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Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by kalufelix(m): 11:44am On Jul 04, 2020 |
bukatyne:so i should return some few thousands to a company that is worth billions of naira... Imagine pouring a bucket of water into river Niger |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Goalnaldo(m): 11:44am On Jul 04, 2020 |
kalufelix:you are trying so hard to validate your fraudulent nature. I agree with his first statement. I'll return the 12k if I know from whose pocket it fell from. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:44am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Aparche:.....You are among the few people here that truly understand the weight of her offence. The way you explained it to the person you mentioned was amazing. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Hideki(m): 11:44am On Jul 04, 2020 |
WILLuKPquiet:@gloryon, look at this response why didn't the teller just reverse the money from this persons account? why did she need to call and beg? that guy was trying to educate you but una ignorance too much |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by lanreHeda: 11:46am On Jul 04, 2020 |
OChimex:And how do we clean up our messed up country if nobody faces the consequences of their actions,because according to you everyone is doing it 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by helpfindbolu: 11:47am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:47am On Jul 04, 2020 |
OChimex:....Stop trying to manipulate people with this your emotional blackmail. Can you marry a thief because you re not perfect? |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Slynation(m): 11:51am On Jul 04, 2020 |
I guess he should just forgive her if that's her only flaws... Perhaps she acted based on the current situation of things without considering the consequences that she can't even get away with it... |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Tannhauser(m): 11:52am On Jul 04, 2020 |
kalufelix: Careful what you wish for... |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by khalids: 11:52am On Jul 04, 2020 |
SIR0: Can you say this if you were in front of God 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by holybabayo(m): 11:53am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Good point. But I think you have left the question. Except you are saying whenever God leads you to a spouse, the spouse will definitely have integrity. Although Rebecca was a product of Divine hand, yet she joined her son to play her husband. Righteousness89: |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by MikaSoko(m): 11:53am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Good move |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by coputa(m): 11:54am On Jul 04, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:He should go ahead and marry her,she ain't a bad girl,a swallow does not make a summer.Do any mortal man have integrity,you may be good in one area and bad in another.you can never be the jesus of this world. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Nanavati(m): 11:54am On Jul 04, 2020 |
the guy should pray that God should order his steps, but for me I won't marry someone like that ooh |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Nairalandmonika: 11:56am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Oga marry that girl, 3 yrs is not a joke, no girl is perfect. The next one might be a cheat. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by millhouse: 11:56am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Trayceey:be like you never Jam , this kind of lady if she comes across N50m she can abscond , abandoning her marriage and her husband will be arrested to provide her . The transfer act no be the issue , it’s not telling her partner that such thing happened so he can speak from an informed position. 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by OChimex: 11:56am On Jul 04, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: When you who is calling out another is an armed robber? My point is, if a skeleton can be found in your cupboard, do not be too quick to condemn others who might have cobwebs in their cupboards. He should ask himself two questions. 1. Has this girl exhibited such a character before? 2. Does she have a dire financial need that pushed her to do that? He should listen to her explanations, sometimes wrong friends give people wrong advice they regret in the future. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by brainhack(m): 11:56am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Klass99: You couldn’t have said it better, why transfer it to another bank. It was a conscious act. I believe this young man was so blinded by love that he hasn’t noticed some of her nuance inclinations. ....but at the bolded, Sadly It is not the case with most people and I’ve come to the realization that “people are who they are”. Even meeting a person that has a habit of not keeping his/her word it is a serious red flag to me, such a small habit takes great effort to overcome in a person that is already used to such. Yes people can make small adjustments here and there but their core doesn’t change. In a case like this fundamentally dishonest person would always be dishonest whenever the perfect opportunity arises. Plus the lady could pretend for the extended period, but believe me she would come to resent his action of putting her on probation. When people reveal who they are, believe them. It’s best he let’s her go. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Nobody: 11:57am On Jul 04, 2020 |
OChimex: Ok. Marry the lady. Have fun |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:58am On Jul 04, 2020 |
coputa:....Ok. Good. Can you knowingly marry a man or a woman who has been exposed to have criminal tendency just because you are not perfect? |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by double77: 11:58am On Jul 04, 2020 |
After 3 year If this is the issue u have against her forgive and forget because nobody is perfect. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Nairalandmonika: 11:58am On Jul 04, 2020 |
khalids:If god was even real n I was in is present, he has alot of questions to answer. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:59am On Jul 04, 2020 |
OChimex:...My question was straight.You just beating around the bush. Can you marry a thief because you re not perfect? Yes or no. 3 Likes |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by kalufelix(m): 11:59am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Goalnaldo:commercial drivers may drive all the way from abuja to enugu once they discharge their passengers at the final bus stop..they drive straight to car wash. No IFs and BUTs.. I made everything clear ... Its just you and the empty bus.. The driver is coming back in 1 hour to carry his car and pay you for your service. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by OChimex: 12:00pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
lanreHeda: That is not the point. I spoke in parables. My points are, he should ask himself two questions before condemning the girl. 1. Has she exhibited such character before which might prove her to be a hardened criminal? 2. Does she have a dire financial needs that pushed her to do that? being seriously broke can push one do what he or she is not. bad friends can as well advise one to take stupid actions they might regret. That someone did something once doesn't make that person a bad person. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by skyblue4real(m): 12:00pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Why will she lie at first? Well, the guy should pardon her.... |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Crownstar01: 12:01pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
SSpeter:She begged him because she's only interested in marriage, otherwise she wouldn't have done so. For me, the guy shoud forgive her but probably test her before he eventually ties the knot. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by McTobe(m): 12:02pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Let him do what he will. The truth is women rarely changes with exception of a very few who do self assessment from time to time. Anything she brings along as a character will be intensified in the coming years. I am a living witness. The only reason why I have not divorced mine is simply because of my two beautiful girls. The more you want to be a good homely man the more they try to bend you with complains and the final goal is to reduce me to a house maid, Oh I saw it all coming. So my advice is Let him do what he wilt SSpeter: 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by double77: 12:02pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:nobody is perfect, she made a bad decision or was ill advice. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Bola146(f): 12:04pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Yankee101:Single |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by OChimex: 12:04pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: That is childish. Swear that you haven't stolen/taken what was not yours all your life. does that make you an armed robber or thief now? doing something bad once doesn't make one a horrible person. That is why he needed yo ask those deep questions. Stealing is not the only thing bad. Betrayal, back stabbing, lying against someone, name them. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:05pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
double77:..You did not answer my question. Agreed nobody is perfect Can you marry a thief? 1 Like 1 Share |
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