jubrilELsudan:



AND HAVE CHILDREN WITH OTHER MEN THEN HER MUMU HUSBAND WILL BE CONVINCING HIMSELF THAT HE IS THE FATHER OF THE CHILDREN DESPITE THE FACT THAT NOBODY IN HIS FAMILY HISTORY HAS THAT SHAPE OF HEAD.


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RamessesIV:
Please do a beg disturb my mentions,or we could take it offline,you hated "black men" wow

Anyways girl am just going to say take your time,make sure he makes you happy,don't put too much into it if you know you aren't aren't getting it back

It seems this is like a start over for you cause you talk a lot about your new found faith but I just want to assure you there is nothing wrong with you,you are just in love a luxury guys like use can't have

Jim99:



My humble advise; Have a plan B and C, like pDudd would say "Always have an exit strategy".

People change, the sweetest things in our life's right now could turn sour the next minute.

Be Prepared, Always.

MOnkeyBabe:
but do you know how many times Jesus was mailed on the cross yet we don't appreciate him back because of sins we commit each day? Call me mumu. I know God paid the GReateSt sacRifiCe. We are to be like him. It's not always give and take. That's SeCUlaRism. I am a follower of ChRiSt, master JeSus. God loves us, but some of us don't love him in return and cuRSe him.
I have Jesus altar and pictures of the holy family all over my room. I'm trying to break away from Colonial mentality that has chopped my senses these years. But it's difficult. I'll Die if I leave my Catholic faith. We were both raised Catholic too in the east. But he doesn't give a damn or attend church no more

lefulefu:
south africa is a rich country of its own nau.so if a yankee base guy was offering to bring u over what can he offer u that u dont already have in SA .If nigeria was a rich country and its economy was stable nigerian women would have never given the yankee based guys looking for home base wives their time of day .Its because things are quite tough in naija thats why an overseas based dude can wow a lady living in naija.

dview001:


Take your blood- craving smelly ass off this forum ...dirty minded evil biattch

RamessesIV:
Hmmmmm okay

Well am not a christian but I am happy for you though,it seems your faith has helped you a lot though

Yeah Igbo have a large catholic following,I was once catholic though

Well when I meant give and take I was referring to you and your "love" though but I just hope you're okay over there

lefulefu:
no they will say the small small girls back in naija they want to marry are humble and submissive .na wen dem carry them come yankee the humble girl go show them the tiger that she is and ruin the man completely .but seriously speaking i dont understand why some of these guys back in the US and UK their siblings back home no dey even do anything to prevent them marrying bad women back home and carrying them abroad.if i had an elder uncle back in US interested in going back to naija to marry a young girl omo i will discourage that uncle ooo and yarn him the truth.except maybe me and dat uncle no dey agree then i can keep silent .

LOVEGINO:
since d bill will be 50/50 who am I to complain? Las Las I dey mad say I date Naija babes there. Me wey like whity die.

MOnkeyBabe:
with God I will manage. Thank you. I hope your love life is SteaDy too. And I hope you and family are doing fine at home. It's doing me as if my Child has been taken away from me

RamessesIV:
Why did you hate black people

MOnkeyBabe:
many ReaSons of which I felt they were backward and UnCiviliZed. That's in the past when I was biased. None of the white men I built Relationships with were ready for marriage. I'm not saying there are no players at home. It's just very GlaRinG in the west. After God brought me to my Senses. OyiBO cultuRe isn't perfect either . I pick out the good of education and exposure. For AfRiCa I love the MaRRiaGe, esp Child-bearing thing Die. I love AfRiCan AmeRicans too ,there are some nice things they do other than the SCReaming ND shouting most engage in. But could be fun at times though when everywhere is boring.
Hatred for blacks could have been me running away from myself. I almost murdered my parents for bringing me to this world. And it's not like we were suffering. I'm also very beautiful and intelligent. Modelled. I was just iDiOtiC & GReeDy, I guess

RamessesIV:
I don't have a love life,been single for a long time,well I stay alone my parents and siblings are in delta and they are doing fine,don't worry dear I got you your child is okay

Is there any way i can reach you like maybe WhatsApp

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
bye karen

MOnkeyBabe:
tried checking pms but didn't use that email anymore

RaptorX:
All this one's talking about marrying white women in America to avoid the problems listed here with marrying Nigerian women, you are speaking out of ignorance. Who do you think invented feminism and pushed for women's rights in the US. No matter how bad some claim our women are they are far better to marry than white women that have been conditioned from birth to see herself equal if not even superior to men, easier said than done, you will marry a white woman indeed. Hope you are football or a basketball star or a high flying plastic surgeon not some guy driving uber .or working at walmart.

XhosaNostra:


@bolded, we're a developing country still but we obviously do have most of the amenities all developed countries have. However, it's not about that, but the innate distrust that's forever lingering because of knowing what they're capable of. If I ever decide to go to another country for the sake of betterment, it won't be because of a man & definitely not a white one. Never!
I do understand what you mean though & I guess it is what it is.

RamessesIV:
Okay are you on whatsapp

RaptorX:
All this one's talking about marrying white women in America to avoid the problems listed here with marrying Nigerian women, you are speaking out of ignorance. Who do you think invented feminism and pushed for women's rights in the US. No matter how bad some claim our women are they are far better to marry than white women that have been conditioned from birth to see herself equal if not even superior to men, easier said than done, you will marry a white woman indeed. Hope you are football or a basketball star or a high flying plastic surgeon not some guy driving uber .or working at walmart.

MOnkeyBabe:
no

OChimex:


Lol. Until you get one white girl and knack her one month, then you go know say no difference between white and black. honestly.

drmikeadams:



Unfortunately most men no dey like reason well wen yeye love dey worry them. If u advise that ur . uncle to leave d yeye girl ,na that time u go turn enemy, ,,he go marry d girl go USA ,the girl go ruin am after her eye don tear...las Las na suicide go dey hungry d man

RamessesIV:
Okay what social media do you use

lefulefu:
ehn thats what i am saying.u wont be desperate to marry a man based overseas because SA has the basic amenities that u need so why bother stressing urself following a strange man who might even be older than your dad to the US .Even if u must follow a man to the US is a man who u love and not someone that u see is resquing you from poverty.If nigeria wasnt as bad as it is ladies would have a choice to choose the man they want .its just that some of these ladies want to escape the grinding poverty back home that any man overseas who signifies interest they move in with such a man .its not love ot attraction but to escape the poverty at home.u cant blame them though..who no like better tin

MOnkeyBabe:
lol I'm shy

Omar09:


Bro it's not about local or exposure, I mean he was wrong using that analogy for the home-based women and abroad women. B[b]ut the thing is, as a man who is based abroad, marrying a Nigerian who lives or have lived in Nigeria for the most part of her life is very dangerous to the wellbeing of that man. [/b]

pDudd:
Next tip: Prepare to start to beg the woman for money.

oshaosha2014:
He’s just an idiot. They have the worst environment in terms of morals.

MenGoingThereWay:
If you are in the USA go for Latinos or those girls from the carribeans they are so family oriented. They don't joke with family. But some Latinos you don't mess with them because they may have brothers who are in gangs...Go for latino

emmaodet:


Bro i understand you clearly and let us look at it this way -
If we say the african culture or setting is backward simply because a man has the ability to chase out the woman if she commits then same can be said about the western culture which is the opposite of african culture that it is a backward society that encourages and empower women to chase out men when they commit or Even when they didn't commit.
Atleast, you will agree with me that a woman can just pick up a phone and call the police, inform them that the hubby wants to kill her or molesting her and they will kick his ass out.
Please tell me, is there any difference between a man that can call his family to kick his wife out in nigeria and a wife that can call the police to kick her hubby out abroad? Am just flipping the scenario, same story but different players.
So if you agree nigerian culture is backward because the law is tilted towards men then you need to agree that the western culture is Backward and Archaic for tilting towards women, children and animals before men.
We shouldn't let the hate we have for nigeria becloud us.