Plz remain in ur marriage explain things to her, she will change

delkuf:
Good nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off. Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. she is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it. Something if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give. She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she have ever ask me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

Olagbara o

lefulefu:
u dated her on her off and u didnt see this character of hers? she must be a very great actress.anyway i am very sure there is someone she is sexually attached to right now since u said she restricts the time she has sex with u.

Shaking my head and bum bum for this your comment.

A woman that is pregnant , no matter how slutty a woman is most women wont cheat in pregnancy because child birth is a life and death situation .

eni4real:
Useless?? The man that paid her bride price, paid for the wedding, paid the house rent , paid for upkeep but have a little challenge is 'useless'??

Is that how we define men now??

So, the lady can't endure or support as a life partner??

Tell me why the man should love her wholeheartedly when things are rosy for him

Beginning of race doesn't always count .. my guy na finishing be the main koko. He has to be a man. Bride price and co may even be a 50/50 stuff. He has to run his home properly not sharing

You knew it was a snake when you picked it up.... Enjoy the venom

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

There's nothing Buhari will not hear from inside lockdown

��� Aiit but how's this my problem??

This one isn't ready for marriage yet

Davash222:
Treat her the way she treats you! Don't be crossing express for someone that can't cross a gutter for you.

You know the risk of crossing express these days. Be careful.

Na him wife ooh

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

Learn to tolerate her. Marriage is all bout tolerance, as long as it is not a life and death matter, you can always tolerate and work things out.

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

Download baddo and Bleep girls

Davash222:

Professor, that's not why he's here.
Communication is said to be complete when the receiver decodes the information passed to him by the sender.

don't mind all the I too k ow guys on this forum

Graysons:
Your English is horrible. You finish secondary school?

No offense bro but you type like a village man.

You wey you finish school i hope say Nigeria dan recognize you. English no be our only language so if you can't grab the point instead of this silly words shut up or ask who knows if your the wife's relations self mtcheew. Mr Wole Soyinka 11

Next time do a proper courtship.. in the meantime, go see a marriage counselor

Graysons:
Your English is horrible. You finish secondary school?

No offense bro but you type like a village man.

hahahahhaha God. Boss you're wicked o. I no dey like laugh on Mondays mbok.

Graysons:
Your English is horrible. You finish secondary school?

No offense bro but you type like a village man.

you're wicked shall so na ur own issue for e problem b this?

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

it maybe pregnancy that's is making her to be behaving in that manner, my wife told me I use to irritate her, in fact I smell horribly to her during pregnancy she used to pursue me like dog. Allow her and give her care she needs, if one year after child birth and she's still exhibit such character, then look for another wife

I want to be blunt with you.

One of the worst things to happen to a man in marriage is to be broke. Just endure it as far as you keep asking her for money no matter how much money you want to make with it as you claim.

Just come back one day and announce to her that you got a contract that will make you richer with N20m or a job that will pay you N1m monthly and watch the styles she will give you that night.�

But on a more serious note, just be patient, the marriage is passing through a usual tough phase. It willbe better but try and make money.

That's good, too much of everything is too bad

tunize:

you're wicked shall so na ur own issue for e problem b this?

lol seriously the talk weak me. We no really need English here. Na to communicate na

You are not doing it right

delkuf:
This is not the issue of Manning up, you don't know what I am experiencing. she gives me time table for sex. is not like I am demanding. the last time I slept with is over three weeks ago. I have talked with her. Her younger sister have talked with her, she is to adamant.

You are lucky...some persons spends up to years before their wife go even give them sex.

Then give her timetable for your time and money

AfroKnight:
You cannot tell me that you didn’t notice this rigid behaviour during courtship.

Better discuss with her to find a solution.

Also, hustle to get enough money. You’re a man. Even their so called Feminism will not make a naija woman spend her own money on a man. Better take care of yourself.

As for the sex, you must let her know in clear terms that she cannot use sex (Withholding it vindictively) as a weapon to punish you. Any woman who does that deserves to be cheated on.

No mind am.Toto don freeze him sense.

delkuf:
Thank bro. this is what I am thinking of doing

And you called yourself an adult that is truly ready to handle family issues, or you tink ppl that have been married for 30yrs na beans? u fix ur marriage not ruin it. if u like take this kind funny advice u ar on ur own, i believe this guy advicing u is not married if not e nor go tell u dis kind tin.

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body[b]. No what will you take or something[/b]. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

Lazy man!!! What made you get married if you cannot take care of a woman ... you are asking a pregnant woman for money, knowing full well she is expectant and needs money for ante-natal, delivery, post-natal, baby care, etc. money she is sure you cannot provide

If you cannot feed a single mouth that understands, how are going to feed her and a baby that does not understand that you are lazily broke?

Only God can do it bro.

Ningen:
Her attitude is because you're obviously broke.

Go out and hustle.
Stop asking your pregnant wife for money.

Be her provider and she'll become FLEXIBLE.

Everything is not always money. So rich couples dont have problems ?

Op, this is what you pass through when you have a wife that look up to @FeliciaOja as a role Model.....

Your wife belong to set awon FeliciaOja

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body[b]. No what will you take or something[/b]. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

Lazy man!!! What made you get married if you cannot take care of a woman ... you are asking a pregnant woman for money, knowing full well she is expectant and needs money for ante-natal, delivery, post-natal, baby care, etc. money she is sure you cannot provide

If you cannot feed a single mouth that understands, how are going to feed her and a baby that does not understand that you are lazily broke? Instead of you to go and work you are on NL complaining of her stiffness.