I saw this picture online and I thought I should throw it all to you for opinions. What will you do if you were the man, will you confront the woman or not. Lets share opinions.


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Iyooooooo cartel

Getting married to a local Nigerian empty headed feminist is one of the fastest way to the grave

Any woman who would do that doesn't have your interest same as a man who goes about cheating.

Marriage is partnership. It is covering the others weakness. It is for strengthening each other.

Supporting him at this time won't kill her or make her less of a woman.

It's not only for the good times!

Any man that fails to use his head should live with the consequences.

These are the reasons men die earlier.

My did same thing to me sometimes ago
She couldn't get a job after school so she decided to learn fashion design.
I financed her, gave her money daily for transport and upkeep and it was from this money she started contribution with her colleagues in shop.
When I hit rock bottom, to feed at home was so hard but I still hustle so we can manage. I know she has money but don't know how much.
I then stylishly asked her to atleast finance our feeding for the time being but she said she has no money.
I know she has collected her own contribution but I am not the type of person that wants to beg from her if not for the condition that warrants it.
The second day, she went and used that money to purchase sowing machine and keep what she is not using yet.
Later later sha, she couldn't continue with the contribution so they have to sell the machine and she even needs to balance them up.
When they were disturbing her and dragging her for her balance, I just throway face.
Then the contribution leader have the effrontery to call me and report her. She said and I quote
"she is your wife, pay for her so we don't embarrass her so that your image don't get tarnished in your street".
She was calling and texting me frequently.
I just try to get her husband's number and I sent him a message that made the wife come and apologies and pay up the balance by herself.

Quitting the union, better being single and broke than married and FRUSTRATED.

LadySarah:
Any woman who would do that doesn't have your interest same as a man who goes about cheating.

Marriage is partnership. It is covering the others weakness. It is for strengthening each other.

Supporting him at this time won't kill her or make her less of a woman.

It's not only got the good times!

You said it all, thanks.

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southniyikaye:
My did same thing to me sometimes ago
She couldn't get a job after school so she decided to learn fashion design.
I financed her, gave her money daily for transport and upkeep and it was from this money she started contribution with her colleagues in shop.
When I hit rock bottom, to feed at home was so hard but I still hustle so we can manage. I know she has money but don't know how much.
I then stylishly asked her to atleast finance our feeding for the time being but she said she has no money.
I know she has collected her own contribution but I am not the type of person that wants to beg from her if not for the condition that warrants it.
The second day, she went and used that money to purchase sowing machine and keep what she is not using yet.
Later later sha, she couldn't continue with the contribution so they have to sell the machine and she even needs to balance them up.
When they were disturbing her and dragging her for her balance, I just throway face.
Then the contribution leader have the effrontery to call me and report her. She said and I quote
"she is your wife, pay for her so we don't embarrass her so that your image don't get tarnished in your street".
She was calling and texting me frequently.
I just try to get her husband's number and I sent him a message that made the wife come and apologies and pay up the balance by herself.

southniyikaye:
My did same thing to me sometimes ago

Wow. Marriage seems overrated to me For real, if I don't find the right one, I will jejely find a baby mama, remain single while taking responsibility on my kid.

Life no suppose hard na



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Tloc:
Quitting the union, better being single and broke than married and FRUSTRATED.

What if you already have kids with her? Will you still quit?


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Iyoocartel:
Iyooooooo cartel

Getting married to a local Nigerian empty headed feminist is one of the fastest way to the grave

Lol . No lies!


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Jafar1:
Marriage is about supporting each other...
Thats why it's called a family..

Any woman that has money but can't help her husband shouldn't be considered a good wife...
I wonder what is she sacing the money for if not to help in hard times....

That's why u should choose a woman with good heart over the one who can offer 50 different styles on bed...

Damn!! Marriage is overrated!!!

GBAM!!!


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@zzor

What's your take on this?

yomi007k:
Any man that fails to use his head should live with the consequences.

These are the reasons men die earlier.

Hmm. True words!

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GreatMage:
@zzor

What's your take on this?

There's a reason she's not willing to help him,no woman will refuse to help her loving husband in terms of need,treat your woman right and she will be there for you whenever the need arise,if you read the woman's part of the story now, you will understand my point.All women are vengeful,directly or indirectly

It seems the man married her because her parent wealth

The woman is right, it is not the job of her parent to loan the husband money.

If the man is a real man, he would have had saving for bad days.

No masculine man will go so low to ask his wife or her parent for loan. Who does that.

Zzor:
There's a reason she's not willing to help him,no woman will refuse to help her loving husband in terms of need,treat your woman right and she will be there for you whenever the need arise,if you read the woman's part of the story now, you will understand my point.All women are vengeful,directly or indirectly

Oh really? Tell me more...



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He should manage the little he has or work harder.

After all according to Nairaland boys women bring nothing to the table.

thebosstrevor1:
It seems the man married her because her parent are rich

The woman is right, it is not the job of her parent to loan the husband money.

If the man is a real man, he would have had saving for bad days.

No masculine man will go so low to ask his wife or her parent for loan.

I thought females were created to be a man's helper according to the Christian Bible? Why will I marry a woman who ain't loyal and supportive?
Anyways like I said , marriage is overrated, marriage is a trap.


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MADE.....................


This is what happens when you marry all this ladies with this foolish sense of entitlement.....

doggedfighter:
He should manage the little he has or work harder.

After all according to Nairaland boys women bring nothing to the table.

Alright.


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MrTAnonymous:



I thought females were created to be a man's helper according to the Christian Bible? Why will I marry a woman who ain't loyal and supportive?
Anyways like I said , marriage is overrated, marriage is a trap.


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So making her ask her parent for loan to run their family means she is supportive.

How will the parent look at her and you the husband?

If you want disrespect in your marriage, go and do what the man wants the woman to do on his behalf.

I still dont understand how will a man just sit at home a be looking for free things.

Only men with no self respect will go so low like the complainer

thebosstrevor1:


So making tell her ask her parent for loan to run your family means she is supportive.

How will the parent look at her and you the husband?

If you want disrespect in your marriage, go and do what the man wants the woman to do on his behalf.

I still dont understand how will a man just sit at home a d be looking for free things

You need to go back and read the post again. The man was doing well until Covid19 came and shattered his business. And to me, I don't see why the woman can't assist his man during this hard times especially since she has such amount in her bank account. Why was she married to him in the first place if she wasn't going to be supportive. I thought marriage was "for better for worse".


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MrTAnonymous:


You need to go back and read the post again. The man was doing well until Covid19 came and shattered his business. And to me, I don't see why the woman can't assist his man during this hard times especially since she has such amount in her bank account. Why was she married to him in the first place if she wasn't going to be supportive. I thought marriage was "for better for worse".


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If he was doing well before covid19 then he would have had saving for bad days atleast he calls himself a business man.

The man is a liar.

Do you think it is right for a man to tell a woman to collect money from her wealthy parent to run his own family.

So you think the man married her because he loves her?

He married her for the money her parent has, any objective reader can see his intentions

thebosstrevor1:


If he was doing well before covid19 then he would have had saving for bad days atleast he calls himself a business man.

The man is a liar.

Do you think it is right for a man to tell a woman to collect money from her wealthy parent to run his own family.

So you think the man married her because he loves her?

He married her for the money her parent has, any objective reader can see his intentions

The point I am driving at is not about the woman's parents being wealthy or not. The point is that a responsible wife would be willing to add something to her home especially if the man has issues. And where in the post did he say that he is a businessman, the post said that he lost his job and his side hustle is not paying, you really need to reread the post. And from my point of view, I don't think the guy is lazy, he stated that he still paid for the cable fee which his wife is actually benefiting from. The truth is that a lot of people were hit by this crisis. We need to be understanding and supportive of each other at all times.
The wife is just a selfish and self centered lady. Nothing more, nothing less!

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Zzor:
There's a reason she's not willing to help him,no woman will refuse to help her loving husband in terms of need,treat your woman right and she will be there for you whenever the need arise,if you read the woman's part of the story now, you will understand my point.All women are vengeful,directly or indirectly

Wow. That's scary

But she should forgive and have a big heart after all; they are one.

Iyoocartel:
[s] Iyooooooo cartel

Getting married to a local Nigerian empty headed feminist is one of the fastest way to the grave[/s]

You're a cultist and you're still this dull.. Can't u read and see the country mentioned?

MrTAnonymous:


The point I am driving at is not about the woman's parents being wealthy or not. The point is that a responsible wife would be willing to add something to her home especially if the man has issues. And where in the post did he say that he is a businessman, the post said that he lost his job and his side hustle is not paying, you really need to reread the post. And from my point of view, I don't think the guy is lazy, he stated that he still paid for the cable fee which his wife is actually benefiting from. The truth is that a lot of people were hit by this crisis. We need to be understanding and supportive of each other at all times.
The wife is just a selfish and self centered lady. Nothing more, nothing less!

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A responsible man should be able to provide for his family.

If she was not from a rich home, what will he have done?

What sort man ask a woman to ask her parent for loan because he knows they are rich.

He is busy checking her financial status so that he can have money

Is that a man?

A kind woman will assist her husband in time of need. Too bad he married a selfish wife.

thebosstrevor1:


A responsible man should be able to provide for his family.

If she was not from a rich home, what will he have done?

What sort man ask a woman to ask her parent for loan because he knows they are rich.

He is busy checking her financial status so that he can have money

Is that a man?

I pray you don't find ourselves in this kind of situation that this man is facing.

Read the post bro. The man has been the provider until Covid19 crisis. No man prays not to be able to provide for his family but this life is not balance. There are times things will go well and there at times that things will go from good to bad. That is why we need supportive family members(Husband and Wife) to support each other during those hard times. If the wife can't support the man during this hard times, the man should just file for a divorce and leave the self centered wife alone.

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Liposure:
A kind woman will assist her husband in time of need. Too bad he married a selfish wife.

A selfish and self centered wife at that.


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Iyoocartel:
Iyooooooo cartel

Getting married to a local Nigerian empty headed feminist is one of the fastest way to the grave

They are not Nigerian