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Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by angelfallz(m): 4:59pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
pmoye: This is advice is really for Nigerian ladies. Please and please do not marry a man that is not rich. Your very life will depend on it.Not all men would reach your definition of rich. In fact everybody can't be rich in this world. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by pmoye(m): 5:02pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
God bless you for your maturity. Alexaonfleek: 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 5:09pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:Good character and exceptionally tasteful cnt to keep him hooked, yes you will. And own ur brokeness baby, no shame in it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by angelfallz(m): 5:14pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
bukatyne: there is nothing wrong with the nigerian family system, if there is any unified family system anyway. But if you insist that something is wrong, please list them. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 5:16pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
pmoye: Funny enough, even if I were a billionaire I’m not sure I’d leave that much of an inheritance to my children. From a young age, I’ll each them how to traverse the world and live good lives. Unearned money is a corrupter of the soul. The best thing you can do for your children is to make them able to stand on their own, maybeif im leaving something, it has to be that they can build on what I’ve accomplished. Nobody mentions this, but most wealth dries up by the 3rd/4th generation. Look around you and see people living lavish because that’s all they’re accustomed to without maintaining the source. Grandchildren selling of their inherited homes just to get by. I know two families like that intimately, one by blood and one by romantic affiliation. My cousins live in abject poverty, begging me for stipends when their father inherited billions in assets, investments and properties by today’s standards. Just the third generation and they are poorer than I am today. My ex’s family live on house rent paid by tenants. Wealth building is a critical skill any human should have. And that, alongside true spirituality are the core legacies I’ll leave my children with. Funny I missed the role mothers play in the life of their children. In my naive days, i used to be of the school of thought your wife gets priority over mum for “cleaving reasons”. Now, I’m more of a value- based decision maker. Everybody is treated the way they deserve. If I call my mum and cry to her that I’m having problems and she can soothe my pain, do you think it’s fair to bench her for a woman who feels ‘comforting me because I don’t have money’ is not part of her job description? Who loose her chain? I am seriously, seriously considering not getting married, and just having children out of wedlock. It is becoming increasingly rare to find a woman who truly wants a traditional arrangement. The Jezebels and Delilahs out there right now are nothing but destiny killers who have no problem milking you dry and moving on to the next moneyed man. Even married women are collecting the D outside just to maintain lifestyles they became used to in their single days. So, what’s the koko sef? After sex, and taking care of the children what do today’s women want to be useful to their husbands for? Spending money he spent years of toil, blood of sweat to acquire. Personally, I don’t fee that’s quite balanced. I don’t feel entitled to a woman’s love, I don’t think she should be entitled to my wealth. Every man for himself. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 5:22pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
bukatyne: 1. A woman who will shut up when I ask her to, or one who knows how to talk and keep quiet when she should. You might consider that misogynistic, but it is what it is. 2. A faithful woman. If I catch her cheating it will end very badly physically and mentally for her. 3. A good homemaker. 4. An intellectually sound woman. 5. A spiritual woman who can battle for me in the spirit and boosts my own spirit rather than dampen it. 6. A woman who will be devoted to me. 7. In lieu of points 1-6, a woman who truly loves me and understands me and daily desires to please me. Having this quality will make the above points a breeze. And in fact, I’ll be more amenable to allowing her shortcomings, especially if she is a teachable spirit. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 5:23pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
cococandy: If I’m bringing 50m to the table, what is she’s bringing in concrete terms? Wetin be that ‘worth’? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by MrHighSea: 5:23pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Na so bros stay till 45 and na <1m still dy account. So two adult can't stay together and take k of themselves? Wahala dey wen dem start to born yearly for 5 consecutive years. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 5:27pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
LordKO: I have said it before and I’ll say it again, only a prostitute will base her decision for a marriage partner on finances, eschewing all other qualities and aspects of life. Wealthy men have married, and then lost their wealth through unforeseen circumstances. Many of their marriages have crumbled exactly because of loss of wealth and the attendant broken spirit it can engender. Is Dande telling me that I shouldn’t expect my wife to comfort me or help bring me out of poverty? Her husband, and possible father of her children? When I see men jump through hoops to satisfy women who aren’t worth it, it cements my resolve to not be played. Any woman who tries it with me, will have wonderful stories to tell. It will end in tears 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh:Now you remember that name. What happened when you people go about asking your fellow men not to marry a broke lady? Should we call you ashawo as well? 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Klass99(f): 5:48pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
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Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Alexaonfleek: 5:50pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
pmoye:And thank you op,for opening the minds of Nigerian ladies 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
cococandy:Societal pressure and biological clock are deterrents here. Women know what they want. Women are picky. Majority don't marry a man because he has a big dikkk. They want financial security. Financial security =love 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Alexaonfleek: 5:52pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Romangalactic:haha lols. There is shame in being broke ooo. Forget gender. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by pmoye(m): 5:59pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Opening the minds, hmmm. That's not likely. We can only stimulate debate and then hope to learn from the different contributions. Alexaonfleek: |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 6:02pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:Its only shameful for a man cos we don't marry for money, but for a woman, she only needs to fool a guy who is doing okay with love and level don change. Pocohantas will agree with me here 7 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by pocohantas(f): 6:04pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Romangalactic: True bruv. Romangalactic: Yes bruv... Arsenate the rottweiler is on patrol. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 6:05pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
pocohantas:Golddigging is not so bad baby |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Alexaonfleek: 6:09pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
pmoye:Yes very true. But I still think this thread is mind opening too Especially for young ladies and young guys. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by pmoye(m): 6:10pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Thanks, you're kind. Alexaonfleek: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Alexaonfleek: 6:10pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Romangalactic:Yeah I get you,but I was talking on a general note. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by annayawchee: 6:22pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:Good character with high puna mileage... If you ain't bring big cash to the marriage, just remain single with your good character.. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Kobojunkie: 6:26pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
hisgrace090:Read the article! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Kobojunkie: 6:27pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Great write up @OP. What can i say, you made some really valid points. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Kobojunkie: 6:31pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Anuoluwa1234:Most every man out there has some sort of vision, but then there is reality. And that is what the OP is telling you, you cannot remain blind to. The condition in Nigeria for women, and children has risen to levels that amount to abuse of some of the worst kind. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Alexaonfleek: 6:33pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
annayawchee:Isn't decency part of good character? Na big cash he talk No be you suppose to bring the cash for marriage? What's the name of that moniker that always dashes mops,miniskirts and high heels to these kind of guys? ybabe or ybaby Pls be kind enough to give this guy a mop. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Jeez niggar been reading bullshit since morning I'll press the back button of this phone nw nonsense |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by annayawchee: 6:44pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:big cash should be on the both side... Since you want to marry money, Why should a man marry your good character only? Na there your usefulness end? |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by angelfallz(m): 6:49pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Klass99: Well said. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Arsenate(m): 6:57pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Are men supposed to start crying because some ladies with body count of over a hundred are not gonna marry them or what? Amazing how y'all overestimate yourselves. The most valuable things women can give their men is their beauty and youth. Y'all aren't even bringing those to the table anymore. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 7:03pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Arsenate: |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Hathor5(f): 7:18pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
pocohantas: I love it. I can't stand people pleasers. Very insecure and unstable set of people who have not understood that respect is never given to those who act like puppies. 8 Likes |
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