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Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Belafonte(m): 10:47am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Romangalactic: Sorry to say, but you’re not a real man |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Ybaby: 10:48am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Khonifer: Gbam!!! These (she)men who are mad at this thread wake up at 8am .... some at 10am.... some 4pm The men who say OP is right wake at 4am or 5am Do a survey and you will see I am right! These men are lazy jo and spend too much time on family or celeb section instead of business and property. If a NL man toast you as a lady go to his profile and if he spends more time on romance than business section - you have your answer!! He will scatter your brain in faceme Ifaceyou room and parlour with 6 children because his lower brain is more active than his upper brain (be guided) 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Ybaby: 10:51am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Romangalactic: It is what it is! If your man pays the bills - you must be in the shape he likes If he like big women - be that. If he likes lepa - to the gym. I work out everyday..... sometimes let my self go (ko easy) but kiakia I get back to the sexy game for my Oga. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Ervin22: 11:31am On Jun 23, 2020 |
So what of if you know get rich man marry,watin you go do? Nah girl de corrupt their fellow girls, you wan reap where you know sow. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Ervin22: 11:34am On Jun 23, 2020 |
You see why you (ladies) get married to the wrong people because you chase money,that's insane. verysoon we the guys no go de see una anymore. abi you get Love Machine you go use am till you leave the earth. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Ervin22: 11:45am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Ybaby:So what will you say about those male who has something doing bit due to circumstances you met him when he had nothing or those ones that are talented,skillful in their various profession with a brighter future but you met them poor what would you say about such people. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Ybaby: 11:50am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Ervin22: 11:51am On Jun 23, 2020 |
You just open your mouth to vomit bullshit. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 11:52am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Ybaby:Yes o You're really a sexy babe baby. Is your name Yeni or Yemisi and do the females in your family have big nyansh and very fine face? I want to check something 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 11:53am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Belafonte:Mi o raye shit mehn 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by jornwhite: 3:33pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Ybaby: Alol !! did last time you ask for my CV ... i sent mine, my youngers one & neibors own to your DM. Dem never call us FG can't provide jobs who is he (obim) ... abeggi |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Very interesting thread |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by efosky1246(m): 5:52pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
You guys need to tag me when you create these kinda threads. Op. You deserve some cold bottle of beer. Ybaby you never disappoint. Y'all have said everything. It is morally irresponsible for any man to think about marrying when he is not financially sufficient to provide the kind of life he wants for his family and just sheer foolishness on the part of the woman. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by pmoye(m): 6:04pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Thanks for your choice of words, financially sufficient to provide ... for his family. It probably would have been a better choice in my original post, but then I needed to paint a graphic picture so I used the word rich. Little did I know that some individuals hate that word... I consider being financially sufficient to provide for one's family as being rich. And such provision will not stop at just food, must be good food, health care, education and a decent status in the society. These things are really basic needs even though many now consider them luxury. efosky1246: 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by efosky1246(m): 6:20pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
pmoye: Yes. but don't mind them with their rich is relative b.s they understand exactly what you're talking about but will fight you tooth and nail like they have signed a contract with poverty. and I appreciate your point about the importance of a homemaker wife. the traditional roles of the man and the woman are equally important and the man is not in anyway doing the woman a favour going into the world and bringing home the resources. even at that I believe the woman's role is even more crucial given the times we live in today. the times are dangerous, children, more than ever need a parent to look after them during their formative years. that Job should not be left to nannies and daycare. its a pity so many men are myopic and only consider the financial benefit a woman can offer. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by pmoye(m): 6:52pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
You're really very perceptive. You raised a very crucial point (in bold) about some men being fixated on the financial benefits that go to a woman in marriage. I keep asking some of them, what use do you have for your wealth when you're dead? And would you not rather leave it all for the woman who is to take care of your children, and your legacy for those that have one? Of course, assuming the man dies ahead of the wife. I find it really hilarious when married men bicker with their wives over who owns what, the wives too returning the favour with 'His money is ours but mine mine'... I thought in marriage the two become one. This I find extremely childish and foolish. Foolish because these men are literally and practically ready to entrust their life unto their wives, but not their money. Which is more valuable, your life or your money? You marry a woman, sleep in the same room with her (I am always scared to sleep with a woman in the same room ; what if she wakes up at time and kills me just to get access to whatever she thinks I have?? ), eat food and drink drinks prepared by her, be vulnerable 24/7 to her without be afraid that she will take your life, yet you do not want to trust her with your money. In this matter, I know there are instances where the woman is to blame, but I have a feeling most times that it is the man who lays down a bad and selfish example. In the end every man ends up having a wife that he deserves, not really the one that he wants. If you show leadership by treating her right, it is not likely that you will not have the best of friend, wife and mother in your wife. It is all about leading by example and selflessness... Even if your wife chop your money, isn't that infinitely better than a stranger does so? Your wife has a 100% stake in your life; no other person has that. efosky1246: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by efosky1246(m): 7:10pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
pmoye: My brother, you almost brought tears to my eyes with this your write-up. It's a pleasure to know good men still exist. I keep saying it that most dysfunctional marriages, not all(before they come for my head) is usually the fault of the man. From a surface point of view, it might seem like it's the woman. But most times. The woman is reacting to the deficiencies in the man. When you treat a normal, healthy woman right and act like a leader, set the tone in the relationship. Not just shouting "I am the man" up and down. There is no how she would not submit and respect you. Men need to be held more accountable. We should grab a drink together if you're keen. Would love to connect in person. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by bukatyne(f): 7:14pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
efosky1246: @bold: Perhaps you help the upcominhwomen and list what you think makes a man a good leader. Hopefully, they shun the opposite so we have peace in our homes. I agree men need to be held more accountable which would be hard if the women choose the bad men with their eyes open. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Hathor5(f): 7:20pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
efosky1246: Now this is a man I can take serious. Respect, respect, respect! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 7:28pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
efosky1246:Emphasis on a normal emotionally healthy woman. Take a look around 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by efosky1246(m): 7:30pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Romangalactic: Change your circle. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by bukatyne(f): 7:31pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Romangalactic: Like a woman, any man that leaves emotionally healthy women and settles for a cray cray has himself to blame. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 7:34pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
efosky1246:The world is bigger than your circle 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by efosky1246(m): 7:35pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Romangalactic: Why the f do you need the world when choosing a partner? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 7:36pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
bukatyne:Is emotional healthiness written on faces? Most will always seem normal on the surface, but probe deeper and u see how a string of failed relationships have messed them up 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by shestrong(f): 7:38pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
pmoye: |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 7:38pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
efosky1246:The partner exists in the world 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by shestrong(f): 7:40pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
pmoye:U are reasonable |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by efosky1246(m): 7:41pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
bukatyne: I could. It's just time. Women need to be educated on qualities they should look out for in a man. Failure to choose right on the part of the woman coupled with irresponsible men is the foremost reason for dysfunctional relationships today. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by pmoye(m): 7:43pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
This is how love buds. ;-) I'm watching to see who will first shoot the shot between the two of you. Hathor5:
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Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Hathor5(f): 7:45pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
pmoye: I don't do online dating. Odikwa risky. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Romangalactic(m): 7:45pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
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