tunjilana:



This is toxic masculinity at its finest...Any woman who cant and wont support u wen u are down isnt worth being called a wife...such shud end as a girlfriend or at most baby mama

Don't hand over your life to a selfish person all in the name of marriage...no one is promised a smooth financial ride forever

jimmychang:



Your English is beautifully crafted but I still don't see your point.You mean if as a man you face difficult times and that period while you are trying to get back up she is not even bothered , it is normal?
How do you think ? You think life na pot of beans abi.If your wife can't help you when you are down why did you marry her .....African man wise up these are modern times.If it was those year of hunting and farming I see no need for a woman's love or support but times don change ....

thebosstrevor1:


So a man need to wait for his wife to help him before he can help himself, no wonder we have lot of houses where the men have been relegated to only watching tv and drinking beer after losing their jobs

so if a woman does not help the man, he can not do anything.

jimmychang:


Check what I said,in the mean time when the man is down I didn't say the man should sit down and cry like a baby.I don't know how your background is have your back ever been against the ground.
Things happens bro,what if the man is rendered useless maybe an accident to his spine or something like that. Nigga STFU.I have pride as a man.I hate Laziness bro tueh. I don't accept gifts from girls and I don't give either except it is worth it .
Guy that period when you are down and she should at least help not just adding to your burden.She should just on her own observed that things ain't like before and she help you take care of a few things cuz she knows you are not lazy.
A woman like that will motivate you bro not that one that will make you enter depression.Are you married self?

Na who never see life go dey yarn watin you yarn so ...

thebosstrevor1:


the truth is always pointless, when you marry you can go alone and depend on your wife for survival

1 timothy 5:8

But if any man have not care of his own, and especially of those of his house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel

jimmychang:


Check what I wrote and try to comprehend just this once in your life.In the mean time when the man is down I didn't say the man should sit down and cry like a baby.I don't know how your background is have your back ever been against the ground.
Things happens bro,what if the man is rendered useless maybe an accident to his spine or something like that. Nigga STFU.I have pride as a man.I don't subscribe to Laziness bro tueh. I don't accept gifts from girls due to pride and I don't give either except it is worth it .
Guy that period when you are down and she should at least help not just adding to your burden.She should just on her own observed that things ain't like before and she help you take care of a few things cuz she knows you are not lazy.
A woman like that will motivate you bro not that one that will make you enter depression.Are you married self?

Na who never see life go dey yarn watin you yarn so ...

MrTAnonymous:



Genesis 2:18
Then the LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.”


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thebosstrevor1:


God said i will make a helper(companion) not a provider

MrTAnonymous:

Bro, why is it so hard for you to comprehend things easily? I never stated in any of my post that the wife should be the provider, I only stated that she should be able to help her husband during the time he needs her the most.
Now go back to page one and reread all over.

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thebosstrevor1:


you keep writing try to comprehend, i doubt if you ever comprehended what i wrote.

What you just wrote are all idealism, what you expect another human to do for you instead of what you should do by yourself as a man

A man that want to work badly does not need any support or motivation

if she was not from a rich family and had no cash, what would he had done, cry and wail in depression i guess

jimmychang:



Nigga I am done ....

dingbang:
Men really need to be selfish for once.


A female customer, (married with kids) comes to the bank to seek for her money in her account to be placed on lien, say 800k. She further comes weekly to remove lien of the amount of money she needs for that week.


This surprises me, maybe she doesn't want her husband to know she has such amount of money in her bank account. Well, marriage las las na scam.

Men need to really take good care of themselves out there, it's really a selfish world right now.

MrTAnonymous:

Bro, why is it so hard for you to comprehend things easily? I never stated in any of my post that the wife should be the provider, I only stated that she should be able to help her husband during the time he needs her the most.
Now go back to page one and reread all over.

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thebosstrevor1:


you are the one that can not comprehend anything

Do you know the meaning of a helper according to the bible that you love to quoteif god wanted women as providers he would have written that,

The role of the husband in the Bible starts with leadership. Scripture makes it very clear that a husband must be a leader of his home and have healthy control of his life

So how do you expect a woman to respect a man that want her to ask her parent for loan to take care of her

Martinez39s:
If only men can swallow the red pill, put themselves first, and go mgtow, things like this wouldn't be happening. Women ain't shit, and marriage and relationships are scams and absolute waste of time. Many married men don't wish their children dead but if they could rewind the hands of time, they would choose to stay single. Most married men facing hard times and hell/betrayal from their wives would have never been broke and/or mentally and emotionally tortured and saddened if they had stayed single and avoided children. In current times, marriage is just extra responsibility for the man without any safety for him or necessity for the woman to contribute anything tangible to the union.

Men are willing to share their pots of gold with women, women are never willing to share theirs with men. Women only love what you provide and how you make them feel. No matter what you have done for a woman in the past, once she can't benefit anything from you, she leaves you cold. A woman sees a man as an expendable utility. A utility serves, a utility is never served.

Martinez39s:
If only men can swallow the red pill, put themselves first, and go mgtow, things like this wouldn't be happening. Women ain't shit, and marriage and relationships are scams and absolute waste of time. Many married men don't wish their children dead but if they could rewind the hands of time, they would choose to stay single. Most married men facing hard times and hell/betrayal from their wives would have never been broke and/or mentally and emotionally tortured and saddened if they had stayed single and avoided children. In current times, marriage is just extra responsibility for the man without any safety for him or necessity for the woman to contribute anything tangible to the union.

Men are willing to share their pots of gold with women, women are never willing to share theirs with men. Women only love what you provide and how you make them feel. No matter what you have done for a woman in the past, once she can't benefit anything from you, she leaves you cold. A woman sees a man as an expendable utility. A utility serves, a utility is never served.

Martinez39s:
I don't know why you all are arguing with that woman. Leave women to rot in their delusions.

MrTAnonymous:



Can you tell me what helper means according to the Bible? It seems like you have a different version of dictionary.



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Elder0001:
Before you get married to any lady, sit her down and let her know that she has to contribute financially, if she abhors the idea don't marry her. Just call off the proposal or whatever you've already done.
Why is she working and making money if she's not going to contribute to the family (financially)? To buy clothes and perfumes for herself?

Like I said earlier, sit her down and tell her before you guys get married don't wait until after you guys get married because that's where the problem will come from.

MrTAnonymous:


Just like your moniker Elder, you just gave people like thebosstrevor an elderly advice. I pray he listens before it is too late.


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thebosstrevor1:


stop contradicting yourself.

[s]Read the story and be objective in thinking instead of writing idealism[/s]

[s]you think it is right for a man to ask a woman to tell her parent to give him some cash to take care of her?[/s]

thebosstrevor1:
It seems the man married her because her parent are rich

The woman is right, it is not the job of her parent to loan the husband money.

If the man is a real man, he would have had saving for bad days.

No masculine man will go so low to ask his wife or her parent for loan. Who does that.

MrTAnonymous:



I thought females were created to be a man's helper according to the Christian Bible? Why will I marry a woman who ain't loyal and supportive?
Anyways like I said , marriage is overrated, marriage is a trap.


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thebosstrevor1:


a helper in the situation of Adam means a companion

He saw adam was lonely and decided to create another human (a woman) that will be his companion

Martinez39s:
If only men can swallow the red pill, put themselves first, and go mgtow, things like this wouldn't be happening. Women ain't shit, and marriage and relationships are scams and absolute waste of time. Many married men don't wish their children dead but if they could rewind the hands of time, they would choose to stay single. Most married men facing hard times and hell/betrayal from their wives would have never been broke and/or mentally and emotionally tortured and saddened if they had stayed single and avoided children. In current times, marriage is just extra responsibility for the man without any safety for him or necessity for the woman to contribute anything tangible to the union.

Men are willing to share their pots of gold with women, women are never willing to share theirs with men. Women only love what you provide and how you make them feel. No matter what you have done for a woman in the past, once she can't benefit anything from you, she leaves you cold. A woman sees a man as an expendable utility. A utility serves, a utility is never served.

MrTAnonymous:


You are saying bs.

When a man and wife are joined in marriage, they are no longer two; they are one.

"For this cause a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and they shall become one flesh" (Genesis 2:24).

So what is the essence of marrying her if she won't be willing to work together for the betterment of the family. You need prayers. I would rather file for a divorce than live the rest of my with a selfish and self centered woman.


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TLE900:
What is a definition of real man or real woman when storm, disease or hard times knocks on the marriage door. Hmmmmm. Make we get sense ooooooo.

thebosstrevor1:


They become one flesh with the husband been the head and provider of the family.

MrTAnonymous:


Chai, you are impossible. At this point, I have nothing to say to you, your lack of comprehension is a big issue. I weep for you


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