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| I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by SatisfyOG: 2:15pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
This is becoming irritating, for crying out loud. When I go visiting a family or old neighbours. They'll be asking questions like: Why are you not married yet? You are getting old oo! Time is going, do fast! And many other words like these... I mean, will they be there to feed my family when I'm into the marriage? I don't know why Africa is so obsessed with marriage of a thing. For crying out loud, I'll be just 29. The numbers of married men disturbing me for financial assistance daily ehn. That's a turn off to get married soon. Your opinion please. 266 Likes 20 Shares |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by Shortcut2life: 3:01pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Do you want us to ask you the same ? Why are you not married ? Are we dem ... are dem you ? 436 Likes 17 Shares
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| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by SatisfyOG: 3:07pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Shortcut2life: My brother no be small thing oo  77 Likes |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by SILENTandSMART2: 3:20pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Me still trying to figure out what you want us to do  171 Likes
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| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by CosmicPhoenix: 3:31pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Stay single 100 Likes 9 Shares
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| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by SatisfyOG: 3:59pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
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| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by Nobody: 4:44pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Make dem give you money na  20 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by Nobody: 4:51pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
We all have to decide for ourselves same way I woke up one morning and told my parents I wouldn't be going to mosque with them anymore because I don't think I believe in all those things anymore I just want to be free, they had no choice but to accept my decision when the marriage bridge also come, we shall cross it no one I repeat no one can force me to marry or do what I don't want to do I'm still thinking of revealing to them I'm bi know it will hurt a lot but they always understand 124 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by Nobody: 4:56pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Temmylee01: crawl back to your hole Simp 77 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by Nobody: 5:15pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Temmylee01: this thing really pain you Sha but peace be unto your family and generation I'm done talking 60 Likes |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:19pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Relax, don't feel too pressured. It is still your choice to make. Forced marriages can end badly, and the people that initially pushed it won't always be there to mend anything. At this age, i would say you're young. But we both know the terrible mentality in Nigeria. SatisfyOG: 17 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by SILENTandSMART2: 5:25pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Temmylee01: Aswear bro  1 Like |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by Auladimeji(m): 5:29pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Temmylee01:Áláyé kí sẹlẹ?Learn to accept people's opinions... Haba!!! 58 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by Auladimeji(m): 5:31pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
SatisfyOG:Bro,no let anybody rush oooo, if you rush go in,las las you go rush go out ni ooo 25 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:34pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Exactly!!!! Auladimeji: 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by Factfinder1(m): 5:34pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
No go do pass yourself 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by tundchip2: 5:35pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
In this modern day, it's your choice. Don't be pressured to doing things you don't want to do. 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by AlphaMajestic: 5:35pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
i dnt know why the fvck Imbeciles in this backwards country has to pressure anyone about marriage as if they will borrow you money to pay the bride price or the children upkeep...its supposed to be a crime now cos alot pple are going tru shIt cos they weren't ready... 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by athaboi(f): 5:35pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
So? |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by DirtyGold: 5:35pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Shotgun wedding is loading for this op  :SatisfyOG you sef, why you neva marry? There must be an air around you that makes people ask you that... maybe you behave like an old man What's tha business? 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by Artisappng: 5:35pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Calm down. Take your time. Don't rush into marriage, else you rush out. Marry when you're ready. See link below 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by noble71(m): 5:36pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
 I'm experiencing the same thing. I no send anybody. Don't allow anyone to rush you into marriage. 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by ELgordo(m): 5:36pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Guy......lock up.... Ovoko 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by decuteGenius: 5:36pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
WHY DO YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED? coz it seems that OP doesn't want it. If there's no reason for marriage, then don't marry or lemme say, don't waste somebody's daughter's life. STAY SINGLE!! LIVE A PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE 20 Likes |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by capricornlady: 5:36pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Same here.. Everyone's asking when i'll get married, but sincerely i wanna get married but it seems there's no love again, all the MEN are taken  It is well 5 Likes |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by HAPPINESSSS(f): 5:36pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
HAPPINESS IS HERE I DON'T THINK IT IS WISE TO FORCE SOMEONE TO GET MARRIED IN THIS 21st CENTURY, BECAUSE IF YOU LOOK AT THE LIVES OF SO MANY MARRIED COUPLE THESE DAY,THEY ARE ALL PRETENDING TO BE HAPPILY MARRIED, THE RATE OF DIVORCE HAS INCREASED, DON'T EVER RUSH INTO GETTING MARRIED BECAUSE OF PRESSURE FROM ANYONE OR PEOPLE,MOST OF THESE PEOPLE ARE SERIOUSLY FRUSTRATED IN THEIR MARRIAGES, ALSO BE PRAYERFUL TO GOD BEFORE GETTING MARRIED. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by dozofavour(m): 5:36pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
There is joy in getting married, especially to the right person. Take your time and don't be like some men cos the woman they are looking for is in the body shape they don't want. Look for inner beauty only then will you find inner peace in your relationship. BTW why are you not married? You have the money 24 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by Draught: 5:36pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
It's a Nigerian thing, don't be too stressed up about it.. Sometimes it's more like small talk.. Marry when your mind tell you it's time and believe me it will.. even if it's at 40.. Cos las Las na you and your spouse go dey the thing forever no be society go be with una.. And if you're a guy, please make sure you really really are ready.. Cos it's you most responsibilities will fall on not the woman..so take your time.. Anytime your relatives or friends make those statements, just be jovial with them and say you dey look oh but e no easy.. You can also seek candid advice from your father or other married men concerning the institution called Marriage.. 15 Likes |
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