your hard earned cash and making important decisions in your house. Man that's the height of it.

I feel sorry for ya

XhosaNostra:


Isn't it sad that the only time they're good enough to date one is when they have some sort of standing in life & suddenly their own is not good enough anymore? Black people with that "white is an achievement" mentality kinda make you wish they had their own race.

Thats when they flood facebook with pics. Is it the same over there

pDudd:
First tip: Leave that your native brain in Nigeria.

If you're the kind of man that will sit on the sofa and be watching UEFA champions league and be telling a woman that she should go and cook, serve you, bring you water to drink and wash hand, you are in for a rude shock. Nigerian women in US have opened eye now o. They are not going to serve you like master and servant while your stretch your legs on sofa and be watching football.

If your mother did that for your father, please go and marry your mother so she too can come and be serving you like a king. Nigerian women ain't doing that for you.

Before you leave Nigeria, better learn how to cook, clean house, do laundry, go to buy groceries, take care of kids, and learn humility.

Learning humility is of utmost importance because the day you step your feet into America, you are now second to every woman. The American society favors women over men. They placea lot of value over men. So if you didn't respect women in Nigeria, you may need to reconsider that stance. And if you can't see yourself having a woman above you or respecting women, then better stay in Nigeria.

since d bill will be 50/50 who am I to complain? Las Las I dey mad say I date Naija babes there. Me wey like whity die.

Me i don't do race,but I know nationalism/ethnicity,you're Nigerian abeg,if I reach yankee e fit be you I go marry abeg dey with us abeg

MOnkeyBabe:
my life is confusing. I don't see myself belonging to any race. I love all my white, black, Spanish, Asian friends equally and Always fit in. God Blessed me with that

lefulefu:
i no talk of money ..i dey talk of oza room .dem get plenty energy in za oza room .u can handle five naija ladies as wives with ease if u get money nau cos a number of naija ladies have low sex drive.these ones with their energy in za oza room if u marry three u will just quench

lol, I no want again. No be me them go kill

Nwannem but you are trying o, chai. How you take de handle them na, how many life you get?

Badt guy

MOnkeyBabe:
my life is confusing. I don't see myself belonging to any race. I love all my white, black, Spanish, Asian friends equally and Always fit in. God Blessed me with that

You didn't answer the question. Do you feel more Nigerian or American?

RamessesIV:
Me i don't do race,but I know nationalism/ethnicity,you're Nigerian abeg,if I reach yankee e fit be you I go marry abeg dey with us abeg

hehehehehe

abeggnow:
first I would say you are not informed about Nigerian laws and courts . I have seen multiple times when women take thier husbands to court and won. I have seen women go to welfare in local government to report thier husbands for not taken care of the children and her and the husbands where arrested instantly and taken to court . Are you aware that in Nigeria if you marry in court you can take a second wife while married to you first wife. I think you educate your self more on this matter.

how many people did court wedding. This is Nigeria some men abandoned their homes and moved on. Cant be traced and all. Not possible abroad. Most times courts award 10k for upkeep. So what are you on about

Ejusni:

What do mean by "gave black rights" so blacks are subhumans that don't deserve human rights! such foolish statement!

you sha disgrace yourself o. Common to read and understand Dey hard you
Go back and read his comment again this time slowly.

pansophist:


lol, I no want again. No be me them go kill

Nwannem but you are trying o, chai. How you take de handle them na, how many life you get?

Badt guy

LordShiva97:


You can become a transsexual you know.



So you'll start enjoying the advantages in this life

But I go still de attracted to women even if I change naw, na there the problem de

And my mam go commit suicide, I still love her abeg.

Yes nah,abi you dey fear nigerian men,i hope you are not one of those our sister that prefers whiteys

MOnkeyBabe:
hehehehehe

abeggnow:
first I would say you are not informed about Nigerian laws and courts . I have seen multiple times when women take thier husbands to court and won. I have seen women go to welfare in local government to report thier husbands for not taken care of the children and her and the husbands where arrested instantly and taken to court . Are you aware that in Nigeria if you marry in court you can take a second wife while married to you first wife. I think you educate your self more on this matter.

What is the essense of the welfare office, if I may ask? Why not allow women to make their case in court once and for all?

pansophist:


lol, I no want again. No be me them go kill

Nwannem but you are trying o, chai. How you take de handle them na, how many life you get?

Badt guy

they like nigerian guys to be honest.when they hear ur naija accent they think u exotic or sumptin

RamessesIV:
He deliberately misunderstood the point I was making

I dont think it was deliberate, but even if it was, I'm sure he'd appreciate your corrections or insights without the insults.

Remember we all view life differently and our level of knowledge; regardless of who we are or where we are, differs.

ednut1:
how many people did court wedding. This is Nigeria some men abandoned their homes and moved on. Cant be traced and all. Not possible abroad. Most times courts award 10k for upkeep. So what are you on about

Hundreds of Nigerian women are forced into this situation regularly with no cushion available to help them in any way. Many of them FORCED into becoming single-parents(ofcourse still married to the men who abandoned them) and with no childsupport or alimony to help them move forward from it all.

lefulefu:
they like nigerian guys to be honest.when they hear ur naija accent they think u exotic or sumptin

Ayam Chinese, hope say them no mind. But I black sha

Yeah I know,honestly i wasn't in the right frame of mind at that time,I try my best to refrain from abusive words but people on this site will kill your morale

OloriOfMontreal:


I dont think it was deliberate, but even if it was, I'm sure he'd appreciate your corrections or insights without the insults.

Remember we all view life differently and our level of knowledge; regardless of who we are or where we are, differs.

Jim99:


Letting her be in control of your hard end cash and making important decisions in yourour house. Man that's the height of it.

I feel sorry for ya

LMAO.....My job is stressful enough, wetin concern me with food stuff and buying furniture, paying electricity and gas bills etc. My money for enjoyment and settling my parents/siblings don dey my private account every month, so why won't I let my wife have the rest, pray make you no marry your enemy o

pansophist:


Ayam Chinese, hope say them no mind. But I black sha

ehn as u are blackanese

pDudd:
Some people have been asking me to balance this equation because it seems like I am bashing Akata women and leaving my Nigerian sisters who reside in America. This thread is to state what to encounter if you are going into any kind of relationship with Nigerian women in America. I don't know about Nigerian women in UK, or anywhere else so I can't talk about that one.

This thread is not to bash Nigerian women in any way. So if you feel offended at any point in reading this, I'm sorry well in advance.

But I must tell the truth.

Hateful replies are welcome. I nor send anybody

You're an idiot for calling Black American women "akata"

Zeinymira:
Following

And you want to go to America to stay abi �.

lefulefu:
ehn as u are blackanese

Them de call us blasian. Think Neyo, Tiger Woods, na blasians all of us be

That's man for you they will abuse power,samw way some nigerian men throw their wives out of the house,in yankee she can throw you out of yours,more reason as a man not to get married

MOnkeyBabe:
ye ye ye! That BUllDoG PaRt. Them go still transfer the innoCent bulldog too? ROtfl

But on a serious note tho, women need to stop ABuSing the system

RamessesIV:
Yeah I know,honestly i wasn't in the right frame of mind at that time,I try my best to refrain from abusive words but people on this site will kill your morale

I get it. Take it easy

Like someone told me on this forum yesterday and I RT: "Don't get too immersed. You will be nauseated and probably won't return for good."

MOnkeyBabe:
ye ye ye! That BUllDoG PaRt. Them go still transfer the innoCent bulldog too? ROtfl

But on a serious note tho, women need to stop ABuSing the system

I was angry while reading the op's post, but that bulldog comment cracked me up and lightened my mood lol.



Women are women all over the world, be it in the village or in the city, once you give women rule, they become ruler, no surprise. It is left for the men to apply their number 6.


And who knows what you yourself will do to your own hubby, maybe you might take even his last waist belt

fx45:
You didn't answer the question. Do you feel more Nigerian or American?

more white is the thing. I feel trapped in this black body

That's true

OloriOfMontreal:


I get it. Take it easy

Like someone told me on this forum yesterday and I RT: "Don't get too immersed. You will be nauseated and probably won't return for good."

At the end, when it's all said and done, there are millions of happily married couples in the United States. It all depends on how you do your thing and mutual understanding and agreement between the married couples. Most of these cases we hear about are extreme cases but we end up assuming most cases are like that.

tiptoe1:
Let me chip In a little. If you successfully get your papers and decide that you want to pick a girl from home, please and please you need to open your eyes and be careful cause it's also as deadly as getting married to an akata.

The western law have made husbands completely infim. You don't expect her to stay the same way and knowing laws in the Western world lets her own the house, the children and majority of the things you have. Many Nigerian wives realize their potentials once they get to tge US. Some of them do worse thing to their husband just to prove a point to their husband that they aren't in Nigeria where husbands has upper hands. So once their eyes tear, they over do it and torment their husbands with it.

This right here

humilitypays:
I was angry while reading the op's post, but that bulldog comment cracked me up and lightened my mood lol.



Women are women all over the world, be it in the village or in the city, once you give women rule, they become ruler, no surprise. It is left for them men to apply their number 6.


And who knows what you yourself will do to your own hubby, maybe you night take even his last belt

if I tell you the story of my life, the whole world go shake pass coronavirus, no offence.
It's only one man I've told, my true love
I won't think twice before taking a BUllet for him. I know God is involved because we met after I became boRnAGain. No talks. God's presence is in me, though I still do some lewd things. FaShiOn & nuDity has the better part of me. BUt I no longer sleep around or nothing no matter the PRiCe.