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Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 8:22pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Ybaby: I don’t need to beat a woman who cheats on me. Her punishment will be handed to her by the gods. She will swear oaths. If Regina Daniels can do it, so can any other woman who desires to marry me. I will hand her over to Ogun and Sopona. The prayer against premature death should be for your husband and sons, I’m quite good. But thanks for your concern |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 8:23pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Romangalactic: And that is the conclusion of the whole matter. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Ybaby: 8:24pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Belafonte: Ode!!!! AFI spoons and Ogun na You are quite slow bro 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 8:25pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Ybaby: Still faster than your husband 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Ybaby: 8:33pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Belafonte: NEVER NEVER NEVER You that has fish brain.... my hubby is a sharp man with respect for women knowing he was born by a woman. Not some 50k salary earning with shoulder pad ego whereas he secretly likes it from behind. How dare you compare yourself to men of timber and calibre like my sweetie - you that a woman is probably footing your Bill's and buying you singlet See this slownpoke saying he is faster than my sweetim let me be clear your father and all the men in your family can NEVER be as fast as my Oga. How can!? You that you are dim! I am in a good mood today o. Saying a woman should not talk when you are talking .... as per na dog. You are demented !! You that a woman popped you out... born of a woman and now you want to frustrate women. Walahi o gbadun rara .... you and your chicken change are not fully balanced upstairs 10 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 8:35pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Ybaby: Oya sorry, I can see you flinging spit everywhere like an epilepsy sufferer. No vex. As sharp as you claim your husband is, he went and married a daft Jezebel. That’s some sharpness I must admit. If by sharp, you mean he’s an imbeciile then I fully agree with you. Sha sorry. 9 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Ybaby: 8:48pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Belafonte: Apology accepted. Go and sin no more 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 8:49pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Ybaby: Weyrey alaso 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by holysaint1(m): 9:35pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
una too talk self.. Okay we don hear.. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Acidosis(m): 9:52pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek: Emboldened. You mean reality? |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Acidosis(m): 10:00pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
pmoye: Lol Reality would soon reset your brain 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Phenomenal16(f): 10:08pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Onyi22 Babe forgive me I might be wrong |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Khonifer: 10:12pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Why are people angry here? Who is supposed to like poverty exactly please? Na wa o 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Khonifer: 10:13pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
pmoye: Period. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by bukatyne(f): 10:23pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Belafonte: Seven points agenda for N50m. Anyways, he who pays the piper dictates the tune. Carry on. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by bukatyne(f): 10:27pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
angelfallz: 1. Baby heads/leaders; 2. Financial sperm donors; 3. Wives unwilling to take responsibility for their choices; 4. Wives who revel in victimhood; Etc. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by bukatyne(f): 10:32pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: Learn more about the winglike properties of money. Doesn't mean it everyone who is/was rich would become poor. We all pray and aspire to grow. I dropped a comment on the OP. Except I am underestimating my influence, I can't 'diminish/deflect' the course of the topic. If the OP tells women to marry only rich men, what happens IF the rich man becomes poor or hits hard times as the OP's advice is no loner valid? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by angelfallz(m): 10:52pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
bukatyne: i have no idea what you mean with your points, if you can, please explain as for your number 4, women generally, worldwide are taught to revel in victimhood. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by BrokeFeminist: 11:36pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Loud it |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by jesmond3945: 11:58pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
It is only in Nigeria that marriage a beautiful institution is business. A time will come when men will choose a cheaper option of baby mama than what marriage has become in Nigeria. Is it not better I invest my peanut and if I need children I go for the timaya option. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Nobody: 12:32am On Jun 23, 2020 |
I don't get worked up when I hear ladies say this. I mean, from the socio economic point of view, it has benefited the society since offsprings get to be raised in a conducive environment, thereby giving them a better chance at surviving, I think it's also a basic feeling we all have, I mean to be loved for who we are, without whatever conditions or pre conditions that comes with it, it's a paradox. I have nothing against what is being said over the thread, love is just a stupid feeling that does a terrible job trying to mask our innate needs, the whole of human existence is geared towards survival. Tell me how many women won't make your life a living hell when you lose your job or there's no money around, what's the percentage? The fathers before us were more logical, having multiple wives gave them options and also kids that could work on the farm or whatever business they were into, they weren't in love, it was just the common sense thing to do. Moralists changed everything, but I stay true to myself, my needs and wants aren't to be neglected and I wouldn't sacrifice it for anything in this world. Personally I don't like fat girls, wifey has to be in shape at all times or I might lose interest, I'm a very visual person and it's all good but what I don't like, is the society trying to shame men into accepting their wives the way they are, words like "man up" would starting flying around when she's no longer attractive, omo that one no concern me o. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Acidosis(m): 2:01am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Khonifer: No one likes poverty dear. Only thing is reality don't care about what you like or hate. Poverty inflicts those who dislike poverty more than those who do not. You think majority of poor families want to be poor? It's reality my dear Reality don't give a damn what you think 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Nobody: 2:20am On Jun 23, 2020 |
pocohantas: She say na Rich oh, not working Man. 100k is the average salary in Lagos na, abi who are the Rich men bikonu, let them come forward. At least, Nigerian men should be Rich first, how many Nigerians are Rich? Abi is it all this G Boys all over Lekki and Nicon estate that we are referring to? Infact, in this pandemic? Hian 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Nobody: 2:31am On Jun 23, 2020 |
bukatyne: My dear sister, why are you disturbing yourself with all this chewgum Nairaland boys that have not even smelt 1M, talking of 50M. He say na "a woman that is worth 50M". The money in your account is what you are worth, end of story. Unless your name is traded in stocks, your current financial value is your value. Opari oh. People don't know that you are one bad investment from being a pupper. Just one. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by emmaodet: 6:47am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Acidosis: 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 6:56am On Jun 23, 2020 |
bukatyne: It is what it is, Buka. Do they not follow more stringent rules for less money in their places of employment? Abi you think 50milla is 500k? Owo lo n soro nau. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 7:10am On Jun 23, 2020 |
DeckXavier:I love your comment. I too am very visual person because I've made peace with the reality that love is a mask and relationships will always depend on selfish interests. I can't stand my woman looking like a whale,not when I'm responsible for her financially and all she has to do for me is look exceptionally attractive. The day she starts to let go in the name of I gave birth to your children,na dat day I begin search for another smallie with my spec to use as sidechic. You can't be eating my money and still want to use emotion to manipulate me into liking what I hate. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 7:14am On Jun 23, 2020 |
truthsayer009:Just have more money than her & her papa, is what naija women call rich. If we are to go by the true definition of rich and wealthy, only abt 1% of women are married to such men and the remaining single ones will not even see enough to go round. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by jornwhite: 9:00am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Ybaby: These one won't let us hear word with my opim is whatever, Gud 2 know yu re nuttin without him 3 Likes
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Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by pmoye(m): 9:24am On Jun 23, 2020 |
In the end I think we have different view of marriage. Those attacking me for the original post needn't have gone through the painful stress of insulting me, at least you could say it's all my personal opinion. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Khonifer: 9:35am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Acidosis: You say these things like we’re puns like we have no part to play in this ‘reality’ at all. Of course this is a poor country, and op’s post will not stop poor people from getting married but there is also nothing wrong in preaching common sense. Why would anyone want to marry into and raise children in poverty? Point still is there is no reason anyone should be mad on this thread. That’s all 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Ybaby: 10:42am On Jun 23, 2020 |
jornwhite: Jealousy! Jealousy!! It is not my fault that your own wife tears your shirt and is NEVER proud of you because you donot pay bills Not my fault o My Obim is a man of honour and I am so glad I have him to look after me - He makes my life rich and colourful. I love him and forever grateful to God for sending me a real MAN - my Oga is my mentor, my father, my lover, my rock.... I really admire him. May his life be very long so he can eat the fruit of his labour. If more men are like my Obim we will have less kids hawking and begging. He is a man of timbre and caliber.... A man's man. He can help you get a job.... send me your CV 7 Likes 1 Share |
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